Alice in Wonderland toddler suitability

Nish Nishant

CaptainSeeSharp wrote:

No, tell your toddler tried and true stories from an old story book.

Well, we already do that. I was basically thinking of getting him used to the concept of watching a movie on the big screen.

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Rama Krishna Vavilala

I second both Maximillen and CSS, they are both right. First of all, he will not be able to watch the movie. It is too long for his attention span and add the other factors light, noise etc. This all will make it pretty bad for him. If it is you who want to go to the movie and wondering whether to take him, I will say avoid if possible. If you are going to the movie for him, then it is a definite no-no.

Nish Nishant

Rama Krishna Vavilala wrote:

If you are going to the movie for him, then it is a definite no-no.

That was the rough idea, to see if he'd like watching a movie in an actual movie hall. Since his birth we have never gone for a movie together, but that is not why we thought we'd go today.

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CaptainSeeSharp

Powerful experiences might cause serious changes in the development of his mind. I think it is a bad idea for toddlers and preteens to watch TV, unless its a real wholesome show. He might be traumatized and permanently effected.

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That would be very alien for a small child, frankly somewhat alien for a number of adults. Now if Horton Hears a Who was on... And the first person to say I'm like a two year old will be right ;P

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Rama Krishna Vavilala

You are very right.

CaptainSeeSharp wrote:

He might be traumatized

True, even I am traumatized when I see Johnny Depp in that movie's trailer.

AspDotNetDev

So YOU'RE the parent in every movie I've ever been to with the screaming kid. :rolleyes: Why get him hooked on movies so early? I'd say, make him think books are the most exciting priviledge in the world, then show him movies before his friends get that opportunity. On the other hand, I'm only 25, so please disregard everything I say relating to parenthood. ;P

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Don Burton

Nope. This Tim Burton version would scare Quentin Tarantino. :omg:

hammerstein05

You may be 25, but you're right IMO. I'm 29, but a parent.

puromtec1

He may screem his head off throughout the following night and you will feel like sh$t having to listen to it. Did the movie thing once with my kid around that age (kid's puppy movie). He did not watch it, just ran around the empty theater. He is 3 and will get nightmares if he sees something a even a little scary on tv (especially if at later at night).

Andy Brummer

I'd just add that the American Association of Pediatricians AAP - Media guidelines[^] suggests no screens at all for children under 2 and I'm personally hedging my bet by a few more years past that. Though, I have shown my son a few short videos directly related to things he was interested in like nature shows. I do stay away from any cartoons or fantasy, as he's still completely engaged figuring out the the world around him without me adding a bunch of nonsense that is just going to confuse him. It's hard though, there are so many fun shows and movies that I can't wait to experience with him.

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Definitely a bit N-O from me. Read through this[^] and see why. Our girl's first movie was at the age of 3. She found it very loud and even though it was an animated kids show aimed at very young kids, it was too long for her in that setting. 4 years old would have been a better bet, I think. Tips for the first timer: 1) Use the booster seat they have stacked at the entrance. It keeps the seat from flipping up with them in it when they're that small. 2) Cover their ears before the previews start. They're shockingly lout to a little kid. 3) Read the parent's advisory at IMDB.com first. Prepare yourself for any scary parts and be ready to cover eyes if necessary. That can be the difference between making it to the end and leaving half way through. 4) If, after reading the parent's advisory you're not sure if the movie will be appropriate, DON'T GO. So many people do it the other way around. 5) When kiddo says it's time to go, it's time to go. Assume you'll be leaving part way through. Hope that helps. Cheers, Drew.

Chris Austin

I've got a 4 year old boy and we took him to his first movie recently during a 'cry baby' matinée and it was still a bit much. But, if you want your little one to see Alice in Wonderland with you it might be fun to read 'Through The Looking Glass' to your little guy and then rent the movie.

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Robert Surtees

Our first movie was The Little Mermaid. Sounded pretty harmless. Three tickets, popcorn, candy, drinks. Small loan to pay it all off... Didn't even make it through the opening credits which featured a ship going down in a thunderstorm as I recall.

Phil Martin

Based on the trailers, the new Alice movie I wouldn't recommend for under-12's.

Lost User

This new Alice in Wonderland scares me, and that is not usually an easy thing to do.

Gandalf_TheWhite

Rama Krishna Vavilala wrote:

I am traumatized when I see Johnny Depp in that movie's trailer

:laugh: True!!

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Mark_Wallace

Nishant Sivakumar wrote:

I was basically thinking of getting him used to the concept of watching a movie on the big screen.

Try a beamer. On the whole, though, the only reason I'd be against Alice is the 3D glasses. Any other movie, no problem. Children that age just soak in sights and sounds, so he should enjoy the whole experience.

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Mark_Wallace

CaptainSeeSharp wrote:

Powerful experiences might cause serious changes in the development of his mind. I think it is a bad idea for toddlers and preteens to watch TV, unless its a real wholesome show.He might be traumatized and permanently effected.

Jesus wept. You've never had kids, then? You forgot to add: -- Buy lots of cotton wool, to wrap him in, 24 hours a day. -- Throw away all the knives, forks, and spoons with a bit of a sharp edge. -- Burn any furniture and knock down any walls that don't have two-inch padding. ... And, for God's sake, keep him away from all other children! There's no telling what awful diseases that might be carrying!

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