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I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
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I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
You had a cancer scare, but it's come back negative ? That's great news, but still a hell of a thing to go through. How is your wife not understanding ?
Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.
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You had a cancer scare, but it's come back negative ? That's great news, but still a hell of a thing to go through. How is your wife not understanding ?
Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.
I never told her until tonight. She went mad. I told her about being clear and she went mad. Her view was that I should have said, my view was that I should protect her.
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
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I never told her until tonight. She went mad. I told her about being clear and she went mad. Her view was that I should have said, my view was that I should protect her.
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
OK - I can see why she'd wish that you'd have told her. Women like to communicate and emote, and feel like they have been included in such things. I am not knocking your decision, you did what seemed right to you, and I imagine that such a potential diagnosis is a private journey with no right answers. I also expect that she's partly reacting to the overall shock and finding a part of the situation that she feels justified in being mad at. I'm sure she will simmer down, given a chance to sleep on it. Either way, the news is good, so at least you have lots of time to talk about it :-)
Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.
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I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
Dalek Dave wrote:
I do not have cancer
Best news I have read in a long time. Your wife is right. So are you. That's what makes marriages fun, or so I am told. You shouldn't have worried so much - remember, only the good die young.
Jon "I don't think the human race will survive the next thousand years, unless we spread into space. There are too many accidents that can befall life on a single planet. But I'm an optimist. We will reach out to the stars." ~ Stephen Hawking, Soap Box 1.0: the first, the original, reborn troll-less
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I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
Since you hid the tests from her (since you thought it's a good thing that she won't have to worry) you could have hidden the results too (since your not telling her has only caused her pain it seems).
Regards, Nish
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I never told her until tonight. She went mad. I told her about being clear and she went mad. Her view was that I should have said, my view was that I should protect her.
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
I kind of get both views, my mom told us about her own cancer scare a couple of weeks ago, and we were grateful it was just a scare, but we were mad she didn’t told us sooner, only my dad knew and they spend the holydays scared out of their minds, maybe we could have been of some help in dealing with it, but a mom is always trying to protect her sons, even when her sons are both in their (early) 40s, but latter I realized I would have done exactly the same to shield my family from the grief.
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I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
so now wife wants to kill you because you did not tell her you might die ? what comes around ... :) Happy for ya' btw!!
Watched code never compiles.
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Dalek Dave wrote:
I do not have cancer
Best news I have read in a long time. Your wife is right. So are you. That's what makes marriages fun, or so I am told. You shouldn't have worried so much - remember, only the good die young.
Jon "I don't think the human race will survive the next thousand years, unless we spread into space. There are too many accidents that can befall life on a single planet. But I'm an optimist. We will reach out to the stars." ~ Stephen Hawking, Soap Box 1.0: the first, the original, reborn troll-less
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I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
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I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
Great news... Now you can go back to being your old self again!! ;-)
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I kind of get both views, my mom told us about her own cancer scare a couple of weeks ago, and we were grateful it was just a scare, but we were mad she didn’t told us sooner, only my dad knew and they spend the holydays scared out of their minds, maybe we could have been of some help in dealing with it, but a mom is always trying to protect her sons, even when her sons are both in their (early) 40s, but latter I realized I would have done exactly the same to shield my family from the grief.
mrMercury wrote:
but a mom is always trying to protect her sons, even when her sons are both in their (early) 40s
A month ago my great grandmother passed away. She was 105 years old and suddenly she was diagnosed with lots of problems, including one related to the lungs, which eventually lead to her death. She didn't noticed her sons (the eldest being my grandfather) because she didn't want to disturb them, even when they are 84 and 82 years old. I guess a mom's job never ends... Best wishes to you and your parents.
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I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
That's really good news, I'm happy for you. :rose: Best wishes.
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I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
Why did you need such tests?
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I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
That's great news you complete and utter twat. I don't blame your wife one bit: keeping secrets, for whatever reason, is a recipe for disaster. Plus, she's your wife: you really have no right to hold back such potentially life changing information. Still, glad you're okay; now grovel.
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I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
I'm not suprised Michelle went Librarian Poo, YOU SHOULD HAVE TOLD HER! Anyway, you got the best results. My Mum has had so many biopsies now that she only tells us about the positive ones; it still a far to regular occurance. Have a :beer:. Have two.
Panic, Chaos, Destruction. My work here is done. or "Drink. Get drunk. Fall over." - P O'H
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I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
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I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
Dalek Dave wrote:
I do not have cancer
:-D Excellent! I haven't got a CCC in ages and I couldn't continue without getting a few more. Plus, I've got to have someone tease and someone needs to correct me when I balls-up my grammar or spelling! See, we just can't do without you :thumbsup: PS It's good news :rose:
Ali
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I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave
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That's great news you complete and utter twat. I don't blame your wife one bit: keeping secrets, for whatever reason, is a recipe for disaster. Plus, she's your wife: you really have no right to hold back such potentially life changing information. Still, glad you're okay; now grovel.