Help you with what? You haven't asked a question. All you did was provide a short list of what you want to do with insufficient detail about the platform you're using, specifications on the size of the data sets you're dealing with, which grid control you're using, blah, blah, blah, ... So, given the complete lack of detail in your question, the only answer anyone can give you right now is, "Permission granted! Please, proceed."
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