Cheer me up.... I'm soooo saaaaad.....
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Question... If the wedding is stopped, would you still want to be with him???
"When a friend hurts us, we should write it down in the sand, where the winds of forgiveness get in charge of erasing it away, and when something great happens, we should engrave it in the stone of the memory of the heart, where no wind can erase it" Nish on life [methinks] "It's The Soapbox; topics are optional" Shog 9
Brian Delahunty wrote: Question... If the wedding is stopped, would you still want to be with him??? Hmmm... tough question, eh? "When a friend hurts us, we should write it down in the sand, where the winds of forgiveness get in charge of erasing it away" --- Nish.. Well, that's true...We're just human that makes mistakes... and easily forgive. :| :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
"I respect a person who gives respect to other people, but I feel pity to a person who is rude and seems to hate the world except by himself.." -
Let go and don't do anything to revenge back again. BTW, only people who signed in can post on the Lounge, why does your post with a gray-colored icon? Isn't that sort of icon for anonymous? Maxwell Chen Lets make bugs better!
Maxwell Chen wrote: why does your post with a gray-colored icon? Isn't that sort of icon for anonymous? I'm not sure why... I think maybe because of my html tags... :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
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Samantha, you care a lot for him but sadly he is a weak pathetic jerk ! There are lots of nice guys out there who deserve you and he obviously doesn't. I hope the pain fades soon and you begin to enjoy life again *hug* :rose: Would you like to meet my teddy bear ?
Trollslayer wrote: I hope the pain fades soon and you begin to enjoy life again *hug* Ohh, thanks... thanks for the *hug* too... :) :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
"I respect a person who gives respect to other people, but I feel pity to a person who is rude and seems to hate the world except by himself.." -
sAmAnThA wrote: Should I email her? Problem I: now, when she's getting married, she won't believe you. For her it will be just you being mad about he picked her not you. Problem II: whenever their marriage breaks, you will be the one who didn't tell her. So this POS maneuvered you into a loose-loose situation. If you like *her*, and if you believe he will treat her the same he did treat you, you should tell her. The "morally best" would be: go tell him that if he doesn't tell her, you tell her. But I guess he just tell her "Samantha was here and totally mad, and telling lies and everything." And for you - Shit. So.. tell her: but personally or by phone, or write a letter - not per e-mail. (But that's only my opinion, I seem to be born in the dark ages ;) Be calm, be "done with him", don't show hatred for him, don't tell her what to do: it's her thing. On the other hand, if they have a closer connection than you and her - except the sex thingie -, it might work out good for both of them (and telling her might destroy this) Sorry for saying that. Oh, Clickety Click :-o I'm so embarassed... the link of course should have been Clickety Click
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peterchen wrote: So.. tell her but personally or by phone, or write a letter - not per e-mail. I e-mailed her... I don't know her phone no. and her complete address. :( peterchen wrote: Clickety Click Ohh.. thanks, that's really cute... :) :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
"I respect a person who gives respect to other people, but I feel pity to a person who is rude and seems to hate the world except by himself.." -
I'm feeling depressed today... My boyfriend is getting married on Saturday... I just learned it a week ago... If only I could go to the church and interrupt their wedding... He just did it by mistake... just to make revenge on me... but I know I'm the one he really loves... Should I email this girl and tell her everything about us? What shall I do? :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
sAmAnThA****_My boyfriend is getting married on Saturday He's not your boyfriend then, is he ? This sounds like 'Fatal Attraction' to me. You should add a photo to your profile so that any CPians who meet you in a bar are forewarned. Christian I am completely intolerant of stupidity. Stupidity is, of course, anything that doesn't conform to my way of thinking. - Jamie Hale - 29/05/2002 Half the reason people switch away from VB is to find out what actually goes on.. and then like me they find out that they weren't quite as good as they thought - they've been nannied. - Alex, 13 June 2002_
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Samantha, you care a lot for him but sadly he is a weak pathetic jerk ! There are lots of nice guys out there who deserve you and he obviously doesn't. I hope the pain fades soon and you begin to enjoy life again *hug* :rose: Would you like to meet my teddy bear ?
Trollslayer wrote: you care a lot for him but sadly he is a weak pathetic jerk ! Do you know this woman, or is this standard female logic - he doesn't want you so he sucks ? Christian I am completely intolerant of stupidity. Stupidity is, of course, anything that doesn't conform to my way of thinking. - Jamie Hale - 29/05/2002 Half the reason people switch away from VB is to find out what actually goes on.. and then like me they find out that they weren't quite as good as they thought - they've been nannied. - Alex, 13 June 2002
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sAmAnThA****_My boyfriend is getting married on Saturday He's not your boyfriend then, is he ? This sounds like 'Fatal Attraction' to me. You should add a photo to your profile so that any CPians who meet you in a bar are forewarned. Christian I am completely intolerant of stupidity. Stupidity is, of course, anything that doesn't conform to my way of thinking. - Jamie Hale - 29/05/2002 Half the reason people switch away from VB is to find out what actually goes on.. and then like me they find out that they weren't quite as good as they thought - they've been nannied. - Alex, 13 June 2002_
Christian Graus wrote: You should add a photo to your profile so that any CPians who meet you in a bar are forewarned. Ohh sure, you just wanna see what I looked like.. but don't worry I don't go to the bar, CPians are safe...:rolleyes: :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
"I respect a person who gives respect to other people, but I feel pity to a person who is rude and seems to hate the world except by himself.." -
Christian Graus wrote: You should add a photo to your profile so that any CPians who meet you in a bar are forewarned. Ohh sure, you just wanna see what I looked like.. but don't worry I don't go to the bar, CPians are safe...:rolleyes: :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
"I respect a person who gives respect to other people, but I feel pity to a person who is rude and seems to hate the world except by himself.."ACtually, in the absence of a photo I usually assume that people are male, especially if they take a female name and talk about their boyfriends. Not that I care what sex you are. Christian I am completely intolerant of stupidity. Stupidity is, of course, anything that doesn't conform to my way of thinking. - Jamie Hale - 29/05/2002 Half the reason people switch away from VB is to find out what actually goes on.. and then like me they find out that they weren't quite as good as they thought - they've been nannied. - Alex, 13 June 2002
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peterchen wrote: So.. tell her but personally or by phone, or write a letter - not per e-mail. I e-mailed her... I don't know her phone no. and her complete address. :( peterchen wrote: Clickety Click Ohh.. thanks, that's really cute... :) :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
"I respect a person who gives respect to other people, but I feel pity to a person who is rude and seems to hate the world except by himself.." -
peterchen wrote: SO... how's it going now, If I may ask? The girl knows already co'z the guy told him everything.. they had a fight... he phoned me and said that he missed me, and blah, blah, blah... Ohh well, I didn't give attention on everything he said ... I have to move on... :( :rose::rose::rose::rose::rose: Samantha
"I respect a person who gives respect to other people, but I feel pity to a person who is rude and seems to hate the world except by himself.."