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    Nickk Bisht
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    If You are married or planning to get married, what are your opinions about life after marriage. :( :(( :sigh: :~:confused::cool: :)

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      If You are married or planning to get married, what are your opinions about life after marriage. :( :(( :sigh: :~:confused::cool: :)

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      walterhevedeich
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      Looks like someone is not sure with his girlfriend. :) Cmon, tell us what you really feel. And you might want to remove the unnecessary emoticons before you get flamed.

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        Looks like someone is not sure with his girlfriend. :) Cmon, tell us what you really feel. And you might want to remove the unnecessary emoticons before you get flamed.

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        Nickk Bisht
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        :) :)

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        • N Nickk Bisht

          If You are married or planning to get married, what are your opinions about life after marriage. :( :(( :sigh: :~:confused::cool: :)

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          Lost User
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          I did try it for like 1 week and every day I was in count down to grave yard. A feeling came to me that my time is over, when i started thinking about upcoming children ;P ;P

          I only read newbie introductory dummy books.

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          • N Nickk Bisht

            If You are married or planning to get married, what are your opinions about life after marriage. :( :(( :sigh: :~:confused::cool: :)

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            Yuri Vital
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            life after Mariage, form me it's just like before... and it's now since 6 years that i'm engaged. :) It's just most easy to buy a house, pays less tax, etc... In my opinion, mariage it's just a social thing that said "We have planed somme projects together [for a while]". But that is a very personal point of view, you have your own signification

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              If You are married or planning to get married, what are your opinions about life after marriage. :( :(( :sigh: :~:confused::cool: :)

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              Dalek Dave
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              Tis a fine thing. I have been with Michelle for 17 years, married nearly 7 of them and haven't gone completely insane yet.

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                If You are married or planning to get married, what are your opinions about life after marriage. :( :(( :sigh: :~:confused::cool: :)

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                Slacker007
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                Married for 11 years, together for 16. Not everyone is cut out for marriage. Don't get married if you think it is not for you. Marriage is work. If you are lazy then don't get married. You are not always right. Admit when you are wrong. Children will be more important to your wife then you. If this bothers you then don't get married. -- Love the one your with.

                Just along for the ride. "the meat from that butcher is just the dogs danglies, absolutely amazing cuts of beef." - DaveAuld (2011)
                "No, that is just the earthly manifestation of the Great God Retardon." - Nagy Vilmos (2011)

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                • N Nickk Bisht

                  If You are married or planning to get married, what are your opinions about life after marriage. :( :(( :sigh: :~:confused::cool: :)

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                  Nagy Vilmos
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                  Married for ten years, lived together for 7. :-D


                  Panic, Chaos, Destruction. My work here is done. Drink. Get drunk. Fall over - P O'H OK, I will win to day or my name isn't Ethel Crudacre! - DD Ethel Crudacre I cannot live by bread alone. Bacon and ketchup are needed as well. - Trollslayer Have a bit more patience with newbies. Of course some of them act dumb - they're often *students*, for heaven's sake - Terry Pratchett

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                    Married for ten years, lived together for 7. :-D


                    Panic, Chaos, Destruction. My work here is done. Drink. Get drunk. Fall over - P O'H OK, I will win to day or my name isn't Ethel Crudacre! - DD Ethel Crudacre I cannot live by bread alone. Bacon and ketchup are needed as well. - Trollslayer Have a bit more patience with newbies. Of course some of them act dumb - they're often *students*, for heaven's sake - Terry Pratchett

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                    Slacker007
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                    :laugh:

                    Just along for the ride. "the meat from that butcher is just the dogs danglies, absolutely amazing cuts of beef." - DaveAuld (2011)
                    "No, that is just the earthly manifestation of the Great God Retardon." - Nagy Vilmos (2011)

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                      :laugh:

                      Just along for the ride. "the meat from that butcher is just the dogs danglies, absolutely amazing cuts of beef." - DaveAuld (2011)
                      "No, that is just the earthly manifestation of the Great God Retardon." - Nagy Vilmos (2011)

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                      Nagy Vilmos
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                      We'll have known each other 11 years December, our wedding anniversary is May and we have spent around 3 years living apart. It is not easy, but we manage. The current situation is for the benefit of the girls, so they can get at least a year or two of formal Hungarian learning.


                      Panic, Chaos, Destruction. My work here is done. Drink. Get drunk. Fall over - P O'H OK, I will win to day or my name isn't Ethel Crudacre! - DD Ethel Crudacre I cannot live by bread alone. Bacon and ketchup are needed as well. - Trollslayer Have a bit more patience with newbies. Of course some of them act dumb - they're often *students*, for heaven's sake - Terry Pratchett

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                      • N Nickk Bisht

                        If You are married or planning to get married, what are your opinions about life after marriage. :( :(( :sigh: :~:confused::cool: :)

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                        Pete OHanlon
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                        Been with Mrs Yoda for 25 years now, married for 15 of them and still very happy.

                        Forgive your enemies - it messes with their heads

                        "Mind bleach! Send me mind bleach!" - Nagy Vilmos

                        My blog | My articles | MoXAML PowerToys | Mole 2010 - debugging made easier - my favourite utility

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                          Married for ten years, lived together for 7. :-D


                          Panic, Chaos, Destruction. My work here is done. Drink. Get drunk. Fall over - P O'H OK, I will win to day or my name isn't Ethel Crudacre! - DD Ethel Crudacre I cannot live by bread alone. Bacon and ketchup are needed as well. - Trollslayer Have a bit more patience with newbies. Of course some of them act dumb - they're often *students*, for heaven's sake - Terry Pratchett

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                          Nickk Bisht
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                          and what about those three 3years left

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                            and what about those three 3years left

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                            Nagy Vilmos
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                            I was in Singapore for six months, Sweden for Six months and two years in London. We're now separated again as they're back in Budapest and I'm still in London. But I go home every weekend and we have a very strong commitment to each other. The limited time we have together these days is used to the max and we try to make the most of it for the children as well. Every night I call the girls on skype and talk for anything up to an hour about their day and after they go to bed, I will spend another hour chatting with Mrs Wife. I think we probably talk more than many married couples living under the same roof.


                            Panic, Chaos, Destruction. My work here is done. Drink. Get drunk. Fall over - P O'H OK, I will win to day or my name isn't Ethel Crudacre! - DD Ethel Crudacre I cannot live by bread alone. Bacon and ketchup are needed as well. - Trollslayer Have a bit more patience with newbies. Of course some of them act dumb - they're often *students*, for heaven's sake - Terry Pratchett

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                              We'll have known each other 11 years December, our wedding anniversary is May and we have spent around 3 years living apart. It is not easy, but we manage. The current situation is for the benefit of the girls, so they can get at least a year or two of formal Hungarian learning.


                              Panic, Chaos, Destruction. My work here is done. Drink. Get drunk. Fall over - P O'H OK, I will win to day or my name isn't Ethel Crudacre! - DD Ethel Crudacre I cannot live by bread alone. Bacon and ketchup are needed as well. - Trollslayer Have a bit more patience with newbies. Of course some of them act dumb - they're often *students*, for heaven's sake - Terry Pratchett

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                              Slacker007
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                              Nagy Vilmos wrote:

                              we have spent around 3 years living apart.

                              Not so funny. I did not know. Sorry.

                              Just along for the ride. "the meat from that butcher is just the dogs danglies, absolutely amazing cuts of beef." - DaveAuld (2011)
                              "No, that is just the earthly manifestation of the Great God Retardon." - Nagy Vilmos (2011)

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                                Nagy Vilmos wrote:

                                we have spent around 3 years living apart.

                                Not so funny. I did not know. Sorry.

                                Just along for the ride. "the meat from that butcher is just the dogs danglies, absolutely amazing cuts of beef." - DaveAuld (2011)
                                "No, that is just the earthly manifestation of the Great God Retardon." - Nagy Vilmos (2011)

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                                Nagy Vilmos
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                                It's not great but we get through it. We had the last 5 years in London, which was great, and now the girls have gone back to school. I hope that I can start doing 1 or 2 days per week at home soon which will make things much easier.


                                Panic, Chaos, Destruction. My work here is done. Drink. Get drunk. Fall over - P O'H OK, I will win to day or my name isn't Ethel Crudacre! - DD Ethel Crudacre I cannot live by bread alone. Bacon and ketchup are needed as well. - Trollslayer Have a bit more patience with newbies. Of course some of them act dumb - they're often *students*, for heaven's sake - Terry Pratchett

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                                  Been with Mrs Yoda for 25 years now, married for 15 of them and still very happy.

                                  Forgive your enemies - it messes with their heads

                                  "Mind bleach! Send me mind bleach!" - Nagy Vilmos

                                  My blog | My articles | MoXAML PowerToys | Mole 2010 - debugging made easier - my favourite utility

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                                  Slacker007
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                                  :thumbsup:

                                  Just along for the ride. "the meat from that butcher is just the dogs danglies, absolutely amazing cuts of beef." - DaveAuld (2011)
                                  "No, that is just the earthly manifestation of the Great God Retardon." - Nagy Vilmos (2011)

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                                    It's not great but we get through it. We had the last 5 years in London, which was great, and now the girls have gone back to school. I hope that I can start doing 1 or 2 days per week at home soon which will make things much easier.


                                    Panic, Chaos, Destruction. My work here is done. Drink. Get drunk. Fall over - P O'H OK, I will win to day or my name isn't Ethel Crudacre! - DD Ethel Crudacre I cannot live by bread alone. Bacon and ketchup are needed as well. - Trollslayer Have a bit more patience with newbies. Of course some of them act dumb - they're often *students*, for heaven's sake - Terry Pratchett

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                                    Slacker007
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                                    My hat is off to you. It would absolutely kill me inside to be away from my family like that.

                                    Just along for the ride. "the meat from that butcher is just the dogs danglies, absolutely amazing cuts of beef." - DaveAuld (2011)
                                    "No, that is just the earthly manifestation of the Great God Retardon." - Nagy Vilmos (2011)

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                                      I was in Singapore for six months, Sweden for Six months and two years in London. We're now separated again as they're back in Budapest and I'm still in London. But I go home every weekend and we have a very strong commitment to each other. The limited time we have together these days is used to the max and we try to make the most of it for the children as well. Every night I call the girls on skype and talk for anything up to an hour about their day and after they go to bed, I will spend another hour chatting with Mrs Wife. I think we probably talk more than many married couples living under the same roof.


                                      Panic, Chaos, Destruction. My work here is done. Drink. Get drunk. Fall over - P O'H OK, I will win to day or my name isn't Ethel Crudacre! - DD Ethel Crudacre I cannot live by bread alone. Bacon and ketchup are needed as well. - Trollslayer Have a bit more patience with newbies. Of course some of them act dumb - they're often *students*, for heaven's sake - Terry Pratchett

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                                      Nickk Bisht
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                                      Really I like the way u live :) And hoping same for me

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                                        My hat is off to you. It would absolutely kill me inside to be away from my family like that.

                                        Just along for the ride. "the meat from that butcher is just the dogs danglies, absolutely amazing cuts of beef." - DaveAuld (2011)
                                        "No, that is just the earthly manifestation of the Great God Retardon." - Nagy Vilmos (2011)

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                                        Nagy Vilmos
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                                        It is very hard, but you make the most of it. My parents often spent months apart when we were young as me Da was army. For both grandparents it was years for the same reason. I feel I am lucky to be able to get home every week; I know a lot of people who do the commute and only get home every two or three week.


                                        Panic, Chaos, Destruction. My work here is done. Drink. Get drunk. Fall over - P O'H OK, I will win to day or my name isn't Ethel Crudacre! - DD Ethel Crudacre I cannot live by bread alone. Bacon and ketchup are needed as well. - Trollslayer Have a bit more patience with newbies. Of course some of them act dumb - they're often *students*, for heaven's sake - Terry Pratchett

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                                          Really I like the way u live :) And hoping same for me

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                                          Nagy Vilmos
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                                          Nickk Bisht wrote:

                                          hoping same for me

                                          Trust me, you don't want to choose this way of life. I love my family very much and it is heart wrenching to be spending most of my time away from them. I have to use my time with them fully and it does mean I get very little rest. I work hard during the week - often over 10 hours a day - and then try to fill my weekends with as much quality time as possible. My advice is be careful what you wish for.


                                          Panic, Chaos, Destruction. My work here is done. Drink. Get drunk. Fall over - P O'H OK, I will win to day or my name isn't Ethel Crudacre! - DD Ethel Crudacre I cannot live by bread alone. Bacon and ketchup are needed as well. - Trollslayer Have a bit more patience with newbies. Of course some of them act dumb - they're often *students*, for heaven's sake - Terry Pratchett

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