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  • D David C Hobbyist

    For The last Year I have been consumed with this woman. At first She seemed receptive to My advances, However over the last few week's She has grown ummm Let's just say less receptive.:confused: My thought's are of her and for her but my Internal voice say's STOP! She has Invaded My dream's (verry pleasnt one's) My blog is all about Her. So My question is: Is this love or am I just a stalker? I think at the min. it's borderline OCD :^) Ok the bottom line, What do You think? Please forgive me for posting this here but i need help ;P Frazzle

    If I seem rough arround the edeges well I am

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    Abhinav S
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    love

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      frazzle-me wrote:

      love

      This word does not exist here. (This is a site visited only by geeks).

      The funniest thing about this particular signature is that by the time you realise it doesn't say anything it's too late to stop reading it. My latest tip/trick

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      • D Dalek Dave

        Look at the larger picture. He comes to a developers forum to ask whether his behaviour is appropriate. He is not asking friends or family, one has to ask why? Given that he has already admitted to stalking shows that he has psychological issues. I was being serious. Ed Gein was a lonely child with an overbearing mother, he had no social interaction and had a friendless existance. He too became fixated with women, and would stalk them. Wiki Entry[^] Not a nice man I think.

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        Ed Gein was a very good fellow you know...

        You must be careful in the forest Broken glass and rusty nails If you're to bring back something for us I have bullets for sale...

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        • D David C Hobbyist

          So what you are saying is: Trying to gain feedback from My peer's, Is not the way to get other perspective's on this matter. so maybe the news paper? JK I will take Your advice into consideration, I also have seen this kind of behavior from other women, However She is sweet but... (here is why I am confused) She is well let's just say not as affectionate as I. Maybe I am too emotional, ??? But that is how I feel. The funny thing is, I met her in a poker tourney. we laughed accross the table at things that were being said over the table. She won the tourney, I came in second, (texas Holdem) That was the day she stole My heart

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          frazzle-me wrote:

          So what you are saying is: Trying to gain feedback from My peer's, Is not the way to get other perspective's on this matter. so maybe the news paper? JK

          Hahaha :laugh: I meant that the stereotypical IT community has little clue as to female matters :doh:

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          Maybe I am too emotional, ??? But that is how I feel. [...] That was the day she stole My heart

          Sounds like you've got a serious case of love sickness... I think you need to answer all these questions for yourself. Maybe this is just what the doctor ordered - a forum you can open your heart to, the proverbial sounding board, so that you can hear for yourself the answer. Sounds mushy but these matters are rarely solved by others (at least in my experience). Good luck, whatever happens :) For the record, I don't think you're a stalker - but it may upset her or drive her away if your love is far deeper than what she reciprocates.

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          • D David C Hobbyist

            For The last Year I have been consumed with this woman. At first She seemed receptive to My advances, However over the last few week's She has grown ummm Let's just say less receptive.:confused: My thought's are of her and for her but my Internal voice say's STOP! She has Invaded My dream's (verry pleasnt one's) My blog is all about Her. So My question is: Is this love or am I just a stalker? I think at the min. it's borderline OCD :^) Ok the bottom line, What do You think? Please forgive me for posting this here but i need help ;P Frazzle

            If I seem rough arround the edeges well I am

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            NormDroid
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            Have you ever considered becoming gay?

            Software Kinetics - The home of good software

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              Worldy advice from Mssr Grauss aka CP's "Stud muffin" *grin* Bryce

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              :laugh:

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              • D David C Hobbyist

                For The last Year I have been consumed with this woman. At first She seemed receptive to My advances, However over the last few week's She has grown ummm Let's just say less receptive.:confused: My thought's are of her and for her but my Internal voice say's STOP! She has Invaded My dream's (verry pleasnt one's) My blog is all about Her. So My question is: Is this love or am I just a stalker? I think at the min. it's borderline OCD :^) Ok the bottom line, What do You think? Please forgive me for posting this here but i need help ;P Frazzle

                If I seem rough arround the edeges well I am

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                peterchen
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                If shee seems "receptive" for almost a year, she wasn't.

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                  Have you ever considered becoming gay?

                  Software Kinetics - The home of good software

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                  Are you offering to help with that?

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                    Are you offering to help with that?

                    [WikiLeaks Cablegate Cables]

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                    :) Only if my wife will let me ;)

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                    • D David C Hobbyist

                      I am 52, She is 56

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                      I was thinking of giving you advice... except now I know that your age is the reverse of mine, so it would probably better if you gave me advice. :) At your age, the ratio of men and women changes such that there are far more women than men. That makes you a commodity that is hard to come by. You should be having all kinds of ladies gettin' all up in yo bidness... take your pick! :-D

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                      • A Abhinav S

                        frazzle-me wrote:

                        love

                        This word does not exist here. (This is a site visited only by geeks).

                        The funniest thing about this particular signature is that by the time you realise it doesn't say anything it's too late to stop reading it. My latest tip/trick

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                        Abhinav S wrote:

                        This word does not exist here

                        Well, I do love programming.

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                        • D Dalek Dave

                          Hand yourself in to the local police, you are a stalker, and given the determination you have to inject yourself into her life, a potentional threat to her. If she is becoming less receptive it is because her instincts are to avoid you. Seriously, get help, I have read about cases like this. It appears you have little or no experience, thus you are posting here, and have limited social interaction or skills, otherwise you would be asking friends. The fact you are here indicates you have no friends, and this is a major indicator of other underlying psychological problems. Difficult childhood? Overbearing Mother? You need to get out more and develop more social interaction, otherwise you will become fixated with this woman, it will lead to anger when you are finally told to fuck off, and then will come violence. From what I can tell from your post you are borderline sociopath, emotionally immature and lacking in self esteem. Seek help immediately.

                          ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave CCC League Table Link CCC Link[^]

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                          Dalek Dave wrote:

                          Overbearing Mother

                          Mother held him too much, or not enough - pick you're cliche. now guess the movie quote

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                          • D David C Hobbyist

                            For The last Year I have been consumed with this woman. At first She seemed receptive to My advances, However over the last few week's She has grown ummm Let's just say less receptive.:confused: My thought's are of her and for her but my Internal voice say's STOP! She has Invaded My dream's (verry pleasnt one's) My blog is all about Her. So My question is: Is this love or am I just a stalker? I think at the min. it's borderline OCD :^) Ok the bottom line, What do You think? Please forgive me for posting this here but i need help ;P Frazzle

                            If I seem rough arround the edeges well I am

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                            Yep, 90% stalker. It looks like you have crossed the line and then, quite naturally, become defensive. Once that has happened it's over, sorry. I've been on the receiving end of this a couple of times and frankly it is scary. Elaine :rose:

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                            • N NormDroid

                              Have you ever considered becoming gay?

                              Software Kinetics - The home of good software

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                              No why are you hitting on me? :laugh: JK

                              Frazzle the name say's it all

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                              • D David C Hobbyist

                                No why are you hitting on me? :laugh: JK

                                Frazzle the name say's it all

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                                NormDroid
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                                Sure are, seems you've been rejected by the females, maybe it's time to bat the other way ;)

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                                  Sure are, seems you've been rejected by the females, maybe it's time to bat the other way ;)

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                                  David C Hobbyist
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                                  Well, I'm how can i put this, OK the best way is to be frank (not my name) although Your proposal is appreciated I would prefer To have a Woman (her if she will have me) However Thank You for the offer. BTW I know there are website's out there for your advance's i just don't have a link for you. :-\

                                  Frazzle the name say's it all

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                                    Yep, 90% stalker. It looks like you have crossed the line and then, quite naturally, become defensive. Once that has happened it's over, sorry. I've been on the receiving end of this a couple of times and frankly it is scary. Elaine :rose:

                                    Join the cool kids - Come fold with us[^]

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                                    David C Hobbyist
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                                    There is nothing scary about this. I can take rejection, Not that anyone want's to be rejected. If it is over then She should tell Me so. My impression is that She is just less affectionate than I. I am sorry that You have had a bad experence in that matter.

                                    Frazzle the name say's it all

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                                    • D David C Hobbyist

                                      Well, I'm how can i put this, OK the best way is to be frank (not my name) although Your proposal is appreciated I would prefer To have a Woman (her if she will have me) However Thank You for the offer. BTW I know there are website's out there for your advance's i just don't have a link for you. :-\

                                      Frazzle the name say's it all

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                                      NormDroid
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                                      But because your having problems attacting women maybe you should bat the other way?

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                                        But because your having problems attacting women maybe you should bat the other way?

                                        Software Kinetics - The home of good software

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                                        David C Hobbyist
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                                        I did not say I had trouble attracting women, that is not an issue. The issue at hand is will She continue to be there of am I barking upthe wrong tree so to speak. If the latter is the case then so be it I will move on. But not with annother man thank You. So how does that work do they rub the heads together? :omg:

                                        Frazzle the name say's it all

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                                        • D David C Hobbyist

                                          I did not say I had trouble attracting women, that is not an issue. The issue at hand is will She continue to be there of am I barking upthe wrong tree so to speak. If the latter is the case then so be it I will move on. But not with annother man thank You. So how does that work do they rub the heads together? :omg:

                                          Frazzle the name say's it all

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                                          NormDroid
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                                          I haven't a scoobie wnat the hell you are on about, I suggest you go crying to a dear job website. This site is mainly for programmers/developers not people with personal problems. Let's leave at this post, you're becoming a bore/troll.

                                          Software Kinetics - The home of good software

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