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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy?

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    Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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    leckey 0
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    Okay, girl perspective here and i have some questions: 1. How long have you been going out? 2. How long has she known this guy? 3. How well do you know the guy?

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      Okay, girl perspective here and i have some questions: 1. How long have you been going out? 2. How long has she known this guy? 3. How well do you know the guy?

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      Christian Graus
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      He's already said he doesn't know the guy. Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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      • D devvvy

        I expressed to her my perspective (and anger, which I tried to hold back but no...). She ditched the plan, but she was like telling me I ruined her holiday and I should have confidence in her and myself!?! Norman Fung

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        Christian Graus
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        norm wrote:

        and I should have confidence in her and myself!?!

        That is such a pile of crap. If she has confidence in your relationship, she wouldn't put herself in a room with a guy whose confidence has nothing to do with you. Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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          erm.... If it was me, I'd tell her, find a woman to go with, or don't come back to me. Unless the dude was her brother ( and they aren't from the south ). Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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          retZ
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          Christian Graus wrote:

          Unless the dude was her brother ( and they aren't from the south ).

          5 ! :laugh:

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          • D devvvy

            It's one month... I have no idea why she even proposed this to me and expects me not to get mad. Norman Fung

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            Yucel2006
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            Dude, stick to the general rule "Guys and girls can't be just friends.", sex will always get in the way. Put yourself in the other guys shoes, who is a true gentle these days anyway?

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            • D devvvy

              I expressed to her my perspective (and anger, which I tried to hold back but no...). She ditched the plan, but she was like telling me I ruined her holiday and I should have confidence in her and myself!?! Norman Fung

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              Shog9 0
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              norm wrote:

              she was like telling me I ruined her holiday and I should have confidence in her and myself!?!

              Oh well. You don't. That could be just you, but IMO it's a better than even chance it's her too. Either she's willing to accept that, or she's woman enough to end the relationship herself. If neither, then (and i'm not being flip here - i know it ain't easy) you'll have to.

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              • C Christian Graus

                He's already said he doesn't know the guy. Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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                leckey 0
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                Sorry, slightly tipsy so didn't read all the posts.:cool: As a girl, here are my thoughts: 1. A girl can share a room with a guy as long as the following conditions hold true: a) The girl is not a hottie (average is fine...) b) The girl and guy have been friends since childhood (because at some point they tried to find out if they are "compatible" so that test is over) c) One of the occupants of the room doesn't drink I have my doubts if you never met the guy. I'm pretty laid back as is my husband. Most of my friends are guys; if I went on vacation with one of them Kori (my husband) probably wouldn't have a problem with it since he knows them and their behavior when sober/drunk. If it was a stranger...no way dude. That's my two-cents worth, and no you can't have change.

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                • D devvvy

                  Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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                  Jason Henderson
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                  Agree to this only if she wears one of these: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chastity_belt[^] Make sure you keep the key.

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                  • D devvvy

                    Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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                    Varindir Rajesh Mahdihar
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                    dude, he's going to be spanking her like a monkey in a tree, he's gonna be riding here like a wide pony in heat. a month vacation with another guy... dude you may see if they want to do a threesome before they leave. you may want to get another taste of her before she leaves, cause when she gets back you gonna be tasting him.

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                    • D devvvy

                      I did. And just a thought, "You don't bargain for baseline" -- Isrealist don't bargain with terrorists, and I don't bargain for minimal respect for a relationship... :mad: Norman Fung

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                      Jeremy Falcon
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                      norm wrote:

                      and I don't bargain for minimal respect for a relationship..

                      Good for you! Jeremy Falcon

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                      • V Varindir Rajesh Mahdihar

                        dude, he's going to be spanking her like a monkey in a tree, he's gonna be riding here like a wide pony in heat. a month vacation with another guy... dude you may see if they want to do a threesome before they leave. you may want to get another taste of her before she leaves, cause when she gets back you gonna be tasting him.

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                        Ewww. X|

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                        • D devvvy

                          Christian Graus wrote:

                          If it was me, I'd tell her, find a woman to go with, or don't come back to me.

                          What the hell was she thinking...???? Norman Fung

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                          Corneliu Tusnea
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                          Dude, Go watch Click[^] and start thinking about u'r life. Get a holiday and go with her. Else, ask her to wait one more week if u can't leave now. Watch Click, Wake up, Think abit, Get a life! Corneliu. http://www.acorns.com.au

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                            Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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                            Eytukan
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                            :WTF: Why not you threaten the other guy ?What a shit-mind he must be having. Knowing that she has a BF how can he call her to a vacation??As you mentioned she just needs a vacation, why not she go with a friend who is a girl? why does she needs a guy for her "vacation" ? This is unacceptable.:mad:


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                              :WTF: Why not you threaten the other guy ?What a shit-mind he must be having. Knowing that she has a BF how can he call her to a vacation??As you mentioned she just needs a vacation, why not she go with a friend who is a girl? why does she needs a guy for her "vacation" ? This is unacceptable.:mad:


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                              devvvy
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                              VuNic wrote:

                              This is unacceptable.

                              This is Norman Fung

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                              • D devvvy

                                Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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                                kennster
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                                Dump her. Check out The Pickup Guide[^] and have yourself a great time. There is no spam, and no ads on the pickup guide. Just no-nonsense frequently asked questions from usenet newsgroup alt.seduction.fast .... great info. my 2 cents :)

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                                  :WTF: Why not you threaten the other guy ?What a shit-mind he must be having. Knowing that she has a BF how can he call her to a vacation??As you mentioned she just needs a vacation, why not she go with a friend who is a girl? why does she needs a guy for her "vacation" ? This is unacceptable.:mad:


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                                  devvvy
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                                  Thanks Vulnic... Norman Fung

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                                    erm.... If it was me, I'd tell her, find a woman to go with, or don't come back to me. Unless the dude was her brother ( and they aren't from the south ). Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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                                    Christian Graus wrote:

                                    and they aren't from the south

                                    You mean Tasmania? Sorry, could'nt resist it. Objects in mirror are closer than they appear

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                                      Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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                                      Roger Alsing 0
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                                      I have to agree with the rest , she is playing you. someone who is in love with his/her partner whould find it weird to go on vacation with someone else. so if she dont find that strange and is happy to go, Id say she is already humping the guy that asked her to go. //Roger

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                                        Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung

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                                        norm wrote:

                                        Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded?

                                        I just hope you don't live near Link2006 :~ *for lesser known people Link2006 is a CPian look up his past posts


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                                          Are they sharing a bed? Not trying to be rude, but that seems to be the key question here...

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                                          NormDroid
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                                          Shog9 wrote:

                                          Are they sharing a bed?

                                          They will be, by the time the vacation is over. We made the buttons on the screen look so good you'll want to lick them. Steve Jobs

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