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Love isn't everything ???

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    Christian Graus
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    My daughter has started to make lots of powerpoint presentations on her notebook, for different family members, full of statements that make me think she needs to work for Hallmark. I just got my first from her. Amongst the statements comparing love to a river, there were things like "We love your passion for rock" and "We love when you cook for us". Then, as she's scrolling through, showing me this, the second to last page said "Love isn't everything !!!" Now, I'm left wondering what she's trying to tell me......

    Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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      My daughter has started to make lots of powerpoint presentations on her notebook, for different family members, full of statements that make me think she needs to work for Hallmark. I just got my first from her. Amongst the statements comparing love to a river, there were things like "We love your passion for rock" and "We love when you cook for us". Then, as she's scrolling through, showing me this, the second to last page said "Love isn't everything !!!" Now, I'm left wondering what she's trying to tell me......

      Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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      Orcrist
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      Sounds like she is "getting it" more than most. (...waxing philosophical...) In my books Love isnt everything. It is messy and makes things terribly complicated. Mostly because it is not a emotion that works well in isolation... Love is only truly beautiful when it is reciprocated in kind. I have been happily married for 14 years (and with my wife for 18) and our love is strong. However it would never be this strong if it wasnt for the empowerment garned from Respect. Without Respect all other (positive) emotional responses (particularly love) are without substance. Other aspects (trust, loyalty, passion) as just subsets that seldom (cannot???) exist without Respect. At least thats how I see it. Cheers, David

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        Sounds like she is "getting it" more than most. (...waxing philosophical...) In my books Love isnt everything. It is messy and makes things terribly complicated. Mostly because it is not a emotion that works well in isolation... Love is only truly beautiful when it is reciprocated in kind. I have been happily married for 14 years (and with my wife for 18) and our love is strong. However it would never be this strong if it wasnt for the empowerment garned from Respect. Without Respect all other (positive) emotional responses (particularly love) are without substance. Other aspects (trust, loyalty, passion) as just subsets that seldom (cannot???) exist without Respect. At least thats how I see it. Cheers, David

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        Well said, sir.

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          My daughter has started to make lots of powerpoint presentations on her notebook, for different family members, full of statements that make me think she needs to work for Hallmark. I just got my first from her. Amongst the statements comparing love to a river, there were things like "We love your passion for rock" and "We love when you cook for us". Then, as she's scrolling through, showing me this, the second to last page said "Love isn't everything !!!" Now, I'm left wondering what she's trying to tell me......

          Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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          Clickok
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          Love IS everything, independent of what she is trying tell you :)


          Jesus is Love! Tell to someone! :-)

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            My daughter has started to make lots of powerpoint presentations on her notebook, for different family members, full of statements that make me think she needs to work for Hallmark. I just got my first from her. Amongst the statements comparing love to a river, there were things like "We love your passion for rock" and "We love when you cook for us". Then, as she's scrolling through, showing me this, the second to last page said "Love isn't everything !!!" Now, I'm left wondering what she's trying to tell me......

            Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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            Joe Woodbury
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            Christian Graus wrote:

            "Love isn't everything !!!"

            Food on the table, shelter and all the mundane stuff. Oh, and a digital player.

            Anyone who thinks he has a better idea of what's good for people than people do is a swine. - P.J. O'Rourke

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              My daughter has started to make lots of powerpoint presentations on her notebook, for different family members, full of statements that make me think she needs to work for Hallmark. I just got my first from her. Amongst the statements comparing love to a river, there were things like "We love your passion for rock" and "We love when you cook for us". Then, as she's scrolling through, showing me this, the second to last page said "Love isn't everything !!!" Now, I'm left wondering what she's trying to tell me......

              Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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              papaya_zm
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              your daughter is right,love isn't everything,but depend on some material.

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                My daughter has started to make lots of powerpoint presentations on her notebook, for different family members, full of statements that make me think she needs to work for Hallmark. I just got my first from her. Amongst the statements comparing love to a river, there were things like "We love your passion for rock" and "We love when you cook for us". Then, as she's scrolling through, showing me this, the second to last page said "Love isn't everything !!!" Now, I'm left wondering what she's trying to tell me......

                Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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                RedDragon2k
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                When I first read your title I thought Link was back :omg::laugh:

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                  When I first read your title I thought Link was back :omg::laugh:

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                  RC_Sebastien_C
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                  Thought the same thing :-D

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                    Thought the same thing :-D

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                    x3 :laugh:

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                      Sounds like she is "getting it" more than most. (...waxing philosophical...) In my books Love isnt everything. It is messy and makes things terribly complicated. Mostly because it is not a emotion that works well in isolation... Love is only truly beautiful when it is reciprocated in kind. I have been happily married for 14 years (and with my wife for 18) and our love is strong. However it would never be this strong if it wasnt for the empowerment garned from Respect. Without Respect all other (positive) emotional responses (particularly love) are without substance. Other aspects (trust, loyalty, passion) as just subsets that seldom (cannot???) exist without Respect. At least thats how I see it. Cheers, David

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                      Orcrist wrote:

                      Without Respect all other (positive) emotional responses (particularly love) are without substance. Other aspects (trust, loyalty, passion) as just subsets that seldom (cannot???) exist without Respect.

                      Wise words.

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                        Orcrist wrote:

                        Without Respect all other (positive) emotional responses (particularly love) are without substance. Other aspects (trust, loyalty, passion) as just subsets that seldom (cannot???) exist without Respect.

                        Wise words.

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                        Orcrist
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                        Not sure if it is really wisdom... More likely it is brute force experience learned from 18 gruelling err... wonderfull years living with the same person. I'm just a little slow. :-D Cheers, David

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                          Sounds like she is "getting it" more than most. (...waxing philosophical...) In my books Love isnt everything. It is messy and makes things terribly complicated. Mostly because it is not a emotion that works well in isolation... Love is only truly beautiful when it is reciprocated in kind. I have been happily married for 14 years (and with my wife for 18) and our love is strong. However it would never be this strong if it wasnt for the empowerment garned from Respect. Without Respect all other (positive) emotional responses (particularly love) are without substance. Other aspects (trust, loyalty, passion) as just subsets that seldom (cannot???) exist without Respect. At least thats how I see it. Cheers, David

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                          peterchen
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                          Or, as The Police said, "Love can mend your life but love can break your heart".


                          We are a big screwed up dysfunctional psychotic happy family - some more screwed up, others more happy, but everybody's psychotic joint venture definition of CP
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                            When I first read your title I thought Link was back :omg::laugh:

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                            peterchen
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                            poor Christian


                            We are a big screwed up dysfunctional psychotic happy family - some more screwed up, others more happy, but everybody's psychotic joint venture definition of CP
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                              poor Christian


                              We are a big screwed up dysfunctional psychotic happy family - some more screwed up, others more happy, but everybody's psychotic joint venture definition of CP
                              Linkify! || Fold With Us! || sighist

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                              Christian Graus
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                              *grin* She has real social issues. Most stuff she says, she learns rote. I doubt she meant anything by it. That's what makes it funny to me :-)

                              Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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                                My daughter has started to make lots of powerpoint presentations on her notebook, for different family members, full of statements that make me think she needs to work for Hallmark. I just got my first from her. Amongst the statements comparing love to a river, there were things like "We love your passion for rock" and "We love when you cook for us". Then, as she's scrolling through, showing me this, the second to last page said "Love isn't everything !!!" Now, I'm left wondering what she's trying to tell me......

                                Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ Metal Musings - Rex and my new metal blog

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                                That she has things in perspective? Sounds like you've done a good job there :love:

                                The tigress is here :-D

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                                  Or, as The Police said, "Love can mend your life but love can break your heart".


                                  We are a big screwed up dysfunctional psychotic happy family - some more screwed up, others more happy, but everybody's psychotic joint venture definition of CP
                                  Linkify! || Fold With Us! || sighist

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                                  Paul Watson
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                                  So it is everything then. Good and bad.

                                  regards, Paul Watson Ireland FeedHenry needs you

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                                  eh, stop bugging me about it, give it a couple of days, see what happens.

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                                    So it is everything then. Good and bad.

                                    regards, Paul Watson Ireland FeedHenry needs you

                                    Shog9 wrote:

                                    eh, stop bugging me about it, give it a couple of days, see what happens.

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                                    peterchen
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                                    well said.


                                    We are a big screwed up dysfunctional psychotic happy family - some more screwed up, others more happy, but everybody's psychotic joint venture definition of CP
                                    Linkify! || Fold With Us! || sighist

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