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  • P Paul Watson

    Paul Conrad wrote:

    but when they start to tramp on other people's property or right of opinion (so much for equality at that point), then it becomes an issue.

    Yeah damnit. I think those homos should shut the fuck up. How dare they want to marry, the dirty bastards. Its not like marriage really means anything to them, they're just jealous and all. (Sure, violence is the last resort but what Prop8 represents will be seen to be an evil alongside segregation and female discrimination in years to come. It is denying basic rights to a subset of people. No vote should be had on it, it is not a matter of opinion or belief or the peoples will. If you deny me my basic rights I'm going to start giving your white picket fence a good roasting.)

    cheers, Paul M. Watson.

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    Paul Watson wrote:

    It is denying basic rights to a subset of people.

    No, it isn't. It's a legal and social construct, no more a basic right than paying taxes or becoming a notary public. And regardless of how the vote went on Prop8, there would still be people excluded. Until i can pick and choose random people to be considered "family" for tax purposes, it's merely a discussion of which subsets we want to favor and which ones we don't.

    Paul Watson wrote:

    No vote should be had on it, it is not a matter of opinion or belief or the peoples will.

    This is where the whole discussion goes awry - no matter what the proponents of Prop8 might think, it isn't going to stop anyone from being gay. It's merely the formalization of public opinion: will the people of California recognize unions declared between same-sex couples as "marriage", or will they not. Without the opinion of others, without the will of The People, the distinction is meaningless - therefore, it is a matter of opinion and the people's will.

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    You're right. These facts that you've laid out totally contradict the wild ramblings that I pulled off the back of cornflakes packets.

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    • E Ed Gadziemski

      United Nations Convention on the Consent to Marriage, Minimum Age for Marriage and Registration of Marriages (1962)[^]

      As soon as a person is legally entitled, he or she has the right to marry and have a family. In doing this, neither the colour of your skin, the country you come from nor your region should be impediments. Men and women have the same rights when they are married and also when they are separated.

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      BoneSoft
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      :laugh: I love the plain English version for retards, followed by the "illustrated" version (which is the original version in almost unintelligible format with the picture of two happy people in a boot!) Guess the UN's web master does a little work between bong hits.


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      • E Ed Gadziemski

        United Nations Convention on the Consent to Marriage, Minimum Age for Marriage and Registration of Marriages (1962)[^]

        As soon as a person is legally entitled, he or she has the right to marry and have a family. In doing this, neither the colour of your skin, the country you come from nor your region should be impediments. Men and women have the same rights when they are married and also when they are separated.

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        Sorry - the UN can "legislate" anything they want. My view is that marriage is a legal / cultural construct and not a basic human right. IMHO if you have to put an age limit on it (16, 17, 18...) it isn't a basic human right.

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          Paul Watson wrote:

          It is denying basic rights to a subset of people.

          No, it isn't. It's a legal and social construct, no more a basic right than paying taxes or becoming a notary public. And regardless of how the vote went on Prop8, there would still be people excluded. Until i can pick and choose random people to be considered "family" for tax purposes, it's merely a discussion of which subsets we want to favor and which ones we don't.

          Paul Watson wrote:

          No vote should be had on it, it is not a matter of opinion or belief or the peoples will.

          This is where the whole discussion goes awry - no matter what the proponents of Prop8 might think, it isn't going to stop anyone from being gay. It's merely the formalization of public opinion: will the people of California recognize unions declared between same-sex couples as "marriage", or will they not. Without the opinion of others, without the will of The People, the distinction is meaningless - therefore, it is a matter of opinion and the people's will.

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          You're right. These facts that you've laid out totally contradict the wild ramblings that I pulled off the back of cornflakes packets.

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          Rob Graham
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          Most gay activists reject "civil union" as an acceptable alternative. They insist on the term marriage being defined to include them, rather than merely insisting on equal protection under the law. Those opposed want a traditional Christian religious definition: 1 man + 1 woman. No compromise is likely from the religious, so the issue will remain contested. The issue is more than just taxation, it is also right of survivorship, "next of kin" privileges, and a plethora of things more fundamental than tax preference. All of these could be had under a "Civil union" law, but this remains unacceptable to many gays. No compromise is likely from the gays, so the issue will remain contested. Idiocy on all sides.

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          • B BoneSoft

            I have no problem admitting that I am a little bitter over the election. Mostly because I feel like the country as a whole will suffer for his policies. I also recognize that this is all opinion on my part, and that time will tell if he was the better choice. But these people[^]... Proposition 8 has some truely sore losers.


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            Oakman
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            The state should provide only civil unions and leave marriage as something for churches to decide.

            Jon Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface

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              The state should provide only civil unions and leave marriage as something for churches to decide.

              Jon Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface

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              A Wong
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              Oakman wrote:

              The state should provide only civil unions and leave marriage as something for churches to decide.

              You meant the Church of Scientology right? Or is it the Church of Flying Spegehtti Monster?

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                The state should provide only civil unions and leave marriage as something for churches to decide.

                Jon Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface

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                Agreed, 5.

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                • B BoneSoft

                  Yeah, I'm all for civil unions. And I personally think that's a great solution. It should be a question of rights, not symantics. And that would guarantee rights.


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                  BoneSoft wrote:

                  It should be a question of rights, not symantics. And that would guarantee rights.

                  Actually, it wouldn't. If there are two paths enshrined in law, then there are two classes of citizens. However, civil unions are the solution if government gets out of the marriage business. Tell those who want to define marriage as a religious activity to have at it. However, if they want the rights guaranteed by society to stable couple, then they need to go down to city hall and register their civil union since their marriage certificate is just so much paper and carries no weight legally.

                  Your silly assed, irrelevant opinion has been duly noted. Now take it elsewhere!

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                    bulg wrote:

                    If it was to be put to a vote, they should never have passed legislation beforehand..

                    The didn't. The supposed legallity is from a California Supreme Court decision, not prior laws, and that same court will likely overturn this constitutional amendment as being "destructive of the constitution"

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                    Rob Graham wrote:

                    The supposed legallity is from a California Supreme Court decision, not prior laws,

                    Actually, the supreme court decision was based on prior law. The nondiscrimination clause in the California constitution. And the judges who gave it the initial go ahead in the appellate court were conservative.

                    Your silly assed, irrelevant opinion has been duly noted. Now take it elsewhere!

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                      Oakman wrote:

                      The state should provide only civil unions and leave marriage as something for churches to decide.

                      You meant the Church of Scientology right? Or is it the Church of Flying Spegehtti Monster?

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                      Rob Graham
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                      No.

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                      • A A Wong

                        Oakman wrote:

                        The state should provide only civil unions and leave marriage as something for churches to decide.

                        You meant the Church of Scientology right? Or is it the Church of Flying Spegehtti Monster?

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                        Oakman
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                        A Wong wrote:

                        You meant the Church of Scientology right? Or is it the Church of Flying Spegehtti Monster?

                        Both. Once marriage stops having any legal standing but becomes a religious rite - like Communion or a Beltane orgy - it can be whatever one your little heart desires. ;)

                        Jon Smith & Wesson: The original point and click interface

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                        • T Tim Craig

                          BoneSoft wrote:

                          It should be a question of rights, not symantics. And that would guarantee rights.

                          Actually, it wouldn't. If there are two paths enshrined in law, then there are two classes of citizens. However, civil unions are the solution if government gets out of the marriage business. Tell those who want to define marriage as a religious activity to have at it. However, if they want the rights guaranteed by society to stable couple, then they need to go down to city hall and register their civil union since their marriage certificate is just so much paper and carries no weight legally.

                          Your silly assed, irrelevant opinion has been duly noted. Now take it elsewhere!

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                          BoneSoft
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                          Tim Craig wrote:

                          then there are two classes of citizens

                          You mean two classes of legal unions for citizens. What would be the problem with that?


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                            Rob Graham wrote:

                            The supposed legallity is from a California Supreme Court decision, not prior laws,

                            Actually, the supreme court decision was based on prior law. The nondiscrimination clause in the California constitution. And the judges who gave it the initial go ahead in the appellate court were conservative.

                            Your silly assed, irrelevant opinion has been duly noted. Now take it elsewhere!

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                            I think the whole thing is a silly argument. Like Jon, I think we should drop "marriage" from the legal lexicon, and extend "civil union" with a detailed description of the obligations and privileges of that civil contractual agreement to any two people who wish to enter into it. I limit the concept to two people, because it becomes too complex to fairly administer dissolution if more than two are involved. I doubt if the emotionally invested on either side will ever agree though.

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                              Tim Craig wrote:

                              then there are two classes of citizens

                              You mean two classes of legal unions for citizens. What would be the problem with that?


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                              BoneSoft wrote:

                              What would be the problem with that?

                              As soon as you have two different classes of legal union, you create an opportunity for inequity in terms of equal protection under the law, and where the opportunity exists the reality will as well. The only excuse for having two different legal unions is to promote discrimination. It should be either just a church thing, or just a legal thing. I see nothing wrong with separating the concepts: no church can grant the legal state, no government the religious state.

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                                I think the whole thing is a silly argument. Like Jon, I think we should drop "marriage" from the legal lexicon, and extend "civil union" with a detailed description of the obligations and privileges of that civil contractual agreement to any two people who wish to enter into it. I limit the concept to two people, because it becomes too complex to fairly administer dissolution if more than two are involved. I doubt if the emotionally invested on either side will ever agree though.

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                                Lost User
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                                Rob Graham wrote:

                                I limit the concept to two people, because it becomes too complex to fairly administer dissolution if more than two are involved.

                                Betcha a dollar that the minute this was enacted we'd have a group of 3+ people screaming discrimination. Probably ex-communicated Mormons... :doh:

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                                  BoneSoft wrote:

                                  What would be the problem with that?

                                  As soon as you have two different classes of legal union, you create an opportunity for inequity in terms of equal protection under the law, and where the opportunity exists the reality will as well. The only excuse for having two different legal unions is to promote discrimination. It should be either just a church thing, or just a legal thing. I see nothing wrong with separating the concepts: no church can grant the legal state, no government the religious state.

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                                  BoneSoft
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                                  Rob Graham wrote:

                                  you create an opportunity for inequity in terms of equal protection under the law, and where the opportunity exists the reality will as well

                                  I don't think it necessarily would, but I guess I see the possibility. I don't see anything wrong with seperating them either. Which would amount to changing the text on a marriage license to say "Civil Union".


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                                    BoneSoft wrote:

                                    Proposition 8 has some truely sore losers.

                                    I agree. I don't care much about the whole thing, but I do wish gay couples (especially those that have been in committed relationships for many years) would be allowed to form civil unions. Unfortunately only a handful of states have civil unions. Here's[^] more on that.

                                    "When you reach a certain level of comfort, there's nothing wrong with paying somewhat more." -- John McCain in 2000, on his vote against lowering the top tax rate from 39% to Bush's proposed 35%.

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                                    Jason Henderson
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                                    I thought they already had civil unions in CA.

                                    "Make everything as simple as possible, but not simpler." - Albert Einstein

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                                      BoneSoft wrote:

                                      What would be the problem with that?

                                      As soon as you have two different classes of legal union, you create an opportunity for inequity in terms of equal protection under the law, and where the opportunity exists the reality will as well. The only excuse for having two different legal unions is to promote discrimination. It should be either just a church thing, or just a legal thing. I see nothing wrong with separating the concepts: no church can grant the legal state, no government the religious state.

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                                      Jason Henderson
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                                      We have the "married" and the "unmarried". I think those are already 2 different classes. What we have going on is a redefinition of a thousands of years old institution. Marriage is between a man and a woman and it always has been.

                                      "Make everything as simple as possible, but not simpler." - Albert Einstein

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                                        Rob Graham wrote:

                                        I limit the concept to two people, because it becomes too complex to fairly administer dissolution if more than two are involved.

                                        Betcha a dollar that the minute this was enacted we'd have a group of 3+ people screaming discrimination. Probably ex-communicated Mormons... :doh:

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                                        Or some farmer and his chicken.


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                                          I thought they already had civil unions in CA.

                                          "Make everything as simple as possible, but not simpler." - Albert Einstein

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                                          Ilion
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                                          Jason Henderson wrote:

                                          I thought they already had civil unions in CA.

                                          It's not about "civil unions," and it's not even about marriage (except in as far as there are people wanting to destroy marriage), and it's certainly not about equal rights (which they've had forever, in any event). It's about special privileges. It's about using governmental compulsion to force everyone else to approve of them.

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