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  • T The Bhai

    RJOberg wrote:

    figured it was ample time to sort out most of the bugs in the architecture.
     
    Now deployment to prod is a little over a year away,

    Congratulations. Although be careful, if she reads your analogy she could change her mind.

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    RJOberg
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    Haha! I figure I am going to show her this entire thread for a laugh. She will likely just smack me.

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    • B Bert Mitton

      Is this how you proposed?

      RJOberg wrote:

      URGNZ!!! SEND RINGZ PLZ!!!

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      RJOberg
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      No, but maybe I should call off the engagement just so I can re-ask with this method. :laugh:

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      • J Jim SS

        Congrats. Having had lots of experience, being married is a good thing. Best advice I've heard is "Go into marriage with eyes wide open, stay in marriage by keeping eyes half shut".

        SS => Qualified in Submarines

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        RJOberg
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        Thanks, and that isn't a half bad suggestion for marriage or life in general. :thumbsup:

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        • J Jorgen Andersson

          Oh yes, for some it might take much more time in the planning stage, and others might have an early beta release. But I hope he realizes that the boss can always change her mind and he doesn't have a say. It's the biological clock.

          "The ones who care enough to do it right care too much to compromise." Matthew Faithfull

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          RJOberg
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          The boss could try to change her mind. Fortunately modern medicine has made that a little more difficult than just changing her mind. :-\

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          • R RJOberg

            The boss could try to change her mind. Fortunately modern medicine has made that a little more difficult than just changing her mind. :-\

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            Jorgen Andersson
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            I hope she knows about that. :-\

            "The ones who care enough to do it right care too much to compromise." Matthew Faithfull

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            • J Jorgen Andersson

              I hope she knows about that. :-\

              "The ones who care enough to do it right care too much to compromise." Matthew Faithfull

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              RJOberg
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              I certainly hope so! She was the one who visited the doctor. Not me.

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              • R RJOberg

                I certainly hope so! She was the one who visited the doctor. Not me.

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                Jorgen Andersson
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                Oh, my bad. I automatically assumed it was you, as it's much easier to do for a man. :doh:

                "The ones who care enough to do it right care too much to compromise." Matthew Faithfull

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                • J Jorgen Andersson

                  Oh, my bad. I automatically assumed it was you, as it's much easier to do for a man. :doh:

                  "The ones who care enough to do it right care too much to compromise." Matthew Faithfull

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                  RJOberg
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                  Most people assume the same, so no worries. It was actually before she met me, so fortunately meeting me wasn't the reason which convinced her never to have kids.

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                  • R RJOberg

                    Most people assume the same, so no worries. It was actually before she met me, so fortunately meeting me wasn't the reason which convinced her never to have kids.

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                    Jorgen Andersson
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                    :thumbsup: Then I can only wish you best of happiness, prosperity and wisdom!

                    "The ones who care enough to do it right care too much to compromise." Matthew Faithfull

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                    • J Jorgen Andersson

                      Oh, my bad. I automatically assumed it was you, as it's much easier to do for a man. :doh:

                      "The ones who care enough to do it right care too much to compromise." Matthew Faithfull

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                      Ashley van Gerven
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                      IMO it makes sense to have at least one kid, and THEN decide... even if you're not a fan of other people's kids doesn't mean you won't thoroughly enjoy having a child of your own. Granted it's a big commitment that you can't undo. But billions of people have done it - it's not that hard is it?

                      "For fifty bucks I'd put my face in their soup and blow." - George Costanza

                      CP article: SmartPager - a Flickr-style pager control with go-to-page popup layer.

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                      • R RJOberg

                        I'm not overly active on the boards and pop in from time to time to share an opinion or get into a debate with the locals. However I had to share, because I am quite happy about the following. Finally popped the question to the SO over the weekend and she said yes! It only took 5 years of being together. I figured it was ample time to sort out most of the bugs in the architecture. Now deployment to prod is a little over a year away, but already working on those plans. Only a few more thousand :omg: dollars to go and everything will be paid for.

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                        Mark_Wallace
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                        I'm always available for beta testing...

                        I wanna be a eunuchs developer! Pass me a bread knife!

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                        • A Ashley van Gerven

                          IMO it makes sense to have at least one kid, and THEN decide... even if you're not a fan of other people's kids doesn't mean you won't thoroughly enjoy having a child of your own. Granted it's a big commitment that you can't undo. But billions of people have done it - it's not that hard is it?

                          "For fifty bucks I'd put my face in their soup and blow." - George Costanza

                          CP article: SmartPager - a Flickr-style pager control with go-to-page popup layer.

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                          Jorgen Andersson
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                          I have two, and that's about what I can handle. I made the common mistake to assume the reason why they won't get children. There are many more reasons than not wanting them.

                          "The ones who care enough to do it right care too much to compromise." Matthew Faithfull

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