It doesn't really matter which group you're in, so long as you have the debugging privilege (and just because there is a group named 'Debug', it doesn't necessarily mean these privileges have been granted). The priviliges should be configured in the Security snap-in for the computer, DC, or domain. The admin should also make sure that the Local Security Policy for the computer has the privileges assigned. Since domain privileges take precedence over local ones, using the Local Security Policy shows you whether a user or group really will have those privileges. Second, don't forget to enable debugging in the Web.config file. Finally, make sure the debugging tools are actually installed on the server. If you install the .NET Framework SDK on the server, I believe this is enough. In the VS.NET setup, there are some additional tools you can install remotely, but I believe these are only for DCOM debugging.
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