I was there for 8 years and didnt' see a way out. Then one day I decided that I needed to be a man. I wasn't "trapped" like I thought I was - I could do anything that I wanted to do, so I grew some balls and started being more aggressive at life. Get out, take up hiking, talk to some girls. They like confidence! No one will walk up to you and offer to make life better, it will turn out however YOU make it. Now YOU have to decide what kind of life YOU will live. What country are you in by the way?