Still not smoking....
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Kill that girl! She don't deserve you ! And don't thing about smoking again! I quit smoking before 6 years and I feel Great and Strong and I code better ;P Be strong !!!
Strahil Shorgov
Strahil wrote:
Kill that girl! She don't deserve you
What is wrong with you? I LOVE her. I just want her to be happy, not to hurt her.
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
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Well, a few weeks ago, I proudly announced that I had made 2 months without a cig. And that it was all due to my girlfriend. Well, I am proud to announce that I still don't smoke, even though my girlfriend yesterday (Wednesday) became my ex-girlfriend for reasons I cannot understand. I mean, we spend the night together, and we held each other when we fell asleep. In the morning, I drop her off at the station on my way to work, because I had to hold a seminar. I was so happy and so complete. We talked and joked when she called me around noon yesterday. At 8 pm she called again and told me there was something we needed to talk about, but I am not sure if I should do this over the phone. Really, when she said those words, I knew what was coming, so I asked her: If you are going to tell me that you don't want to be in this relationship any longer, please tell me now. She told me. Apparently, I am a nice guy and we should stay good friends. Still, NOT smoking. But I want a cig so badly, I need some moral support. 3 months, and she rips my heart out. Brilliant. Ah, I just needed to vent. Go on, there is nothing to see here...
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
Dear fellow CPians, thank you for your feedback. If I had to explain someone why I hang out in a programming community, I'd show them this thread. Thanks, everyone. :rose:
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Well, a few weeks ago, I proudly announced that I had made 2 months without a cig. And that it was all due to my girlfriend. Well, I am proud to announce that I still don't smoke, even though my girlfriend yesterday (Wednesday) became my ex-girlfriend for reasons I cannot understand. I mean, we spend the night together, and we held each other when we fell asleep. In the morning, I drop her off at the station on my way to work, because I had to hold a seminar. I was so happy and so complete. We talked and joked when she called me around noon yesterday. At 8 pm she called again and told me there was something we needed to talk about, but I am not sure if I should do this over the phone. Really, when she said those words, I knew what was coming, so I asked her: If you are going to tell me that you don't want to be in this relationship any longer, please tell me now. She told me. Apparently, I am a nice guy and we should stay good friends. Still, NOT smoking. But I want a cig so badly, I need some moral support. 3 months, and she rips my heart out. Brilliant. Ah, I just needed to vent. Go on, there is nothing to see here...
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
Women are always on the lookout for the prince with the golden apples. In the meantime, they may settle for a less fortunate fellow. May be to her, you were the prince with the silver apples. May be, now she has found the prince with the golden apples. Immature women want bad guys. They want guys that they can reform / change. Now it might seem to her that she has changed you all that she could, and is now looking for another one to reform. Speak to her. Ask her why she would do this? Make her give reasons. If she hesitates, she might be seeing somebody else (cheating on you), so you are better off without her. goto end; If you want her back, go to her, smelling like a cigarette, with a cigarette pack half visible from your pocket. If she asks, tell her that you've gone back to smoking. Also you can light in front of her so she knows you need more reforming, and she might come back. goto end; If you want revenge, tell her that you've found the true love of your life, and let her catch you going out with another woman prettier than her. Tell her that you are really happy, and that with her, you were always sad, but couldn't tell her, and that it is a real good thing that she left herself. end: Also try praying (even if you are not religious). It seems to work.
this is this.
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Smoking has nothing to do with Grief. It is just a mean to avoid them. So smoking again would be a disgusting Idea. Just think you are consuming smoke to avoid grief...so baseless man....
There are only two kinds of people who are really fascinating-people who know absolutely everything, and people who know absolutely nothing. Oscar Wilde (1854-1900) Regards... Shouvik
shouvik.d wrote:
Just think you are consuming smoke to avoid grief...so baseless man....
Gives me inspiration
Developer Fantasies
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Well, a few weeks ago, I proudly announced that I had made 2 months without a cig. And that it was all due to my girlfriend. Well, I am proud to announce that I still don't smoke, even though my girlfriend yesterday (Wednesday) became my ex-girlfriend for reasons I cannot understand. I mean, we spend the night together, and we held each other when we fell asleep. In the morning, I drop her off at the station on my way to work, because I had to hold a seminar. I was so happy and so complete. We talked and joked when she called me around noon yesterday. At 8 pm she called again and told me there was something we needed to talk about, but I am not sure if I should do this over the phone. Really, when she said those words, I knew what was coming, so I asked her: If you are going to tell me that you don't want to be in this relationship any longer, please tell me now. She told me. Apparently, I am a nice guy and we should stay good friends. Still, NOT smoking. But I want a cig so badly, I need some moral support. 3 months, and she rips my heart out. Brilliant. Ah, I just needed to vent. Go on, there is nothing to see here...
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
Go to gym and vent your anger out punching some bags. As often as needed. Marc
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Strahil wrote:
Kill that girl! She don't deserve you
What is wrong with you? I LOVE her. I just want her to be happy, not to hurt her.
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
I don't really mean to KILL her ! You will forget your feelings. Believe me ! 3 months is a short period to LOVE someone! Sometimes the things don't happens your way. Forget her and find someone that loves you. Sometimes you think that your in love but the real love is somewhere else. And don't smoke because X| X| X| and your friends will :((:((:((:((:(( http://www.cartoonstock.com/newscartoons/cartoonists/gcu/lowres/gcun6l.jpg :laugh:
Strahil Shorgov
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Dear fellow CPians, thank you for your feedback. If I had to explain someone why I hang out in a programming community, I'd show them this thread. Thanks, everyone. :rose:
huh! why to show them. Are we to prove ourselves?? We are the happy bunch here...Lets us spread that as much as we can. I'm really proud to be having this kind of conversation with you. You will do great things Man. Gear up! and Sprint ahead :-D. We will follow u ;)
There are only two kinds of people who are really fascinating-people who know absolutely everything, and people who know absolutely nothing. Oscar Wilde (1854-1900) Regards... Shouvik
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Go to gym and vent your anger out punching some bags. As often as needed. Marc
Funny thing: I followed her suggestion when I joined the local gym. Don't really feel like going there. But I've cleaned my turnout gear, polished my boots, desinfected my SCBA-mask and written my name on the new gloves and NOMEX(tm)-pants. Also, I don't feel angry. Just devastated and alone. Will paint a few of my chairs blue and yellow this evening. Oh, and I'll visit my sister and niece before they go into their first (cheap) holiday with a few friends who offered to take them along. I know that everything will be alright. Might take a while, though, because this hit me out of the blue. And I really do love her.
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
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Well, a few weeks ago, I proudly announced that I had made 2 months without a cig. And that it was all due to my girlfriend. Well, I am proud to announce that I still don't smoke, even though my girlfriend yesterday (Wednesday) became my ex-girlfriend for reasons I cannot understand. I mean, we spend the night together, and we held each other when we fell asleep. In the morning, I drop her off at the station on my way to work, because I had to hold a seminar. I was so happy and so complete. We talked and joked when she called me around noon yesterday. At 8 pm she called again and told me there was something we needed to talk about, but I am not sure if I should do this over the phone. Really, when she said those words, I knew what was coming, so I asked her: If you are going to tell me that you don't want to be in this relationship any longer, please tell me now. She told me. Apparently, I am a nice guy and we should stay good friends. Still, NOT smoking. But I want a cig so badly, I need some moral support. 3 months, and she rips my heart out. Brilliant. Ah, I just needed to vent. Go on, there is nothing to see here...
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
Sebastian Schneider wrote:
I mean, we spend the night together, and we held each other when we fell asleep.
Sebastian Schneider wrote:
At 8 pm she called again and told me there was something we needed to talk about, but I am not sure if I should do this over the phone. Really, when she said those words, I knew what was coming, so I asked her: If you are going to tell me that you don't want to be in this relationship any longer, please tell me now. She told me.
Hmmm.....wonder if there's a connection :suss:
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Well, a few weeks ago, I proudly announced that I had made 2 months without a cig. And that it was all due to my girlfriend. Well, I am proud to announce that I still don't smoke, even though my girlfriend yesterday (Wednesday) became my ex-girlfriend for reasons I cannot understand. I mean, we spend the night together, and we held each other when we fell asleep. In the morning, I drop her off at the station on my way to work, because I had to hold a seminar. I was so happy and so complete. We talked and joked when she called me around noon yesterday. At 8 pm she called again and told me there was something we needed to talk about, but I am not sure if I should do this over the phone. Really, when she said those words, I knew what was coming, so I asked her: If you are going to tell me that you don't want to be in this relationship any longer, please tell me now. She told me. Apparently, I am a nice guy and we should stay good friends. Still, NOT smoking. But I want a cig so badly, I need some moral support. 3 months, and she rips my heart out. Brilliant. Ah, I just needed to vent. Go on, there is nothing to see here...
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
I've never smoked, so it's hard for me to totally relate. But I hope you can fight the urge...I really do. Sorry to hear about the girl. I don't understand my own gender (or 'species' as I sometimes refer to us) sometimes. Just remember that there is someone out there for you.
_____________________________________________ Flea Market! It's just like...it's just like...A MINI-MALL!
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Well, a few weeks ago, I proudly announced that I had made 2 months without a cig. And that it was all due to my girlfriend. Well, I am proud to announce that I still don't smoke, even though my girlfriend yesterday (Wednesday) became my ex-girlfriend for reasons I cannot understand. I mean, we spend the night together, and we held each other when we fell asleep. In the morning, I drop her off at the station on my way to work, because I had to hold a seminar. I was so happy and so complete. We talked and joked when she called me around noon yesterday. At 8 pm she called again and told me there was something we needed to talk about, but I am not sure if I should do this over the phone. Really, when she said those words, I knew what was coming, so I asked her: If you are going to tell me that you don't want to be in this relationship any longer, please tell me now. She told me. Apparently, I am a nice guy and we should stay good friends. Still, NOT smoking. But I want a cig so badly, I need some moral support. 3 months, and she rips my heart out. Brilliant. Ah, I just needed to vent. Go on, there is nothing to see here...
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
Sebastian Schneider wrote:
Still, NOT smoking. But I want a cig so badly, I need some moral support.
Cigs can ruin your life. The girls is NOT worth that. You lost the girl, that's bad enough. So don't through away everything else you won in the last three months. You gained a smoke-free life! That's far more than ten women.
Sebastian Schneider wrote:
At 8 pm she called again and told me there was something we needed to talk about, but I am not sure if I should do this over the phone.
It could have been everything, even the three words of no return ("I am pregnant"). No reason to expect some kind of attack, yet. The whole story might have taken a different path with an answer like "let's meet in the evening" ... but don't think too much about it, you cannot change it anymore (unless you dare calling and asking her again).
Sebastian Schneider wrote:
Apparently, I am a nice guy
You may be a nice guy, but I'm not sure about her. ;) Honestly, sentences like that suck X|
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Sebastian Schneider wrote:
Still, NOT smoking. But I want a cig so badly, I need some moral support.
Cigs can ruin your life. The girls is NOT worth that. You lost the girl, that's bad enough. So don't through away everything else you won in the last three months. You gained a smoke-free life! That's far more than ten women.
Sebastian Schneider wrote:
At 8 pm she called again and told me there was something we needed to talk about, but I am not sure if I should do this over the phone.
It could have been everything, even the three words of no return ("I am pregnant"). No reason to expect some kind of attack, yet. The whole story might have taken a different path with an answer like "let's meet in the evening" ... but don't think too much about it, you cannot change it anymore (unless you dare calling and asking her again).
Sebastian Schneider wrote:
Apparently, I am a nice guy
You may be a nice guy, but I'm not sure about her. ;) Honestly, sentences like that suck X|
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Corinna John wrote:
You may be a nice guy, but I'm not sure about her.
She is the sweetest person I've ever known. Just hearing her voice makes me want to curl up and die now (No, I am not suicidal, that is just a phrase which conveys the feelings I have.) Well, I've learned before that you need to accept what you cannot change. Again: Thank you, everyone. You gals and guys are great.
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
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I've never smoked, so it's hard for me to totally relate. But I hope you can fight the urge...I really do. Sorry to hear about the girl. I don't understand my own gender (or 'species' as I sometimes refer to us) sometimes. Just remember that there is someone out there for you.
_____________________________________________ Flea Market! It's just like...it's just like...A MINI-MALL!
I am not sure about that right now. Time will tell.
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
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Corinna John wrote:
You may be a nice guy, but I'm not sure about her.
She is the sweetest person I've ever known. Just hearing her voice makes me want to curl up and die now (No, I am not suicidal, that is just a phrase which conveys the feelings I have.) Well, I've learned before that you need to accept what you cannot change. Again: Thank you, everyone. You gals and guys are great.
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
But why didn't you try to invite her for today or saturday to talk about it again? There must be a reason that made her leave - maybe you two can change that reason together. If you don't see any chance to meet her again and you don't want to know her reasons, well, she might have been the wrong person for you.
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But why didn't you try to invite her for today or saturday to talk about it again? There must be a reason that made her leave - maybe you two can change that reason together. If you don't see any chance to meet her again and you don't want to know her reasons, well, she might have been the wrong person for you.
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I'd love to change everything. I am willing to change anything she asks. But she sounded very final in what she said, and I am somewhat afraid. I will try and call her tonight, maybe go to Cologne on Saturday. Maybe all is not lost. I'll try. Thanks.
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
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Well, a few weeks ago, I proudly announced that I had made 2 months without a cig. And that it was all due to my girlfriend. Well, I am proud to announce that I still don't smoke, even though my girlfriend yesterday (Wednesday) became my ex-girlfriend for reasons I cannot understand. I mean, we spend the night together, and we held each other when we fell asleep. In the morning, I drop her off at the station on my way to work, because I had to hold a seminar. I was so happy and so complete. We talked and joked when she called me around noon yesterday. At 8 pm she called again and told me there was something we needed to talk about, but I am not sure if I should do this over the phone. Really, when she said those words, I knew what was coming, so I asked her: If you are going to tell me that you don't want to be in this relationship any longer, please tell me now. She told me. Apparently, I am a nice guy and we should stay good friends. Still, NOT smoking. But I want a cig so badly, I need some moral support. 3 months, and she rips my heart out. Brilliant. Ah, I just needed to vent. Go on, there is nothing to see here...
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
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I'd love to change everything. I am willing to change anything she asks. But she sounded very final in what she said, and I am somewhat afraid. I will try and call her tonight, maybe go to Cologne on Saturday. Maybe all is not lost. I'll try. Thanks.
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
Na endlich! :) Weißte, wenn wir Weiber 'ne Krise haben sagen wir viel im Affekt, sofern man uns keinen Sekundenkleber in den Lippenstift mischt. Eine Nacht später kann die Welt schon ganz anders aussehen. I hope the best for you both! :rose:
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Na endlich! :) Weißte, wenn wir Weiber 'ne Krise haben sagen wir viel im Affekt, sofern man uns keinen Sekundenkleber in den Lippenstift mischt. Eine Nacht später kann die Welt schon ganz anders aussehen. I hope the best for you both! :rose:
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Na endlich! :) Weißte, wenn wir Weiber 'ne Krise haben sagen wir viel im Affekt, sofern man uns keinen Sekundenkleber in den Lippenstift mischt. Eine Nacht später kann die Welt schon ganz anders aussehen. I hope the best for you both! :rose:
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Wenn ich nicht so verdammt verliebt wäre, hätte auch das rationale Denken funktioniert. Ich hoffe auf das Beste. Wenns nicht klappt: Gibt ja die Lounge, um sich auszuheulen. Danke.
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
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Corinna gave me a woman's perspective on this, I replied that I'll keep some hope - and come crying into the Lounge if it does not work out.
Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton
