First Experiences With "The Lounge"
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Welcome to the internet. If you think this is bad, I can provide you with a list of places to avoid like the plague.
Please post the list... so I can promptly visit these places... :suss:
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Then again, with 8 million members, who cares if 4-5 are offended each week? I think the Lounge attracts far more members than it repulses.
Somebody in an online forum wrote:
INTJs never really joke. They make a point. The joke is just a gift wrapper.
AspDotNetDev wrote:
I think the Lounge attracts far more members than it repulses.
Yeah, true but it also seems to attract people with bullying tendencies. I assume that many people here are so weak and timid in real life that they like to play tough-guy in these forums here.
Regards, Nish
My technology blog: voidnish.wordpress.com You've gotta read this : Using lambdas - C++ vs. C# vs. C++/CX vs. C++/CLI
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Then again, with 8 million members, who cares if 4-5 are offended each week? I think the Lounge attracts far more members than it repulses.
Somebody in an online forum wrote:
INTJs never really joke. They make a point. The joke is just a gift wrapper.
I think more programmers offend people with their looks/smell[^] than lounge posts...
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First of all, I love the code fragment! LOL Oh, I'm not taking any of this personally. Just trying to help promote professionalism in this industry. A number of the responses have indicated that I should lighten up and not take things personally, and to view it from the viewpoint of those that are regular contributors to The Lounge. This is sort of like a restaurant owner suggesting to a first time patron that he should have not expected good professional service from the wait staff because if the person knew them, he would understand. A completely true statement, but one that is likely to ensure that the first visit to the restaurant is the last visit. Forums like The Lounge are very much professional forums and should be treated as such. And the words you say in these forums has a VERY long life, and CAN come back to bite you! This is exactly why I very seldom let someone I know from my business world be a friend on Facebook, where I let down my hair. And I never let my personal jokes, wise cracks, etc. show up on linkedin.com, so as not to tarnish my professional appearance.
I completely agree that the reactions on your question were uncalled for. The restaurant metaphor is not completely correct though. We are here out of our free will. Especially the lounge people come here for their pleasure and relaxation. Waiting staff gets paid to do their job, we don't. That being said someone should simply have pointed you to the correct forum and leave it at that. I believe that would have been decent human being behaviour. Another thing I want to point out, in defence of Nagy, is that he did actually contribute a lot to CP, even though you might not tell from his reaction. So I'm sure he meant no harm :)
diverbw wrote:
First of all, I love the code fragment! LOL
Did it answer your question though? I got downvoted for answering you by the way :laugh: I hope this whole affair has not traumatized you for life and that you will come back here in the future. Either for help with your problems (not this forum obviously) or just to chat :)
It's an OO world.
public class Naerling : Lazy<Person>{
public void DoWork(){ throw new NotImplementedException(); }
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First of all, I love the code fragment! LOL Oh, I'm not taking any of this personally. Just trying to help promote professionalism in this industry. A number of the responses have indicated that I should lighten up and not take things personally, and to view it from the viewpoint of those that are regular contributors to The Lounge. This is sort of like a restaurant owner suggesting to a first time patron that he should have not expected good professional service from the wait staff because if the person knew them, he would understand. A completely true statement, but one that is likely to ensure that the first visit to the restaurant is the last visit. Forums like The Lounge are very much professional forums and should be treated as such. And the words you say in these forums has a VERY long life, and CAN come back to bite you! This is exactly why I very seldom let someone I know from my business world be a friend on Facebook, where I let down my hair. And I never let my personal jokes, wise cracks, etc. show up on linkedin.com, so as not to tarnish my professional appearance.
I think the problem you've run into is that the difference between linkedin.com and facebook.com is obvious. The difference between [Code Project professional forums] and [Code Project casual forums] is less obvious. Still, there is a difference.
Somebody in an online forum wrote:
INTJs never really joke. They make a point. The joke is just a gift wrapper.
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I think more programmers offend people with their looks/smell[^] than lounge posts...
6/10 :laugh:
It's an OO world.
public class Naerling : Lazy<Person>{
public void DoWork(){ throw new NotImplementedException(); }
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AspDotNetDev wrote:
I think the Lounge attracts far more members than it repulses.
Yeah, true but it also seems to attract people with bullying tendencies. I assume that many people here are so weak and timid in real life that they like to play tough-guy in these forums here.
Regards, Nish
My technology blog: voidnish.wordpress.com You've gotta read this : Using lambdas - C++ vs. C# vs. C++/CX vs. C++/CLI
Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
Yeah, true but it also seems to attract people with bullying tendencies.
Think that's true of any anonymous (or semi-anonymous) board though. [although some of us have our names on our profile]
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Another GREAT example of the unprofessionalism, elitism, and cronyism I am referring to in this post.
Oh, come off it. His reply was a bit snarky, but hey that's what you get with the intertubes. Relax. Yes, what you said in your post was well written and has hit the mark, but your choice to be offended is only self-defeating. Get over yourself.
If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun -
Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
Yeah, true but it also seems to attract people with bullying tendencies.
Think that's true of any anonymous (or semi-anonymous) board though. [although some of us have our names on our profile]
Albert Holguin wrote:
Think that's true of any anonymous (or semi-anonymous) board though.
I agree.
Regards, Nish
My technology blog: voidnish.wordpress.com You've gotta read this : Using lambdas - C++ vs. C# vs. C++/CX vs. C++/CLI
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6/10 :laugh:
It's an OO world.
public class Naerling : Lazy<Person>{
public void DoWork(){ throw new NotImplementedException(); }
}I just guessed they were all serial killers (5/10)... :laugh:
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AspDotNetDev wrote:
I think the Lounge attracts far more members than it repulses.
Yeah, true but it also seems to attract people with bullying tendencies. I assume that many people here are so weak and timid in real life that they like to play tough-guy in these forums here.
Regards, Nish
My technology blog: voidnish.wordpress.com You've gotta read this : Using lambdas - C++ vs. C# vs. C++/CX vs. C++/CLI
Alas that is a truism. Big gobs and small dicks seem to go together. However, the lounge is where a lot of stuff gets passed around, how many of us click on a link and then send it out to other friends? Or Jokes, or rants etc. There is a place for the lounge, but I agree a new poster should not get flamed grilled, a polite 'Heads Up' should be enough. Of course if it is one of the old sweats, then flame on boys and girls.
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I completely agree that the reactions on your question were uncalled for. The restaurant metaphor is not completely correct though. We are here out of our free will. Especially the lounge people come here for their pleasure and relaxation. Waiting staff gets paid to do their job, we don't. That being said someone should simply have pointed you to the correct forum and leave it at that. I believe that would have been decent human being behaviour. Another thing I want to point out, in defence of Nagy, is that he did actually contribute a lot to CP, even though you might not tell from his reaction. So I'm sure he meant no harm :)
diverbw wrote:
First of all, I love the code fragment! LOL
Did it answer your question though? I got downvoted for answering you by the way :laugh: I hope this whole affair has not traumatized you for life and that you will come back here in the future. Either for help with your problems (not this forum obviously) or just to chat :)
It's an OO world.
public class Naerling : Lazy<Person>{
public void DoWork(){ throw new NotImplementedException(); }
}Naerling wrote:
I got downvoted for answering you by the way
That was my downvote, by the way. Answering programming questions in the Lounge encourages others to post programming questions in the Lounge.
Naerling wrote:
The restaurant metaphor is not completely correct though. We are here out of our free will. Especially the lounge people come here for their pleasure and relaxation. Waiting staff gets paid to do their job, we don't.
I was thinking of posting that too. :thumbsup: To me, it seems the metaphor is more like the OP happened across a party the thought was a meeting and hopped on a table to give a speech about appropriate meeting behavior after a partygoer told him that tie he was wearing looks stupid.
Somebody in an online forum wrote:
INTJs never really joke. They make a point. The joke is just a gift wrapper.
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I completely agree that the reactions on your question were uncalled for. The restaurant metaphor is not completely correct though. We are here out of our free will. Especially the lounge people come here for their pleasure and relaxation. Waiting staff gets paid to do their job, we don't. That being said someone should simply have pointed you to the correct forum and leave it at that. I believe that would have been decent human being behaviour. Another thing I want to point out, in defence of Nagy, is that he did actually contribute a lot to CP, even though you might not tell from his reaction. So I'm sure he meant no harm :)
diverbw wrote:
First of all, I love the code fragment! LOL
Did it answer your question though? I got downvoted for answering you by the way :laugh: I hope this whole affair has not traumatized you for life and that you will come back here in the future. Either for help with your problems (not this forum obviously) or just to chat :)
It's an OO world.
public class Naerling : Lazy<Person>{
public void DoWork(){ throw new NotImplementedException(); }
}Naerling wrote:
I got downvoted for answering you by the way
I upvoted... :thumbsup:
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I think more programmers offend people with their looks/smell[^] than lounge posts...
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I think more programmers offend people with their looks/smell[^] than lounge posts...
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I completely agree that the reactions on your question were uncalled for. The restaurant metaphor is not completely correct though. We are here out of our free will. Especially the lounge people come here for their pleasure and relaxation. Waiting staff gets paid to do their job, we don't. That being said someone should simply have pointed you to the correct forum and leave it at that. I believe that would have been decent human being behaviour. Another thing I want to point out, in defence of Nagy, is that he did actually contribute a lot to CP, even though you might not tell from his reaction. So I'm sure he meant no harm :)
diverbw wrote:
First of all, I love the code fragment! LOL
Did it answer your question though? I got downvoted for answering you by the way :laugh: I hope this whole affair has not traumatized you for life and that you will come back here in the future. Either for help with your problems (not this forum obviously) or just to chat :)
It's an OO world.
public class Naerling : Lazy<Person>{
public void DoWork(){ throw new NotImplementedException(); }
}Naerling wrote:
Did it answer your question though?
I think he was refering to your Lazy<Person> code fragment in your signature.
If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
You must accept one of two basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe, or we are not alone in the universe. And either way, the implications are staggering” - Wernher von Braun -
Naerling wrote:
I got downvoted for answering you by the way
I upvoted... :thumbsup:
You bastard!
Somebody in an online forum wrote:
INTJs never really joke. They make a point. The joke is just a gift wrapper.
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You bastard!
Somebody in an online forum wrote:
INTJs never really joke. They make a point. The joke is just a gift wrapper.
:laugh:
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AspDotNetDev wrote:
I think the Lounge attracts far more members than it repulses.
Yeah, true but it also seems to attract people with bullying tendencies. I assume that many people here are so weak and timid in real life that they like to play tough-guy in these forums here.
Regards, Nish
My technology blog: voidnish.wordpress.com You've gotta read this : Using lambdas - C++ vs. C# vs. C++/CX vs. C++/CLI
Nishant Sivakumar wrote:
it also seems to attract people with bullying tendencies
Or, it brings out those tendencies. Though, I don't see much bullying. Plenty of insensitiveness, but not bullying.
Somebody in an online forum wrote:
INTJs never really joke. They make a point. The joke is just a gift wrapper.
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Naerling wrote:
I got downvoted for answering you by the way
That was my downvote, by the way. Answering programming questions in the Lounge encourages others to post programming questions in the Lounge.
Naerling wrote:
The restaurant metaphor is not completely correct though. We are here out of our free will. Especially the lounge people come here for their pleasure and relaxation. Waiting staff gets paid to do their job, we don't.
I was thinking of posting that too. :thumbsup: To me, it seems the metaphor is more like the OP happened across a party the thought was a meeting and hopped on a table to give a speech about appropriate meeting behavior after a partygoer told him that tie he was wearing looks stupid.
Somebody in an online forum wrote:
INTJs never really joke. They make a point. The joke is just a gift wrapper.
AspDotNetDev wrote:
That was my downvote
I guess I will now have to downtrack your every move and be ready to vote that 1! :-\ I simply didn't think the OP deserved the reactions he got and I just happened to know the answer since I was doing the same thing just today. I don't think my post encouraged anyone. On a side note, I am trying to read files from disk, how can I accomplish this? The requirements say I cannot use System.IO Namespace (yes, our customers are very specific) ;P
It's an OO world.
public class Naerling : Lazy<Person>{
public void DoWork(){ throw new NotImplementedException(); }
}
