Asian guy + hot white girl = ?
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Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:
Link2006 wrote:
Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together?
A couple... what else should I think? I have never put much importance on racial separation, so wouldn't strike me as odd, or important either way. It just is. No different than any other couple. _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
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Link2006 wrote:
Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together?
A couple... what else should I think? I have never put much importance on racial separation, so wouldn't strike me as odd, or important either way. It just is. No different than any other couple. _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
Jeffry J. Brickley wrote:
A couple... what else should I think? I have never put much importance on racial separation, so wouldn't strike me as odd, or important either way. It just is. No different than any other couple.
Well no, she is not my girlfriend and we are not couple yet....:( But she did give me a chance to take her out on a one-day trip, because she really needed one. I mean, will you think: "The girl is way out of his league, what's he doing there" or "Lucky him"?
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Jeffry J. Brickley wrote:
A couple... what else should I think? I have never put much importance on racial separation, so wouldn't strike me as odd, or important either way. It just is. No different than any other couple.
Well no, she is not my girlfriend and we are not couple yet....:( But she did give me a chance to take her out on a one-day trip, because she really needed one. I mean, will you think: "The girl is way out of his league, what's he doing there" or "Lucky him"?
Well,do you judge people by the way they look? If you go deeper it's not that you got lucky, maybe she saw something in you and liked you for your personality, be happy about the fact the she is not so shallow to judge you on how you look(based on what you said). Remember it's about who we are, not how we look like. So stop speculating, be yourself, adventurous, and see how its gonna turn out. PS. keep us posted :)
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Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:
I'd probably be too busy checking out the hot chick to care much about what you looked like. BW
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Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:
Link2006 wrote:
What do you usually think when you see them together?
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Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:
Sorry if this is politically incorrect, but it's true: People will just assume you have lots of cash. :cool:
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Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:
Link2006 wrote:
Asian guy + hot white girl = ?
Divorce?
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Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:
Nothing - Why, what do you think? Steve
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Sorry if this is politically incorrect, but it's true: People will just assume you have lots of cash. :cool:
There are many other assumptions that are consistent with this situation (he's just some): - Maybe se just prefers Asian men. - Maybe he's a nice guy. Chicks going out with men because of money is not a racial issue. Steve
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Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:
I think I see what you are really asking here after reading the whole thread. Because I have black friends married to white girls who are quite happy and I have asian friends married to white girls that are happy. Now I need to explain something to you. A girl you think is hot I might think is ugly. My wife is hot, *very* hot to me but to someone else she may not be. It's all so subtle what brings men and women together and if their was a formula for it then it would not have the electric feeling that is cruising through you at the moment. If saw you on the street with a hot white girl (in your opinion) I'd think I hope he (you) can just be relaxed around her and be himself because that's the only thing that will work. If you are wound up like a spring and giddy and trying to be her superman well then I think one thing when I see you on the street with her. "2 dates" after that she'll be moving on. You get her on 3 dates and the odds are in your favor. Skin color and hottie factor rarely mean anything in true, healthy and functional relationships. Skin color is what it is and hottie factor will be 70 years old someday. - Rex
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I think I see what you are really asking here after reading the whole thread. Because I have black friends married to white girls who are quite happy and I have asian friends married to white girls that are happy. Now I need to explain something to you. A girl you think is hot I might think is ugly. My wife is hot, *very* hot to me but to someone else she may not be. It's all so subtle what brings men and women together and if their was a formula for it then it would not have the electric feeling that is cruising through you at the moment. If saw you on the street with a hot white girl (in your opinion) I'd think I hope he (you) can just be relaxed around her and be himself because that's the only thing that will work. If you are wound up like a spring and giddy and trying to be her superman well then I think one thing when I see you on the street with her. "2 dates" after that she'll be moving on. You get her on 3 dates and the odds are in your favor. Skin color and hottie factor rarely mean anything in true, healthy and functional relationships. Skin color is what it is and hottie factor will be 70 years old someday. - Rex
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code-frog wrote:
and I have asian friends married to white girls that are happy.
You do? :omg::omg: Wow! That gives me a lot of hope. ;P
You need to get out more. You should also watch the movie "hitched" with Will Smith before your outing. :-D Dude, you obviously are in a situation that you are *very* excited about and fear of rejection has you doubting yourself. You need to relax and enjoy it. My wife (we are both 31) was a U.S. national level Gymnast that was invited to go to Bella Karolli's (SP?) Gymanstics Center in 1991. She's a hard body, short little blond with about 13% body fat (no I'm not joking) and the physical fitness of a tri-athlete (no I'm not joking) a few years ago she entered and won a 13 mile marathon and didn't train for it. That's all physical. Inside though she's this incredibly fun, bright woman that has this joy about life, her family and her kids. She loves sunshine, walking, playing with her kids and making the most of every day. She loves to go out and hunt for bargains at expensive stores. She's a total cheapo driving a 1997 mini-van she spent $4000 and loves it. She's amazing to laugh and talk with. She'll go almost anywhere with me and my dreams and hopes about the future excite her. You are not some asian guy with some hot white girl. You are *you* and someday *you* want to find a fantastic woman to grow old with. Skin color doesn't matter at all man. Is this a woman you want to grow old with? Find a fantastic friend, find a companion through good and bad and guess what... You'll be amazed at what *that* love is really like. Take it easy on your day trip. Relax don't think about skin color and don't think about looks. Think about this woman. Talk with her casually. Listen more than you speak and be polite. You are in a great time of life and you are going to have a fantastic day if you plan to enjoy it for what it is. If things go right you never know. You just might have found a companion to grow old with and I have to tell you... That's an awesome feeling. It's all Hakuna Matada man. All of it.:cool::rose:
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You need to get out more. You should also watch the movie "hitched" with Will Smith before your outing. :-D Dude, you obviously are in a situation that you are *very* excited about and fear of rejection has you doubting yourself. You need to relax and enjoy it. My wife (we are both 31) was a U.S. national level Gymnast that was invited to go to Bella Karolli's (SP?) Gymanstics Center in 1991. She's a hard body, short little blond with about 13% body fat (no I'm not joking) and the physical fitness of a tri-athlete (no I'm not joking) a few years ago she entered and won a 13 mile marathon and didn't train for it. That's all physical. Inside though she's this incredibly fun, bright woman that has this joy about life, her family and her kids. She loves sunshine, walking, playing with her kids and making the most of every day. She loves to go out and hunt for bargains at expensive stores. She's a total cheapo driving a 1997 mini-van she spent $4000 and loves it. She's amazing to laugh and talk with. She'll go almost anywhere with me and my dreams and hopes about the future excite her. You are not some asian guy with some hot white girl. You are *you* and someday *you* want to find a fantastic woman to grow old with. Skin color doesn't matter at all man. Is this a woman you want to grow old with? Find a fantastic friend, find a companion through good and bad and guess what... You'll be amazed at what *that* love is really like. Take it easy on your day trip. Relax don't think about skin color and don't think about looks. Think about this woman. Talk with her casually. Listen more than you speak and be polite. You are in a great time of life and you are going to have a fantastic day if you plan to enjoy it for what it is. If things go right you never know. You just might have found a companion to grow old with and I have to tell you... That's an awesome feeling. It's all Hakuna Matada man. All of it.:cool::rose:
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Nope. You know everything you need to know. If you didn't she wouldn't be day-tripping with you. You've got what you need. You've got all you need.:rose: But if you have a question on something there's 2 million + members here willing to help and so am I. You are going to have a great time though.
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Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:
You're focusing on all the wrong issues here. Your race, sex, looks, age, etc, etc are utterly irrelevent. Nobody can choose the skin they're in so forget it. What's important is that you can laugh with each other and have some fun. Take it one step at a time: it's okay to be nervous; everyone is on a first date. The fact that she wants to spend some time with you already indicates that she wants to get to know the you inside. Just go out and enjoy and RELAX. home
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Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:
Link2006 wrote:
Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together?
Nothing. Why? Michael CP Blog [^] Development Blog [^]
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Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:
This is kind of a soap box topic, but here goes... Honestly? My usually mental reaction (includeing when I see black men with white women) is 'Why is that guy so prejudiced against women of his own race?' I honestly feel sorry for non-white women. Any time a man of any non-white race achieves any sort of financial success, his first goal seems to be marrying the best looking blond he can find. If it is trully based on love, than thats a beautiful thing, but if it is anything else than it is racism of the uglyist sort, dude. "You get that which you tolerate"
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Nope. You know everything you need to know. If you didn't she wouldn't be day-tripping with you. You've got what you need. You've got all you need.:rose: But if you have a question on something there's 2 million + members here willing to help and so am I. You are going to have a great time though.
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code-frog wrote:
But if you have a question on something there's 2 million + members here willing to help and so am I.
Not me... I'll tell him to focus away from race, but I am the last person to give advice on dating. :) If he needs help selecting a 3D modelling package or gaming library or writing his own... that I'll help. ;) My current dating experiences tells me that I, and the world, are better off with me a hermit. _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
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Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:
Link2006 wrote:
What do you usually think when you see them together?
Lucky dude!:-D Unless, of course, it's Yoko Ono. "...a photo album is like Life, but flat and stuck to pages." - Shog9
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Ever seen an Asian guy with a white girl before? What do you usually think when you see them together? :doh: :doh:
doesn't matter bro, as long as your pecker can do the job, your in.