May they rot in hell for eternity
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Just out of curiosity when did you lose your virginity, and when did you want to lose it? --edit-- I see very few here understand the reason for this question. It is about trying to establish at what age we became sexually active and how that relates to current law. For example it is illegal for a 15 girl to send her 15 year old boyfriend a picture of her that is sexual in nature. (It is illegal for BOTH of them, since it concerns the production, distribution, and holding of what the law sees as 'child porn'). So, is paedophillia an age issue or a difference of age issue? --edit 2 -- Oh, by the way, 14 and 13 for me.
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Why don't you tell us first?
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I'm not sure that is the best idea. If they post 250 names of those 'accused', I can't help but think that there must be 2 or 3 guys on that list that *may* be innocent and might suffer from the witch hunt or possible false victims seeking a financial settlement from the church. That's in regards to the name you gave the link, which seems to be a call for revenge. Now, IMO victims should never be prosecuted from killing their abuser, no matter how long after the fact.
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I think we all just learned something about fat_boy. Was anyone surprised?
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I think we all just learned something about fat_boy
What! FB and Eric are one and the same!?! I'd never have guessed that. :rolleyes:
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What kind of question is that?
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Why don't you tell us first?
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How would he know when you lost your virginity? Or Slacker lost his? Unless he was there? Are you telling us something, digital man?
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Pedophilia is, I am afraid, quite common. According to a number of studies somewhere around one in five women and one in six men have been abused. The vast majority of them are abused not by clergy or boy scout leaders or any of the other popular stereotypes, but by family members or close family friends. This does not in any way excuse those priests - or the ones who have not been reported - but focusing too much on the Catholic Church as a source of pedophilia is, to my mind, looking away from the real problem. Whatever hypocrisy is shown by the priesthood as they protect their own - how much greater is the hypocrisy of families - mothers hiding abuse by fathers, older brothers, grandfathers, and uncles, and forcing their sons and daughter to keep quiet - even blame themselves?
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IMO they have to ditch the celibacy if they want a healthy Church. Remember “The thorn Birds”?
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IMO they have to ditch the celibacy if they want a healthy Church. Remember “The thorn Birds”?
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Deyan Georgiev wrote:
IMO they have to ditch the celibacy
I've never tried celibacy - what's it like? ;)
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Oakman wrote:
I've never tried celibacy
I don’t believe you; I know you have been married.
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Pedophilia is, I am afraid, quite common. According to a number of studies somewhere around one in five women and one in six men have been abused. The vast majority of them are abused not by clergy or boy scout leaders or any of the other popular stereotypes, but by family members or close family friends. This does not in any way excuse those priests - or the ones who have not been reported - but focusing too much on the Catholic Church as a source of pedophilia is, to my mind, looking away from the real problem. Whatever hypocrisy is shown by the priesthood as they protect their own - how much greater is the hypocrisy of families - mothers hiding abuse by fathers, older brothers, grandfathers, and uncles, and forcing their sons and daughter to keep quiet - even blame themselves?
“Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one." ~ Albert Einstein
Oakman wrote:
This does not in any way excuse those priests - or the ones who have not been reported - but focusing too much on the Catholic Church as a source of pedophilia is, to my mind, looking away from the real problem. Whatever hypocrisy is shown by the priesthood as they protect their own -
Some things do however spring to mind. For example those families are not tax exempt institutions. There is also no wide ranging conspiracy with hundreds if not thousands of individuals complicit in it.
Oakman wrote:
how much greater is the hypocrisy of families - mothers hiding abuse by fathers, older brothers, grandfathers, and uncles, and forcing their sons and daughter to keep quiet - even blame themselves?
Which is nothing but a very, very poor attempt to deflect blame. First every sexual crime is very likely to cause the victim to blame themselves. Actually most serious crime of any sort does that. Second is is common sense to see that the church is vastly more hypocritical. The Catholic church has for centuries has made a significant point of condemning sex of any sort excluding that between a married man and women (and still limits that with a ban on any sort of birth control.) And they have done so via a vast number of public forums. Additionally the priesthood is specifically prohibited from any sex as well. A substantial point of their entire life is specifically dedicated to actively condemning this. Yet there has been a substantial organized long time effort to cover up every single instance.
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Oakman wrote:
I've never tried celibacy
I don’t believe you; I know you have been married.
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Deyan Georgiev wrote:
I know you have been married.
Was that supposed to stop me from screwing around? Being someone who came of age in the 60's, I didn't get the memo! ;)
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I'm going to use that. :-D
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Oakman wrote:
This does not in any way excuse those priests - or the ones who have not been reported - but focusing too much on the Catholic Church as a source of pedophilia is, to my mind, looking away from the real problem. Whatever hypocrisy is shown by the priesthood as they protect their own -
Some things do however spring to mind. For example those families are not tax exempt institutions. There is also no wide ranging conspiracy with hundreds if not thousands of individuals complicit in it.
Oakman wrote:
how much greater is the hypocrisy of families - mothers hiding abuse by fathers, older brothers, grandfathers, and uncles, and forcing their sons and daughter to keep quiet - even blame themselves?
Which is nothing but a very, very poor attempt to deflect blame. First every sexual crime is very likely to cause the victim to blame themselves. Actually most serious crime of any sort does that. Second is is common sense to see that the church is vastly more hypocritical. The Catholic church has for centuries has made a significant point of condemning sex of any sort excluding that between a married man and women (and still limits that with a ban on any sort of birth control.) And they have done so via a vast number of public forums. Additionally the priesthood is specifically prohibited from any sex as well. A substantial point of their entire life is specifically dedicated to actively condemning this. Yet there has been a substantial organized long time effort to cover up every single instance.
jschell wrote:
For example those families are not tax exempt institutions.
I'm really not sure how that has anything to do with it, but for what it's worth, I don't think there should be tax-exempt organization - not the Catholic Church, not the Boy Scouts of America, not the Democratic party, not General Electric - and not all those families that use their mortgage interest as a tax-deduction.
jschell wrote:
Which is nothing but a very, very poor attempt to deflect blame.
It appears you have some trouble comprehending the words "This does not in any way excuse those priests - or the ones who have not been reported." Tell me which ones you have having trouble with and I'll attempt to rephrase.
jschell wrote:
Second is is common sense to see that the church is vastly more hypocritical.
Really? That's "common sense?" An institution not living up to its pronouncements is "vastly" more hypocritical than a mother pretending that there's nothing wrong with a father, her husband, raping a son or daughter? Really??? Wow :rolleyes:
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I'm going to use that. :-D
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250?? And how many lives did they FU forever?? Rotting in hell would be to good for them. I'd say prison in a cell with a horny queen for 20 life sentences.
Now that food has replaced sex in my life, I can't even get into my own pants.
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Shameel wrote:
I'm surprised the church did that.
Why? The Catholic Church is a man-made institution. And every institution, no matter how noble, holy, or altruistic its professed goals quickly determines that its most important function is to stay in existence and, as a concomitant, to increase its power. This is true for any religious group, political entity, charitable organization, or corporation. And the leaders will all, perhaps with great protestations of disliking what they do, lie, cheat, steal, and even kill to protect their organization - which, incidentally, maintains and increases their power, as well.
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Deyan Georgiev wrote:
I'm going to use that
Be my guest. I must admit it didn't work very well with my third wife. She came of age in the 80's.
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And that's the last time she came. Boom tish.
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Shameel wrote:
I'm surprised the church did that.
Why? The Catholic Church is a man-made institution. And every institution, no matter how noble, holy, or altruistic its professed goals quickly determines that its most important function is to stay in existence and, as a concomitant, to increase its power. This is true for any religious group, political entity, charitable organization, or corporation. And the leaders will all, perhaps with great protestations of disliking what they do, lie, cheat, steal, and even kill to protect their organization - which, incidentally, maintains and increases their power, as well.
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It seems you got me wrong. Let me amend my statement. "I'm surprised the Church posted names of Boston clergy accused of child sex abuse."
