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  • D devvvy

    Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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    Ryan Binns
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    norm wrote:

    Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone?

    Sure, although it would depend who the other guy was. I'd trust her absolutely, not sure about the guy...

    norm wrote:

    What about sharing room with this other guy?

    Same answer. I will add that I don't have a gf at the moment, but have had in the past, and have experienced this, so I still count ;-P

    Ryan

    "Punctuality is only a virtue for those who aren't smart enough to think of good excuses for being late" John Nichol "Point Of Impact"

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      Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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      Rama Krishna Vavilala
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      Well looking at the title I thought it was another post by Link2006[^]. Thankfully it isn't. What is the reason you are not going?


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        norm wrote:

        Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone?

        Sure, although it would depend who the other guy was. I'd trust her absolutely, not sure about the guy...

        norm wrote:

        What about sharing room with this other guy?

        Same answer. I will add that I don't have a gf at the moment, but have had in the past, and have experienced this, so I still count ;-P

        Ryan

        "Punctuality is only a virtue for those who aren't smart enough to think of good excuses for being late" John Nichol "Point Of Impact"

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        Jeremy Falcon
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        Ryan Binns wrote:

        I will add that I don't have a gf at the moment, but have had in the past, and have experienced this

        She probably slept with other guy and left you. :laugh: Jeremy Falcon

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        • B Bassam Abdul Baki

          And who would prove or disprove if they are or aren't?


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          Shog9 0
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          How do you prove anything? He asks her, judges her response, and acts appropriately. Heck, if he can't trust her answer on this, then it really was a rhetorical question.

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          • R Rama Krishna Vavilala

            Well looking at the title I thought it was another post by Link2006[^]. Thankfully it isn't. What is the reason you are not going?


            My Blog

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            devvvy
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            I have a full time job. Norman Fung

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            • B Bassam Abdul Baki

              I'd say go out with his sister "as a friend" to make things even. :laugh:


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              Great answer. :-D

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              • J Jeremy Falcon

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                Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone?

                BTW, can you not go also? Does she not want you to go? You don't want to go? If you want to go but she doesn't want you to, I think you get the idea. Jeremy Falcon

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                devvvy
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                no, she asked me to go but I can find time. Norman Fung

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                • D devvvy

                  Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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                  :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad: Norman Fung

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                    Jeremy Falcon
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                    There's obviously something bothering you with this. Why can't you just tell your gf you're not comfortable with the idea? You'd think there would be middle ground somewhere. Two rooms, not going, etc. Jeremy Falcon

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                      Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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                      1. Has she asked if that bothers you (if not, then dump her, she's dumping on you) 2. If she asked, and you said it did not, then STFU and see how things work out. I you said yes, and she is still going, see #1.

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                        1. Has she asked if that bothers you (if not, then dump her, she's dumping on you) 2. If she asked, and you said it did not, then STFU and see how things work out. I you said yes, and she is still going, see #1.

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                          No! They are not sharing a bed! But does that make it legitimate????? :mad: Norman Fung

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                          Sure, why not?

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                          • D devvvy

                            :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad: Norman Fung

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                            Igor Vigdorchik
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                            You seem to be upset. Why? Drop her and find somebody else. What's the problem?

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                              You seem to be upset. Why? Drop her and find somebody else. What's the problem?

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                              devvvy
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                              Yes cool guy. Apparently what the word "relationship" means to you and I are different. Norman Fung

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                                no, she asked me to go but I can find time. Norman Fung

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                                Jeremy Falcon
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                                Well, I dunno. As for me personally, I think sharing a room would be a bit too much. All I can say is if you don't like the idea, then talk to her. If she doesn't care about your thoughts on the matter then she's not worth keeping. Jeremy Falcon

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                                  Well, I dunno. As for me personally, I think sharing a room would be a bit too much. All I can say is if you don't like the idea, then talk to her. If she doesn't care about your thoughts on the matter then she's not worth keeping. Jeremy Falcon

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                                  devvvy
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                                  Jeremy Falcon wrote:

                                  Well, I dunno. As for me personally, I think sharing a room would be a bit too much.

                                  "a bit" is an understatement. I talked to her. And she was like, "I want a vacation!" and made it sounds as though I was the one who ruin her vacation and was wrong getting pissed off.... steam coming out of my nose... :mad: Norman Fung

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                                    Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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                                    Can you not go now, or ever? Is she not willing to wait until you have the time? Do you suspect something is going on between the two of them already? Do you know the guy well? Personally, it would probably bug me and I'd let her know and see how things went from there. BW


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                                      Jeremy Falcon wrote:

                                      Well, I dunno. As for me personally, I think sharing a room would be a bit too much.

                                      "a bit" is an understatement. I talked to her. And she was like, "I want a vacation!" and made it sounds as though I was the one who ruin her vacation and was wrong getting pissed off.... steam coming out of my nose... :mad: Norman Fung

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                                      Jeremy Falcon
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                                      norm wrote:

                                      "I want a vacation!" and made it sounds as though I was wrong getting pissed off.

                                      Tell her you'll give her one when you get vacation time. :-D Jeremy Falcon

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                                        Yes cool guy. Apparently what the word "relationship" means to you and I are different. Norman Fung

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                                        Igor Vigdorchik
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                                        norm wrote:

                                        what the word "relationship" means to you and I are different.

                                        Obviously. Your gf preferred the vacation to being with you. You called it a relationship? Wake up, man.

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                                          norm wrote:

                                          "I want a vacation!" and made it sounds as though I was wrong getting pissed off.

                                          Tell her you'll give her one when you get vacation time. :-D Jeremy Falcon

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                                          She has one month off now... she's switching job and I am not. But she shouldn't even think about sharing a god damn room with another guy!! Did you watch "Pulp Fiction" anyone??? If a foot massage is intimate, sharing a room! For a month! One god damn month!! Norman Fung

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