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I love you, but I'm not *in* love with you

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  • Richard Andrew x64R Richard Andrew x64

    It means she herself doesn't know what she means. All she knows is she feels compelled to move on, but she still has feelings. Pretty stupid if you ask me.

    The difficult we do right away... ...the impossible takes slightly longer.

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    andyharglesis
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    Still sexists.

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    • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

      The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

      Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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      leppie
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      Brian C Hart wrote:

      what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

      "Go away, dude, you're my brother"

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      • C Christian Graus

        I'd say she's telling you she wants to cease all access to her trouser area, but to stay on friendly terms. But, women are confusing, don't ask a bunch of geeks to decode, ask her for clarification.

        Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.

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        NormDroid
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        :) Christian has just hit the nail firmly on the head.

        Software Kinetics - The home of good software

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        • A andyharglesis

          Sexists.

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          Pete OHanlon
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          Go on. I'll bite. Why is it sexist to say you may not get a good answer here? I'm genuinely curious.

          Forgive your enemies - it messes with their heads

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          • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

            The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

            Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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            peterchen
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            Nice to have you around, but not worth fighting for. Sorry. :rose:

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            • A Albert Holguin

              I agree with Christian... asking this type of question in a development forum is like asking Stephen Hawking for a good jogging route... you may get an answer, but its just not a reliable source... ;P

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              peterchen
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              Albert Holguin wrote:

              asking Stephen Hawking for a good jogging route

              You might get a fresh perspective, though...

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              • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

                Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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                Slacker007
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                It only matters to you if you are "in love" with her. I know from my personal experience that if a woman says that she is not "in love" with you that usually means she doesn't want anything intimate from you and she has probably been thinking about a way out of your relationship for sometime. Women think with their hearts and men think with their clicks.

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                • P peterchen

                  Albert Holguin wrote:

                  asking Stephen Hawking for a good jogging route

                  You might get a fresh perspective, though...

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                  Albert Holguin
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                  he may recommend jogging through black holes and wormholes... :~

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                  • P PIEBALDconsult

                    Depends... the woman who is my wife dumped me a few times while we were dating. She kept pulling me back in. :-D

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                    GenJerDan
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                    "Just when I thought that I was out they pull me back in."

                    Build a man a fire, and he'll be warm for a day. Set a man on fire, and he'll be warm for the rest of his life. My Mu[sic] My Films My Windows Programs, etc.

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                    • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                      The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

                      Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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                      GenJerDan
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                      With approximately 2,187,838,153 women in the world, how could it possibly matter what she meant? Head for the bus stop. :laugh:

                      Build a man a fire, and he'll be warm for a day. Set a man on fire, and he'll be warm for the rest of his life. My Mu[sic] My Films My Windows Programs, etc.

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                      • S Slacker007

                        It only matters to you if you are "in love" with her. I know from my personal experience that if a woman says that she is not "in love" with you that usually means she doesn't want anything intimate from you and she has probably been thinking about a way out of your relationship for sometime. Women think with their hearts and men think with their clicks.

                        ----------------------------- Just along for the ride. -----------------------------

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                        andyharglesis
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                        Sexist.

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                        • G GenJerDan

                          With approximately 2,187,838,153 women in the world, how could it possibly matter what she meant? Head for the bus stop. :laugh:

                          Build a man a fire, and he'll be warm for a day. Set a man on fire, and he'll be warm for the rest of his life. My Mu[sic] My Films My Windows Programs, etc.

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                          andyharglesis
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                          Sexist.

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                          • P Pete OHanlon

                            Go on. I'll bite. Why is it sexist to say you may not get a good answer here? I'm genuinely curious.

                            Forgive your enemies - it messes with their heads

                            My blog | My articles | MoXAML PowerToys | Mole 2010 - debugging made easier - my favourite utility

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                            andyharglesis
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                            This whole topic is becoming a juvenile discussion of raging chimps.

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                            • A andyharglesis

                              This whole topic is becoming a juvenile discussion of raging chimps.

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                              Pete OHanlon
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                              And how does that answer my question? A couple of points: You don't have to read these discussions. You chose to do so. I asked you a civilised question which you chose to respond to in a juvenile fashion. Now could you please answer my question? Why was this sexist? If you can't offer a reasoned argument you shouldn't waste our time.

                              Forgive your enemies - it messes with their heads

                              My blog | My articles | MoXAML PowerToys | Mole 2010 - debugging made easier - my favourite utility

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