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  • J Josh Smith

    Marc Clifton wrote:

    It often results in superficial emotional highs by both parties.

    I assume you are right about this, but I do not understand it yet. Thanks for giving me something to meditate on, Marc. :josh: My WPF Blog[^]

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    Griffin62
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    Josh Smith wrote:

    It often results in superficial emotional highs by both parties.

    The difference lies in whether your satisfaction, fulfillment, happiness, etc. is under your control, or not (and note - partially not under your control is effectively not under your control at all). When your happiness is only dependent on you doing what you know is the right thing to do nobody can take it away from you :-D. When it is dependent on the boss being happy - then you're a bad hair day waiting to happen :((. Chris Use what talents you possess; The woods would be very silent if no birds sang there except those that sang best. (William Blake)

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    • C code frog 0

      I'm so in love with what I do. I'd do it for free as a hobby and still love it. In fact I do charity work for free (I think everyone should.) and it brings me more joy than anything. Great post man!!! You've only been here a while or you just came back but I'm really starting to like your style. Come to Boise let me know. I'll buy you lunch... Did you know I'm a manager?:laugh: A big fat 5 for you.


      When I'm joking people take me seriously.
      When I'm serious they think I'm joking.
      I'm left to conclude my life must be a complete joke. :sigh: :laugh: :cool:

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      Josh Smith
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      code-frog wrote:

      You've only been here a while or you just came back but I'm really starting to like your style.

      Thanks code-frog! :-D

      code-frog wrote:

      Come to Boise let me know. I'll buy you lunch... Did you know I'm a manager?

      I suppose that I'll be required to show respect then, eh? :cool: :josh: My WPF Blog[^]

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      • J Josh Smith

        I had a conversation yesterday with a long-time buddy of mine. We hadn't spoken for a few years, and it was great to catch up with him. Eventually the conversation lead to what we do for work these days. I told him that I write software, love it, and get paid handsomely for it. He was dumbfounded. Told me that I'm the only person he knows who actually likes his job. I was dumbfounded! We are lucky people, us devs. :-D Count your blessings, my friends!! :josh: My WPF Blog[^]

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        I also love what I do, but since I am nearly 30 years old, I have to think of the future. The bleak picture? After 30 my chances to be mentally able to cope with new situations start to diminish, therefore my ability to adapt to a rapidly changing world as the one of development. IT managers, even team leaders, earn twice or more my pay just by coordinating me. But I don't want to be a manager! :( Anyway, hard to imagine myself at 45 hacking code... ---------- Siderite

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          I had a conversation yesterday with a long-time buddy of mine. We hadn't spoken for a few years, and it was great to catch up with him. Eventually the conversation lead to what we do for work these days. I told him that I write software, love it, and get paid handsomely for it. He was dumbfounded. Told me that I'm the only person he knows who actually likes his job. I was dumbfounded! We are lucky people, us devs. :-D Count your blessings, my friends!! :josh: My WPF Blog[^]

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          Trust me, I LOVE development. I am a developer with over 20 years of experience. I was out of the field for about 5 years and it was pure HELL! I worked in construction, the moving business, retail, for nothing ($10 an hr tops, usually $8) in a thankless job environment. I had taken time off for several years to care for my aging mother, then 911 hit and they froze hiring for another year. When I went to go back into the dev. field no one would touch me because I had been out of it for almost 5 years. I ran out of money, had to take any kind of job I could find. I worked rod-busting in the extremely hot August sun in South Carolina and nearly died of a heat stroke. I was one of those guys on the construction site that carry bundles of 10 to 20 foot long steel rods on their shoulders and then tie them into foundations and walls for concrete pours. I still have a scar on my shoulder where the hot rods branded me (they get VERY hot laying out in the sun in July and August). I'd use a chop saw to cut them to length, the sparks from the saw would set my pants legs on fire and I would nonchalantly beat the fires out with my bare hands. I was laid off from that job and went to work for a moving and storage company. While I was there I feel 10 ft. through the top of a shipping crate, broke my left shoulder blade in two places and fractured my spine. I was in the hospital for a month and in bed for 6 months. I sued and got $16K out of it because of South Carolina's workmen’s comp. laws. And by the way, I was fifty (50) years old. It would have probably killed someone else. I worked some more thankless jobs in retail suffering from the pain until I finally was given another shot at development. I excelled at what I am doing. In less than 2 weeks I was up and running in ASP and .NET and I had never touched a line of ASP or .NET code (I was a C++/Windows developer). I put in 60 to 80 hr. weeks not because I had to, I wanted to. I still can't believe how lucky I was to get out of that purgatory. And I'm still putting in 50 to 60 hr. weeks. Oh yeah, while I am at it on the subject of headhunters, those gutless, blood sucking, pimps of the corporate world. Do you know that they would not help me in the least? I went to four (4) interviews arranged by those pigs in two years. They all said the same thing, "Gee, your experience looks great but you appear to be a little dated. We'll call you when we find something suitable." The call never came. I found my current position on my own with absolutely no help f

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            I also love what I do, but since I am nearly 30 years old, I have to think of the future. The bleak picture? After 30 my chances to be mentally able to cope with new situations start to diminish, therefore my ability to adapt to a rapidly changing world as the one of development. IT managers, even team leaders, earn twice or more my pay just by coordinating me. But I don't want to be a manager! :( Anyway, hard to imagine myself at 45 hacking code... ---------- Siderite

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            It's better than toting rebar.... Regards, John McPherson "Sufficiently advanced technology is indistinguishable from magic." Arthur C. Clark, inventor of the telecommunications satellite

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            • J Josh Smith

              I had a conversation yesterday with a long-time buddy of mine. We hadn't spoken for a few years, and it was great to catch up with him. Eventually the conversation lead to what we do for work these days. I told him that I write software, love it, and get paid handsomely for it. He was dumbfounded. Told me that I'm the only person he knows who actually likes his job. I was dumbfounded! We are lucky people, us devs. :-D Count your blessings, my friends!! :josh: My WPF Blog[^]

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              but sometimes, things don't go as you've forecasted. professional devs are always charged with more burden than other occupations:( Doing is better than saying.

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                but sometimes, things don't go as you've forecasted. professional devs are always charged with more burden than other occupations:( Doing is better than saying.

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                Josh Smith
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                derry755 wrote:

                professional devs are always charged with more burden than other occupations

                It sure beats shoveling sh*t! :-D :josh: My WPF Blog[^]

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                • J Josh Smith

                  derry755 wrote:

                  professional devs are always charged with more burden than other occupations

                  It sure beats shoveling sh*t! :-D :josh: My WPF Blog[^]

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                  "It sure beats shoveling sh*t! " oh, I'm not sure what this sentence mean, frankly speaking, I'm not a native English speaker and always get puzzled when meet the slang sentences :P Doing is better than saying. -- modified at 23:26 Wednesday 19th July, 2006

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                    "It sure beats shoveling sh*t! " oh, I'm not sure what this sentence mean, frankly speaking, I'm not a native English speaker and always get puzzled when meet the slang sentences :P Doing is better than saying. -- modified at 23:26 Wednesday 19th July, 2006

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                    Josh Smith
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                    derry755 wrote:

                    oh, I'm not sure what this sentence mean, frankly speaking, I'm not a native English speaker and always get puzzled when meet the slang sentences

                    It means that even if a software developer's job involves other duties, it's still better than doing back-breaking physical labor. :josh: My WPF Blog[^]

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                    • J Josh Smith

                      derry755 wrote:

                      oh, I'm not sure what this sentence mean, frankly speaking, I'm not a native English speaker and always get puzzled when meet the slang sentences

                      It means that even if a software developer's job involves other duties, it's still better than doing back-breaking physical labor. :josh: My WPF Blog[^]

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                      thanks. but maybe some years later, the ones who live upon physical labor will earn much more than those devs...cuz the life time is different between the two colonies, maybe I'm out of this topic:( Doing is better than saying.

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