The Most Polite City
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Josh Smith wrote:
Who is we? A bunch of booze-crazed bachelors? A group of Christian rockers? A nuclear family?
Me, and my wife, Smitha :-) Her cousin and his wife might also be there (they are in Corning, NY). Regards, Nish
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Currently working on C++/CLI in Action for Manning Publications. Also visit the Ultimate Toolbox blog (New)Ok, I'll ask a few more questions, just to make sure that I have a rough idea of what you might like. A. List your top three or four priorities: 1) Fine dining 2) Theater 3) Concerts (mention preferred genres) 4) Museums 5) City Tours 6) Misc/Unusual 7) Night life/clubs 8) Book/Music Stores 9) Other (mention what) B. Have you or Smitha been to NYC before? If so, when? Where did you visit? C. Where will you be staying? Is this unknown? Does the hotel you stay in matter a lot, or would you prefer to spend more on activities? D. Do you drink? If so, what type of drinks do you prefer? Josh
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Shog9 wrote:
He's such a shiny happy person...
I've seen him once - but he was a little drunk then, and there were too many people. But yeah, he was a nice shiny person alright - I was surprised to see him in a leather jacket and all that. I had sorta imagined him to be the sort of person who'd always be seen in public in a formal suit :-) Regards, Nish
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Currently working on C++/CLI in Action for Manning Publications. Also visit the Ultimate Toolbox blog (New)Nope, not a formal suit kinda guy, only wear them when required. A little drunk? Nish, you have a gift for understatement. Still, we had fun, didn't we? :-D Author of The Career Programmer and Unite the Tribes
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Christopher Duncan wrote:
I've lived in Atlanta since 93, so I obviously like the people here, too.
Looks like you like the whole world :-) Regards, Nish
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Currently working on C++/CLI in Action for Manning Publications. Also visit the Ultimate Toolbox blog (New)Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
Looks like you like the whole world
There's plenty of people and places I can do without, but I try hard to practice the "Mother's Rule" - if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. Probably explains those times I sat quietly in yet another pointless meeting. :) Author of The Career Programmer and Unite the Tribes
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Chadlling wrote:
New York City
:omg: Have they heard NYC is called "home of the rude"? I worked there for a year, and must say there is a lot of truth in it.
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Nemanja Trifunovic wrote:
Have they heard NYC is called "home of the rude"? I worked there for a year, and must say there is a lot of truth in it.
Any culture that you don't sufficiently understand will appear strange and rude to you. That said, within any culture there's a fair proportion of jerks. Maybe your magnet is just polarized the wrong way. :-D Author of The Career Programmer and Unite the Tribes
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Rob Graham wrote:
Yea, the locals just politely remove your head
Or you would be shot down by US millitary.Very friendly,service minded folks:->
jithAtran - ii wrote:
Very friendly,service minded folks
They are, until you try and chop off their heads. ;P Jeremy Falcon
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Ok, I'll ask a few more questions, just to make sure that I have a rough idea of what you might like. A. List your top three or four priorities: 1) Fine dining 2) Theater 3) Concerts (mention preferred genres) 4) Museums 5) City Tours 6) Misc/Unusual 7) Night life/clubs 8) Book/Music Stores 9) Other (mention what) B. Have you or Smitha been to NYC before? If so, when? Where did you visit? C. Where will you be staying? Is this unknown? Does the hotel you stay in matter a lot, or would you prefer to spend more on activities? D. Do you drink? If so, what type of drinks do you prefer? Josh
Josh Smith wrote:
A. List your top three or four priorities:
- Fine dining 5) City Tours 9) Other - see major landmarks like the Staue of Liberty 4) Museums
Josh Smith wrote:
B. Have you or Smitha been to NYC before? If so, when? Where did you visit?
Nope. This will be the first time.
Josh Smith wrote:
C. Where will you be staying? Is this unknown? Does the hotel you stay in matter a lot, or would you prefer to spend more on activities?
Most likely in a hotel. Hotel would be just a place to sleep at - so we are not looking for a great hotel with a lot of facilities. We may also be staying with a friend (not sure on that though).
Josh Smith wrote:
D. Do you drink? If so, what type of drinks do you prefer?
I do. I love trying out various varieties of cocktails. Regards, Nish
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It's hard to judge politeness across different cultures. I can't speak for all of India, but people in my state don't say thank you, sorry, please etc all that often - that is not part of our language system. The Malayalam equivalents of those words are only used formally. Similarly opening doors for others is not something people do - if you tried to do that, you'd just get a lot of curious glances. When I first worked abroad, I was quite surprised by how often people would say "how are you" to you, and then they'd walk away without waiting for an answer. Initially I thought this was pretty weird and that this was a sort of pseudo-politeness. Later I got used to it. It's pretty much the same in Toronto. People just wish you well, and ask you how you are, and walk away without waiting for a conversation - it's a different sort of culture from what we have back in India. Eventually, you have to understand how a society behaves, before judging how polite or rude people are. I still haven't fully got used to the Canadian politeness, and I am sure most people find me pretty rude and weird - specially on the phone. Oh well - I have to work on it. So, thanks a lot to everyone for reading my post, and I hope you are all in good health, and sorry if I took away your time, and thanks once again. :rolleyes: Regards, Nish
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Currently working on C++/CLI in Action for Manning Publications. Also visit the Ultimate Toolbox blog (New)Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
The Malayalam equivalents of those words are only used formally.
<cheesy_joke>Are those words all palindromes too?</cheesy_joke>
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Nope, not a formal suit kinda guy, only wear them when required. A little drunk? Nish, you have a gift for understatement. Still, we had fun, didn't we? :-D Author of The Career Programmer and Unite the Tribes
Christopher Duncan wrote:
A little drunk? Nish, you have a gift for understatement.
Trying to be polite like a New Yorker there :rolleyes:
Christopher Duncan wrote:
Still, we had fun, didn't we?
Yep, we did :-D Regards, Nish
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Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
The Malayalam equivalents of those words are only used formally.
<cheesy_joke>Are those words all palindromes too?</cheesy_joke>
Dustin Metzgar wrote:
Are those words all palindromes too?
Some words may be, if transliterated and spelled out in English :-) Regards, Nish
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Nemanja Trifunovic wrote:
Have they heard NYC is called "home of the rude"? I worked there for a year, and must say there is a lot of truth in it.
Any culture that you don't sufficiently understand will appear strange and rude to you. That said, within any culture there's a fair proportion of jerks. Maybe your magnet is just polarized the wrong way. :-D Author of The Career Programmer and Unite the Tribes
Christopher Duncan wrote:
Any culture that you don't sufficiently understand will appear strange and rude to you.
NYC never looked strange to me, just rude. Actually, in this regard it reminds me of my hometown :)
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Chadlling wrote:
New York City
:omg: Have they heard NYC is called "home of the rude"? I worked there for a year, and must say there is a lot of truth in it.
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I have visited New York a couple of dozen time and I have lived my whole life in Toronto. I would say people in New York are definitely friendlier than Torontonians, although Torontonians might be slightly more polite. The only Americans who AREN'T friendly and polite are New Englanders. New York is way more friendly than Boston.
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I have visited New York a couple of dozen time and I have lived my whole life in Toronto. I would say people in New York are definitely friendlier than Torontonians, although Torontonians might be slightly more polite. The only Americans who AREN'T friendly and polite are New Englanders. New York is way more friendly than Boston.
Chadlling wrote:
The only Americans who AREN'T friendly and polite are New Englanders. New York is way more friendly than Boston.
:omg: You must be kidding. Bostonians are way more friendly and polite than New Yorkers. Well, except in the traffic :)
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Josh Smith wrote:
A. List your top three or four priorities:
- Fine dining 5) City Tours 9) Other - see major landmarks like the Staue of Liberty 4) Museums
Josh Smith wrote:
B. Have you or Smitha been to NYC before? If so, when? Where did you visit?
Nope. This will be the first time.
Josh Smith wrote:
C. Where will you be staying? Is this unknown? Does the hotel you stay in matter a lot, or would you prefer to spend more on activities?
Most likely in a hotel. Hotel would be just a place to sleep at - so we are not looking for a great hotel with a lot of facilities. We may also be staying with a friend (not sure on that though).
Josh Smith wrote:
D. Do you drink? If so, what type of drinks do you prefer?
I do. I love trying out various varieties of cocktails. Regards, Nish
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Currently working on C++/CLI in Action for Manning Publications. Also visit the Ultimate Toolbox blog (New)I'll get back to you with my suggestions soon. Josh
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I'll get back to you with my suggestions soon. Josh
Josh Smith wrote:
I'll get back to you with my suggestions soon.
Thanks Josh. Regards, Nish
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Shog9 wrote:
He's such a shiny happy person...
I've seen him once - but he was a little drunk then, and there were too many people. But yeah, he was a nice shiny person alright - I was surprised to see him in a leather jacket and all that. I had sorta imagined him to be the sort of person who'd always be seen in public in a formal suit :-) Regards, Nish
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Currently working on C++/CLI in Action for Manning Publications. Also visit the Ultimate Toolbox blog (New)Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
I was surprised to see him in a leather jacket and all that
He is in a letahre jacket in his pict . I was surprised he did not have a leash.
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It's hard to judge politeness across different cultures. I can't speak for all of India, but people in my state don't say thank you, sorry, please etc all that often - that is not part of our language system. The Malayalam equivalents of those words are only used formally. Similarly opening doors for others is not something people do - if you tried to do that, you'd just get a lot of curious glances. When I first worked abroad, I was quite surprised by how often people would say "how are you" to you, and then they'd walk away without waiting for an answer. Initially I thought this was pretty weird and that this was a sort of pseudo-politeness. Later I got used to it. It's pretty much the same in Toronto. People just wish you well, and ask you how you are, and walk away without waiting for a conversation - it's a different sort of culture from what we have back in India. Eventually, you have to understand how a society behaves, before judging how polite or rude people are. I still haven't fully got used to the Canadian politeness, and I am sure most people find me pretty rude and weird - specially on the phone. Oh well - I have to work on it. So, thanks a lot to everyone for reading my post, and I hope you are all in good health, and sorry if I took away your time, and thanks once again. :rolleyes: Regards, Nish
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Having experienced both, let me first say that in order to appreciate the warmth of New Yorkers you have to take their interaction within the context of their culture, not yours. Once you do, you'll find them warm and friendly folks. My brief visit to Toronto left me with the impression of not only incredibly polite and welcoming people, but the cleanest major city I've ever seen. The subways didn't have a scratch on them, and you could eat off the floors. Having never visited India I know nothing of the cities and social experience there, but all in all, Toronto and NYC are two of my favorite cities. I miss the folks in both. Author of The Career Programmer and Unite the Tribes
Christopher Duncan wrote:
you have to take their interaction within the context of their culture, not yours
Very true and applicable to many situations. Elaine :rose: The tigress is here :-D
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I have visited New York a couple of dozen time and I have lived my whole life in Toronto. I would say people in New York are definitely friendlier than Torontonians, although Torontonians might be slightly more polite. The only Americans who AREN'T friendly and polite are New Englanders. New York is way more friendly than Boston.
Chadlling wrote:
The only Americans who AREN'T friendly and polite are New Englanders. New York is way more friendly than Boston.
Yeah, it makes a lot of sense to make a generalization about how "friendly and polite" millions of people are. X|
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According to this unscientific study two of the 3 most polite cities in the world are in North America... New York City and Toronto. Indian cities were at the bottom of the list with Mumbai coming in last. [http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap\_travel/20060621/ap\_tr\_ge/travel\_briefs\_polite\_cities](<a href=)[^]" rel="nofollow">http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap_travel/20060621/ap_tr_ge/travel_briefs_polite_cities[^][[http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap\_travel/20060621/ap\_tr\_ge/travel\_briefs\_polite\_cities](<a href= "New Window")[^]">^]
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Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
I was surprised to see him in a leather jacket and all that
He is in a letahre jacket in his pict . I was surprised he did not have a leash.
Rama Krishna Vavilala wrote:
I was surprised he did not have a leash.
:laugh: Author of The Career Programmer and Unite the Tribes