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  • N Nish Nishant

    leckey wrote:

    He was actually kind of a manho in college.

    What's a manho?

    Regards, Nish


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    Mircea Grelus
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    I think leckey ment to say macho. Or probably not...

    regards, Mircea Many people spend their life going to sleep when they're not sleepy and waking up while they still are.

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    • M Mircea Grelus

      I think leckey ment to say macho. Or probably not...

      regards, Mircea Many people spend their life going to sleep when they're not sleepy and waking up while they still are.

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      Nish Nishant
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      Mircea Grelus wrote:

      Or probably not...

      I actually thought manho was short for man-whore. In fact it may exactly have been how the word originated.

      Regards, Nish


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      • S S76

        Nope, I ain't gay and my GADAR is real weak so here's my question ... if a guy is well settled (earns around $100K, has a house, a car etc.) and is in this 30s ... doesn't have a girlfriend and has never mentioned having one from the past ... is he gay ? -- moved at 15:29 Tuesday 5th December, 2006

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        Marc Clifton
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        Geez, and I popped onto CP to see if there was any intelligent discussions going on. :sigh: Marc

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          Maybe he just likes his own company.

          The tigress is here :-D

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          S76
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          :laugh:

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          • S S76

            Nope, I ain't gay and my GADAR is real weak so here's my question ... if a guy is well settled (earns around $100K, has a house, a car etc.) and is in this 30s ... doesn't have a girlfriend and has never mentioned having one from the past ... is he gay ? -- moved at 15:29 Tuesday 5th December, 2006

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            Lost User
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            Maybe he just likes his own company.

            The tigress is here :-D

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            • B brianwelsch

              Well, I'm 36, have a house, car, earn a decent income. I live alone and have had few serious girlfriends, most of which I never mention. I have several reasons/excuses/rationalizations/etc for not having found a wife. Being gay is not one of them.

              BW


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              -- Steven Wright

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              S76
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              Thanks!

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                Geez, and I popped onto CP to see if there was any intelligent discussions going on. :sigh: Marc

                Thyme In The Country

                People are just notoriously impossible. --DavidCrow
                There's NO excuse for not commenting your code. -- John Simmons / outlaw programmer
                People who say that they will refactor their code later to make it "good" don't understand refactoring, nor the art and craft of programming. -- Josh Smith

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                S76
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                you mean not interesting to you ?

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                • S S76

                  Nope, I ain't gay and my GADAR is real weak so here's my question ... if a guy is well settled (earns around $100K, has a house, a car etc.) and is in this 30s ... doesn't have a girlfriend and has never mentioned having one from the past ... is he gay ? -- moved at 15:29 Tuesday 5th December, 2006

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                  ednrgc
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                  Yes :doh:

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                  • realJSOPR realJSOP

                    If all else fails, get Chuck Norris involved. Chuck will know what to do.

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                    Chuck is coming out?

                    The tigress is here :-D

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                    • S S76

                      Nope, I ain't gay and my GADAR is real weak so here's my question ... if a guy is well settled (earns around $100K, has a house, a car etc.) and is in this 30s ... doesn't have a girlfriend and has never mentioned having one from the past ... is he gay ? -- moved at 15:29 Tuesday 5th December, 2006

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                      Member 96
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                      Easy way to tell, put your hand on his knee and look closely into his eyes and tell him you've always wanted to "experiment" and see where it leads. Be sure to report back to us the results. ;)

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                      • S S76

                        I knew this would come back and bite me

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                        l a u r e n
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                        you wish! [edit] this was a reply to dumbass above not nish ... seems like the servers arent all there yet [/edit]

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                        • T ToddHileHoffer

                          Either gay or he has a two inch penis and is to embarassed to be with a woman. But seriously, you could ask him. He'll either open up and you'll become better friends or he'll get pissed at you and you won't be friends. That being said, my brother and I were friends with a gay dude in high school. When he finally came out, he thought we would be suprised. Of course we weren't. He asked us why we never brought it up. We knew he was gay, but we didn't care.

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                          Gary Wheeler
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                          ToddHileHoffer wrote:

                          Either gay or he has a two inch penis and is to embarassed to be with a woman.

                          1 vote for that.

                          ToddHileHoffer wrote:

                          But seriously, you could ask him. He'll either open up and you'll become better friends or he'll get pissed at you and you won't be friends.

                          3 vote for that; simple common sense.

                          ToddHileHoffer wrote:

                          That being said, my brother and I were friends with a gay dude in high school. When he finally came out, he thought we would be suprised. Of course we weren't. He asked us why we never brought it up. We knew he was gay, but we didn't care.

                          5 vote for that. (1 + 3 + 5) / 3 = 3 vote overall.


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                          • G Gary Wheeler

                            ToddHileHoffer wrote:

                            Either gay or he has a two inch penis and is to embarassed to be with a woman.

                            1 vote for that.

                            ToddHileHoffer wrote:

                            But seriously, you could ask him. He'll either open up and you'll become better friends or he'll get pissed at you and you won't be friends.

                            3 vote for that; simple common sense.

                            ToddHileHoffer wrote:

                            That being said, my brother and I were friends with a gay dude in high school. When he finally came out, he thought we would be suprised. Of course we weren't. He asked us why we never brought it up. We knew he was gay, but we didn't care.

                            5 vote for that. (1 + 3 + 5) / 3 = 3 vote overall.


                            Software Zen: delete this;

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                            ToddHileHoffer
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                            Gary Wheeler wrote:

                            ToddHileHoffer wrote: Either gay or he has a two inch penis and is to embarassed to be with a woman. 1 vote for that. ToddHileHoffer wrote: But seriously, you could ask him. He'll either open up and you'll become better friends or he'll get pissed at you and you won't be friends. 3 vote for that; simple common sense. ToddHileHoffer wrote: That being said, my brother and I were friends with a gay dude in high school. When he finally came out, he thought we would be suprised. Of course we weren't. He asked us why we never brought it up. We knew he was gay, but we didn't care. 5 vote for that. (1 + 3 + 5) / 3 = 3 vote overall.

                            5 vote for funny post :)

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                            • L Lost User

                              Chuck is coming out?

                              The tigress is here :-D

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                              Ashley van Gerven
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                              Trollslayer wrote:

                              Chuck is coming out?

                              Not only is he coming out, but he's going to slap* anyone who even mutters a homophobic comment so hard their neck will look like a corkscrew :laugh: * roundhouse kicks are no longer part of his repertoire

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                              • S S76

                                Nope, I ain't gay and my GADAR is real weak so here's my question ... if a guy is well settled (earns around $100K, has a house, a car etc.) and is in this 30s ... doesn't have a girlfriend and has never mentioned having one from the past ... is he gay ? -- moved at 15:29 Tuesday 5th December, 2006

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                                Jasmine2501
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                                Show him my web site and ask him if he likes me... I like him already :) Doesn't mean he's gay or not, but I could use someone like that in my life. Trying to fix him up with a girl will probably give you your answer. I wouldn't ask directly...

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                                • S S76

                                  Read my post closely ... especially the first line. The reason I am asking is because it sometimes gets awkard during smalltalk ... and I don't want to offend him in anyway. I am married and with a kid ... now if I tell him "Someday you will have kids" ... that might not be appropriate.

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                                  Ashley van Gerven
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                                  SmartCube wrote:

                                  during smalltalk ... and I don't want to offend

                                  If he hasn't told you that he is, he doesn't have a right to get offended. I wouldn't worry about it.

                                  SmartCube wrote:

                                  "Someday you will have kids"

                                  Theoretically, you wouldn't really say this to anyone if you wanted to avoid all possible awkward smalltalk - even if someone is married, that doesn't mean they want to and *can* have kids.

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                                  • S S76

                                    you mean not interesting to you ?

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                                    Marc Clifton
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                                    SmartCube wrote:

                                    you mean not interesting to you ?

                                    No, I mean intelligent. Marc

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                                    People are just notoriously impossible. --DavidCrow
                                    There's NO excuse for not commenting your code. -- John Simmons / outlaw programmer
                                    People who say that they will refactor their code later to make it "good" don't understand refactoring, nor the art and craft of programming. -- Josh Smith

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                                    • N Nish Nishant

                                      SmartCube wrote:

                                      if a guy is well settled (earns around $100K, has a house, a car etc.) and is in this 30s ... doesn't have a girlfriend and has never mentioned having one from the past ... is he gay ?

                                      He could be! But, ahem, why are you so interested? :rolleyes:

                                      Regards, Nish


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                                      Currently working on C++/CLI in Action for Manning Publications. (*Sample chapter available online*)

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                                      Spirt..., there goes my coffee, LOL! :laugh::laugh::laugh:

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                                      • M Marc Clifton

                                        SmartCube wrote:

                                        you mean not interesting to you ?

                                        No, I mean intelligent. Marc

                                        Thyme In The Country

                                        People are just notoriously impossible. --DavidCrow
                                        There's NO excuse for not commenting your code. -- John Simmons / outlaw programmer
                                        People who say that they will refactor their code later to make it "good" don't understand refactoring, nor the art and craft of programming. -- Josh Smith

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                                        I thought I'd clicked on the Soapbox by mistake. I'm kind of disturbed by how many people are titillated by this one.

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                                        • S S76

                                          Nope, I ain't gay and my GADAR is real weak so here's my question ... if a guy is well settled (earns around $100K, has a house, a car etc.) and is in this 30s ... doesn't have a girlfriend and has never mentioned having one from the past ... is he gay ? -- moved at 15:29 Tuesday 5th December, 2006

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                                          David Wulff
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                                          I hit reply to this message in the Lounge, and all of a sudden I'm alone in the mdidle of 2002. :~ The only way to find out is to ask him. If you want to know so you don't drop something into conversation and make him feel awkward, the best thing to do is ask, and say why -- in pivate. Personally, I just get the whole "So are you married? No? Girlfriend? Boyfriend?" question out of the way at the very start, after all it is really isn't going to matter in the long run and will usually give you some topics for future discussion. Most people have no problem opening up if you ask in a friendly way, and if they do then you know not to approach it again.


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