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  • M Mycroft Holmes

    Naerling wrote:

    My girlfriend and I broke up last night

    Ah to be young again - don't worry as you get older the emotional pain reduces (the financial on on the other hands expands).

    Naerling wrote:

    call my ex and beg her to take me back.

    Dumbest possible move - possibly tell her you are bored but IMHO begging just does not work.

    Naerling wrote:

    Computer, you really are my best friend!

    Sad, definitely sad. Entertainment, work object, sure but friend! Go out for a walk, wander into a pub you have never been in and have a beer.

    Never underestimate the power of human stupidity RAH

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    Manfred Rudolf Bihy
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    Mycroft Holmes wrote:

    wander into a pub you have never been in and have a beer.

    I'll second that move! "Alcohol the cause of and solution to all of life's problems"

    Homer J. Simpson, Philosopher

    Cheers!

    "With sufficient thrust, pigs fly just fine."

    Ross Callon, The Twelve Networking Truths, RFC1925

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    • Sander RosselS Sander Rossel

      My girlfriend and I broke up last night. The last 2 years and 2 months I have spent every weekend with her. It is now sunday and I am alone, a bit sad and pretty bored. I was thinking of writing a CP article (I'm working on a useless, but fun bit of code, just for practice), but whenever I start the solution I feel like I should be doing something more active. Wanted to fix my flat bicycle tire, but I'm all out of fixing materials (and shops closed on sunday). All my friends are out because the weather is hot and sunny (and beach is not an option for me, I don't like the sand, the water, the sun, the people...). And I don't feel like doing anything alone because I want to get away from my own thoughts right now... I feel like I have four options... Watch a movie, play a video game, work on my code or call my ex and beg her to take me back. Seeing it like that it seems that working on my code is least likely to give me any regrets. Computer, you really are my best friend! :(

      It's an OO world.

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      popchecker
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      I feel you, my friend.

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      • M Mycroft Holmes

        Naerling wrote:

        My girlfriend and I broke up last night

        Ah to be young again - don't worry as you get older the emotional pain reduces (the financial on on the other hands expands).

        Naerling wrote:

        call my ex and beg her to take me back.

        Dumbest possible move - possibly tell her you are bored but IMHO begging just does not work.

        Naerling wrote:

        Computer, you really are my best friend!

        Sad, definitely sad. Entertainment, work object, sure but friend! Go out for a walk, wander into a pub you have never been in and have a beer.

        Never underestimate the power of human stupidity RAH

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        Sander Rossel
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        #6

        Mycroft Holmes wrote:

        Dumbest possible move

        That wasn't really a serious option :laugh:

        Mycroft Holmes wrote:

        wander into a pub you have never been in and have a beer.

        This village has only one pub, I wonder if it is open on sunday (I live in a bible belt) and I don't drink alcohol. Thanks for the suggestion though, it doesn't sound half bad ;) After just typing my original post I started working on my code again. Having fun with collections, implementing everything from IEnumerable to IDictionary. Definitly going to make an article about it :) I also texted a friend, going to watch a movie tonight. Today might not be such a bad day after all. I just need to get my mind off things :thumbsup:

        It's an OO world.

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        • D DaveAuld

          Chin up....... Go for a looong walk, it will help clear your head and de-stress.

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          Sander Rossel
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          I just might do that today :)

          It's an OO world.

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          • Sander RosselS Sander Rossel

            My girlfriend and I broke up last night. The last 2 years and 2 months I have spent every weekend with her. It is now sunday and I am alone, a bit sad and pretty bored. I was thinking of writing a CP article (I'm working on a useless, but fun bit of code, just for practice), but whenever I start the solution I feel like I should be doing something more active. Wanted to fix my flat bicycle tire, but I'm all out of fixing materials (and shops closed on sunday). All my friends are out because the weather is hot and sunny (and beach is not an option for me, I don't like the sand, the water, the sun, the people...). And I don't feel like doing anything alone because I want to get away from my own thoughts right now... I feel like I have four options... Watch a movie, play a video game, work on my code or call my ex and beg her to take me back. Seeing it like that it seems that working on my code is least likely to give me any regrets. Computer, you really are my best friend! :(

            It's an OO world.

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            Abhinav S
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            Sorry to hear that. As suggested before, go for a drive or a walk. Try and occupy your mind. I know its easier said than done, but watch back to back movies or start playing games. See if you can get in touch with some old male friends and go out to drink or something.

            Naerling wrote:

            Computer, you really are my best friend!

            Agreed. Real life sucks big time.

            Too much of heaven can bring you underground Heaven can always turn around Too much of heaven, our life is all hell bound Heaven, the kill that makes no sound

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            • P popchecker

              I feel you, my friend.

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              Manfred Rudolf Bihy
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              popchecker wrote:

              I feel you

              :wtf: WTMI :laugh: If, on the other hand, you had wanted to say "I feel with you" then I'm with you and support your commiseration! Cheers!

              "With sufficient thrust, pigs fly just fine."

              Ross Callon, The Twelve Networking Truths, RFC1925

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              • Sander RosselS Sander Rossel

                My girlfriend and I broke up last night. The last 2 years and 2 months I have spent every weekend with her. It is now sunday and I am alone, a bit sad and pretty bored. I was thinking of writing a CP article (I'm working on a useless, but fun bit of code, just for practice), but whenever I start the solution I feel like I should be doing something more active. Wanted to fix my flat bicycle tire, but I'm all out of fixing materials (and shops closed on sunday). All my friends are out because the weather is hot and sunny (and beach is not an option for me, I don't like the sand, the water, the sun, the people...). And I don't feel like doing anything alone because I want to get away from my own thoughts right now... I feel like I have four options... Watch a movie, play a video game, work on my code or call my ex and beg her to take me back. Seeing it like that it seems that working on my code is least likely to give me any regrets. Computer, you really are my best friend! :(

                It's an OO world.

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                Play TF2. The solution to all boredom.

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                • M Manfred Rudolf Bihy

                  popchecker wrote:

                  I feel you

                  :wtf: WTMI :laugh: If, on the other hand, you had wanted to say "I feel with you" then I'm with you and support your commiseration! Cheers!

                  "With sufficient thrust, pigs fly just fine."

                  Ross Callon, The Twelve Networking Truths, RFC1925

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                  My bad. :doh: Thanks for correcting me. :-D

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                  • P popchecker

                    I feel you, my friend.

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                    Sander Rossel
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                    #12

                    What Manfred said :laugh: Thanks :)

                    It's an OO world.

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                    • A Abhinav S

                      Sorry to hear that. As suggested before, go for a drive or a walk. Try and occupy your mind. I know its easier said than done, but watch back to back movies or start playing games. See if you can get in touch with some old male friends and go out to drink or something.

                      Naerling wrote:

                      Computer, you really are my best friend!

                      Agreed. Real life sucks big time.

                      Too much of heaven can bring you underground Heaven can always turn around Too much of heaven, our life is all hell bound Heaven, the kill that makes no sound

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                      Sander Rossel
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                      Abhinav S wrote:

                      watch back to back movies

                      Back to the Future! :D Recently watched the whole trilogy with a friend.

                      Abhinav S wrote:

                      some old male friends

                      Why not just the friends of my own age ;) I never let women come between me and my friends. Just to bad they are all out when I need them most ;P I'm seeing a movie with a friend tonight, and I've started working on my code again. I'll manage. Thanks for the heads up :)

                      Abhinav S wrote:

                      Real life sucks big time.

                      Although I am not sure that is actually such a good heads up :laugh:

                      It's an OO world.

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                      • Sander RosselS Sander Rossel

                        What Manfred said :laugh: Thanks :)

                        It's an OO world.

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                        :-O I just wanted to support you. At least I could make you laugh at me. I am happy. :)

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                        • P popchecker

                          :-O I just wanted to support you. At least I could make you laugh at me. I am happy. :)

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                          Sander Rossel
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                          Thanks :)

                          It's an OO world.

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                          • Sander RosselS Sander Rossel

                            My girlfriend and I broke up last night. The last 2 years and 2 months I have spent every weekend with her. It is now sunday and I am alone, a bit sad and pretty bored. I was thinking of writing a CP article (I'm working on a useless, but fun bit of code, just for practice), but whenever I start the solution I feel like I should be doing something more active. Wanted to fix my flat bicycle tire, but I'm all out of fixing materials (and shops closed on sunday). All my friends are out because the weather is hot and sunny (and beach is not an option for me, I don't like the sand, the water, the sun, the people...). And I don't feel like doing anything alone because I want to get away from my own thoughts right now... I feel like I have four options... Watch a movie, play a video game, work on my code or call my ex and beg her to take me back. Seeing it like that it seems that working on my code is least likely to give me any regrets. Computer, you really are my best friend! :(

                            It's an OO world.

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                            LittleYellowBird
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                            Sorry to hear that. Stay busy. :rose:

                            Ali

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                            • A Abhinav S

                              Sorry to hear that. As suggested before, go for a drive or a walk. Try and occupy your mind. I know its easier said than done, but watch back to back movies or start playing games. See if you can get in touch with some old male friends and go out to drink or something.

                              Naerling wrote:

                              Computer, you really are my best friend!

                              Agreed. Real life sucks big time.

                              Too much of heaven can bring you underground Heaven can always turn around Too much of heaven, our life is all hell bound Heaven, the kill that makes no sound

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                              JimmyRopes
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                              " See if you can get in touch with some old male friends and go out to drink or something." :| See if you can get in touch with some old male female friends and go out to drink or something. FTFY :-D

                              Simply Elegant Designs JimmyRopes Designs
                              Think inside the box! ProActive Secure Systems
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                              • Sander RosselS Sander Rossel

                                Abhinav S wrote:

                                watch back to back movies

                                Back to the Future! :D Recently watched the whole trilogy with a friend.

                                Abhinav S wrote:

                                some old male friends

                                Why not just the friends of my own age ;) I never let women come between me and my friends. Just to bad they are all out when I need them most ;P I'm seeing a movie with a friend tonight, and I've started working on my code again. I'll manage. Thanks for the heads up :)

                                Abhinav S wrote:

                                Real life sucks big time.

                                Although I am not sure that is actually such a good heads up :laugh:

                                It's an OO world.

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                                " Abhinav S wrote: some old male female friends" A better idea. Sympathy sex is as good,or sometimes better, than any other kind. Seriously, this sounds like your first breakup from a major relationship. Like with any other transition in your life it consists of three phases; mourning the end of the previous, confused time where there is termoil in your life, and dawn of a new beginning. The mourning phase is the hardest to deal with. As I suggested a sympathetic female friend may be the best way to navigate that phase. It additionally adds a sense of finality to the breakup as she will never take you back if this female friend is also a friend of hers. This works with ex-wives also. The confused phase, in my case, usually consists of trying new things. As long as you don't end up serving time in jail just about anything that strikes your fancy will do. The new beginning will follow naturarly. I know this all seems hard to deal with right now, but after the third or forth breakup you start to roll with it. It is all part of life. P.S.- what is your ex-gf telephone number? :~ <SORRY> I couldn't help myself. </SORRY>

                                Simply Elegant Designs JimmyRopes Designs
                                Think inside the box! ProActive Secure Systems
                                I'm on-line therefore I am. JimmyRopes

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                                • J JimmyRopes

                                  " Abhinav S wrote: some old male female friends" A better idea. Sympathy sex is as good,or sometimes better, than any other kind. Seriously, this sounds like your first breakup from a major relationship. Like with any other transition in your life it consists of three phases; mourning the end of the previous, confused time where there is termoil in your life, and dawn of a new beginning. The mourning phase is the hardest to deal with. As I suggested a sympathetic female friend may be the best way to navigate that phase. It additionally adds a sense of finality to the breakup as she will never take you back if this female friend is also a friend of hers. This works with ex-wives also. The confused phase, in my case, usually consists of trying new things. As long as you don't end up serving time in jail just about anything that strikes your fancy will do. The new beginning will follow naturarly. I know this all seems hard to deal with right now, but after the third or forth breakup you start to roll with it. It is all part of life. P.S.- what is your ex-gf telephone number? :~ <SORRY> I couldn't help myself. </SORRY>

                                  Simply Elegant Designs JimmyRopes Designs
                                  Think inside the box! ProActive Secure Systems
                                  I'm on-line therefore I am. JimmyRopes

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                                  JimmyRopes wrote:

                                  Seriously, this sounds like your first breakup from a major relationship.

                                  Second... And a half :)

                                  JimmyRopes wrote:

                                  Sympathy sex

                                  Not going to happen... I think... :^)

                                  JimmyRopes wrote:

                                  It additionally adds a sense of finality to the breakup as she will never take you back if this female friend is also a friend of hers.

                                  That is certainly not going to happen :laugh:

                                  JimmyRopes wrote:

                                  P.S.- what is your ex-gf telephone number?

                                  omg :laugh:

                                  It's an OO world.

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                                  • Sander RosselS Sander Rossel

                                    My girlfriend and I broke up last night. The last 2 years and 2 months I have spent every weekend with her. It is now sunday and I am alone, a bit sad and pretty bored. I was thinking of writing a CP article (I'm working on a useless, but fun bit of code, just for practice), but whenever I start the solution I feel like I should be doing something more active. Wanted to fix my flat bicycle tire, but I'm all out of fixing materials (and shops closed on sunday). All my friends are out because the weather is hot and sunny (and beach is not an option for me, I don't like the sand, the water, the sun, the people...). And I don't feel like doing anything alone because I want to get away from my own thoughts right now... I feel like I have four options... Watch a movie, play a video game, work on my code or call my ex and beg her to take me back. Seeing it like that it seems that working on my code is least likely to give me any regrets. Computer, you really are my best friend! :(

                                    It's an OO world.

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                                    Naerling wrote:

                                    My girlfriend and I broke up last night.

                                    Sad to hear that :rose:

                                    Naerling wrote:

                                    I feel like I have four options...Watch a movie

                                    Well, May I suggest you? Watch Breaking the Waves[^] or Betty Blue[^] Both are unusual movies but I suggested these purposely(Guess why).

                                    Naerling wrote:

                                    play a video game

                                    Also nice idea.

                                    Naerling wrote:

                                    work on my code

                                    Not a good idea now.

                                    Naerling wrote:

                                    call my ex and beg her to take me back.

                                    Better idea. Surprise her by gift & dinner. :love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love:

                                    Naerling wrote:

                                    Computer, you really are my best friend! :(

                                    Ofcourse, we most of us addicted to him. :cool:

                                    thatraja


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                                    • Sander RosselS Sander Rossel

                                      My girlfriend and I broke up last night. The last 2 years and 2 months I have spent every weekend with her. It is now sunday and I am alone, a bit sad and pretty bored. I was thinking of writing a CP article (I'm working on a useless, but fun bit of code, just for practice), but whenever I start the solution I feel like I should be doing something more active. Wanted to fix my flat bicycle tire, but I'm all out of fixing materials (and shops closed on sunday). All my friends are out because the weather is hot and sunny (and beach is not an option for me, I don't like the sand, the water, the sun, the people...). And I don't feel like doing anything alone because I want to get away from my own thoughts right now... I feel like I have four options... Watch a movie, play a video game, work on my code or call my ex and beg her to take me back. Seeing it like that it seems that working on my code is least likely to give me any regrets. Computer, you really are my best friend! :(

                                      It's an OO world.

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                                      Naerling wrote:

                                      beg her to take me back.

                                      You could try cutting off your ear and FedExing it to her. . .although that didn't work for this guy[^]

                                      “Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one." ~ Albert Einstein

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                                        Naerling wrote:

                                        My girlfriend and I broke up last night.

                                        Sad to hear that :rose:

                                        Naerling wrote:

                                        I feel like I have four options...Watch a movie

                                        Well, May I suggest you? Watch Breaking the Waves[^] or Betty Blue[^] Both are unusual movies but I suggested these purposely(Guess why).

                                        Naerling wrote:

                                        play a video game

                                        Also nice idea.

                                        Naerling wrote:

                                        work on my code

                                        Not a good idea now.

                                        Naerling wrote:

                                        call my ex and beg her to take me back.

                                        Better idea. Surprise her by gift & dinner. :love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love:

                                        Naerling wrote:

                                        Computer, you really are my best friend! :(

                                        Ofcourse, we most of us addicted to him. :cool:

                                        thatraja


                                        **My Tip/Tricks
                                        My Dad had a Heart Attack on this day so don't...
                                        **All these are my opinions. Different people. different way of thinking. I am no one to judge others - Chandru

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                                        thatraja wrote:

                                        Watch Breaking the Waves[^] or Betty Blue[^]

                                        Thanks, I'll look into it :)

                                        thatraja wrote:

                                        Better idea. Surprise her by gift & dinner.

                                        And have a fight again next week? No thanks, there is a reason we broke up ;P

                                        thatraja wrote:

                                        Ofcourse, we most of us addicted to him.

                                        You know it! :thumbsup:

                                        It's an OO world.

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                                        • Sander RosselS Sander Rossel

                                          JimmyRopes wrote:

                                          Seriously, this sounds like your first breakup from a major relationship.

                                          Second... And a half :)

                                          JimmyRopes wrote:

                                          Sympathy sex

                                          Not going to happen... I think... :^)

                                          JimmyRopes wrote:

                                          It additionally adds a sense of finality to the breakup as she will never take you back if this female friend is also a friend of hers.

                                          That is certainly not going to happen :laugh:

                                          JimmyRopes wrote:

                                          P.S.- what is your ex-gf telephone number?

                                          omg :laugh:

                                          It's an OO world.

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                                          " Second... And a half" Do yourself a favor and make it your third. Trying to hold on only prolongs the mourning phase; the most difficult. JimmyRopes wrote: It additionally adds a sense of finality to the breakup as she will never take you back if this female friend is also a friend of hers. That is certainly not going to happen" Don't be so sure. This happened to me when my favorite ex-wife and I had a trail seperation, and it wasn't even my idea. I received a call from her best friend from childhood and the trail seperation worked. We have been happily seperated for 38 years now (divorced for 35). BTW she forgave her friend, but not me. :thumbsup: It made the breakup easier as there was no illusion that we were going to work things out and we got on with our lives. Her girlfriend hates me also, which in this case is an added bonus because she turned out to be a raving mad shewolf. The things you find out about people when you get naked with them.

                                          Simply Elegant Designs JimmyRopes Designs
                                          Think inside the box! ProActive Secure Systems
                                          I'm on-line therefore I am. JimmyRopes

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