First of all am not "Link2006" and the topic under discussion is not something too strange, the kindo suspicion happens because i myself am guilty of spending too much time in the office like a lot of others here, be the suspicion true or not, i was only consulting about the phsycological stand point that someone can take under similar circumstances. Anyway you wont understand and i wouldnt care to make understand either but i would like others to read this

I was expecting this to come from someone. just dint wanna mix up my technical discussions with the kind. sorry. You guys are smart enough to put 1 and 1 together and figure out, just let me tell u its not worth it -- modified at 8:38 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

Thats not what i am trying not to be "paranoid". Exactly why i took it to the lounge. I wanted to calmly think of best ways to tackle it rationally if a problem exists. This is very insignificant but if something bigger comes up sometime in the future rather than it giving me surprise, i wanna think of phsychological approach i can take -- modified at 8:39 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

Thomas George wrote:

Do you always call her? . . . or does she ever call you?

Both ways, but i guess i do it much more than she does

Thanks. Actually thats what i dont wanna be "paranoid". Thats exactly y i thought of putting this in the launge and think of wats best to do. How to tackle such or more serious senarios in the future. This is a very small thing I am sure, but if somethings is gonna go wrong i dont want it coming to me as a surprise -- modified at 8:05 Wednesday 10th May, 2006

I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006