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    David C Hobbyist
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    For The last Year I have been consumed with this woman. At first She seemed receptive to My advances, However over the last few week's She has grown ummm Let's just say less receptive.:confused: My thought's are of her and for her but my Internal voice say's STOP! She has Invaded My dream's (verry pleasnt one's) My blog is all about Her. So My question is: Is this love or am I just a stalker? I think at the min. it's borderline OCD :^) Ok the bottom line, What do You think? Please forgive me for posting this here but i need help ;P Frazzle

    If I seem rough arround the edeges well I am

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      For The last Year I have been consumed with this woman. At first She seemed receptive to My advances, However over the last few week's She has grown ummm Let's just say less receptive.:confused: My thought's are of her and for her but my Internal voice say's STOP! She has Invaded My dream's (verry pleasnt one's) My blog is all about Her. So My question is: Is this love or am I just a stalker? I think at the min. it's borderline OCD :^) Ok the bottom line, What do You think? Please forgive me for posting this here but i need help ;P Frazzle

      If I seem rough arround the edeges well I am

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      frazzle-me wrote:

      Ok the bottom line, What do You think?

      Ok, What do You think?

      thatraja


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        frazzle-me wrote:

        Ok the bottom line, What do You think?

        Ok, What do You think?

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        David C Hobbyist
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        Not a fair Question I'm head over heel's:rose:

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          For The last Year I have been consumed with this woman. At first She seemed receptive to My advances, However over the last few week's She has grown ummm Let's just say less receptive.:confused: My thought's are of her and for her but my Internal voice say's STOP! She has Invaded My dream's (verry pleasnt one's) My blog is all about Her. So My question is: Is this love or am I just a stalker? I think at the min. it's borderline OCD :^) Ok the bottom line, What do You think? Please forgive me for posting this here but i need help ;P Frazzle

          If I seem rough arround the edeges well I am

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          Dalek Dave
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          Hand yourself in to the local police, you are a stalker, and given the determination you have to inject yourself into her life, a potentional threat to her. If she is becoming less receptive it is because her instincts are to avoid you. Seriously, get help, I have read about cases like this. It appears you have little or no experience, thus you are posting here, and have limited social interaction or skills, otherwise you would be asking friends. The fact you are here indicates you have no friends, and this is a major indicator of other underlying psychological problems. Difficult childhood? Overbearing Mother? You need to get out more and develop more social interaction, otherwise you will become fixated with this woman, it will lead to anger when you are finally told to fuck off, and then will come violence. From what I can tell from your post you are borderline sociopath, emotionally immature and lacking in self esteem. Seek help immediately.

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            For The last Year I have been consumed with this woman. At first She seemed receptive to My advances, However over the last few week's She has grown ummm Let's just say less receptive.:confused: My thought's are of her and for her but my Internal voice say's STOP! She has Invaded My dream's (verry pleasnt one's) My blog is all about Her. So My question is: Is this love or am I just a stalker? I think at the min. it's borderline OCD :^) Ok the bottom line, What do You think? Please forgive me for posting this here but i need help ;P Frazzle

            If I seem rough arround the edeges well I am

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            Maximilien
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            frazzle-me wrote:

            My blog is all about Her.

            You're a creep! Maybe there's a reason she wants to run as far as possible from you!!

            Watched code never compiles.

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              Not a fair Question I'm head over heel's:rose:

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              David C Hobbyist
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              It's not what I think It's what I want. So I guess that does Make Me a ummmm (trying to think of a nice way to say stalker) Dedicated voyer. :laugh:

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                Not a fair Question I'm head over heel's:rose:

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                You forgot to include your age.

                thatraja


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                  frazzle-me wrote:

                  My blog is all about Her.

                  You're a creep! Maybe there's a reason she wants to run as far as possible from you!!

                  Watched code never compiles.

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                  She has seen what he is and is now cooling. I think he may turn violent.

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                    For The last Year I have been consumed with this woman. At first She seemed receptive to My advances, However over the last few week's She has grown ummm Let's just say less receptive.:confused: My thought's are of her and for her but my Internal voice say's STOP! She has Invaded My dream's (verry pleasnt one's) My blog is all about Her. So My question is: Is this love or am I just a stalker? I think at the min. it's borderline OCD :^) Ok the bottom line, What do You think? Please forgive me for posting this here but i need help ;P Frazzle

                    If I seem rough arround the edeges well I am

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                    If you, even in your hopelessly enamoured state, sense that she's not interested... well, I've been down this road, many have. You'd be doing yourself a huge favour to move on.

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                      Hand yourself in to the local police, you are a stalker, and given the determination you have to inject yourself into her life, a potentional threat to her. If she is becoming less receptive it is because her instincts are to avoid you. Seriously, get help, I have read about cases like this. It appears you have little or no experience, thus you are posting here, and have limited social interaction or skills, otherwise you would be asking friends. The fact you are here indicates you have no friends, and this is a major indicator of other underlying psychological problems. Difficult childhood? Overbearing Mother? You need to get out more and develop more social interaction, otherwise you will become fixated with this woman, it will lead to anger when you are finally told to fuck off, and then will come violence. From what I can tell from your post you are borderline sociopath, emotionally immature and lacking in self esteem. Seek help immediately.

                      ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave CCC League Table Link CCC Link[^]

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                      GlobX
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                      Little harsh, don't you think? Not every little boy with a crush is a sociopath. (or is this humour that I'm not getting?)

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                        It's not what I think It's what I want. So I guess that does Make Me a ummmm (trying to think of a nice way to say stalker) Dedicated voyer. :laugh:

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                        thatraja
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                        Please leave her if she's not interested.

                        thatraja


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                          If you, even in your hopelessly enamoured state, sense that she's not interested... well, I've been down this road, many have. You'd be doing yourself a huge favour to move on.

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                          David C Hobbyist
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                          That is what I was thinking. But I want to hear it from her. I'm only speculating on her cooling off cause she started this to begin with. Now I'm not sure what to think. Despite what You may think, I want Her to be happy either way. Just I want to know how she feel's!

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                            Little harsh, don't you think? Not every little boy with a crush is a sociopath. (or is this humour that I'm not getting?)

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                            Look at the larger picture. He comes to a developers forum to ask whether his behaviour is appropriate. He is not asking friends or family, one has to ask why? Given that he has already admitted to stalking shows that he has psychological issues. I was being serious. Ed Gein was a lonely child with an overbearing mother, he had no social interaction and had a friendless existance. He too became fixated with women, and would stalk them. Wiki Entry[^] Not a nice man I think.

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                              Look at the larger picture. He comes to a developers forum to ask whether his behaviour is appropriate. He is not asking friends or family, one has to ask why? Given that he has already admitted to stalking shows that he has psychological issues. I was being serious. Ed Gein was a lonely child with an overbearing mother, he had no social interaction and had a friendless existance. He too became fixated with women, and would stalk them. Wiki Entry[^] Not a nice man I think.

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                              Dalek Dave wrote:

                              Not a nice man I think.

                              Oh...he was influenced top dangerous fictional characters. :omg:

                              thatraja


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                                Dalek Dave wrote:

                                Not a nice man I think.

                                Oh...he was influenced top dangerous fictional characters. :omg:

                                thatraja


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                                Dalek Dave
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                                Ed Gein was a real monster, but not the only one. Read about the psychology of other serial killers, patterns emerge.

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                                  For The last Year I have been consumed with this woman. At first She seemed receptive to My advances, However over the last few week's She has grown ummm Let's just say less receptive.:confused: My thought's are of her and for her but my Internal voice say's STOP! She has Invaded My dream's (verry pleasnt one's) My blog is all about Her. So My question is: Is this love or am I just a stalker? I think at the min. it's borderline OCD :^) Ok the bottom line, What do You think? Please forgive me for posting this here but i need help ;P Frazzle

                                  If I seem rough arround the edeges well I am

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                                  frazzle-me wrote:

                                  Is this love or am I just a stalker?

                                  If you ask this, it's because deep down, you know. 'Seemed receptive', I assume means 'little clues' and not any actual interest. Leave this poor woman alone.

                                  Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.

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                                    She has seen what he is and is now cooling. I think he may turn violent.

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                                    David C Hobbyist
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                                    She has seen what he is and is now cooling. I think he may turn violent. Hmmm violence is not in My nature, My mother God rest her soul was verry Loving. I have talked to My friend's (Despite what You think more than 1) However they have only met her once or twice in case of My ex-wife. Whom I did not ask! My daughter Love's Her as I think I may. I am no wierdo, just trying to express My inner thought's and get feedback.. Thanks for the positive outlook

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                                      That is what I was thinking. But I want to hear it from her. I'm only speculating on her cooling off cause she started this to begin with. Now I'm not sure what to think. Despite what You may think, I want Her to be happy either way. Just I want to know how she feel's!

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                                      GlobX
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                                      Have you tried asking?

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                                        Ed Gein was a real monster, but not the only one. Read about the psychology of other serial killers, patterns emerge.

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                                        GlobX
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                                        All I'm saying is I think it's a bit quick for you to be seeing these patterns emerge. In fact, I believe you have to have done something more than once for it to be considered a pattern. You've never felt like this? I know loads of people, normal people, who have behaved like this at some point in their life (read: when they were teenagers).

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                                          Have you tried asking?

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                                          David C Hobbyist
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                                          Yes, and she said "I don't know if it's Love, but she like's My company" But I still wonder if this could be "The One". Or is She as they say "stringing Me along" I think I have made My feeling's quite clear. Both here and to her, as well as on My blog. As Dave was saying: I do not have the greatest of social skill's. But I have no problem talking about My feeling's. If that make's me "dangerous" I guess everyone secure with thier own feeling's is equally dangerous. Thanks for not assuming I am a pervert

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