Finally! Asked and Answered
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Congrats. Having had lots of experience, being married is a good thing. Best advice I've heard is "Go into marriage with eyes wide open, stay in marriage by keeping eyes half shut".
SS => Qualified in Submarines
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Oh yes, for some it might take much more time in the planning stage, and others might have an early beta release. But I hope he realizes that the boss can always change her mind and he doesn't have a say. It's the biological clock.
"The ones who care enough to do it right care too much to compromise." Matthew Faithfull
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The boss could try to change her mind. Fortunately modern medicine has made that a little more difficult than just changing her mind. :-\
I hope she knows about that. :-\
"The ones who care enough to do it right care too much to compromise." Matthew Faithfull
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I hope she knows about that. :-\
"The ones who care enough to do it right care too much to compromise." Matthew Faithfull
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Oh, my bad. I automatically assumed it was you, as it's much easier to do for a man. :doh:
"The ones who care enough to do it right care too much to compromise." Matthew Faithfull
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Oh, my bad. I automatically assumed it was you, as it's much easier to do for a man. :doh:
"The ones who care enough to do it right care too much to compromise." Matthew Faithfull
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Most people assume the same, so no worries. It was actually before she met me, so fortunately meeting me wasn't the reason which convinced her never to have kids.
:thumbsup: Then I can only wish you best of happiness, prosperity and wisdom!
"The ones who care enough to do it right care too much to compromise." Matthew Faithfull
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Oh, my bad. I automatically assumed it was you, as it's much easier to do for a man. :doh:
"The ones who care enough to do it right care too much to compromise." Matthew Faithfull
IMO it makes sense to have at least one kid, and THEN decide... even if you're not a fan of other people's kids doesn't mean you won't thoroughly enjoy having a child of your own. Granted it's a big commitment that you can't undo. But billions of people have done it - it's not that hard is it?
"For fifty bucks I'd put my face in their soup and blow." - George Costanza
CP article: SmartPager - a Flickr-style pager control with go-to-page popup layer.
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I'm not overly active on the boards and pop in from time to time to share an opinion or get into a debate with the locals. However I had to share, because I am quite happy about the following. Finally popped the question to the SO over the weekend and she said yes! It only took 5 years of being together. I figured it was ample time to sort out most of the bugs in the architecture. Now deployment to prod is a little over a year away, but already working on those plans. Only a few more thousand :omg: dollars to go and everything will be paid for.
I'm always available for beta testing...
I wanna be a eunuchs developer! Pass me a bread knife!
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IMO it makes sense to have at least one kid, and THEN decide... even if you're not a fan of other people's kids doesn't mean you won't thoroughly enjoy having a child of your own. Granted it's a big commitment that you can't undo. But billions of people have done it - it's not that hard is it?
"For fifty bucks I'd put my face in their soup and blow." - George Costanza
CP article: SmartPager - a Flickr-style pager control with go-to-page popup layer.
I have two, and that's about what I can handle. I made the common mistake to assume the reason why they won't get children. There are many more reasons than not wanting them.
"The ones who care enough to do it right care too much to compromise." Matthew Faithfull