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  • realJSOPR realJSOP

    Cathy wrote: ? If you knew someone was going to marry someone who was cheating on them, wouldn't you feel obligated to let them know? No. It's none of my business. Cathy wrote: Oh go away! No way, I'm here for the duration. Learn it. Live it. Love it. "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio.

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    Cathy
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    John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote: Learn it. Live it. Love it. No John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote: No. It's none of my business. Yes, it is. If you see someone about to fall off a cliff, you are morally obligated to say watch out. Cathy Life's uncertain, have dessert first!

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      John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote: Learn it. Live it. Love it. No John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote: No. It's none of my business. Yes, it is. If you see someone about to fall off a cliff, you are morally obligated to say watch out. Cathy Life's uncertain, have dessert first!

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      >NO Resistance is futile. > Yes, it is. If you see someone about to fall > off a cliff, you are morally obligated to say > watch out. First, you have to ask yourself if society wouldn't be better off without the moron that's about to walk off said cliff. "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio.

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      • N Navin

        A kit is a baby ferret. No generalization is 100% true. Not even this one.

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        Daniel Ferguson
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        My roomates have a ferret, but it's grown. I can only imagine what a ferret with more energy and less bladder control would be like. :eek: "Until you spoke, and showed me understanding is a dream"
        - How Beautiful You Are, The Cure

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        • realJSOPR realJSOP

          Anybody that comes here for relationship help is implicitly a freakin loser. If I was feeling a bit less sensitive and caring, I would have suggested another course of action... like learning to swallow... Just be a big girl (or whatever) and chalk it up as a lesson learned instead of complaining to a bunch of propeller heads that you've been dumped by someone who's three compiler warnings short of a clean build himself. There's your dry leaves... "...the staggering layers of obscenity in your statement make it a work of art on so many levels." - Jason Jystad, 10/26/2001 Please review the Legal Disclaimer in my bio.

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          Daniel Ferguson
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          John Simmons / outlaw programmer wrote: Just be a big girl (or whatever) and chalk it up as a lesson learned instead of complaining to a bunch of propeller heads that you've been dumped by someone who's three compiler warnings short of a clean build himself. Good advice and funny as well! :-D :laugh: "Until you spoke, and showed me understanding is a dream"
          - How Beautiful You Are, The Cure

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          • T Tom Archer

            sAmAnThA wrote: you know what I mean Ya' think? :D :laugh: Cheers, Tom Archer Author - Inside C#, Visual C++.NET Bible

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            Chris Maunder
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            lmao. I can see your expression now. :D cheers, Chris Maunder he was a VB programmer, but he got better - Christian Graus

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              I'm feeling depressed today... My boyfriend is getting married on Saturday... I just learned it a week ago... If only I could go to the church and interrupt their wedding... He just did it by mistake... just to make revenge on me... but I know I'm the one he really loves... Should I email this girl and tell her everything about us? What shall I do? :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha

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              Maxwell Chen
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              Let go and don't do anything to revenge back again. BTW, only people who signed in can post on the Lounge, why does your post with a gray-colored icon? Isn't that sort of icon for anonymous? Maxwell Chen Lets make bugs better!

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                I'm feeling depressed today... My boyfriend is getting married on Saturday... I just learned it a week ago... If only I could go to the church and interrupt their wedding... He just did it by mistake... just to make revenge on me... but I know I'm the one he really loves... Should I email this girl and tell her everything about us? What shall I do? :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha

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                Brian Delahunty
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                Question... If the wedding is stopped, would you still want to be with him???


                "When a friend hurts us, we should write it down in the sand, where the winds of forgiveness get in charge of erasing it away, and when something great happens, we should engrave it in the stone of the memory of the heart, where no wind can erase it" Nish on life [methinks] "It's The Soapbox; topics are optional" Shog 9

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                  I'm feeling depressed today... My boyfriend is getting married on Saturday... I just learned it a week ago... If only I could go to the church and interrupt their wedding... He just did it by mistake... just to make revenge on me... but I know I'm the one he really loves... Should I email this girl and tell her everything about us? What shall I do? :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha

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                  Samantha, you care a lot for him but sadly he is a weak pathetic jerk ! There are lots of nice guys out there who deserve you and he obviously doesn't. I hope the pain fades soon and you begin to enjoy life again *hug* :rose: Would you like to meet my teddy bear ?

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                    Question... If the wedding is stopped, would you still want to be with him???


                    "When a friend hurts us, we should write it down in the sand, where the winds of forgiveness get in charge of erasing it away, and when something great happens, we should engrave it in the stone of the memory of the heart, where no wind can erase it" Nish on life [methinks] "It's The Soapbox; topics are optional" Shog 9

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                    sAmAnThA
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                    Brian Delahunty wrote: Question... If the wedding is stopped, would you still want to be with him??? Hmmm... tough question, eh? "When a friend hurts us, we should write it down in the sand, where the winds of forgiveness get in charge of erasing it away" --- Nish.. Well, that's true...We're just human that makes mistakes... and easily forgive. :| :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
                    "I respect a person who gives respect to other people, but I feel pity to a person who is rude and seems to hate the world except by himself.."

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                    • M Maxwell Chen

                      Let go and don't do anything to revenge back again. BTW, only people who signed in can post on the Lounge, why does your post with a gray-colored icon? Isn't that sort of icon for anonymous? Maxwell Chen Lets make bugs better!

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                      sAmAnThA
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                      Maxwell Chen wrote: why does your post with a gray-colored icon? Isn't that sort of icon for anonymous? I'm not sure why... I think maybe because of my html tags... :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
                      "I respect a person who gives respect to other people, but I feel pity to a person who is rude and seems to hate the world except by himself.."

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                        Samantha, you care a lot for him but sadly he is a weak pathetic jerk ! There are lots of nice guys out there who deserve you and he obviously doesn't. I hope the pain fades soon and you begin to enjoy life again *hug* :rose: Would you like to meet my teddy bear ?

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                        sAmAnThA
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                        Trollslayer wrote: I hope the pain fades soon and you begin to enjoy life again *hug* Ohh, thanks... thanks for the *hug* too... :) :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
                        "I respect a person who gives respect to other people, but I feel pity to a person who is rude and seems to hate the world except by himself.."

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                          sAmAnThA wrote: Should I email her? Problem I: now, when she's getting married, she won't believe you. For her it will be just you being mad about he picked her not you. Problem II: whenever their marriage breaks, you will be the one who didn't tell her. So this POS maneuvered you into a loose-loose situation. If you like *her*, and if you believe he will treat her the same he did treat you, you should tell her. The "morally best" would be: go tell him that if he doesn't tell her, you tell her. But I guess he just tell her "Samantha was here and totally mad, and telling lies and everything." And for you - Shit. So.. tell her: but personally or by phone, or write a letter - not per e-mail. (But that's only my opinion, I seem to be born in the dark ages ;) Be calm, be "done with him", don't show hatred for him, don't tell her what to do: it's her thing. On the other hand, if they have a closer connection than you and her - except the sex thingie -, it might work out good for both of them (and telling her might destroy this) Sorry for saying that. Oh, Clickety Click :-o I'm so embarassed... the link of course should have been Clickety Click


                          Back in the days before yer Gighertz and Teraflops there was something we old timers called paranoia. Andrew Torrance, The Lounge   [sighist]

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                          peterchen wrote: So.. tell her but personally or by phone, or write a letter - not per e-mail. I e-mailed her... I don't know her phone no. and her complete address. :( peterchen wrote: Clickety Click Ohh.. thanks, that's really cute... :) :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
                          "I respect a person who gives respect to other people, but I feel pity to a person who is rude and seems to hate the world except by himself.."

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                            I'm feeling depressed today... My boyfriend is getting married on Saturday... I just learned it a week ago... If only I could go to the church and interrupt their wedding... He just did it by mistake... just to make revenge on me... but I know I'm the one he really loves... Should I email this girl and tell her everything about us? What shall I do? :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha

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                            sAmAnThA****_My boyfriend is getting married on Saturday He's not your boyfriend then, is he ? This sounds like 'Fatal Attraction' to me. You should add a photo to your profile so that any CPians who meet you in a bar are forewarned. Christian I am completely intolerant of stupidity. Stupidity is, of course, anything that doesn't conform to my way of thinking. - Jamie Hale - 29/05/2002 Half the reason people switch away from VB is to find out what actually goes on.. and then like me they find out that they weren't quite as good as they thought - they've been nannied. - Alex, 13 June 2002_

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                              Samantha, you care a lot for him but sadly he is a weak pathetic jerk ! There are lots of nice guys out there who deserve you and he obviously doesn't. I hope the pain fades soon and you begin to enjoy life again *hug* :rose: Would you like to meet my teddy bear ?

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                              Christian Graus
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                              Trollslayer wrote: you care a lot for him but sadly he is a weak pathetic jerk ! Do you know this woman, or is this standard female logic - he doesn't want you so he sucks ? Christian I am completely intolerant of stupidity. Stupidity is, of course, anything that doesn't conform to my way of thinking. - Jamie Hale - 29/05/2002 Half the reason people switch away from VB is to find out what actually goes on.. and then like me they find out that they weren't quite as good as they thought - they've been nannied. - Alex, 13 June 2002

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                                sAmAnThA****_My boyfriend is getting married on Saturday He's not your boyfriend then, is he ? This sounds like 'Fatal Attraction' to me. You should add a photo to your profile so that any CPians who meet you in a bar are forewarned. Christian I am completely intolerant of stupidity. Stupidity is, of course, anything that doesn't conform to my way of thinking. - Jamie Hale - 29/05/2002 Half the reason people switch away from VB is to find out what actually goes on.. and then like me they find out that they weren't quite as good as they thought - they've been nannied. - Alex, 13 June 2002_

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                                sAmAnThA
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                                Christian Graus wrote: You should add a photo to your profile so that any CPians who meet you in a bar are forewarned. Ohh sure, you just wanna see what I looked like.. but don't worry I don't go to the bar, CPians are safe...:rolleyes: :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
                                "I respect a person who gives respect to other people, but I feel pity to a person who is rude and seems to hate the world except by himself.."

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                                  Christian Graus wrote: You should add a photo to your profile so that any CPians who meet you in a bar are forewarned. Ohh sure, you just wanna see what I looked like.. but don't worry I don't go to the bar, CPians are safe...:rolleyes: :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
                                  "I respect a person who gives respect to other people, but I feel pity to a person who is rude and seems to hate the world except by himself.."

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                                  Christian Graus
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                                  ACtually, in the absence of a photo I usually assume that people are male, especially if they take a female name and talk about their boyfriends. Not that I care what sex you are. Christian I am completely intolerant of stupidity. Stupidity is, of course, anything that doesn't conform to my way of thinking. - Jamie Hale - 29/05/2002 Half the reason people switch away from VB is to find out what actually goes on.. and then like me they find out that they weren't quite as good as they thought - they've been nannied. - Alex, 13 June 2002

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                                    peterchen wrote: So.. tell her but personally or by phone, or write a letter - not per e-mail. I e-mailed her... I don't know her phone no. and her complete address. :( peterchen wrote: Clickety Click Ohh.. thanks, that's really cute... :) :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
                                    "I respect a person who gives respect to other people, but I feel pity to a person who is rude and seems to hate the world except by himself.."

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                                    SO... how's it going now, If I may ask?


                                    We are ugly but we have the music Leonhard Cohen   [sighist]

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                                      SO... how's it going now, If I may ask?


                                      We are ugly but we have the music Leonhard Cohen   [sighist]

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                                      sAmAnThA
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                                      peterchen wrote: SO... how's it going now, If I may ask? The girl knows already co'z the guy told him everything.. they had a fight... he phoned me and said that he missed me, and blah, blah, blah... Ohh well, I didn't give attention on everything he said ... I have to move on... :( :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
                                      "I respect a person who gives respect to other people, but I feel pity to a person who is rude and seems to hate the world except by himself.."

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