Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy?
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I expressed to her my perspective (and anger, which I tried to hold back but no...). She ditched the plan, but she was like telling me I ruined her holiday and I should have confidence in her and myself!?! Norman Fung
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she was like telling me I ruined her holiday and I should have confidence in her and myself!?!
Oh well. You don't. That could be just you, but IMO it's a better than even chance it's her too. Either she's willing to accept that, or she's woman enough to end the relationship herself. If neither, then (and i'm not being flip here - i know it ain't easy) you'll have to.
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He's already said he doesn't know the guy. Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog
Sorry, slightly tipsy so didn't read all the posts.:cool: As a girl, here are my thoughts: 1. A girl can share a room with a guy as long as the following conditions hold true: a) The girl is not a hottie (average is fine...) b) The girl and guy have been friends since childhood (because at some point they tried to find out if they are "compatible" so that test is over) c) One of the occupants of the room doesn't drink I have my doubts if you never met the guy. I'm pretty laid back as is my husband. Most of my friends are guys; if I went on vacation with one of them Kori (my husband) probably wouldn't have a problem with it since he knows them and their behavior when sober/drunk. If it was a stranger...no way dude. That's my two-cents worth, and no you can't have change.
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
dude, he's going to be spanking her like a monkey in a tree, he's gonna be riding here like a wide pony in heat. a month vacation with another guy... dude you may see if they want to do a threesome before they leave. you may want to get another taste of her before she leaves, cause when she gets back you gonna be tasting him.
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I did. And just a thought, "You don't bargain for baseline" -- Isrealist don't bargain with terrorists, and I don't bargain for minimal respect for a relationship... :mad: Norman Fung
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and I don't bargain for minimal respect for a relationship..
Good for you! Jeremy Falcon
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dude, he's going to be spanking her like a monkey in a tree, he's gonna be riding here like a wide pony in heat. a month vacation with another guy... dude you may see if they want to do a threesome before they leave. you may want to get another taste of her before she leaves, cause when she gets back you gonna be tasting him.
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Christian Graus wrote:
If it was me, I'd tell her, find a woman to go with, or don't come back to me.
What the hell was she thinking...???? Norman Fung
Dude, Go watch Click[^] and start thinking about u'r life. Get a holiday and go with her. Else, ask her to wait one more week if u can't leave now. Watch Click, Wake up, Think abit, Get a life! Corneliu. http://www.acorns.com.au
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
:WTF: Why not you threaten the other guy ?What a shit-mind he must be having. Knowing that she has a BF how can he call her to a vacation??As you mentioned she just needs a vacation, why not she go with a friend who is a girl? why does she needs a guy for her "vacation" ? This is unacceptable.:mad:
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:WTF: Why not you threaten the other guy ?What a shit-mind he must be having. Knowing that she has a BF how can he call her to a vacation??As you mentioned she just needs a vacation, why not she go with a friend who is a girl? why does she needs a guy for her "vacation" ? This is unacceptable.:mad:
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
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:WTF: Why not you threaten the other guy ?What a shit-mind he must be having. Knowing that she has a BF how can he call her to a vacation??As you mentioned she just needs a vacation, why not she go with a friend who is a girl? why does she needs a guy for her "vacation" ? This is unacceptable.:mad:
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erm.... If it was me, I'd tell her, find a woman to go with, or don't come back to me. Unless the dude was her brother ( and they aren't from the south ). Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
I have to agree with the rest , she is playing you. someone who is in love with his/her partner whould find it weird to go on vacation with someone else. so if she dont find that strange and is happy to go, Id say she is already humping the guy that asked her to go. //Roger
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded?
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Are they sharing a bed? Not trying to be rude, but that seems to be the key question here...
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Okay, girl perspective here and i have some questions: 1. How long have you been going out? 2. How long has she known this guy? 3. How well do you know the guy?
Okay, guys curiosity here: Which set of answers would make it an "A-OK, let them go, nothing will happen"?
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
It's not about right or wrong, the question is: Do you trust them both? Would he stop her if she made a move? Would she stop him if he made a move?
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Can you accept your gf going vacation with another guy, alone? What about sharing room with this other guy? Or is it just me being to closed minded? :mad: Norman Fung
have you asked if he is gay? Steve
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Sorry, slightly tipsy so didn't read all the posts.:cool: As a girl, here are my thoughts: 1. A girl can share a room with a guy as long as the following conditions hold true: a) The girl is not a hottie (average is fine...) b) The girl and guy have been friends since childhood (because at some point they tried to find out if they are "compatible" so that test is over) c) One of the occupants of the room doesn't drink I have my doubts if you never met the guy. I'm pretty laid back as is my husband. Most of my friends are guys; if I went on vacation with one of them Kori (my husband) probably wouldn't have a problem with it since he knows them and their behavior when sober/drunk. If it was a stranger...no way dude. That's my two-cents worth, and no you can't have change.
Oh, you already answered my question :) - I don't think you are right, though.
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Welcome Norman. In most cases guys happen to be more loyal and "understanding" than their counterpart.And you know getting away from her would be as painful as leaving her to go with him. hufff.. It's all in her hand to understand you and stick to you. I wish it would happen as fast as it can.But I would also like to tell you one thing. Be in touch with her whenever you get time. Call her on phone atleast everyday. Make yourself available for little picnics. Make her laugh a lot , and enjoy it.In short spend sometime also with your girl friend. Good luck:rose::rose:
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