How to forget
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khan++ wrote:
I mean how do you get over a relationship that failed?
Be patient. Time is a great healer. You'll feel bad for a while but it will pass. Distract yourself until then, do new things, take up new hobbies, write an article for CP.
Steve_Harris wrote:
Time is a great healer.
Absolutely true. This is a time-proof statement in all cases eternally. :)
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Colin Angus Mackay wrote:
Learn the lesson and move on.
it's sometime so costly........ so many tears
When you get mad...THINK twice that the only advice Tamimi - Code
Tamimi - Code wrote:
it's sometime so costly........ so many tears
Not just tears. But many heartburns too. Painful process.
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The more you want to forget her, the more you can't forget her. From my experience:), just find another girl or get busy.
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How do you forget someone? I mean how do you get over a relationship that failed? I need help here, and I can't talk to friends about it. I used to know her years ago, but now I have learnt that she left last year. I even disconnected myself from old friends because they would remind me of her. I just wanted it to be over, but now the memories have come back. I need to get over it before I do something stupid. (I don't know if I can get any more stupid than looking for love in the wrong people). I really want myself to be glad it is over, but how? (It was an abusive relationship for me that started in 1999 that I ended around mid 2003, four years ago!) Please make some suggestions / words of wisdom.
this is this.
To ignore is the best way since it would not create any heartburns. I don't know what is the reason that is causing '1' votes for that. Any 'Univoter' syndrome?
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Buy a XBOX 360 and go play on XBOX Live. It's easy to forget everything there :)
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ednrgc wrote:
Don't continue to beat yourself up over the fact that he's doing things to her that you couldn't.
I remind myself that I was the one who ended it. And I never thought of doing nasty things to her. I thought it was sacred. I don't think about what she may be doing with her new partner. It was a choice she made. She used me when she could, but stayed with her other friends. So I quit.
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Well the obvious answer just get over it, nobody really dies from love, and forget that there is only one in the world for you, because it isn't true, my advice: Find friends, real friends, do stuff, don't talk about her, don't be afraid to talk to other women, not for sex or for a serious relation, just to have as friends, women friends that'll get your self steem rolling on the way up because it seems like you have it down right now. Too bad you looked at it as something sacred, sex is sex you can put emotion to it or you can choose to do it nasty, whatever gets your boys rolling. Still in the end try not to be alone, surround yourself of happy people. Also the games thing its not so bad just as long as you have someone to play with and you don't feel alone.
Greets! Joel
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khan++ wrote:
(It was an abusive relationship for me that started in 1999 that I ended around mid 2003, four years ago!)
Wow! That sounds familiar. My ex was a psycotic b*tch. I won't forget her, I just refer to her as Lady Voldemort or She-who-must-not-be-named. I tell people about her. About how she smashed the car in to the neighbour's house, how she insulted one of my friends so badly I've not spoken to him in 6 years, how she insulted my uncle that I've not spoken with him in about 6 years also. Due to her my dad refused to visit for about 6 months. And during that relationship I ended up in accident and emergency more times that the rest of my life put together. (And there is more to that than I really want to talk about)
khan++ wrote:
How do you forget someone?
You don't
khan++ wrote:
I mean how do you get over a relationship that failed?
Learn the lesson and move on.
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Colin Angus Mackay wrote:
Wow! That sounds familiar. My ex was a psycotic b*tch. I won't forget her, I just refer to her as Lady Voldemort or She-who-must-not-be-named. I tell people about her. About how she smashed the car in to the neighbour's house, how she insulted one of my friends so badly I've not spoken to him in 6 years, how she insulted my uncle that I've not spoken with him in about 6 years also. Due to her my dad refused to visit for about 6 months. And during that relationship I ended up in accident and emergency more times that the rest of my life put together. (And there is more to that than I really want to talk about)
Wow! :omg: Just curious (feel free to tell me to sod off) but how long were you with her?
Cheers, Vıkram.
After all is said and done, much is said and little is done.
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Colin Angus Mackay wrote:
Wow! That sounds familiar. My ex was a psycotic b*tch. I won't forget her, I just refer to her as Lady Voldemort or She-who-must-not-be-named. I tell people about her. About how she smashed the car in to the neighbour's house, how she insulted one of my friends so badly I've not spoken to him in 6 years, how she insulted my uncle that I've not spoken with him in about 6 years also. Due to her my dad refused to visit for about 6 months. And during that relationship I ended up in accident and emergency more times that the rest of my life put together. (And there is more to that than I really want to talk about)
Wow! :omg: Just curious (feel free to tell me to sod off) but how long were you with her?
Cheers, Vıkram.
After all is said and done, much is said and little is done.
Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
how long were you with her?
Too long.
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Vikram A Punathambekar wrote:
how long were you with her?
Too long.
Upcoming events: * Glasgow: Mock Objects, SQL Server CLR Integration, Reporting Services, db4o, Dependency Injection with Spring ... "I wouldn't say boo to a goose. I'm not a coward, I just realise that it would be largely pointless." My website
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khan++ wrote:
(It was an abusive relationship for me that started in 1999 that I ended around mid 2003, four years ago!)
Wow! That sounds familiar. My ex was a psycotic b*tch. I won't forget her, I just refer to her as Lady Voldemort or She-who-must-not-be-named. I tell people about her. About how she smashed the car in to the neighbour's house, how she insulted one of my friends so badly I've not spoken to him in 6 years, how she insulted my uncle that I've not spoken with him in about 6 years also. Due to her my dad refused to visit for about 6 months. And during that relationship I ended up in accident and emergency more times that the rest of my life put together. (And there is more to that than I really want to talk about)
khan++ wrote:
How do you forget someone?
You don't
khan++ wrote:
I mean how do you get over a relationship that failed?
Learn the lesson and move on.
Upcoming events: * Glasgow: Mock Objects, SQL Server CLR Integration, Reporting Services, db4o, Dependency Injection with Spring ... "I wouldn't say boo to a goose. I'm not a coward, I just realise that it would be largely pointless." My website
Colin Angus Mackay wrote:
She-who-must-not-be-named
:) :)
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Tamimi - Code wrote:
Don't blame your self about something you don't have a choice with it
Yes, I have only myself to blame. I had the choice to get into a relationship or not. I chose to. I trusted the wrong people.
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khan++ wrote:
I trusted the wrong people
Yep, but you have to trust first to find out whether or not it's a good idea...