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  • T Tim Craig

    Stan Shannon wrote:

    The government's only legitimate involvement in how human beings decide to associate with one another is when there is at least one individual in the relationship financially dependent upon the other(s).

    Gee, Stan. You mean like a slave? :laugh:

    Your silly assed, irrelevant opinion has been duly noted. Now take it elsewhere!

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    Oakman
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    Tim Craig wrote:

    You mean like a slave?

    Legally, children are slaves for all intents and purposes - and are emacipated upon a birthday or by act of a court before that.

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    • D DRHuff

      Mike Mullikin wrote:

      I guess I've never viewed marriage as a basic human right.

      I have always used a simple test to determine if something is a basic human right. Do you still have it if you are the only person on earth? Free speech - yep Right to property - yep (and a lot of property it is) Marriage - nope, nobody to be married to Health Care - only what you can provide for yourself Food - only what you can provide for yourself As for gay marriage - knock yourselves out - quickly followed by gay divorce...

      I'm pretty sure I would not like to live in a world in which I would never be offended. I am absolutely certain I don't want to live in a world in which you would never be offended. Dave

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      soap brain
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      DRHuff wrote:

      I have always used a simple test to determine if something is a basic human right. Do you still have it if you are the only person on earth? Free speech - yep Right to property - yep (and a lot of property it is) Marriage - nope, nobody to be married to Health Care - only what you can provide for yourself Food - only what you can provide for yourself

      I don't agree with the efficacy of that test. You don't have any rights when you're the only one left on Earth. The concept would make no sense. Sure you can talk freely, and take whatever property you like, but what determines if it's a right or not? Why do you not have the right to get married? Just because there are no women to get married to, doesn't mean you don't have the right to. You can take whatever food you like, just as you can take whatever property you like, so how is the latter a right and the former not?

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      • T Tim Craig

        BoneSoft wrote:

        And the gay activists are probably more interested in agitating the religious than they are the marriage part.

        So equal rights and fair treatment just don't enter into their thinking? Something like 10% of the population woke up one morning and decided, I think I'll become homosexual to see how stirred up I can make the religious right?

        Your silly assed, irrelevant opinion has been duly noted. Now take it elsewhere!

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        BoneSoft
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        Tim Craig wrote:

        So equal rights and fair treatment just don't enter into their thinking?

        The vocal activist minority that's causing the most problems? No. The quite majority of them who actually brought this issue up and gave the whackos their talking points? Yes.

        Tim Craig wrote:

        Something like 10% of the population woke up one morning and decided, I think I'll become homosexual to see how stirred up I can make the religious right?

        Good God, don't start heading in that direction, we were having an actual discussion. Don't turn it into another SB fiasco where we assume the worst of every comment because the other guy HAS to be a complete whak-job. Give me the credit I deserve so I can do the same for you.


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        • R Rob Graham

          If it only impacted things like this forum, I would say argue away. Unfortunately this is one of several issues that distract from addressing problems that may make this one and the other "social issues" like it mute.

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          BoneSoft
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          I hear you. The economy is about to show people a pucker factor they weren't aware existed.


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          • S soap brain

            DRHuff wrote:

            I have always used a simple test to determine if something is a basic human right. Do you still have it if you are the only person on earth? Free speech - yep Right to property - yep (and a lot of property it is) Marriage - nope, nobody to be married to Health Care - only what you can provide for yourself Food - only what you can provide for yourself

            I don't agree with the efficacy of that test. You don't have any rights when you're the only one left on Earth. The concept would make no sense. Sure you can talk freely, and take whatever property you like, but what determines if it's a right or not? Why do you not have the right to get married? Just because there are no women to get married to, doesn't mean you don't have the right to. You can take whatever food you like, just as you can take whatever property you like, so how is the latter a right and the former not?

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            Oakman
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            You're a kid. You have no rights ;)

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            • O Oakman

              You're a kid. You have no rights ;)

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              soap brain
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              I have the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of CHILLING OUT! :cool::cool::cool:

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              • S soap brain

                What rights of others are they taking away? Their right to be morally outraged by the gross gays? Their right to cling to their worthless traditions ad nauseum? Their right to impose themselves on others for no reason other than that they feel like it? Their right to force their values lynch-mob-style on weaker minorities?

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                Christian Graus
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                They are making physical threats and attacking people. I am with the gays on this broadly, what they do in private is not my business, and I don't care if they get married. But, if they start to be hitting people, then they lose my sympathy.

                Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. "Iam doing the browsing center project in vb.net using c# coding" - this is why I don't answer questions much anymore. Oh, and Microsoft doesn't want me to.

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                • S soap brain

                  I have the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of CHILLING OUT! :cool::cool::cool:

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                  Oakman
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                  Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

                  right to life

                  mebbe

                  Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

                  liberty

                  'fraid not

                  Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

                  CHILLING OUT

                  Like a fine wine?

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                  • C Christian Graus

                    They are making physical threats and attacking people. I am with the gays on this broadly, what they do in private is not my business, and I don't care if they get married. But, if they start to be hitting people, then they lose my sympathy.

                    Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. "Iam doing the browsing center project in vb.net using c# coding" - this is why I don't answer questions much anymore. Oh, and Microsoft doesn't want me to.

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                    soap brain
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                    Yeah, I don't think violence is the right thing to do, but they're understandably really pissed off, and they've pretty much been all talk. I'm not sure that they'll actually burn down churches and whatever.

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                    • O Oakman

                      Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

                      right to life

                      mebbe

                      Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

                      liberty

                      'fraid not

                      Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

                      CHILLING OUT

                      Like a fine wine?

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                      soap brain
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                      Oakman wrote:

                      mebbe

                      Yeah, probably not.

                      Oakman wrote:

                      'fraid not

                      Yeah.

                      Oakman wrote:

                      Like a fine wine?

                      Like GETTING VERTICAL! :cool::cool::cool:

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                      • B BoneSoft

                        Rob Graham wrote:

                        you create an opportunity for inequity in terms of equal protection under the law, and where the opportunity exists the reality will as well

                        I don't think it necessarily would, but I guess I see the possibility. I don't see anything wrong with seperating them either. Which would amount to changing the text on a marriage license to say "Civil Union".


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                        John Carson
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                        BoneSoft wrote:

                        I don't think it necessarily would, but I guess I see the possibility.

                        It is not a mere possibility. It is a fact. There is a wide class of benefits only available to people who are married. There is also a Federal law (the Defence of Marriage Act) that prohibits the Federal Government and all federal agencies from extending any federal marriage-based benefits, privileges and rights to same-sex couples (this is true even if they are married). http://www.salon.com/opinion/greenwald/2008/11/06/doma/index.html[^]

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                        • O Oakman

                          The state should provide only civil unions and leave marriage as something for churches to decide.

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                          John Carson
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                          Oakman wrote:

                          The state should provide only civil unions and leave marriage as something for churches to decide.

                          Churches or any other private organisation that wants to set itself up in the marriage-issuing business. While I agree that the state should only provide civil unions, I doubt that the proposal will work politically. The traditionalists who oppose gay marriage are also likely to be traditionalists in the sense of wanting state sanctioning of their marriage.

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                          • R Rob Graham

                            Since when did "a man" mean something other than "1 man"? Now you embarrass yourself.

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                            Jason Henderson
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                            Rob Graham wrote:

                            Since when did "a man" mean something other than "1 man"? Now you embarrass yourself.

                            The covenant of marriage is always between 1 man and 1 woman. In the past, 1 man could have a covenant between himself and multiple women (I suppose one could still do this although illegally in this country), but the women were not married to the other women just because the man was married to them. Now you could probably site examples of other arrangements, but honestly this is the definition of marriage we have had for thousands of years. If standing up for my beliefs is embarrassing, then so be it. I will do my best to do what is right.

                            "Make everything as simple as possible, but not simpler." - Albert Einstein

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                            • B BoneSoft

                              Tim Craig wrote:

                              So equal rights and fair treatment just don't enter into their thinking?

                              The vocal activist minority that's causing the most problems? No. The quite majority of them who actually brought this issue up and gave the whackos their talking points? Yes.

                              Tim Craig wrote:

                              Something like 10% of the population woke up one morning and decided, I think I'll become homosexual to see how stirred up I can make the religious right?

                              Good God, don't start heading in that direction, we were having an actual discussion. Don't turn it into another SB fiasco where we assume the worst of every comment because the other guy HAS to be a complete whak-job. Give me the credit I deserve so I can do the same for you.


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                              Tim Craig
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                              BoneSoft wrote:

                              Give me the credit I deserve so I can do the same for you.

                              My but you're touchy.

                              Your silly assed, irrelevant opinion has been duly noted. Now take it elsewhere!

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                              • S soap brain

                                Yeah, I don't think violence is the right thing to do, but they're understandably really pissed off, and they've pretty much been all talk. I'm not sure that they'll actually burn down churches and whatever.

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                                Jason Henderson
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                                Vigilantism can cause innocent bystanders to get caught in the violence. Its wrong. Calling for the burning of churches is a serious threat (terrorism) against a 1st amendment right.

                                "Make everything as simple as possible, but not simpler." - Albert Einstein

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                                • J Jason Henderson

                                  Rob Graham wrote:

                                  Since when did "a man" mean something other than "1 man"? Now you embarrass yourself.

                                  The covenant of marriage is always between 1 man and 1 woman. In the past, 1 man could have a covenant between himself and multiple women (I suppose one could still do this although illegally in this country), but the women were not married to the other women just because the man was married to them. Now you could probably site examples of other arrangements, but honestly this is the definition of marriage we have had for thousands of years. If standing up for my beliefs is embarrassing, then so be it. I will do my best to do what is right.

                                  "Make everything as simple as possible, but not simpler." - Albert Einstein

                                  Jason Henderson

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                                  Tim Craig
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                                  Jason Henderson wrote:

                                  I will do my best to do what is right.

                                  So you're for giving the same rights to everyone regardless of race, color, creed, religion, or sexual orientation?

                                  Your silly assed, irrelevant opinion has been duly noted. Now take it elsewhere!

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                                  • O Oakman

                                    Tim Craig wrote:

                                    You're a horse's ass.

                                    There you go, insulting horses, again.

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                                    Tim Craig
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                                    Oakman wrote:

                                    There you go, insulting horses, again.

                                    Damn. I sure didn't mean to do that. :(

                                    Your silly assed, irrelevant opinion has been duly noted. Now take it elsewhere!

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                                      BoneSoft wrote:

                                      I don't think it necessarily would, but I guess I see the possibility.

                                      It is not a mere possibility. It is a fact. There is a wide class of benefits only available to people who are married. There is also a Federal law (the Defence of Marriage Act) that prohibits the Federal Government and all federal agencies from extending any federal marriage-based benefits, privileges and rights to same-sex couples (this is true even if they are married). http://www.salon.com/opinion/greenwald/2008/11/06/doma/index.html[^]

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                                      BoneSoft
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                                      Then DOMA should be the target. Prop 8 wouldn't have done them any good. I wasn't aware that DOMA explicitly denied federal rights, which is wrong. Off the legal issue and on to personal opinion (just because I feel like sharing)... Personally as a religious person, I feel that instead of trying to dictate their lives, that we have an obligation to tell them what we believe and then leave them alone. And I'm pretty sure at this point there are damn few who haven't already been told where Christianity stands on the issue. As a rational person with brain cells, I don't believe that they decided one day to be gay (OK there are a few people who do, but they aren't your normal case). Or event worse, that they caught it as if it were some airborne pathogen. I find it very hard to believe that you aren't born that way. There's no way I could imagine changing what turns my crank, there's no reason for me to believe that could happen for somebody else. In any event, it doesn't matter. It's not my job as a Christian to make sure everybody does what Christianity says is right. Which is all a very long way to say, I don't like it, but I'm not the one doing it, knock yourself out. Live and let live.


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                                      • O Oakman

                                        Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

                                        right to life

                                        mebbe

                                        Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

                                        liberty

                                        'fraid not

                                        Ravel H. Joyce wrote:

                                        CHILLING OUT

                                        Like a fine wine?

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                                        Tim Craig
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                                        Oakman wrote:

                                        Like a fine wine?

                                        Only if it's white. :cool:

                                        Your silly assed, irrelevant opinion has been duly noted. Now take it elsewhere!

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                                        • T Tim Craig

                                          Jason Henderson wrote:

                                          I will do my best to do what is right.

                                          So you're for giving the same rights to everyone regardless of race, color, creed, religion, or sexual orientation?

                                          Your silly assed, irrelevant opinion has been duly noted. Now take it elsewhere!

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                                          BoneSoft
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                                          I think he made it clear that it was alright for anybody, regardless of race, color, creed, religion, or sexual orientation to marry someone of the opposite sex. ;P Sorry, I couldn't help myself.


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