Love?
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frazzle-me wrote:
Yes, and she said "I don't know if it's Love, but she like's My company"
frazzle-me wrote:
Or is She as they say "stringing Me along"
frazzle-me wrote:
I think I have made My feeling's quite clear.
If you can swear to yourself that all these things are 100% true. Bail. Bail now. I know you don't want to, but stop investing effort in this relationship. If she will ever be interested in you, she may go looking for you. If she is stringing you along, she will be upset that you are not paying her enough attention. If you are not up to cutting her out, then you need to be comfortable with the fact you will only ever be this woman's friend. You will most likely watch her have fun with other men, date them etc. and harbouring a secret love for her will only make this friendship more painful. I have had this exact situation several times personally and so have friends. Girls like this like attention, you need to stop giving it to her because she's toying with what seems to me to be your sensitive personality. She'll tear your heart out and stomp on it time and time again until you stop giving her the power to do so. PS I don't know you or her personally nor much about the circumstances - obviously you should take what I say with a grain of salt, I am only telling you from my personal experience and those of close friends. Taking love advice from a programming forum could be dangerous :)
So what you are saying is: Trying to gain feedback from My peer's, Is not the way to get other perspective's on this matter. so maybe the news paper? JK I will take Your advice into consideration, I also have seen this kind of behavior from other women, However She is sweet but... (here is why I am confused) She is well let's just say not as affectionate as I. Maybe I am too emotional, ??? But that is how I feel. The funny thing is, I met her in a poker tourney. we laughed accross the table at things that were being said over the table. She won the tourney, I came in second, (texas Holdem) That was the day she stole My heart
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frazzle-me wrote:
Is this love or am I just a stalker?
If you ask this, it's because deep down, you know. 'Seemed receptive', I assume means 'little clues' and not any actual interest. Leave this poor woman alone.
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For The last Year I have been consumed with this woman. At first She seemed receptive to My advances, However over the last few week's She has grown ummm Let's just say less receptive.:confused: My thought's are of her and for her but my Internal voice say's STOP! She has Invaded My dream's (verry pleasnt one's) My blog is all about Her. So My question is: Is this love or am I just a stalker? I think at the min. it's borderline OCD :^) Ok the bottom line, What do You think? Please forgive me for posting this here but i need help ;P Frazzle
If I seem rough arround the edeges well I am
frazzle-me wrote:
love
This word does not exist here. (This is a site visited only by geeks).
The funniest thing about this particular signature is that by the time you realise it doesn't say anything it's too late to stop reading it. My latest tip/trick
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frazzle-me wrote:
love
This word does not exist here. (This is a site visited only by geeks).
The funniest thing about this particular signature is that by the time you realise it doesn't say anything it's too late to stop reading it. My latest tip/trick
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Frazzle the name say's it all
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Look at the larger picture. He comes to a developers forum to ask whether his behaviour is appropriate. He is not asking friends or family, one has to ask why? Given that he has already admitted to stalking shows that he has psychological issues. I was being serious. Ed Gein was a lonely child with an overbearing mother, he had no social interaction and had a friendless existance. He too became fixated with women, and would stalk them. Wiki Entry[^] Not a nice man I think.
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Ed Gein was a very good fellow you know...
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So what you are saying is: Trying to gain feedback from My peer's, Is not the way to get other perspective's on this matter. so maybe the news paper? JK I will take Your advice into consideration, I also have seen this kind of behavior from other women, However She is sweet but... (here is why I am confused) She is well let's just say not as affectionate as I. Maybe I am too emotional, ??? But that is how I feel. The funny thing is, I met her in a poker tourney. we laughed accross the table at things that were being said over the table. She won the tourney, I came in second, (texas Holdem) That was the day she stole My heart
frazzle-me wrote:
So what you are saying is: Trying to gain feedback from My peer's, Is not the way to get other perspective's on this matter. so maybe the news paper? JK
Hahaha :laugh: I meant that the stereotypical IT community has little clue as to female matters :doh:
frazzle-me wrote:
Maybe I am too emotional, ??? But that is how I feel. [...] That was the day she stole My heart
Sounds like you've got a serious case of love sickness... I think you need to answer all these questions for yourself. Maybe this is just what the doctor ordered - a forum you can open your heart to, the proverbial sounding board, so that you can hear for yourself the answer. Sounds mushy but these matters are rarely solved by others (at least in my experience). Good luck, whatever happens :) For the record, I don't think you're a stalker - but it may upset her or drive her away if your love is far deeper than what she reciprocates.
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For The last Year I have been consumed with this woman. At first She seemed receptive to My advances, However over the last few week's She has grown ummm Let's just say less receptive.:confused: My thought's are of her and for her but my Internal voice say's STOP! She has Invaded My dream's (verry pleasnt one's) My blog is all about Her. So My question is: Is this love or am I just a stalker? I think at the min. it's borderline OCD :^) Ok the bottom line, What do You think? Please forgive me for posting this here but i need help ;P Frazzle
If I seem rough arround the edeges well I am
Have you ever considered becoming gay?
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Worldy advice from Mssr Grauss aka CP's "Stud muffin" *grin* Bryce
MCAD --- To paraphrase Fred Dagg - the views expressed in this post are bloody good ones. --
Publitor, making Pubmed easy. http://www.sohocode.com/publitorOur kids books :The Snot Goblin, and Book 2 - the Snotgoblin and Fluff The Snotgoblin for the Ipad
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For The last Year I have been consumed with this woman. At first She seemed receptive to My advances, However over the last few week's She has grown ummm Let's just say less receptive.:confused: My thought's are of her and for her but my Internal voice say's STOP! She has Invaded My dream's (verry pleasnt one's) My blog is all about Her. So My question is: Is this love or am I just a stalker? I think at the min. it's borderline OCD :^) Ok the bottom line, What do You think? Please forgive me for posting this here but i need help ;P Frazzle
If I seem rough arround the edeges well I am
If shee seems "receptive" for almost a year, she wasn't.
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Have you ever considered becoming gay?
Are you offering to help with that?
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Are you offering to help with that?
:) Only if my wife will let me ;)
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I am 52, She is 56
I was thinking of giving you advice... except now I know that your age is the reverse of mine, so it would probably better if you gave me advice. :) At your age, the ratio of men and women changes such that there are far more women than men. That makes you a commodity that is hard to come by. You should be having all kinds of ladies gettin' all up in yo bidness... take your pick! :-D
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frazzle-me wrote:
love
This word does not exist here. (This is a site visited only by geeks).
The funniest thing about this particular signature is that by the time you realise it doesn't say anything it's too late to stop reading it. My latest tip/trick
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Hand yourself in to the local police, you are a stalker, and given the determination you have to inject yourself into her life, a potentional threat to her. If she is becoming less receptive it is because her instincts are to avoid you. Seriously, get help, I have read about cases like this. It appears you have little or no experience, thus you are posting here, and have limited social interaction or skills, otherwise you would be asking friends. The fact you are here indicates you have no friends, and this is a major indicator of other underlying psychological problems. Difficult childhood? Overbearing Mother? You need to get out more and develop more social interaction, otherwise you will become fixated with this woman, it will lead to anger when you are finally told to fuck off, and then will come violence. From what I can tell from your post you are borderline sociopath, emotionally immature and lacking in self esteem. Seek help immediately.
------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave CCC League Table Link CCC Link[^]
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For The last Year I have been consumed with this woman. At first She seemed receptive to My advances, However over the last few week's She has grown ummm Let's just say less receptive.:confused: My thought's are of her and for her but my Internal voice say's STOP! She has Invaded My dream's (verry pleasnt one's) My blog is all about Her. So My question is: Is this love or am I just a stalker? I think at the min. it's borderline OCD :^) Ok the bottom line, What do You think? Please forgive me for posting this here but i need help ;P Frazzle
If I seem rough arround the edeges well I am
Yep, 90% stalker. It looks like you have crossed the line and then, quite naturally, become defensive. Once that has happened it's over, sorry. I've been on the receiving end of this a couple of times and frankly it is scary. Elaine :rose:
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Have you ever considered becoming gay?
No why are you hitting on me? :laugh: JK
Frazzle the name say's it all
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No why are you hitting on me? :laugh: JK
Frazzle the name say's it all
Sure are, seems you've been rejected by the females, maybe it's time to bat the other way ;)
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Sure are, seems you've been rejected by the females, maybe it's time to bat the other way ;)
Well, I'm how can i put this, OK the best way is to be frank (not my name) although Your proposal is appreciated I would prefer To have a Woman (her if she will have me) However Thank You for the offer. BTW I know there are website's out there for your advance's i just don't have a link for you. :-\
Frazzle the name say's it all
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Yep, 90% stalker. It looks like you have crossed the line and then, quite naturally, become defensive. Once that has happened it's over, sorry. I've been on the receiving end of this a couple of times and frankly it is scary. Elaine :rose:
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There is nothing scary about this. I can take rejection, Not that anyone want's to be rejected. If it is over then She should tell Me so. My impression is that She is just less affectionate than I. I am sorry that You have had a bad experence in that matter.
Frazzle the name say's it all
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Well, I'm how can i put this, OK the best way is to be frank (not my name) although Your proposal is appreciated I would prefer To have a Woman (her if she will have me) However Thank You for the offer. BTW I know there are website's out there for your advance's i just don't have a link for you. :-\
Frazzle the name say's it all
But because your having problems attacting women maybe you should bat the other way?