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  • D Dalek Dave

    I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding

    ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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    Oakman
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    Dalek Dave wrote:

    I do not have cancer

    Best news I have read in a long time. Your wife is right. So are you. That's what makes marriages fun, or so I am told. You shouldn't have worried so much - remember, only the good die young.

    Jon "I don't think the human race will survive the next thousand years, unless we spread into space. There are too many accidents that can befall life on a single planet. But I'm an optimist. We will reach out to the stars." ~ Stephen Hawking, Soap Box 1.0: the first, the original, reborn troll-less

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    • D Dalek Dave

      I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding

      ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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      Nish Nishant
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      Since you hid the tests from her (since you thought it's a good thing that she won't have to worry) you could have hidden the results too (since your not telling her has only caused her pain it seems).

      Regards, Nish


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      • D Dalek Dave

        I never told her until tonight. She went mad. I told her about being clear and she went mad. Her view was that I should have said, my view was that I should protect her.

        ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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        mrMercury
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        I kind of get both views, my mom told us about her own cancer scare a couple of weeks ago, and we were grateful it was just a scare, but we were mad she didn’t told us sooner, only my dad knew and they spend the holydays scared out of their minds, maybe we could have been of some help in dealing with it, but a mom is always trying to protect her sons, even when her sons are both in their (early) 40s, but latter I realized I would have done exactly the same to shield my family from the grief.

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        • D Dalek Dave

          I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding

          ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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          Maximilien
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          so now wife wants to kill you because you did not tell her you might die ? what comes around ... :) Happy for ya' btw!!

          Watched code never compiles.

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            Dalek Dave wrote:

            I do not have cancer

            Best news I have read in a long time. Your wife is right. So are you. That's what makes marriages fun, or so I am told. You shouldn't have worried so much - remember, only the good die young.

            Jon "I don't think the human race will survive the next thousand years, unless we spread into space. There are too many accidents that can befall life on a single planet. But I'm an optimist. We will reach out to the stars." ~ Stephen Hawking, Soap Box 1.0: the first, the original, reborn troll-less

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            AspDotNetDev
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            Oakman wrote:

            only the good die young

            Which would make you virtually immortal?

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            • D Dalek Dave

              I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding

              ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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              4277480
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              Wipe your tears and celebrate in the pub :thumbsup:

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              • D Dalek Dave

                I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding

                ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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                _Damian S_
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                Great news... Now you can go back to being your old self again!! ;-)

                I don't have ADHD, I have ADOS... Attention Deficit oooh SHINY!! If you need a laugh, check out my Vodafone World of Difference application If you like cars, check out the Booger Mobile blog If you feel generous - make a donation to Camp Quality!!

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                • M mrMercury

                  I kind of get both views, my mom told us about her own cancer scare a couple of weeks ago, and we were grateful it was just a scare, but we were mad she didn’t told us sooner, only my dad knew and they spend the holydays scared out of their minds, maybe we could have been of some help in dealing with it, but a mom is always trying to protect her sons, even when her sons are both in their (early) 40s, but latter I realized I would have done exactly the same to shield my family from the grief.

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                  Fernando A Gomez F
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                  mrMercury wrote:

                  but a mom is always trying to protect her sons, even when her sons are both in their (early) 40s

                  A month ago my great grandmother passed away. She was 105 years old and suddenly she was diagnosed with lots of problems, including one related to the lungs, which eventually lead to her death. She didn't noticed her sons (the eldest being my grandfather) because she didn't want to disturb them, even when they are 84 and 82 years old. I guess a mom's job never ends... Best wishes to you and your parents.

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                  • D Dalek Dave

                    I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding

                    ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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                    Fernando A Gomez F
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                    That's really good news, I'm happy for you. :rose: Best wishes.

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                    • D Dalek Dave

                      I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding

                      ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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                      soap brain
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                      Why did you need such tests?

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                      • D Dalek Dave

                        I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding

                        ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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                        R Giskard Reventlov
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                        That's great news you complete and utter twat. I don't blame your wife one bit: keeping secrets, for whatever reason, is a recipe for disaster. Plus, she's your wife: you really have no right to hold back such potentially life changing information. Still, glad you're okay; now grovel.

                        Tychotics: take us back to the moon

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                        • D Dalek Dave

                          I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding

                          ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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                          Nagy Vilmos
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                          I'm not suprised Michelle went Librarian Poo, YOU SHOULD HAVE TOLD HER! Anyway, you got the best results. My Mum has had so many biopsies now that she only tells us about the positive ones; it still a far to regular occurance. Have a :beer:. Have two.


                          Panic, Chaos, Destruction. My work here is done. or "Drink. Get drunk. Fall over." - P O'H

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                          • D Dalek Dave

                            I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding

                            ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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                            :thumbsup:

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                            • D Dalek Dave

                              I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding

                              ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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                              LittleYellowBird
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                              Dalek Dave wrote:

                              I do not have cancer

                              :-D Excellent! I haven't got a CCC in ages and I couldn't continue without getting a few more. Plus, I've got to have someone tease and someone needs to correct me when I balls-up my grammar or spelling! See, we just can't do without you :thumbsup: PS It's good news :rose:

                              Ali

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                              • D Dalek Dave

                                I do not have cancer I stood in tears tonight, all the tests proved negative. My wife is not understanding

                                ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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                                Lost User
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                                :hugs: :love:

                                Join the cool kids - Come fold with us[^]

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                                • R R Giskard Reventlov

                                  That's great news you complete and utter twat. I don't blame your wife one bit: keeping secrets, for whatever reason, is a recipe for disaster. Plus, she's your wife: you really have no right to hold back such potentially life changing information. Still, glad you're okay; now grovel.

                                  Tychotics: take us back to the moon

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                                  You've got it in perspective! Yes, I would want my kid sister to see that message.

                                  Join the cool kids - Come fold with us[^]

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                                  • D Dalek Dave

                                    I never told her until tonight. She went mad. I told her about being clear and she went mad. Her view was that I should have said, my view was that I should protect her.

                                    ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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                                    Shelby Robertson
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                                    Dalek Dave wrote:

                                    Her view was that I should have said, my view was that I should protect her.

                                    The wifes view is always right....even if it doesn't make sense. Glad your alright though!

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                                    • N Nagy Vilmos

                                      I'm not suprised Michelle went Librarian Poo, YOU SHOULD HAVE TOLD HER! Anyway, you got the best results. My Mum has had so many biopsies now that she only tells us about the positive ones; it still a far to regular occurance. Have a :beer:. Have two.


                                      Panic, Chaos, Destruction. My work here is done. or "Drink. Get drunk. Fall over." - P O'H

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                                      Nagy Vilmos wrote:

                                      Librarian Poo

                                      -10 man points ;P

                                      Join the cool kids - Come fold with us[^]

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                                      • D Dalek Dave

                                        I never told her until tonight. She went mad. I told her about being clear and she went mad. Her view was that I should have said, my view was that I should protect her.

                                        ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave

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                                        Mark_Wallace
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                                        Dalek Dave wrote:

                                        She went mad.

                                        Bloody right she did. How would you feel if she did the same? You might have survived the "non-cancer", but your odds of surviving that revelation should have been considerably longer.

                                        I wanna be a eunuchs developer! Pass me a bread knife!

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                                        • L Lost User

                                          Nagy Vilmos wrote:

                                          Librarian Poo

                                          -10 man points ;P

                                          Join the cool kids - Come fold with us[^]

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                                          Nagy Vilmos
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                                          Trollslayer wrote:

                                          Nagy Vilmos wrote: Librarian Poo -10 man points ;P

                                          -100 orang-utan[^] points! :mad: [Remember a cat can claw your face, but an ape can unscrew your entire head. The moral is never upset The Librarian]


                                          Panic, Chaos, Destruction. My work here is done. or "Drink. Get drunk. Fall over." - P O'H

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