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  • C Christian Graus

    The main differences I can see between 16 and 40 1 - I've had time to learn to do the things I like ( NO, I am talking about guitar and programming ) 2 - no-one can tell me to stop and go to bed 3 - I have the money to pursue the things I like ( I have $20k worth of guitars and amps now, for example ) 4 - so long as I know I've treated people fairly, I no longer care what people think. I dress how I want, live how I want, do the things I want to do.

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    Anna Jayne Metcalfe
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    I have to say that you've pretty much hit the nail on the head there. :cool:

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    • G Gary R Wheeler

      Swimming is probably an ideal form of exercise for middle-aged types. No impact, moderately aerobic, and if you pick the right pool and the right time of day, 'entertaining' (wink-wink, nudge-nudge).

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      Gary R. Wheeler wrote:

      'entertaining'

      That's why us old farts don't wear Speedo's to the beach. :rose:

      Gary

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      • C Christian Graus

        Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

        Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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        Bob1000
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        You have to separate chronological age from both psychological and biological age - The three are different!

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        • C Christian Graus

          The main differences I can see between 16 and 40 1 - I've had time to learn to do the things I like ( NO, I am talking about guitar and programming ) 2 - no-one can tell me to stop and go to bed 3 - I have the money to pursue the things I like ( I have $20k worth of guitars and amps now, for example ) 4 - so long as I know I've treated people fairly, I no longer care what people think. I dress how I want, live how I want, do the things I want to do.

          Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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          Gary Wheeler
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          Christian Graus wrote:

          I no longer care what people think. I dress how I want, live how I want, do the things I want to do

          Damn straight!

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          • C Christian Graus

            Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

            Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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            Earl Truss
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            Could you state that in the form of a question?

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            • C Christian Graus

              Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

              Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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              dogdays
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              Nowadays I believe middle age starts in your sixties. I also believe that one should look for quality of life, not quantity. Dogdays

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              • C Christian Graus

                Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

                Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                Donsw
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                Hey I own a vette, they have nothign to do with age or anything else. if you like them drive them. Just like any other car.

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                • B Bassam Abdul Baki

                  I'm 37 and still in my prime. 40 is only middle-aged if you plan on living to 80. I say you still have a decade before you hit middle-age, but it's all relative anyway.

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                  Owen Lawrence
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                  Bassam Abdul-Baki wrote:

                  I'm 37 and still in my prime. 40 is only middle-aged if you plan on living to 80. I say you still have a decade before you hit middle-age, but it's all relative anyway.

                  The term is "middle age", not "median age". Here's a sobering thought: If you divide your desired lifespan of 80 into thirds, youth, middle age, old age, then middle age begins at 27 and ends at 53. So you've been middle aged for ten years already! Watch out. You may be in your prime at 37, but the human body isn't a linear organism. In my case, the lights started winking out when I hit 40. - Owen -

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                  • C Christian Graus

                    Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

                    Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                    CDMTJX
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                    40 isn't old, sorry there are many more years after 40. My new manager's manager appears to be 30-ish. His LinkedIn profile lists his high school graduation date, which is apparently still an important event for him career wise. Whereas for me, it'd probably invite age discrimination. :sigh:

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                    • C Christian Graus

                      Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

                      Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                      snowlin
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                      I'm 42 and loving every moment it took to get here, no regrets! I admit I once thought 40 was old until I got there, then I realized birthdays are just a celebration of all the love, happiness, friends, and blessings that have come into my life.

                      S.Nowlin ----------------------- I'm a Techwriter Monkey -- handy, just less useful than the Bathroom Monkey.

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                      • G Gary R Wheeler

                        Hah. I turn 0x30 this summer. I had a sports car for a while, until I totalled it out. I'll get another one someday. At the moment, I've got a kid about to enter college, and that sorts your financial realities. I cling to my youth by making my body do all the things it should have done when it was younger: mainly running, biking, and lifting weights. And when it complains, I tell it to STFU and soldier.

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                        Ha ha! I tell people I am 0x28. I think it's tougher on a lady to hit the 40's. Men just seem to get more interesting and handsome!

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                        • C Christian Graus

                          Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

                          Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                          Glosse
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                          Think 40 is a shock? Wait til you hit 70! As my Mother used to say, Oh to be 60 again! (She was 93 at the time. Me -Im still jogging a couple of miles 2 or 3 times a week in the hills. Dont have time for more -too busy developing. Trying to keep up with MS is like trying to drink from a firehose. Knock on wood.

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                          • C Christian Graus

                            Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

                            Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                            Fabio Franco
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                            I'm turning 26 next month and I'm already falling into despair. Time won't roll back and I'm still very far from having enough money to buy my dream car (Porsche Carrera)! And when I do I will be too old to enjoy it :sigh: Oh, happy birthday by the way. When I get to your age I will probably be on the mental hospital, I'm not mentally strong enough. Fábio

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                            • C Christian Graus

                              Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

                              Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                              Theodore M Seeber
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                              I'm not at all sure that a Prius isn't a geeky equivalent of a sports car- especially given the hacks that are in the wild for improvements such as plug-in recharging and adding laptop batteries and tweaking the internal software for faster speeds on electric only.

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                              • C Christian Graus

                                Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

                                Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                                CARisk3
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                                Here's the thing I have figured out - When you were younger if you thought 30 was old you dreaded turning 30 and freaked when you did. If you thought 60 years of age was old you passed 30 with flying colors but are dreading 60. I had a lady I worked with that freaked at 29 because the next year she was turning thirty. I personally think its how old you think you are. I have days where I feel eighteen and days where I feel I am over a hundred. It's all in the attitude!!!!!

                                If you can’t have fun at work, then why go to work?

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                                • C Christian Graus

                                  DaveyM69 wrote:

                                  but I'm the original Peter Pan so I'll never grow up

                                  My desk has Wall-E, Mario Kart, Toy Story, Incredibles, Pooh, etc figurines on it, so I am with you there.

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                                  Christian Graus wrote:

                                  DaveyM69 wrote: but I'm the original Peter Pan so I'll never grow up My desk has Wall-E, Mario Kart, Toy Story, Incredibles, Pooh, etc figurines on it, so I am with you there.

                                  LOL! I'll turn 52 at the end of March and I am known where I work for the collection of happy meal toys on my desk! Being able to feel satisfied by a kid's meal and getting a toy to boot is one of the few benefits of aging! :laugh:

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                                  • B BunnyFaber

                                    Ha ha! I tell people I am 0x28. I think it's tougher on a lady to hit the 40's. Men just seem to get more interesting and handsome!

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                                    SIRVACodeGuy
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                                    BunnyFaber wrote:

                                    Ha ha! I tell people I am 0x28. I think it's tougher on a lady to hit the 40's. Men just seem to get more interesting and handsome!

                                    Really? What are you doing later? [evil chuckle] :-O

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                                    • C Christian Graus

                                      Saw this phrase on the corvette thread below. I turn 40 tomorrow. I have no intention of buying a sports car tho ( heck, I just bought a prius ). I'm clinging to my youth by going to rock festivals, buying expensive guitars and playing them whenever I get a chance.

                                      Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista.

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                                      z974647
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                                      I just tell every one that 50 is the new 30.

                                      What does an agnostic, dyslexic, insomniac do? He lies awake at night wondering if there's a dog.

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                                      • B BunnyFaber

                                        Ha ha! I tell people I am 0x28. I think it's tougher on a lady to hit the 40's. Men just seem to get more interesting and handsome!

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                                        Gary R Wheeler
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                                        "Don't you know that women are the only works of art?"     - Don Henley, Driving With Your Eyes Closed

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                                          "Don't you know that women are the only works of art?"     - Don Henley, Driving With Your Eyes Closed

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                                          BunnyFaber
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                                          That is very lovely!

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