This poll is gay
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A long time ago we had a very long debate on a local mailing list, and we arrived at the conclusion that we all have both sexual orientation and sexual preference. One is hard-wired, and the other is a life choice.
What would the difference be ? Are you saying some men are naturally hetero, but choose to have sex with men ?
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Shog9 wrote:
who is to blame
Why is blame needed?
Brady Kelly wrote:
Why is blame needed?
I think Shog was saying that both sides of the discussion end up being about what causes it, in a negative sense. As I said, I don't think that blame is really the point, some people are gay, there has to be a reason, and it's scientifically worthy to try to understand that, without any sort of need for judgement or suggestion that it's something we need to 'correct'.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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I believe that we don't know the full answer and, really, shouldn't care other than from, perhaps, an intellectual perspective. So what if someone is gay? Who the hell cares? I'm more concerned and disturbed by people that commit acts of violence or depravity in the name of their sexuality without the informed adult consent of the partner than law abding, tax paying citizens who are no different to anyone else. The people that are gay are not the issue - it's the morons who make a big deal out of it in the name of some homophobic religious bullshit. Where's the morality in that you hypocrites?
digital man wrote:
an intellectual perspective
My interest is entirely in this regard. In fact, my interest was in brain structure, and male/female difference, the gay thing just kind of happens to be covered in the same books.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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What would the difference be ? Are you saying some men are naturally hetero, but choose to have sex with men ?
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
Sort of. I'm saying that some men are probably 'wired' as hetero, but develop a sexual preference for homo, for a variety of reasons.
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AndyKEnZ wrote:
Where is the source for this coming from?
The most recent book I am reading is called 'Why men don't iron'. I have about 5-6 books on the topic, actually.
AndyKEnZ wrote:
So do they test whether an animal is gay then?
An animal that has a penis, tries to have sex with other animals, that also have a penis, and is not interested in animals with a vagina, is gay.
AndyKEnZ wrote:
This all sounds very flakey to me
You and a lot of other people. I'm interested to know on what basis.
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Christian Graus wrote:
'Why men don't iron'
They don't??!! WTF! I'm taking this up with my wife tonight!
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AndyKEnZ wrote:
Where is the source for this coming from?
The most recent book I am reading is called 'Why men don't iron'. I have about 5-6 books on the topic, actually.
AndyKEnZ wrote:
So do they test whether an animal is gay then?
An animal that has a penis, tries to have sex with other animals, that also have a penis, and is not interested in animals with a vagina, is gay.
AndyKEnZ wrote:
This all sounds very flakey to me
You and a lot of other people. I'm interested to know on what basis.
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Christian Graus wrote:
You and a lot of other people. I'm interested to know on what basis.
Either science has made huge leaps whilst I was asleep last night or this book you mentioned is based on flakey science. It's not my field but I don't think they can look at brains and identify which one's have homosexual tendencies. What you're saying sounds like they can manipulate animals brains to produce homosexuality, I don't believe that can be true. I think it's surroundings; many young men are gay because they've been introduced to the lifestyle by older men. Also look at the homosexual sex life in prisons, when faced with no choice other choices might become of interest. So where next? are pot smokers hard-wired to like the effect? Looking at the indigenous endo-cannabinoid system in the brain that seems highly likely, some say it shows a common genetic past. PS my dog is as horny as hell of late (it's summer) and tries his best with our male cat! maybe he's hard-wired in the "any port in a storm" mode.
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Ryan Roberts wrote:
Trash, no human behaviour is that deterministic.
What basis do you have to say this ? Anything more than opinion ?
Ryan Roberts wrote:
And you propagate the prejudice that gay men are somehow feminised.
Would you like a list of the ways in which male and female brains differ, and another ( exactly the same ) list of ways that homosexual mens brains differ from heterosexual mens brains ? Really, your statement is sexist, it implies that a feminised brain is somehow a bad thing, or inferior. It *is* inferior, on average, in some ways, but, it is superior, on average, in others. Being female, or having a feminised brain may play to different strengths, but it's hardly an insult.
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Christian Graus wrote:
What basis do you have to say this ? Anything more than opinion ?
I find it remarkable that a Christian is arguing against for biological determinism against an atheist :) For one, a very large amount of homosexual activity is performed by heterosexual (not closeted) men. Those who have an exclusively homosexual identity and form long term relationships with other men are a subset of those who like a bit of buggery.
Christian Graus wrote:
Really, your statement is sexist, it implies that a feminised brain is somehow a bad thing
No it doesn't. It does however imply that lots of gay men get pissed off at not being considered masculine.
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See title. :mad:
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I think he was being facetious. I suspect there are some religious undertones there - not unsimilar to the burning of witches of the Christian church...
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Ryan Roberts wrote:
bestiality
LOL - I'm sure that lots of bestiality occurs in the animals world...
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
k, trans-species relationships then :)
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Christian Graus wrote:
What basis do you have to say this ? Anything more than opinion ?
I find it remarkable that a Christian is arguing against for biological determinism against an atheist :) For one, a very large amount of homosexual activity is performed by heterosexual (not closeted) men. Those who have an exclusively homosexual identity and form long term relationships with other men are a subset of those who like a bit of buggery.
Christian Graus wrote:
Really, your statement is sexist, it implies that a feminised brain is somehow a bad thing
No it doesn't. It does however imply that lots of gay men get pissed off at not being considered masculine.
Ryan Roberts wrote:
I find it remarkable that a Christian is arguing against for biological determinism against an atheist
I prefer to figure out what's right, then defend it, rather than choose the side that seems to suit me. :-)
Ryan Roberts wrote:
For one, a very large amount of homosexual activity is performed by heterosexual (not closeted) men
Stats ? References ? Some men have homosexual sex, but claim to be hetero ( the studies I am reading about peak at 7.3 % of men having had homosexual sex, and 3-4% ( who are part of that 7.3% ) actually considering themselves to be gay.
Ryan Roberts wrote:
It does however imply that lots of gay men get pissed off at not being considered masculine.
Well, I'm sorry about their feelings, although I wasn' attempting to make that accusation. Either way, whatever social baggage comes with the science, I am mostly interested in the scientific proof on offer ( and, to be frank, I couldn't give a damn why people are gay, I brought it up mostly out of interest, after reading stats on public perceptions, in a book I am reading because it deals mostly with brain differences between the sexes )
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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Christian Graus wrote:
You and a lot of other people. I'm interested to know on what basis.
Either science has made huge leaps whilst I was asleep last night or this book you mentioned is based on flakey science. It's not my field but I don't think they can look at brains and identify which one's have homosexual tendencies. What you're saying sounds like they can manipulate animals brains to produce homosexuality, I don't believe that can be true. I think it's surroundings; many young men are gay because they've been introduced to the lifestyle by older men. Also look at the homosexual sex life in prisons, when faced with no choice other choices might become of interest. So where next? are pot smokers hard-wired to like the effect? Looking at the indigenous endo-cannabinoid system in the brain that seems highly likely, some say it shows a common genetic past. PS my dog is as horny as hell of late (it's summer) and tries his best with our male cat! maybe he's hard-wired in the "any port in a storm" mode.
AndyKEnZ wrote:
What you're saying sounds like they can manipulate animals brains to produce homosexuality
Yes, that is what I said.
AndyKEnZ wrote:
Either science has made huge leaps whilst I was asleep last night
The books I am reading don't go further back than the 1990's, so, not quite overnight.
AndyKEnZ wrote:
I don't believe that can be true.
Well, your ability to believe something isn't really a factor in my process of deciding what seems credible, sorry. Have you done any reading on the subject, do you have a background in this area, or are you just presenting your gut feeling ?
AndyKEnZ wrote:
many young men are gay because they've been introduced to the lifestyle by older men.
OK, I find that view incredible, because it suggests that you believe if you met the right older guys, you'd be gay. I don't believe that's possible, for a second. On what do you base this assumption ?
AndyKEnZ wrote:
Also look at the homosexual sex life in prisons, when faced with no choice other choices might become of interest.
Yes, as you say, this is an extreme circumstance, and does not speak to choices, as much as drive. The book talks about this, actually, when it covers the arguments of those who claim sexuality as a social construct.
AndyKEnZ wrote:
So where next? are pot smokers hard-wired to like the effect? Looking at the indigenous endo-cannabinoid system in the brain that seems highly likely, some say it shows a common genetic past.
Someone else mentioned bestiality and incest, on this thread. Sexuality is different. To be attracted to men is a normal, human condition, however you look at it. The thing that's different here is that a man has the sexual desires we'd generally associate with a woman. Why is it so amazing to think that this means his brain is partially feminised ?
AndyKEnZ wrote:
PS my dog is as horny as hell of late (it's summer) and tries his best with our male cat! maybe he's hard-wired in the "any port in a storm" mode.
As per your prison example, if there's no other options, sometimes a usually unpalatable option starts to look good, for some.
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Christian Graus wrote:
'Why men don't iron'
They don't??!! WTF! I'm taking this up with my wife tonight!
Well, I sure as hell don't. I wear crinkled shirts as a protest that she hasn't done it.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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Sort of. I'm saying that some men are probably 'wired' as hetero, but develop a sexual preference for homo, for a variety of reasons.
OK, fair enough. I'm willing to accept a combination nature/nurture argument, although I'd be interested to see something to back that up. The bit I'm sure of, is that there are definate brain structure issues that are at the root of homosexuality, in general.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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Ryan Roberts wrote:
I find it remarkable that a Christian is arguing against for biological determinism against an atheist
I prefer to figure out what's right, then defend it, rather than choose the side that seems to suit me. :-)
Ryan Roberts wrote:
For one, a very large amount of homosexual activity is performed by heterosexual (not closeted) men
Stats ? References ? Some men have homosexual sex, but claim to be hetero ( the studies I am reading about peak at 7.3 % of men having had homosexual sex, and 3-4% ( who are part of that 7.3% ) actually considering themselves to be gay.
Ryan Roberts wrote:
It does however imply that lots of gay men get pissed off at not being considered masculine.
Well, I'm sorry about their feelings, although I wasn' attempting to make that accusation. Either way, whatever social baggage comes with the science, I am mostly interested in the scientific proof on offer ( and, to be frank, I couldn't give a damn why people are gay, I brought it up mostly out of interest, after reading stats on public perceptions, in a book I am reading because it deals mostly with brain differences between the sexes )
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
Christian Graus wrote:
I prefer to figure out what's right, then defend it, rather than choose the side that seems to suit me.
Or the last convincing book you read. I tend to do the same ;)
Christian Graus wrote:
Stats ? References ? Some men have homosexual sex, but claim to be hetero ( the studies I am reading about peak at 7.3 % of men having had homosexual sex, and 3-4%
Kinsey puts it at 37% for 1 or more homosexual experiences, regulars figure less. It's a very unreliable area of research by its nature.
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OK, fair enough. I'm willing to accept a combination nature/nurture argument, although I'd be interested to see something to back that up. The bit I'm sure of, is that there are definate brain structure issues that are at the root of homosexuality, in general.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
I'm sure you're right, in general.
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Christian Graus wrote:
I prefer to figure out what's right, then defend it, rather than choose the side that seems to suit me.
Or the last convincing book you read. I tend to do the same ;)
Christian Graus wrote:
Stats ? References ? Some men have homosexual sex, but claim to be hetero ( the studies I am reading about peak at 7.3 % of men having had homosexual sex, and 3-4%
Kinsey puts it at 37% for 1 or more homosexual experiences, regulars figure less. It's a very unreliable area of research by its nature.
Ryan Roberts wrote:
Or the last convincing book you read. I tend to do the same
*grin* I can be guilty of that, at times. In this case, I've bought and read a great many books on the topic.
Ryan Roberts wrote:
Kinsey puts it at 37% for 1 or more homosexual experiences, regulars figure less. It's a very unreliable area of research by its nature.
Yeah, the book I am reading now, covers the reasons that Kinsey's research was flawed, and why all the studies they refer to, show a far more consistent range of values, that do not approach those that Kinsey reported.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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I'm sure you're right, in general.
*grin* any talk about brain sex differences, needs the caveat 'in general' inserted a lot :P
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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I've just got another book on sex brain differences, and the preface is talking about common beliefs about homosexuality. It claims that a vast majority of people still believe that homosexuality is a choice, either arising from social pressures, or consciously made. Vote 1 if you believe that is the case, and 5 if you believe that it's hard wired into a persons brain.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
The book claims that is what people believe, not that is is the case, correct? Sounds like it is about the common herd rather than homosexuality which is an interesting apporach. As to the idea of social pressure then surely that would be to deter someone from homosexuality! Elaine :rose:
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The book claims that is what people believe, not that is is the case, correct? Sounds like it is about the common herd rather than homosexuality which is an interesting apporach. As to the idea of social pressure then surely that would be to deter someone from homosexuality! Elaine :rose:
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Trollslayer wrote:
The book claims that is what people believe, not that is is the case, correct?
The book admits that it can't be proven, in the sense that we (obviously) cannot experiment on humans. It does, obviously, cover a great deal of scientific evidence to back their claims, and examines the claims of those who believe that we're all essentially asexual, that there's no such thing as brain difference ( which is an untenable position ) or that all men are equally capable of becoming homosexual, and the reasons why they feel this is not the case.
Trollslayer wrote:
Sounds like it is about the common herd rather than homosexuality which is an interesting apporach
The book is not about homosexuality, it covers it because it falls under the spectrum of male/female brain differences, which is what the book is about.
Trollslayer wrote:
As to the idea of social pressure then surely that would be to deter someone from homosexuality!
I guess that depends on your peer group :-)
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
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digital man wrote:
an intellectual perspective
My interest is entirely in this regard. In fact, my interest was in brain structure, and male/female difference, the gay thing just kind of happens to be covered in the same books.
Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "I am working on a project that will convert a FORTRAN code to corresponding C++ code.I am not aware of FORTRAN syntax" ( spotted in the C++/CLI forum )
Yes, of course: I was aiming at twat_stateler and his cronies and, sadly, missed!