Is she cheating on me? ...Probably No...
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I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006
Matt@Matt wrote:
I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge.
Ok, it's obvious you're insecure. I'm willing to bet this is the reason your worried about her cheating. Maybe she's talking to some other guy on the phone, but without wire tapping you'll never know for sure. Now, knowledge is your friend, not stalking. I would suggest this book for some nice pointers. It's an easy read. Clickety[^] Use the techniques in that book. Also, if you want to keep her, start working on your insecurities. Really, women want men, and men are the ones they go to when they whine, not the other way around. I'm not calling you a whiner, but the point is, you gotta be the man here. Jeremy Falcon
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:rolleyes: Oh don't be so melodramatic young man. It just sounds like he needs to try actually talking to his brocolli-farmer rather than worrying to death in his cola-stained, pizza-marked dark room. You do discuss worries you have with the most important person in your life. Right? regards, Paul Watson Ireland Feed Henry!
eh, stop bugging me about it, give it a couple of days, see what happens.
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Paul Watson wrote:
brocolli-farmer
:omg: what's that??
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I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006
Get married, have a daughter, wait twelve years and you'll be amazed at how much time a female can spend on the phone. Now if you had written that your girl friend always answered right away, THAT would be a mystery. (Periodically, I will talk a long time on the phone with my brothers or a few close friends, but my wife makes FAR more phone calls than I do and my oldest daughter; well, let's just say she runs out the batteries on cordless and cell phones on a consistant basis.) Anyone who thinks he has a better idea of what's good for people than people do is a swine. - P.J. O'Rourke
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What if he needs to pee before he finishes his water?
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What if he needs to pee before he finishes his water?
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You registered on codeproject just to start this thread? You're as pathetic as your gay lover - Link2006. "Little sister" rule be damned, you're nothin' but a f*ckin' loser troll... ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001
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Yeah - like little white sex pearls dripping out of the corner of her mouth when he arrives home unexpectedly, or maybe one night over dinner, she'll tell him it hurts when she poops, or that he should probably consider having some tests done down at the AIDS clinic, or wait - he notices a cow on the street that bears a striking resemblance to his "girl friend", and he swears it's not his kid... He should own up - he's really Link2006. He should be banned from CP for abusing the user registration process. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001
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First of all am not "Link2006" and the topic under discussion is not something too strange, the kindo suspicion happens because i myself am guilty of spending too much time in the office like a lot of others here, be the suspicion true or not, i was only consulting about the phsycological stand point that someone can take under similar circumstances. Anyway you wont understand and i wouldnt care to make understand either but i would like others to read this
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I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006
Why would you, or anyone for that matter, pick this forum to air your relationship problems on?? There must be gazillions of teenie websites on which you could air this kind of dross - CP is a development site and the Lounge is a place where developers can talk crap, which sometimes is tech related. You aint going to solve personal problems here. I'd suggest doing what most sane persons would do, and thats talk to a friend :| Phil Harding.
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I know I am a pathetic person to write this in the lounge. But i need some suggestions on the best course of action. She is the one who makes me still a part of the "real world", otherwise my whole life revolves around computers. I am talking of my girl friend. Recently I noticed that I find her increasingly in call waiting. I had rung her up unexpectedly at night after our regular conversation for something and found her to be in call waiting. She said its a friend using her phone, and also in few other ocations when i dint expect her to be on phone. Unlike the regular me these incidents somehow keeps disturbing me. Any suggestions on the best course of action? - "Always Trust" OR "Be Skeptical" OR "Look Out For Proof"? Any suggestions? :confused: -- modified at 7:32 Wednesday 10th May, 2006
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Yeah - like little white sex pearls dripping out of the corner of her mouth when he arrives home unexpectedly, or maybe one night over dinner, she'll tell him it hurts when she poops, or that he should probably consider having some tests done down at the AIDS clinic, or wait - he notices a cow on the street that bears a striking resemblance to his "girl friend", and he swears it's not his kid... He should own up - he's really Link2006. He should be banned from CP for abusing the user registration process. ------- sig starts "Why don't you tie a kerosene-soaked rag around your ankles so the ants won't climb up and eat your candy ass..." - Dale Earnhardt "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001