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  • S Stan Shannon

    Well, dammit! Someone has to say it: That really took balls! :omg: "Any clod can have the facts, but having opinions is an art." Charles McCabe, San Francisco Chronicle

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    David Wulff
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    *groan* :rolleyes:


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    • A Anna Jayne Metcalfe

      John, Guess what? I don't care what you think. You're bigotry is your problem, not mine. You leave me to live my life and I'll leave you to live yours, OK? I may have been born looking like a guy, but that doesn't mean I have to spend the rest of my life pretending to be one. One more thing. As far as how I look is concerned, I'm quite happy with my appearance and figure, and so it seems are most others...I've been receiving emails at work today congratulating me on how good I look, and I don't get a second glance when I go out in public. Stay out of my life and I'll stay out of yours. Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

      "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
      - Marcia Graesch

      Trouble with resource IDs? Try the Resource ID Organiser Add-In for Visual C++

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      Le centriste
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      :rose:

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      • A Anna Jayne Metcalfe

        Jason, I know we disagree on this subject, but I'd appreciate it if you don't refer me as "he" or "his". Please? Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

        "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
        - Marcia Graesch

        Trouble with resource IDs? Try the Resource ID Organiser Add-In for Visual C++

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        Jason Henderson
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        It will be difficult, because I think of you as still being male but hiding it. I would be lying and I really can't do that. I will do my best to avoid the situation. I hope you can understand.

        Jason Henderson
        start page ; articles henderson is coming henderson is an opponent's worst nightmare * googlism *

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          Bah, ignore John, he just doesn't seem able to grasp the concept that someone can be so different to the norm and just how important it is not to suppress who you are (I am all too familiar with the emotional problems and shame that breeds). John, if you do read this, it takes more guts to admit something like this to yourself that I think you've ever had in you, let alone take the extraordinarily hard step to approach those you love and care about with it. If you think you've experienced insecurities, unadulterated fear and a kind of melancholy hopelessness that even Wordsworth couldn't put onto paper, then trust me mate – you haven't even sighted the iceberg, let alone scraped it. And those people who don't care about Anna don't matter – life doesn't work like that; never has and never will do. In your own choice phrases: I doubt Anna could give a shit what you think of her. Now that's over with, welcome back Anna! I hope this year will be a good one - well done! :rose: I'm looking forward to that new version of ResOrg – it's one of the few adding for VS that I actually use. :)


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          Anna Jayne Metcalfe
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          Thanks Dave. :) I do try my best to ignore John and his bigotted comments, but at times I really do have to restrain myself from telling him what I think of his opinions! :mad: As far as the new version of ResOrg goes - once the code's done, I expect to have to take at least a couple of weeks to update the help and website. That's the real boring bit. :| Once I get that far I'm quite happy to send you an advance copy (I'd guess source is best) so you can have a sneak preview. Just let me know. :) Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

          "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
          - Marcia Graesch

          Trouble with resource IDs? Try the Resource ID Organiser Add-In for Visual C++

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          • S Stan Shannon

            Well, dammit! Someone has to say it: That really took balls! :omg: "Any clod can have the facts, but having opinions is an art." Charles McCabe, San Francisco Chronicle

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            gave you a fiver despite that baaaad pun.


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              He actually looks kinda gay if you ask me. :eek:


              When I am king, you will be first against the wall.

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              This is getting into a real mud wrestling match. ;P I will admit he could very easily have been in The Village People, but you shouldn't go round calling people gay or lesbian purely because of how they look or act - that creates bad stereotypes and gives John something to laugh about. :rolleyes:


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              • S Stan Shannon

                Well, dammit! Someone has to say it: That really took balls! :omg: "Any clod can have the facts, but having opinions is an art." Charles McCabe, San Francisco Chronicle

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                Anna Jayne Metcalfe
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                Stan Shannon wrote: Well, dammit! Someone has to say it: That really took balls! It sure did. :-O But now it's done, I've got a pair going spare. Hmmm....Ebay? :wtf: Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

                "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
                - Marcia Graesch

                Trouble with resource IDs? Try the Resource ID Organiser Add-In for Visual C++

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                • S Stan Shannon

                  Well, dammit! Someone has to say it: That really took balls! :omg: "Any clod can have the facts, but having opinions is an art." Charles McCabe, San Francisco Chronicle

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                  ROTFL! :laugh: :eek:

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                  • A Anna Jayne Metcalfe

                    Stan Shannon wrote: Well, dammit! Someone has to say it: That really took balls! It sure did. :-O But now it's done, I've got a pair going spare. Hmmm....Ebay? :wtf: Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

                    "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
                    - Marcia Graesch

                    Trouble with resource IDs? Try the Resource ID Organiser Add-In for Visual C++

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                    Anna-Jayne Metcalfe wrote: Ebay Someone is bound to buy them (I hear they are quite a delicatessen in Germany ;P)!


                    David Wulff http://www.davidwulff.co.uk

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                    • A Anna Jayne Metcalfe

                      Thanks Dave. :) I do try my best to ignore John and his bigotted comments, but at times I really do have to restrain myself from telling him what I think of his opinions! :mad: As far as the new version of ResOrg goes - once the code's done, I expect to have to take at least a couple of weeks to update the help and website. That's the real boring bit. :| Once I get that far I'm quite happy to send you an advance copy (I'd guess source is best) so you can have a sneak preview. Just let me know. :) Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

                      "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
                      - Marcia Graesch

                      Trouble with resource IDs? Try the Resource ID Organiser Add-In for Visual C++

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                      Anna-Jayne Metcalfe wrote: Just let me know Sure thing. :)


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                      • A Anna Jayne Metcalfe

                        John, Guess what? I don't care what you think. You're bigotry is your problem, not mine. You leave me to live my life and I'll leave you to live yours, OK? I may have been born looking like a guy, but that doesn't mean I have to spend the rest of my life pretending to be one. One more thing. As far as how I look is concerned, I'm quite happy with my appearance and figure, and so it seems are most others...I've been receiving emails at work today congratulating me on how good I look, and I don't get a second glance when I go out in public. Stay out of my life and I'll stay out of yours. Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

                        "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
                        - Marcia Graesch

                        Trouble with resource IDs? Try the Resource ID Organiser Add-In for Visual C++

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                        A close friend of the family (husband of my mum's closest friend) has recently come out, and I'm finding some of the bigotted reactions of people around me very surprising (and tbh I found the entire concept a bit unreal myself, to start out) I'm glad you're comfortable at work, as he (hmm, still feels strange thinking of someone I've known all my life as a him, as a her) lectures in a university, so I imagine there could be some incredibly hurtful comments from the students. I know I was hugely reluctant to see the photos, but she does look fantastic, and more importantly, looks happy which is the most important thing, imo Oh yeah, I notice you like to Jennifer Diane Reitz's site - are you hooked on unicornjelly.com[^] too? -- Help me! I'm turning into a grapefruit!

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                          This is getting into a real mud wrestling match. ;P I will admit he could very easily have been in The Village People, but you shouldn't go round calling people gay or lesbian purely because of how they look or act - that creates bad stereotypes and gives John something to laugh about. :rolleyes:


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                          This is getting into a real mud wrestling match. Preferably involving young blonde Swedish ladies ... ooops ... there I go stereotyping again ... :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:


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                            It will be difficult, because I think of you as still being male but hiding it. I would be lying and I really can't do that. I will do my best to avoid the situation. I hope you can understand.

                            Jason Henderson
                            start page ; articles henderson is coming henderson is an opponent's worst nightmare * googlism *

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                            Anna Jayne Metcalfe
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                            I really do Jason. :rose: It just hurts when I hear it, I'm afraid. Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

                            "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
                            - Marcia Graesch

                            Trouble with resource IDs? Try the Resource ID Organiser Add-In for Visual C++

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                              Anna-Jayne Metcalfe wrote: Ebay Someone is bound to buy them (I hear they are quite a delicatessen in Germany ;P)!


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                              Anna Jayne Metcalfe
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                              David Wulff wrote: Someone is bound to buy them (I hear they are quite a delicatessen in Germany )! That's the scariest thing! Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

                              "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
                              - Marcia Graesch

                              Trouble with resource IDs? Try the Resource ID Organiser Add-In for Visual C++

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                                :rose:

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                                I do try, but don't always succeed! :-O Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

                                "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
                                - Marcia Graesch

                                Trouble with resource IDs? Try the Resource ID Organiser Add-In for Visual C++

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                                  It will be difficult, because I think of you as still being male but hiding it. I would be lying and I really can't do that. I will do my best to avoid the situation. I hope you can understand.

                                  Jason Henderson
                                  start page ; articles henderson is coming henderson is an opponent's worst nightmare * googlism *

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                                  Jason Henderson wrote: It will be difficult, because I think of you as still being male but hiding it. I would be lying and I really can't do that. Yet earlier you said "Sometimes its better to be quiet than to be honest about your feelings.", so while not a direct hypocrisy I think it is bordering on one. Also as I am no doubt you are aware I don't believe in idly sitting by when I disagree with something. I do try and be constructively critical though.

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                                    Stan Shannon wrote: Well, dammit! Someone has to say it: That really took balls! It sure did. :-O But now it's done, I've got a pair going spare. Hmmm....Ebay? :wtf: Anna :rose: www.annasplace.me.uk

                                    "Be yourself - not what others think you should be"
                                    - Marcia Graesch

                                    Trouble with resource IDs? Try the Resource ID Organiser Add-In for Visual C++

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                                    you kept them? :wtf: Guess they might come in handy for scaring children, or something -- Help me! I'm turning into a grapefruit!

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                                      A close friend of the family (husband of my mum's closest friend) has recently come out, and I'm finding some of the bigotted reactions of people around me very surprising (and tbh I found the entire concept a bit unreal myself, to start out) I'm glad you're comfortable at work, as he (hmm, still feels strange thinking of someone I've known all my life as a him, as a her) lectures in a university, so I imagine there could be some incredibly hurtful comments from the students. I know I was hugely reluctant to see the photos, but she does look fantastic, and more importantly, looks happy which is the most important thing, imo Oh yeah, I notice you like to Jennifer Diane Reitz's site - are you hooked on unicornjelly.com[^] too? -- Help me! I'm turning into a grapefruit!

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                                      benjymous wrote: are you hooked on unicornjelly.com[^] too? :omg: :wtf: :eek: Understanding Christianity[^] is brilliant! :laugh:


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                                        Anna-Jayne Metcalfe wrote: Ebay Someone is bound to buy them (I hear they are quite a delicatessen in Germany ;P)!


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                                        David Wulff wrote: (I hear they are quite a delicatessen in Germany )! I presume you meant delicacy. Imagining them being used as a delicatessen gives a rather disturbing image -- Help me! I'm turning into a grapefruit!

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                                          It will be difficult, because I think of you as still being male but hiding it. I would be lying and I really can't do that. I will do my best to avoid the situation. I hope you can understand.

                                          Jason Henderson
                                          start page ; articles henderson is coming henderson is an opponent's worst nightmare * googlism *

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                                          :rolleyes: It's hardly a Herculean task but I'm guessing you must have a religious angle. That can be the only explanation for such unwillingness to comply with someone else's wishes. Perhaps the only way out is to *always* make sure you say "Anna's" instead of "his" or "Anna" instead of "he". That way you will not by "lying" as you call it, and you will cause Anna no offence :) "The folly of man is that he dreams of what he can never achieve rather than dream of what he can."

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