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  • C Chris Maunder

    I have to say I'm pretty depressed reading the thread (below) about the new member. Have you guys never seen a female before? Do you really need to perpetuate the myth that developers have no social skills and turn into pre-pubescent teenagers at the site sight of a woman? I am cringing at the thought of all the female developers in the world reading that thread, at all the wives and girlfriends of you guys reading that thread, and of members such as Leckey, Trollslayer, Lauren, and Corinna, just to name a few. I know you're just tryint to make fun, but no, not like this.

    cheers, Chris Maunder The Code Project | Co-founder Microsoft C++ MVP

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    Mark_Wallace
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    Chris Maunder wrote:

    I am cringing at the thought of all the female developers in the world reading that thread, at all the wives and girlfriends of you guys reading that thread, and of members such as Leckey, Trollslayer, Lauren, and Corinna, just to name a few.

    Well said. Those were precisely my first thoughts.

    I wanna be a eunuchs developer! Pass me a bread knife!

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    • D Dalek Dave

      See my response in the aforementioned thread. Apologies to all members, I was in the wrong. (I have asked Chris to delete the thread.)

      ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave CCC League Table Link CCC Link[^]

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      NormDroid
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      I think you should keep all comments refering the the opposite sex under your hat in future - just a tip.

      Software Kinetics - The home of good software

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      • C Chris Maunder

        I have to say I'm pretty depressed reading the thread (below) about the new member. Have you guys never seen a female before? Do you really need to perpetuate the myth that developers have no social skills and turn into pre-pubescent teenagers at the site sight of a woman? I am cringing at the thought of all the female developers in the world reading that thread, at all the wives and girlfriends of you guys reading that thread, and of members such as Leckey, Trollslayer, Lauren, and Corinna, just to name a few. I know you're just tryint to make fun, but no, not like this.

        cheers, Chris Maunder The Code Project | Co-founder Microsoft C++ MVP

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        Lost User
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        Chris Maunder wrote:

        Have you guys never seen a female before

        I would have thought this question would have been answered by the type of thread that continuously crops up in here every couple of months, which goes along the lines of... '..... I need your advise, my girlfriend is seeing someone else. Every morning, for the past 3 years, I say Good Morning to a collegue and she says Good Morning back. The conversation has not progressed beyond this point. However she has stopped responding to my Good Morning ever since she caught me following her home and peering through her windows all night. What should I do? Do you think we are still an item? etc etc In all seriousness though you are right. There are probably many female developers signed up to this site, who are afraid to make themselves visible in the Lounge for this exact reason.

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          I think you should keep all comments refering the the opposite sex under your hat in future - just a tip.

          Software Kinetics - The home of good software

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          Dalek Dave
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          I shall keep them more appropriate. I just let myself run away without thinking. Apologies have been made in general, but here is a personal one to you. Sorry if I let the side down.

          ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave CCC League Table Link CCC Link[^]

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          • C Chris Maunder

            I have to say I'm pretty depressed reading the thread (below) about the new member. Have you guys never seen a female before? Do you really need to perpetuate the myth that developers have no social skills and turn into pre-pubescent teenagers at the site sight of a woman? I am cringing at the thought of all the female developers in the world reading that thread, at all the wives and girlfriends of you guys reading that thread, and of members such as Leckey, Trollslayer, Lauren, and Corinna, just to name a few. I know you're just tryint to make fun, but no, not like this.

            cheers, Chris Maunder The Code Project | Co-founder Microsoft C++ MVP

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            leppie
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            Chris Maunder wrote:

            Have you guys never seen a female before?

            Not since I moved out of my parent's home @ age 34, 14 years ago ;P

            ((λ (x) `(,x ',x)) '(λ (x) `(,x ',x)))

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            • D Dalek Dave

              I shall keep them more appropriate. I just let myself run away without thinking. Apologies have been made in general, but here is a personal one to you. Sorry if I let the side down.

              ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave CCC League Table Link CCC Link[^]

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              NormDroid
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              I'm just glad it wasn't Friday night when you started the post :)

              Software Kinetics - The home of good software

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              • C Chris Maunder

                I have to say I'm pretty depressed reading the thread (below) about the new member. Have you guys never seen a female before? Do you really need to perpetuate the myth that developers have no social skills and turn into pre-pubescent teenagers at the site sight of a woman? I am cringing at the thought of all the female developers in the world reading that thread, at all the wives and girlfriends of you guys reading that thread, and of members such as Leckey, Trollslayer, Lauren, and Corinna, just to name a few. I know you're just tryint to make fun, but no, not like this.

                cheers, Chris Maunder The Code Project | Co-founder Microsoft C++ MVP

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                J4amieC
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                We're you really that surprised from this Person? Seems he should have got a MUP not an MVP

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                • C Chris Maunder

                  I have to say I'm pretty depressed reading the thread (below) about the new member. Have you guys never seen a female before? Do you really need to perpetuate the myth that developers have no social skills and turn into pre-pubescent teenagers at the site sight of a woman? I am cringing at the thought of all the female developers in the world reading that thread, at all the wives and girlfriends of you guys reading that thread, and of members such as Leckey, Trollslayer, Lauren, and Corinna, just to name a few. I know you're just tryint to make fun, but no, not like this.

                  cheers, Chris Maunder The Code Project | Co-founder Microsoft C++ MVP

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                  Lost User
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                  I decided not to reply to that thread.

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                  • C Chris Maunder

                    I have to say I'm pretty depressed reading the thread (below) about the new member. Have you guys never seen a female before? Do you really need to perpetuate the myth that developers have no social skills and turn into pre-pubescent teenagers at the site sight of a woman? I am cringing at the thought of all the female developers in the world reading that thread, at all the wives and girlfriends of you guys reading that thread, and of members such as Leckey, Trollslayer, Lauren, and Corinna, just to name a few. I know you're just tryint to make fun, but no, not like this.

                    cheers, Chris Maunder The Code Project | Co-founder Microsoft C++ MVP

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                    Lost User
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                    *Yawns* If you're gonna try and cause a stir about a new member, couldn't you guys come up with some new material? I've heard it ALL before, I posted a genuine question about a topic I'm struggling with, and all of a sudden there's 30+ posts about me personally. Get over it already!

                    A girl in Engineering AND IT?!...what is this nonsense?

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                    • L Lost User

                      *Yawns* If you're gonna try and cause a stir about a new member, couldn't you guys come up with some new material? I've heard it ALL before, I posted a genuine question about a topic I'm struggling with, and all of a sudden there's 30+ posts about me personally. Get over it already!

                      A girl in Engineering AND IT?!...what is this nonsense?

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                      Lost User
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                      Welcome, don't be put off, we are not as immature as we make out. P.S. Although you are based in the UK you look American to me, is this correct.(Please try not to be offended if you are not.)

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                      • L Lost User

                        *Yawns* If you're gonna try and cause a stir about a new member, couldn't you guys come up with some new material? I've heard it ALL before, I posted a genuine question about a topic I'm struggling with, and all of a sudden there's 30+ posts about me personally. Get over it already!

                        A girl in Engineering AND IT?!...what is this nonsense?

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                        J4amieC
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                        Don't let one neanderthal make you think this place is all like that. The majority are sensible, mature people.

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                        • L Lost User

                          *Yawns* If you're gonna try and cause a stir about a new member, couldn't you guys come up with some new material? I've heard it ALL before, I posted a genuine question about a topic I'm struggling with, and all of a sudden there's 30+ posts about me personally. Get over it already!

                          A girl in Engineering AND IT?!...what is this nonsense?

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                          Pete OHanlon
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                          May I just say welcome to the site, if nobody's done it already. More importantly, welcome to the Lounge, where we come to kick back, be immature and generally goof off. To quote a cousin of mine "Y'all wanna stop by sometime."

                          thatdiceygirl wrote:

                          I posted a genuine question about a topic I'm struggling with

                          To be fair, some people have tried to answer the question, without drooling and going "phnerr phnerrr". That's the more usual response - after all, we are used to the ladies stopping on by here.

                          I'm not a stalker, I just know things. Oh by the way, you're out of milk.

                          Forgive your enemies - it messes with their heads

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                            *Yawns* If you're gonna try and cause a stir about a new member, couldn't you guys come up with some new material? I've heard it ALL before, I posted a genuine question about a topic I'm struggling with, and all of a sudden there's 30+ posts about me personally. Get over it already!

                            A girl in Engineering AND IT?!...what is this nonsense?

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                            Ravi Sant
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                            And i get down voted for just informing you, just to prevent further disaster early!

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                              And i get down voted for just informing you, just to prevent further disaster early!

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                              Pete OHanlon
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                              Sometimes it's better just to leave well alone. I preferred to mock Dave - it's much more fun.

                              I'm not a stalker, I just know things. Oh by the way, you're out of milk.

                              Forgive your enemies - it messes with their heads

                              My blog | My articles | MoXAML PowerToys | Onyx

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                              • C Chris Maunder

                                I have to say I'm pretty depressed reading the thread (below) about the new member. Have you guys never seen a female before? Do you really need to perpetuate the myth that developers have no social skills and turn into pre-pubescent teenagers at the site sight of a woman? I am cringing at the thought of all the female developers in the world reading that thread, at all the wives and girlfriends of you guys reading that thread, and of members such as Leckey, Trollslayer, Lauren, and Corinna, just to name a few. I know you're just tryint to make fun, but no, not like this.

                                cheers, Chris Maunder The Code Project | Co-founder Microsoft C++ MVP

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                                super
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                                I decided not to engage in that discussion. Not worth it

                                cheers, Super ------------------------------------------ Too much of good is bad,mix some evil in it

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                                  Welcome, don't be put off, we are not as immature as we make out. P.S. Although you are based in the UK you look American to me, is this correct.(Please try not to be offended if you are not.)

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                                  Rod Kemp
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                                  Umm, what does "American" look like? :sigh:

                                  People are more violently opposed to fur than leather because it's safer to harass rich women than motorcycle gangs

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                                  • C Chris Maunder

                                    I have to say I'm pretty depressed reading the thread (below) about the new member. Have you guys never seen a female before? Do you really need to perpetuate the myth that developers have no social skills and turn into pre-pubescent teenagers at the site sight of a woman? I am cringing at the thought of all the female developers in the world reading that thread, at all the wives and girlfriends of you guys reading that thread, and of members such as Leckey, Trollslayer, Lauren, and Corinna, just to name a few. I know you're just tryint to make fun, but no, not like this.

                                    cheers, Chris Maunder The Code Project | Co-founder Microsoft C++ MVP

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                                    Lost User
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                                    Just one more reason why I spend less time in the Lounge than in the past. Sad really... :(

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                                    • D Dalek Dave

                                      I shall keep them more appropriate. I just let myself run away without thinking. Apologies have been made in general, but here is a personal one to you. Sorry if I let the side down.

                                      ------------------------------------ I will never again mention that I was the poster of the One Millionth Lounge Post, nor that it was complete drivel. Dalek Dave CCC League Table Link CCC Link[^]

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                                      Caslen
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                                      Dalek Dave wrote:

                                      Sorry if I let the side down.

                                      Again?

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                                        *Yawns* If you're gonna try and cause a stir about a new member, couldn't you guys come up with some new material? I've heard it ALL before, I posted a genuine question about a topic I'm struggling with, and all of a sudden there's 30+ posts about me personally. Get over it already!

                                        A girl in Engineering AND IT?!...what is this nonsense?

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                                        Anna Jayne Metcalfe
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                                        I hope you won't let this bit of infantile behaviour put you off. This is genuinely a fun, friendly and constructive place to hang ou, and you can do a lot for your skills (and thus career) by getting involved in the community here. :rose:

                                        Anna :rose: Tech Blog | Visual Lint "Why would anyone prefer to wield a weapon that takes both hands at once, when they could use a lighter (and obviously superior) weapon that allows you to wield multiple ones at a time, and thus supports multi-paradigm carnage?"

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                                          I decided not to engage in that discussion. Not worth it

                                          cheers, Super ------------------------------------------ Too much of good is bad,mix some evil in it

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                                          Anna Jayne Metcalfe
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                                          Exactly.

                                          Anna :rose: Tech Blog | Visual Lint "Why would anyone prefer to wield a weapon that takes both hands at once, when they could use a lighter (and obviously superior) weapon that allows you to wield multiple ones at a time, and thus supports multi-paradigm carnage?"

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