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  • C Christian Graus

    jith - iii wrote:

    and do the needful.

    Excellent

    jith - iii wrote:

    you can not grow vertically and horizontally.

    What does this mean ? The core message here is, they need him more than he needs them

    Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "also I don't think "TranslateOneToTwoBillion OneHundredAndFortySevenMillion FourHundredAndEightyThreeThousand SixHundredAndFortySeven()" is a very good choice for a function name" - SpacixOne ( offering help to someone who really needed it ) ( spaces added for the benefit of people running at < 1280x1024 )

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    Abu Mami
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    Christian Graus wrote:

    jith - iii wrote: you can not grow vertically and horizontally. What does this mean ?

    Seems that if he doesn't take the job he won't gain weight or grow any taller.

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      My friend has got an offer from one of the leading software firms of India. As his present company is not willing to relieve him immediately he asked the HR of the new company for some time to join. See below, Hi Raj(name changed), Sorry to tell you that i need two months time to join you because the project which i am currently dealing with is going through a critical implementation phase. So i cannot leave the present company without a two months notice.I humbly request you to look into the matter and do the needful. and the reply from the HR Executive was this. You are denying an offer of a brand name and therefore will be mark blacklisted in the ---- group & other associated companies. Think about yourself first otherwise you can not grow vertically and horizontally. My trust is alive on you and I would suggest you to do not spoil the relations. Your DOJ with the company will be 10th December, take it or leave it. waiting, Now,What should be the response for this mail.Considering his skill and experience its not difficult for him to get other offers.

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      Abu Mami
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      jith - iii wrote:

      Now,What should be the response for this mail.Considering his skill and experience its not difficult for him to get other offers.

      Tell the HR exec to go pound salt. He's nuts. Would anybody want to work for an organization that relates to potential employees in such a manner?

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      • A Abu Mami

        Christian Graus wrote:

        jith - iii wrote: you can not grow vertically and horizontally. What does this mean ?

        Seems that if he doesn't take the job he won't gain weight or grow any taller.

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        Vasudevan Deepak Kumar
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        Abu Mami wrote:

        he won't gain weight or grow any taller

        Is that HR Executive is a saint or sage by any chance like 'Durvasa' (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Durvasa[^]) that he is cursing?

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        A pessimist sees only the dark side of the clouds, and mopes; a philosopher sees both sides, and shrugs; an optimist doesn't see the clouds at all - he's walking on them. --Leonard Louis Levinson

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        • A Abu Mami

          jith - iii wrote:

          Now,What should be the response for this mail.Considering his skill and experience its not difficult for him to get other offers.

          Tell the HR exec to go pound salt. He's nuts. Would anybody want to work for an organization that relates to potential employees in such a manner?

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          Vasudevan Deepak Kumar
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          Abu Mami wrote:

          that relates to potential employees in such a manner

          True. At least till the time the employee becomes a part of the (organizational) family, he should be treated on par a potential client. After joining, he is part of 'ONE' family, under the banner of the organization name. If at all such mundane things creep in, it just spells catastrophe on the healthy relationships and rapports in the organization and acts as a slow-poison to the growth of the organization itself.

          Vasudevan Deepak Kumar Personal Homepage
          Tech Gossips
          A pessimist sees only the dark side of the clouds, and mopes; a philosopher sees both sides, and shrugs; an optimist doesn't see the clouds at all - he's walking on them. --Leonard Louis Levinson

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          • J jith iii

            My friend has got an offer from one of the leading software firms of India. As his present company is not willing to relieve him immediately he asked the HR of the new company for some time to join. See below, Hi Raj(name changed), Sorry to tell you that i need two months time to join you because the project which i am currently dealing with is going through a critical implementation phase. So i cannot leave the present company without a two months notice.I humbly request you to look into the matter and do the needful. and the reply from the HR Executive was this. You are denying an offer of a brand name and therefore will be mark blacklisted in the ---- group & other associated companies. Think about yourself first otherwise you can not grow vertically and horizontally. My trust is alive on you and I would suggest you to do not spoil the relations. Your DOJ with the company will be 10th December, take it or leave it. waiting, Now,What should be the response for this mail.Considering his skill and experience its not difficult for him to get other offers.

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            Lost User
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            Does this guy work for the company your friend wants to join or is he a third party being payed for recuriting your friend. If he is a recruiter tell him to get stuffed. He'll want his comission a week later rather than not at all. Your friend might also like to point out something along the lines of... I feel my willingness to do the right thing by my current employer is representative of a personal quality that Company X should find attrative in an employee. CC the email to the new companies customer service and ask them to forward it to their HR

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            • J jith iii

              My friend has got an offer from one of the leading software firms of India. As his present company is not willing to relieve him immediately he asked the HR of the new company for some time to join. See below, Hi Raj(name changed), Sorry to tell you that i need two months time to join you because the project which i am currently dealing with is going through a critical implementation phase. So i cannot leave the present company without a two months notice.I humbly request you to look into the matter and do the needful. and the reply from the HR Executive was this. You are denying an offer of a brand name and therefore will be mark blacklisted in the ---- group & other associated companies. Think about yourself first otherwise you can not grow vertically and horizontally. My trust is alive on you and I would suggest you to do not spoil the relations. Your DOJ with the company will be 10th December, take it or leave it. waiting, Now,What should be the response for this mail.Considering his skill and experience its not difficult for him to get other offers.

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              leppie
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              Sounds like the wrong place to work.

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              • J jith iii

                My friend has got an offer from one of the leading software firms of India. As his present company is not willing to relieve him immediately he asked the HR of the new company for some time to join. See below, Hi Raj(name changed), Sorry to tell you that i need two months time to join you because the project which i am currently dealing with is going through a critical implementation phase. So i cannot leave the present company without a two months notice.I humbly request you to look into the matter and do the needful. and the reply from the HR Executive was this. You are denying an offer of a brand name and therefore will be mark blacklisted in the ---- group & other associated companies. Think about yourself first otherwise you can not grow vertically and horizontally. My trust is alive on you and I would suggest you to do not spoil the relations. Your DOJ with the company will be 10th December, take it or leave it. waiting, Now,What should be the response for this mail.Considering his skill and experience its not difficult for him to get other offers.

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                Simply don't reply, I know I wouldn't. I find it rather offensive and out of proportion to blacklist someone that is loyal and stands for his own integrity. If the market is as good as here in the Netherlands, he will sure find another company to work for.

                WM. What about weapons of mass-construction? "What? Its an Apple MacBook Pro. They are sexy!" - Paul Watson My blog

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                • J jith iii

                  My friend has got an offer from one of the leading software firms of India. As his present company is not willing to relieve him immediately he asked the HR of the new company for some time to join. See below, Hi Raj(name changed), Sorry to tell you that i need two months time to join you because the project which i am currently dealing with is going through a critical implementation phase. So i cannot leave the present company without a two months notice.I humbly request you to look into the matter and do the needful. and the reply from the HR Executive was this. You are denying an offer of a brand name and therefore will be mark blacklisted in the ---- group & other associated companies. Think about yourself first otherwise you can not grow vertically and horizontally. My trust is alive on you and I would suggest you to do not spoil the relations. Your DOJ with the company will be 10th December, take it or leave it. waiting, Now,What should be the response for this mail.Considering his skill and experience its not difficult for him to get other offers.

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                  R Giskard Reventlov
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                  Bizarre way to approach recruitment. In the UK it is, I believe, a criminal offence to 'blacklist' someone. Apart from any other consideration the blacklister would get sued.

                  home articles for dummies

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                  • L Lost User

                    Does this guy work for the company your friend wants to join or is he a third party being payed for recuriting your friend. If he is a recruiter tell him to get stuffed. He'll want his comission a week later rather than not at all. Your friend might also like to point out something along the lines of... I feel my willingness to do the right thing by my current employer is representative of a personal quality that Company X should find attrative in an employee. CC the email to the new companies customer service and ask them to forward it to their HR

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                    jith iii
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                    He is a HR executive of that company. My friend attended a direct interview and not through any consultancies. But the problem here is after exclating his resignation desires to his leads it may not be smooth to continue with the present company.

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                    • L leppie

                      Sounds like the wrong place to work.

                      xacc.ide
                      IronScheme a R5RS-compliant Scheme on the DLR
                      The rule of three: "The first time you notice something that might repeat, don't generalize it. The second time the situation occurs, develop in a similar fashion -- possibly even copy/paste -- but don't generalize yet. On the third time, look to generalize the approach."

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                      jith iii
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                      Well,this company is one among the biggies in the software services industry. I have friends working in the same company and most of them are happy. So can we take this as an immature response from an individual HR and should we consider this type of offer.

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                      • R R Giskard Reventlov

                        Bizarre way to approach recruitment. In the UK it is, I believe, a criminal offence to 'blacklist' someone. Apart from any other consideration the blacklister would get sued.

                        home articles for dummies

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                        Vasudevan Deepak Kumar
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                        digital man wrote:

                        blacklist

                        He is using 'blacklist' to blackmail him. 'Blackmail' is a colloqial word meaning 'unwarranted threat'.

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                        • J jith iii

                          Well,this company is one among the biggies in the software services industry. I have friends working in the same company and most of them are happy. So can we take this as an immature response from an individual HR and should we consider this type of offer.

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                          leppie
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                          Tell him to contact the HR director to tell them how insulted he feels by this individual, and because of that person, the job prospect has been made unattractive. I am sure they will appreciate the feedback. If nothing comes from it, well then it cant be that good.

                          xacc.ide
                          IronScheme a R5RS-compliant Scheme on the DLR
                          The rule of three: "The first time you notice something that might repeat, don't generalize it. The second time the situation occurs, develop in a similar fashion -- possibly even copy/paste -- but don't generalize yet. On the third time, look to generalize the approach."

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                          • V Vasudevan Deepak Kumar

                            digital man wrote:

                            blacklist

                            He is using 'blacklist' to blackmail him. 'Blackmail' is a colloqial word meaning 'unwarranted threat'.

                            Vasudevan Deepak Kumar Personal Homepage
                            Tech Gossips
                            A pessimist sees only the dark side of the clouds, and mopes; a philosopher sees both sides, and shrugs; an optimist doesn't see the clouds at all - he's walking on them. --Leonard Louis Levinson

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                            R Giskard Reventlov
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                            I know exactly what he is saying. In the UK the term blacklist (whilst inherently a threat) means that you are placed an on exclusion list of some sort. The common usage of blackmail is to extort money from somebody under the threat of exposure of some secret or other. Why is everyone so damned pedantic? Get a life.

                            home articles for dummies

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                            • J jith iii

                              My friend has got an offer from one of the leading software firms of India. As his present company is not willing to relieve him immediately he asked the HR of the new company for some time to join. See below, Hi Raj(name changed), Sorry to tell you that i need two months time to join you because the project which i am currently dealing with is going through a critical implementation phase. So i cannot leave the present company without a two months notice.I humbly request you to look into the matter and do the needful. and the reply from the HR Executive was this. You are denying an offer of a brand name and therefore will be mark blacklisted in the ---- group & other associated companies. Think about yourself first otherwise you can not grow vertically and horizontally. My trust is alive on you and I would suggest you to do not spoil the relations. Your DOJ with the company will be 10th December, take it or leave it. waiting, Now,What should be the response for this mail.Considering his skill and experience its not difficult for him to get other offers.

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                              Lost User
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                              Prat. Forward this email to the person who interviewed you and run.

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                              • C Christian Graus

                                jith - iii wrote:

                                and do the needful.

                                Excellent

                                jith - iii wrote:

                                you can not grow vertically and horizontally.

                                What does this mean ? The core message here is, they need him more than he needs them

                                Christian Graus - Microsoft MVP - C++ "also I don't think "TranslateOneToTwoBillion OneHundredAndFortySevenMillion FourHundredAndEightyThreeThousand SixHundredAndFortySeven()" is a very good choice for a function name" - SpacixOne ( offering help to someone who really needed it ) ( spaces added for the benefit of people running at < 1280x1024 )

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                                Who ate all the pies

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