I never had hug my father
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It is a failing on my part as a parent if love is denied to my children. However, as VAIO Blue is in Afganistan, don't know if that is his country of birth, but cultures/religion may forbid tenderness between parent and child especially if VAIO Blue was brought up under Taliban rule ?
Richard A. Abbott wrote:
cultures/religion may forbid tenderness between parent and child
It might help the world be a better place if this weren't the case.
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Maybe because of the culture, or we really aren't that close, I never in my life hug my father once.
I don't recall ever hugging my birth father either. I have hugged my ex-step father (long story). I don't know much about your culture, but if you think not hugging him is a problem then I'd wager it's best to not waste any more time. :)
Jeremy Falcon
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Christian Graus wrote:
world is full of psychologists who would prefer you agonise over it with them for $120 an hour, but that isn't going to help, now is it
I've never met a psychologist who could help me with problems in the past. The Bible helped me for FREE :)
PaulC1972 wrote:
The Bible helped me for FREE
I worship my invisible unicorn, and it's helped me tons. ;P
The bible was written when people were even more stupid than they are today. Can you imagine that? - David Cross
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I don't recall ever hugging my birth father either. I have hugged my ex-step father (long story). I don't know much about your culture, but if you think not hugging him is a problem then I'd wager it's best to not waste any more time. :)
Jeremy Falcon
Jeremy Falcon wrote:
my ex-step father (long story)
That sounds familiar. I'd be willing to bet our long stories are similar :).
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Jeremy Falcon wrote:
my ex-step father (long story)
That sounds familiar. I'd be willing to bet our long stories are similar :).
Software Zen:
delete this;Gary R. Wheeler wrote:
I'd be willing to bet our long stories are similar
You're probably right. It's crazy to think, and I don't have kids yet, but if I do I've already sworn to myself they'll never have to go through what I did.
Jeremy Falcon
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PaulC1972 wrote:
The Bible helped me for FREE
I worship my invisible unicorn, and it's helped me tons. ;P
The bible was written when people were even more stupid than they are today. Can you imagine that? - David Cross
Alvaro Mendez wrote:
I worship my invisible unicorn, and it's helped me tons.
:laugh: Glad it works for you :)
Alvaro Mendez wrote:
PaulC1972 wrote: The Bible helped me for FREE
I should have put it as whatever peaceful way that floats one's boat should work. Maybe to some it would be a day on the golf course or on a chartered fishing boat :)
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Maybe because of the culture, or we really aren't that close, I never in my life hug my father once.
Yeack! My dad always wanted a hug, give a kiss, and let me tell you I'm more than a little scarred from that memory. Yuck! The hug would've been alright if he wasn't a wrestler always trying to convert the hug to a take down and submission hold. But really, some love is good from a distance. Yeck, I still got this childhood memory of his mustache and it grosses me out every time.
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For some reason MySQL stopped. I restarted it and it's fine.
When I'm joking people take me seriously.
When I'm serious they think I'm joking.
I'm left to conclude my life must be a complete joke. :sigh: :laugh: :cool:Maybe MySQL had to hug its father process. :)
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Yeack! My dad always wanted a hug, give a kiss, and let me tell you I'm more than a little scarred from that memory. Yuck! The hug would've been alright if he wasn't a wrestler always trying to convert the hug to a take down and submission hold. But really, some love is good from a distance. Yeck, I still got this childhood memory of his mustache and it grosses me out every time.
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Well I certainly agree if your kids don't like it find a way to express acceptance to them that they do like. When my son is 17 and comes home with his friends I doubt I'll be hugging him right in front of them (you never know but I doubt it). It's an idea more than an act. I just want to make sure that I show in some way that my kids are *it* for me. That my *best* thoughts are for them. You have an excellent point though.:-D
When I'm joking people take me seriously.
When I'm serious they think I'm joking.
I'm left to conclude my life must be a complete joke. :sigh: :laugh: :cool: -
Well I certainly agree if your kids don't like it find a way to express acceptance to them that they do like. When my son is 17 and comes home with his friends I doubt I'll be hugging him right in front of them (you never know but I doubt it). It's an idea more than an act. I just want to make sure that I show in some way that my kids are *it* for me. That my *best* thoughts are for them. You have an excellent point though.:-D
When I'm joking people take me seriously.
When I'm serious they think I'm joking.
I'm left to conclude my life must be a complete joke. :sigh: :laugh: :cool:Yeah, the hugs weren't that bad. For the first two seconds. After that its just plain freaky. Depending on the situation of course; if a loved one passed away then I'd consider that moment and probably feel different about it. Dunno... I think I need another beer now. :^) :sigh: `8)~
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