Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy?
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
I can't believe the responses here. Your so-called girlfriend is playing you for a sucker. If you think anything different, you are a damn fool. Dump her and move on. Anyone who thinks he has a better idea of what's good for people than people do is a swine. - P.J. O'Rourke
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Yes cool guy. Apparently what the word "relationship" means to you and I are different. Norman Fung
Well, my definition of relationship involves a degree of room sharing exclusivity... Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog
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erm.... If it was me, I'd tell her, find a woman to go with, or don't come back to me. Unless the dude was her brother ( and they aren't from the south ). Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog
Christian Graus wrote:
and they aren't from the south
Hey! :laugh::laugh: Jeremy Falcon
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I can't believe the responses here. Your so-called girlfriend is playing you for a sucker. If you think anything different, you are a damn fool. Dump her and move on. Anyone who thinks he has a better idea of what's good for people than people do is a swine. - P.J. O'Rourke
Joe Woodbury wrote:
I can't believe the responses here.
Well I was hinting around to pretty much what your post says. But it is concise. I like it. :laugh: Jeremy Falcon
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norm wrote:
For a month! One god damn month!!
WTF? She's sharing a room for a whole month? Dude, I got news for ya. They ain't gonna be playing checkers every night. Jeremy Falcon
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erm.... If it was me, I'd tell her, find a woman to go with, or don't come back to me. Unless the dude was her brother ( and they aren't from the south ). Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog
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norm wrote:
And personally, no, she's not sharing a room with another male on this planet.
I'm starting to get the impression you're not ok with this plan at all... :suss: :rolleyes: Seriously, dude - put your foot down! If she isn't respecting your misgivings now, it ain't gonna get any better.
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
norm wrote:
Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded?
If he is not me, and he obviously isn't.... you have a problem. I have taken a friend on a vacation through arizona, and we did split the cost of rooms during the trip. I was still recovering from my last divorce, so not interested in more complications so soon. I was the perfect gentleman, even when the shower was so small that I thought there was a better than even chance she would make a dash for her room nude, not able to change inside the common shower area... so I stayed in my bedroom with the door closed so she could have the privacy of the whole rest of the suite. She needed it, she did, and admitted it (not sure if that would count as a pass, admitting it). So if he hasn't gone through an extremely messy divorce recently, and bordering on complete hermitage currently, I wouldn't trust him. :) _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb) -- modified at 23:14 Monday 10th July, 2006
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I expressed to her my perspective (and anger, which I tried to hold back but no...). She ditched the plan, but she was like telling me I ruined her holiday and I should have confidence in her and myself!?! Norman Fung
norm wrote:
She ditched the plan, but she was like telling me I ruined her holiday and I should have confidence in her and myself!?!
Tell her to stop whining like a baby then. Jeremy Falcon
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norm wrote:
She ditched the plan, but she was like telling me I ruined her holiday and I should have confidence in her and myself!?!
Tell her to stop whining like a baby then. Jeremy Falcon
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
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Okay, girl perspective here and i have some questions: 1. How long have you been going out? 2. How long has she known this guy? 3. How well do you know the guy?
He's already said he doesn't know the guy. Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog
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I expressed to her my perspective (and anger, which I tried to hold back but no...). She ditched the plan, but she was like telling me I ruined her holiday and I should have confidence in her and myself!?! Norman Fung
norm wrote:
and I should have confidence in her and myself!?!
That is such a pile of crap. If she has confidence in your relationship, she wouldn't put herself in a room with a guy whose confidence has nothing to do with you. Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog
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erm.... If it was me, I'd tell her, find a woman to go with, or don't come back to me. Unless the dude was her brother ( and they aren't from the south ). Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog
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It's one month... I have no idea why she even proposed this to me and expects me not to get mad. Norman Fung
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I expressed to her my perspective (and anger, which I tried to hold back but no...). She ditched the plan, but she was like telling me I ruined her holiday and I should have confidence in her and myself!?! Norman Fung
norm wrote:
she was like telling me I ruined her holiday and I should have confidence in her and myself!?!
Oh well. You don't. That could be just you, but IMO it's a better than even chance it's her too. Either she's willing to accept that, or she's woman enough to end the relationship herself. If neither, then (and i'm not being flip here - i know it ain't easy) you'll have to.
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He's already said he doesn't know the guy. Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog
Sorry, slightly tipsy so didn't read all the posts.:cool: As a girl, here are my thoughts: 1. A girl can share a room with a guy as long as the following conditions hold true: a) The girl is not a hottie (average is fine...) b) The girl and guy have been friends since childhood (because at some point they tried to find out if they are "compatible" so that test is over) c) One of the occupants of the room doesn't drink I have my doubts if you never met the guy. I'm pretty laid back as is my husband. Most of my friends are guys; if I went on vacation with one of them Kori (my husband) probably wouldn't have a problem with it since he knows them and their behavior when sober/drunk. If it was a stranger...no way dude. That's my two-cents worth, and no you can't have change.
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
Agree to this only if she wears one of these: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chastity_belt[^] Make sure you keep the key.
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
dude, he's going to be spanking her like a monkey in a tree, he's gonna be riding here like a wide pony in heat. a month vacation with another guy... dude you may see if they want to do a threesome before they leave. you may want to get another taste of her before she leaves, cause when she gets back you gonna be tasting him.
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I did. And just a thought, "You don't bargain for baseline" -- Isrealist don't bargain with terrorists, and I don't bargain for minimal respect for a relationship... :mad: Norman Fung
norm wrote:
and I don't bargain for minimal respect for a relationship..
Good for you! Jeremy Falcon