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  • L Link2600

    Maximilien wrote:

    so you're the "not so good looking" asian dude with the hot white chick ?

    Err...yeah. X| So, what would you think if you see us together on a street??? :~

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    J Dunlap
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    "Hmm... Interesting couple. :)" I had* a white friend who was engaged to an Asian girl. They didn't seem like an odd couple to me - quite the opposite. *I say "had" because I haven't seen or heard from him in several years. :(

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    • L Link2600

      Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:

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      Mircea Grelus
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      PS:

      Link2006 wrote:

      Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together?

      I think it's great if they enjoy each other. regards, Mircea Many people spend their life going to sleep when they’re not sleepy and waking up while they still are.

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      • J Josh Smith

        Ask someone to take a picture of you two together, and you can see for yourself.

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        Link2600
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        Josh Smith wrote:

        Ask someone to take a picture of you two together, and you can see for yourself.

        :laugh::laugh::laugh: What do you mean?

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          Josh Smith wrote:

          Ask someone to take a picture of you two together, and you can see for yourself.

          :laugh::laugh::laugh: What do you mean?

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          Josh Smith
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          I mean, if you are that curious what you and her "look like" together in public, the best way to find out is to see it with your own eyes. Have someone take a photo of you two with your camera. IMHO - you would probably be better off not worrying about it. Confidence wins hearts.

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          • L Link2600

            Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:

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            Jon Sagara
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            Link2006 wrote:

            Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together?

            Yeah - I think, "Hi Mom & Dad." What exactly is your point? Jon Sagara Look at him. He runs like a Welshman. Doesn't he run like a Welshman? Doesn't he? I think he runs like a Welshman. My Site | My Blog | My Articles

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            • L Link2600

              Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:

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              El Corazon
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              Link2006 wrote:

              Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together?

              A couple... what else should I think? I have never put much importance on racial separation, so wouldn't strike me as odd, or important either way. It just is. No different than any other couple. _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)

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                Link2006 wrote:

                Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together?

                A couple... what else should I think? I have never put much importance on racial separation, so wouldn't strike me as odd, or important either way. It just is. No different than any other couple. _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)

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                Link2600
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                Jeffry J. Brickley wrote:

                A couple... what else should I think? I have never put much importance on racial separation, so wouldn't strike me as odd, or important either way. It just is. No different than any other couple.

                Well no, she is not my girlfriend and we are not couple yet....:( But she did give me a chance to take her out on a one-day trip, because she really needed one. I mean, will you think: "The girl is way out of his league, what's he doing there" or "Lucky him"?

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                • L Link2600

                  Jeffry J. Brickley wrote:

                  A couple... what else should I think? I have never put much importance on racial separation, so wouldn't strike me as odd, or important either way. It just is. No different than any other couple.

                  Well no, she is not my girlfriend and we are not couple yet....:( But she did give me a chance to take her out on a one-day trip, because she really needed one. I mean, will you think: "The girl is way out of his league, what's he doing there" or "Lucky him"?

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                  Robert Buldoc
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                  Well,do you judge people by the way they look? If you go deeper it's not that you got lucky, maybe she saw something in you and liked you for your personality, be happy about the fact the she is not so shallow to judge you on how you look(based on what you said). Remember it's about who we are, not how we look like. So stop speculating, be yourself, adventurous, and see how its gonna turn out. PS. keep us posted :)

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                  • L Link2600

                    Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:

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                    brianwelsch
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                    I'd probably be too busy checking out the hot chick to care much about what you looked like. BW


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                    • L Link2600

                      Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:

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                      Marc Clifton
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                      Link2006 wrote:

                      What do you usually think when you see them together?

                      ...but distinctions are clear. Well any intelligent response fails, quoting a song lyric usually results in profound thought. Marc Pensieve Some people believe what the bible says. Literally. At least [with Wikipedia] you have the chance to correct the wiki -- Jörgen Sigvardsson

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                      • L Link2600

                        Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:

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                        rwestgraham
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                        Sorry if this is politically incorrect, but it's true: People will just assume you have lots of cash. :cool:

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                        • L Link2600

                          Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:

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                          Judah Gabriel Himango
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                          Link2006 wrote:

                          Asian guy + hot white girl = ?

                          Divorce?

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                          • L Link2600

                            Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:

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                            Stephen Hewitt
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                            Nothing - Why, what do you think? Steve

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                            • R rwestgraham

                              Sorry if this is politically incorrect, but it's true: People will just assume you have lots of cash. :cool:

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                              Stephen Hewitt
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                              There are many other assumptions that are consistent with this situation (he's just some):  - Maybe se just prefers Asian men.  - Maybe he's a nice guy. Chicks going out with men because of money is not a racial issue. Steve

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                                Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:

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                                code frog 0
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                                I think I see what you are really asking here after reading the whole thread. Because I have black friends married to white girls who are quite happy and I have asian friends married to white girls that are happy. Now I need to explain something to you. A girl you think is hot I might think is ugly. My wife is hot,  *very* hot to me but to someone else she may not be. It's all so subtle what brings men and women together and if their was a formula for it then it would not have the electric feeling that is cruising through you at the moment. If saw you on the street with a hot white girl (in your opinion) I'd think I hope he (you) can just be relaxed around her and be himself because that's the only thing that will work. If you are wound up like a spring and giddy and trying to be her superman well then I think one thing when I see you on the street with her. "2 dates" after that she'll be moving on. You get her on 3 dates and the odds are in your favor. Skin color and hottie factor rarely mean anything in true, healthy and functional relationships. Skin color is what it is and hottie factor will be 70 years old someday. - Rex


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                                  I think I see what you are really asking here after reading the whole thread. Because I have black friends married to white girls who are quite happy and I have asian friends married to white girls that are happy. Now I need to explain something to you. A girl you think is hot I might think is ugly. My wife is hot,  *very* hot to me but to someone else she may not be. It's all so subtle what brings men and women together and if their was a formula for it then it would not have the electric feeling that is cruising through you at the moment. If saw you on the street with a hot white girl (in your opinion) I'd think I hope he (you) can just be relaxed around her and be himself because that's the only thing that will work. If you are wound up like a spring and giddy and trying to be her superman well then I think one thing when I see you on the street with her. "2 dates" after that she'll be moving on. You get her on 3 dates and the odds are in your favor. Skin color and hottie factor rarely mean anything in true, healthy and functional relationships. Skin color is what it is and hottie factor will be 70 years old someday. - Rex


                                  The enemy's gate is down. :cool: Welcome to CP in your language. Post the unicode version in My CP Blog[^] now.

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                                  Link2600
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                                  code-frog wrote:

                                  and I have asian friends married to white girls that are happy.

                                  You do? :omg::omg: Wow! That gives me a lot of hope. ;P

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                                    code-frog wrote:

                                    and I have asian friends married to white girls that are happy.

                                    You do? :omg::omg: Wow! That gives me a lot of hope. ;P

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                                    code frog 0
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                                    You need to get out more. You should also watch the movie "hitched" with Will Smith before your outing. :-D Dude, you obviously are in a situation that you are *very* excited about and fear of rejection has you doubting yourself. You need to relax and enjoy it. My wife (we are both 31) was a U.S. national level Gymnast that was invited to go to Bella Karolli's (SP?) Gymanstics Center in 1991. She's a hard body, short little blond with about 13% body fat (no I'm not joking) and the physical fitness of a tri-athlete (no I'm not joking) a few years ago she entered and won a 13 mile marathon and didn't train for it. That's all physical. Inside though she's this incredibly fun, bright woman that has this joy about life, her family and her kids. She loves sunshine, walking, playing with her kids and making the most of every day. She loves to go out and hunt for bargains at expensive stores. She's a total cheapo driving a 1997 mini-van she spent $4000 and loves it. She's amazing to laugh and talk with. She'll go almost anywhere with me and my dreams and hopes about the future excite her. You are not some asian guy with some hot white girl. You are *you* and someday *you* want to find a fantastic woman to grow old with. Skin color doesn't matter at all man. Is this a woman you want to grow old with? Find a fantastic friend, find a companion through good and bad and guess what... You'll be amazed at what *that* love is really like. Take it easy on your day trip. Relax don't think about skin color and don't think about looks. Think about this woman. Talk with her casually. Listen more than you speak and be polite. You are in a great time of life and you are going to have a fantastic day if you plan to enjoy it for what it is. If things go right you never know. You just might have found a companion to grow old with and I have to tell you... That's an awesome feeling. It's all Hakuna Matada man. All of it.:cool::rose:


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                                      You need to get out more. You should also watch the movie "hitched" with Will Smith before your outing. :-D Dude, you obviously are in a situation that you are *very* excited about and fear of rejection has you doubting yourself. You need to relax and enjoy it. My wife (we are both 31) was a U.S. national level Gymnast that was invited to go to Bella Karolli's (SP?) Gymanstics Center in 1991. She's a hard body, short little blond with about 13% body fat (no I'm not joking) and the physical fitness of a tri-athlete (no I'm not joking) a few years ago she entered and won a 13 mile marathon and didn't train for it. That's all physical. Inside though she's this incredibly fun, bright woman that has this joy about life, her family and her kids. She loves sunshine, walking, playing with her kids and making the most of every day. She loves to go out and hunt for bargains at expensive stores. She's a total cheapo driving a 1997 mini-van she spent $4000 and loves it. She's amazing to laugh and talk with. She'll go almost anywhere with me and my dreams and hopes about the future excite her. You are not some asian guy with some hot white girl. You are *you* and someday *you* want to find a fantastic woman to grow old with. Skin color doesn't matter at all man. Is this a woman you want to grow old with? Find a fantastic friend, find a companion through good and bad and guess what... You'll be amazed at what *that* love is really like. Take it easy on your day trip. Relax don't think about skin color and don't think about looks. Think about this woman. Talk with her casually. Listen more than you speak and be polite. You are in a great time of life and you are going to have a fantastic day if you plan to enjoy it for what it is. If things go right you never know. You just might have found a companion to grow old with and I have to tell you... That's an awesome feeling. It's all Hakuna Matada man. All of it.:cool::rose:


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                                      Link2600
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                                      Looks like I have a lot to learn from you. ;)

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                                        Looks like I have a lot to learn from you. ;)

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                                        code frog 0
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                                        Nope. You know everything you need to know. If you didn't she wouldn't be day-tripping with you. You've got what you need. You've got all you need.:rose: But if you have a question on something there's 2 million + members here willing to help and so am I. You are going to have a great time though.


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                                          Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:

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                                          R Giskard Reventlov
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                                          You're focusing on all the wrong issues here. Your race, sex, looks, age, etc, etc are utterly irrelevent. Nobody can choose the skin they're in so forget it. What's important is that you can laugh with each other and have some fun. Take it one step at a time: it's okay to be nervous; everyone is on a first date. The fact that she wants to spend some time with you already indicates that she wants to get to know the you inside. Just go out and enjoy and RELAX. home
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