Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy?
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
Can you not go now, or ever? Is she not willing to wait until you have the time? Do you suspect something is going on between the two of them already? Do you know the guy well? Personally, it would probably bug me and I'd let her know and see how things went from there. BW
If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the precipitate.
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Well, I dunno. As for me personally, I think sharing a room would be a bit too much. All I can say is if you don't like the idea, then talk to her. If she doesn't care about your thoughts on the matter then she's not worth keeping. Jeremy Falcon
Jeremy Falcon wrote:
Well, I dunno. As for me personally, I think sharing a room would be a bit too much.
"a bit" is an understatement. I talked to her. And she was like, "I want a vacation!" and made it sounds as though I was the one who ruin her vacation and was wrong getting pissed off.... steam coming out of my nose... :mad: Norman Fung
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Jeremy Falcon wrote:
Well, I dunno. As for me personally, I think sharing a room would be a bit too much.
"a bit" is an understatement. I talked to her. And she was like, "I want a vacation!" and made it sounds as though I was the one who ruin her vacation and was wrong getting pissed off.... steam coming out of my nose... :mad: Norman Fung
norm wrote:
"I want a vacation!" and made it sounds as though I was wrong getting pissed off.
Tell her you'll give her one when you get vacation time. :-D Jeremy Falcon
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Yes cool guy. Apparently what the word "relationship" means to you and I are different. Norman Fung
norm wrote:
what the word "relationship" means to you and I are different.
Obviously. Your gf preferred the vacation to being with you. You called it a relationship? Wake up, man.
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norm wrote:
"I want a vacation!" and made it sounds as though I was wrong getting pissed off.
Tell her you'll give her one when you get vacation time. :-D Jeremy Falcon
She has one month off now... she's switching job and I am not. But she shouldn't even think about sharing a god damn room with another guy!! Did you watch "Pulp Fiction" anyone??? If a foot massage is intimate, sharing a room! For a month! One god damn month!! Norman Fung
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Can you not go now, or ever? Is she not willing to wait until you have the time? Do you suspect something is going on between the two of them already? Do you know the guy well? Personally, it would probably bug me and I'd let her know and see how things went from there. BW
If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the precipitate.
-- Steven Wright -
no, I do not know the guy. And personally, no, she's not sharing a room with another male on this planet. Norman Fung
norm wrote:
no, I do not know the guy.
Then how big of a bat do you need to hit you on the head before you open your eyes? ;P Jeremy Falcon
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She has one month off now... she's switching job and I am not. But she shouldn't even think about sharing a god damn room with another guy!! Did you watch "Pulp Fiction" anyone??? If a foot massage is intimate, sharing a room! For a month! One god damn month!! Norman Fung
norm wrote:
For a month! One god damn month!!
WTF? She's sharing a room for a whole month? Dude, I got news for ya. They ain't gonna be playing checkers every night. Jeremy Falcon
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no, I do not know the guy. And personally, no, she's not sharing a room with another male on this planet. Norman Fung
norm wrote:
And personally, no, she's not sharing a room with another male on this planet.
I'm starting to get the impression you're not ok with this plan at all... :suss: :rolleyes: Seriously, dude - put your foot down! If she isn't respecting your misgivings now, it ain't gonna get any better.
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
I can't believe the responses here. Your so-called girlfriend is playing you for a sucker. If you think anything different, you are a damn fool. Dump her and move on. Anyone who thinks he has a better idea of what's good for people than people do is a swine. - P.J. O'Rourke
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
erm.... If it was me, I'd tell her, find a woman to go with, or don't come back to me. Unless the dude was her brother ( and they aren't from the south ). Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog
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Yes cool guy. Apparently what the word "relationship" means to you and I are different. Norman Fung
Well, my definition of relationship involves a degree of room sharing exclusivity... Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog
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erm.... If it was me, I'd tell her, find a woman to go with, or don't come back to me. Unless the dude was her brother ( and they aren't from the south ). Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog
Christian Graus wrote:
and they aren't from the south
Hey! :laugh::laugh: Jeremy Falcon
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norm wrote:
For a month! One god damn month!!
WTF? She's sharing a room for a whole month? Dude, I got news for ya. They ain't gonna be playing checkers every night. Jeremy Falcon
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I can't believe the responses here. Your so-called girlfriend is playing you for a sucker. If you think anything different, you are a damn fool. Dump her and move on. Anyone who thinks he has a better idea of what's good for people than people do is a swine. - P.J. O'Rourke
Joe Woodbury wrote:
I can't believe the responses here.
Well I was hinting around to pretty much what your post says. But it is concise. I like it. :laugh: Jeremy Falcon
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erm.... If it was me, I'd tell her, find a woman to go with, or don't come back to me. Unless the dude was her brother ( and they aren't from the south ). Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog
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norm wrote:
And personally, no, she's not sharing a room with another male on this planet.
I'm starting to get the impression you're not ok with this plan at all... :suss: :rolleyes: Seriously, dude - put your foot down! If she isn't respecting your misgivings now, it ain't gonna get any better.
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
norm wrote:
Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded?
If he is not me, and he obviously isn't.... you have a problem. I have taken a friend on a vacation through arizona, and we did split the cost of rooms during the trip. I was still recovering from my last divorce, so not interested in more complications so soon. I was the perfect gentleman, even when the shower was so small that I thought there was a better than even chance she would make a dash for her room nude, not able to change inside the common shower area... so I stayed in my bedroom with the door closed so she could have the privacy of the whole rest of the suite. She needed it, she did, and admitted it (not sure if that would count as a pass, admitting it). So if he hasn't gone through an extremely messy divorce recently, and bordering on complete hermitage currently, I wouldn't trust him. :) _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb) -- modified at 23:14 Monday 10th July, 2006
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I expressed to her my perspective (and anger, which I tried to hold back but no...). She ditched the plan, but she was like telling me I ruined her holiday and I should have confidence in her and myself!?! Norman Fung
norm wrote:
She ditched the plan, but she was like telling me I ruined her holiday and I should have confidence in her and myself!?!
Tell her to stop whining like a baby then. Jeremy Falcon
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norm wrote:
She ditched the plan, but she was like telling me I ruined her holiday and I should have confidence in her and myself!?!
Tell her to stop whining like a baby then. Jeremy Falcon