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    Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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    Rob Graham
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    1. Has she asked if that bothers you (if not, then dump her, she's dumping on you) 2. If she asked, and you said it did not, then STFU and see how things work out. I you said yes, and she is still going, see #1.

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      Igor Vigdorchik
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      You seem to be upset. Why? Drop her and find somebody else. What's the problem?

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        1. Has she asked if that bothers you (if not, then dump her, she's dumping on you) 2. If she asked, and you said it did not, then STFU and see how things work out. I you said yes, and she is still going, see #1.

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          No! They are not sharing a bed! But does that make it legitimate????? :mad: Norman Fung

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          Shog9 0
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          Sure, why not?

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            You seem to be upset. Why? Drop her and find somebody else. What's the problem?

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            devvvy
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            Yes cool guy. Apparently what the word "relationship" means to you and I are different. Norman Fung

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              no, she asked me to go but I can find time. Norman Fung

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              Jeremy Falcon
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              Well, I dunno. As for me personally, I think sharing a room would be a bit too much. All I can say is if you don't like the idea, then talk to her. If she doesn't care about your thoughts on the matter then she's not worth keeping. Jeremy Falcon

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                Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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                Can you not go now, or ever? Is she not willing to wait until you have the time? Do you suspect something is going on between the two of them already? Do you know the guy well? Personally, it would probably bug me and I'd let her know and see how things went from there. BW


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                  Well, I dunno. As for me personally, I think sharing a room would be a bit too much. All I can say is if you don't like the idea, then talk to her. If she doesn't care about your thoughts on the matter then she's not worth keeping. Jeremy Falcon

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                  Jeremy Falcon wrote:

                  Well, I dunno. As for me personally, I think sharing a room would be a bit too much.

                  "a bit" is an understatement. I talked to her. And she was like, "I want a vacation!" and made it sounds as though I was the one who ruin her vacation and was wrong getting pissed off.... steam coming out of my nose... :mad: Norman Fung

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                    Jeremy Falcon wrote:

                    Well, I dunno. As for me personally, I think sharing a room would be a bit too much.

                    "a bit" is an understatement. I talked to her. And she was like, "I want a vacation!" and made it sounds as though I was the one who ruin her vacation and was wrong getting pissed off.... steam coming out of my nose... :mad: Norman Fung

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                    Jeremy Falcon
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                    norm wrote:

                    "I want a vacation!" and made it sounds as though I was wrong getting pissed off.

                    Tell her you'll give her one when you get vacation time. :-D Jeremy Falcon

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                      Yes cool guy. Apparently what the word "relationship" means to you and I are different. Norman Fung

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                      Igor Vigdorchik
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                      norm wrote:

                      what the word "relationship" means to you and I are different.

                      Obviously. Your gf preferred the vacation to being with you. You called it a relationship? Wake up, man.

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                        norm wrote:

                        "I want a vacation!" and made it sounds as though I was wrong getting pissed off.

                        Tell her you'll give her one when you get vacation time. :-D Jeremy Falcon

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                        She has one month off now... she's switching job and I am not. But she shouldn't even think about sharing a god damn room with another guy!! Did you watch "Pulp Fiction" anyone??? If a foot massage is intimate, sharing a room! For a month! One god damn month!! Norman Fung

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                          Can you not go now, or ever? Is she not willing to wait until you have the time? Do you suspect something is going on between the two of them already? Do you know the guy well? Personally, it would probably bug me and I'd let her know and see how things went from there. BW


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                          devvvy
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                          no, I do not know the guy. And personally, no, she's not sharing a room with another male on this planet. Norman Fung

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                            no, I do not know the guy. And personally, no, she's not sharing a room with another male on this planet. Norman Fung

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                            Jeremy Falcon
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                            norm wrote:

                            no, I do not know the guy.

                            Then how big of a bat do you need to hit you on the head before you open your eyes? ;P Jeremy Falcon

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                              She has one month off now... she's switching job and I am not. But she shouldn't even think about sharing a god damn room with another guy!! Did you watch "Pulp Fiction" anyone??? If a foot massage is intimate, sharing a room! For a month! One god damn month!! Norman Fung

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                              norm wrote:

                              For a month! One god damn month!!

                              WTF? She's sharing a room for a whole month? Dude, I got news for ya. They ain't gonna be playing checkers every night. Jeremy Falcon

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                                no, I do not know the guy. And personally, no, she's not sharing a room with another male on this planet. Norman Fung

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                                norm wrote:

                                And personally, no, she's not sharing a room with another male on this planet.

                                I'm starting to get the impression you're not ok with this plan at all... :suss: :rolleyes: Seriously, dude - put your foot down! If she isn't respecting your misgivings now, it ain't gonna get any better.

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                                  Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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                                  Joe Woodbury
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                                  I can't believe the responses here. Your so-called girlfriend is playing you for a sucker. If you think anything different, you are a damn fool. Dump her and move on. Anyone who thinks he has a better idea of what's good for people than people do is a swine. - P.J. O'Rourke

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                                    Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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                                    Christian Graus
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                                    erm.... If it was me, I'd tell her, find a woman to go with, or don't come back to me. Unless the dude was her brother ( and they aren't from the south ). Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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                                      Yes cool guy. Apparently what the word "relationship" means to you and I are different. Norman Fung

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                                      Christian Graus
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                                      Well, my definition of relationship involves a degree of room sharing exclusivity... Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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                                        erm.... If it was me, I'd tell her, find a woman to go with, or don't come back to me. Unless the dude was her brother ( and they aren't from the south ). Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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                                        Jeremy Falcon
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                                        Christian Graus wrote:

                                        and they aren't from the south

                                        Hey! :laugh::laugh: Jeremy Falcon

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                                          norm wrote:

                                          For a month! One god damn month!!

                                          WTF? She's sharing a room for a whole month? Dude, I got news for ya. They ain't gonna be playing checkers every night. Jeremy Falcon

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                                          devvvy
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                                          It's one month... I have no idea why she even proposed this to me and expects me not to get mad. Norman Fung

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