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  • D dandy72

    theoldfool wrote:

    Successful retirement: wife does her thing, I do my thing. We give each other space.

    Never married. I look forward to seeing how things will turn out for me. Does that mean I get all the space in the world?

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    theoldfool
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    Never married.

    disqualified!!

    >64 It’s weird being the same age as old people. Live every day like it is your last; one day, it will be.

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    • A Alister Morton

      I can sympathise. I broke my hip (well, neck of femur) in March and my partner had to put her life on hold while I was recuperating, which was quite slow at first. As the hackneyed old saying goes, nil illegitimum carborundum.

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      charlieg
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      Amen. Not on the broken hip, the "do not despair."

      Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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      • C Choroid

        This might help I listen to the song when things get to me The sight of all those people with NO CELL phones is inspiring And besides Andy Kaufman was dam funny R.E.M. - Man on The Moon (Wiesbaden, Germany 2003) - YouTube[^]

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        charlieg
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        listening to Guardians of the Galaxy mix at the moment....

        Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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        • S Steve Raw

          Yes, the thing about communicating via text is that sarcasm doesn't come through. Even though I was being sarcastic, there is an element of legitimate concern that exists when I see a Wafflehouse closed. You probably already know this, but FEMA uses the number of closed Wafflehouses to partially gauge the severity of a natural disaster. I think it's referred to as the "Wafflehouse Index". It's been around for a long time and is still in use, so it must be a reliable indication to some extent.

          charlieg wrote:

          for what it's worth, I live 40 miles north of Atlanta, and the hurricane (which will be a tropical storm by the time it reaches us) will be here early am. I'm getting up early to sit on my front porch and watch and enjoy. If I get a spin up tornado, waaa hoo.

          I would love to see a tornado in real life. Chasing any kind of storm intrigues me, so I can understand why you'd enjoy watching it. I've never been in a hurricane, or a tropical storm. That's something I'd want to experience as long as I was several floors up inside a concrete building.

          charlieg wrote:

          good grief, I am dark tonight.

          You're having a rough time right now. I understand that. It's perfectly fine. Hang in there. :)

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          charlieg
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          tornado chasing trip is on my bucket list. Mind you, I don't want to catch one... :) It's a better morning. I'm spinning up a new proposal, I am almost certainly coming out of retirement. It's just not going to work for me to putter around the house. I'm going insane.

          Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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          • R RickZeeland

            I just watched the movie Jerry & Marge Go Large (2022) - IMDb[^], which is about a retired man, and can recommend it. Although IMDB states that it is "Based on a true story" I find that hard to believe, but nevertheless a very enjoyable movie without the usual shooting and computer generated graphics :-\

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            charlieg
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            I'll check it out. I like the actor Cranston. He's been brilliant.

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            • L Lost User

              dandy72 wrote:

              something I could stream tonight based on your recommendations

              I have not made any recommendations, and I am not likely to. What appeals to me may not appeal to other people.

              dandy72 wrote:

              Every time I've watched it, I felt entertained.

              Proves my point then.

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              dandy72
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              Richard MacCutchan wrote:

              I have not made any recommendations, and I am not likely to.

              I knew from the get-go this is exactly the response I was gonna get.

              Richard MacCutchan wrote:

              What appeals to me may not appeal to other people.

              Exactly. So with that, I'll leave you to...well, you didn't mention.

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              • T theoldfool

                Quote:

                Never married.

                disqualified!!

                >64 It’s weird being the same age as old people. Live every day like it is your last; one day, it will be.

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                dandy72
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                ...for retirement? NOW you tell me??? :-D

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                • M Mike Hankey

                  Helene came through close to us and we have one heck of a mess to clean up. Yard looks like a bomb went off. Fortunately we just had a Generac unit put in so we have power.

                  A home without books is a body without soul. Marcus Tullius Cicero PartsBin an Electronics Part Organizer - Release Version 1.4.0 (Many new features) JaxCoder.com Latest Article: EventAggregator

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                  charlieg
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                  are you in Florida? The bottom half of Georgia is 90%+ without power. Trying to chase down my mother-in-law of my son. No answer to texts yet. That part of the family is in south Georgia (Cecil, north of Valdosta).

                  Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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                  • D dandy72

                    ...for retirement? NOW you tell me??? :-D

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                    charlieg
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                    ;P

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                    • T theoldfool

                      As I sat in my gloom, a voice came to me: "cheer up things could be worse" So, I cheered up. Things got worse. Successful retirement: wife does her thing, I do my thing. We give each other space.

                      >64 It’s weird being the same age as old people. Live every day like it is your last; one day, it will be.

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                      charlieg
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                      "wife does her thing, I do my thing" Absolute truth, but I did not see the situation coming. I've spent my life herding children and working my butt off. I'm down to two in the house plus us, and what rankles me is this in-law thing. It's like I have an 88 yo toddler. Nothing, against him, it's just not what I had on my radar for this time in my life. I need to go see my son and his family (USARMY) on their way to Germany in the next 2 weeks. But, wife is afraid to leave the area, because we might get a call from the geriatric mental facility that MIL is in. She's in full mother mode for her dad. I get it, but I'm in the just wow mode.

                      Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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                      • D dandy72

                        Richard MacCutchan wrote:

                        I have not made any recommendations, and I am not likely to.

                        I knew from the get-go this is exactly the response I was gonna get.

                        Richard MacCutchan wrote:

                        What appeals to me may not appeal to other people.

                        Exactly. So with that, I'll leave you to...well, you didn't mention.

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                        Lost User
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                        dandy72 wrote:

                        I knew from the get-go this is exactly the response I was gonna get.

                        Well, you did still post the question.

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                          dandy72 wrote:

                          I knew from the get-go this is exactly the response I was gonna get.

                          Well, you did still post the question.

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                          dandy72
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                          It doesn't mean I didn't want to see your response. :-) I'm just in one of those moods today. I'm glad you didn't take my snark as seriously as others might have, and I thank you for it. :rose:

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                          • C charlieg

                            are you in Florida? The bottom half of Georgia is 90%+ without power. Trying to chase down my mother-in-law of my son. No answer to texts yet. That part of the family is in south Georgia (Cecil, north of Valdosta).

                            Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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                            Mike Hankey
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                            We're in White Springs, FL. North of I10 and I75 intersection. Looks like a bomb hit, 10 trees down and limbs everywhere. Have Generac, but line to house down. Luckily no damage and everyone safe.

                            A home without books is a body without soul. Marcus Tullius Cicero PartsBin an Electronics Part Organizer - Release Version 1.4.0 (Many new features) JaxCoder.com Latest Article: EventAggregator

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                            • C charlieg

                              "wife does her thing, I do my thing" Absolute truth, but I did not see the situation coming. I've spent my life herding children and working my butt off. I'm down to two in the house plus us, and what rankles me is this in-law thing. It's like I have an 88 yo toddler. Nothing, against him, it's just not what I had on my radar for this time in my life. I need to go see my son and his family (USARMY) on their way to Germany in the next 2 weeks. But, wife is afraid to leave the area, because we might get a call from the geriatric mental facility that MIL is in. She's in full mother mode for her dad. I get it, but I'm in the just wow mode.

                              Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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                              Mycroft Holmes
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                              I read this and tears come to my eyes, retirement should be a relaxing, pleasant slide into a peaceful ending, preferable 20-30 years from now. It is probably still better than being alone (probably).

                              Never underestimate the power of human stupidity - RAH I'm old. I know stuff - JSOP

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                              • M Mycroft Holmes

                                I read this and tears come to my eyes, retirement should be a relaxing, pleasant slide into a peaceful ending, preferable 20-30 years from now. It is probably still better than being alone (probably).

                                Never underestimate the power of human stupidity - RAH I'm old. I know stuff - JSOP

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                                charlieg
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                                and you sir are why CP exists. I have one friend in my life physically. The rest are here. That's sad, but I'm working on it.

                                Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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                                • C charlieg

                                  wife is binge watching the hurricane coming in, 88 yo father in law was doddering around, and somewhere in my recent past I thought I retired. Gin, I need gin.

                                  Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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                                  Vivi Chellappa
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                                  Sheesh, I read that as “I need a new wife”! And your very next sentence talked about your wife binge-watching the TV about hurricane news. How often does that coincidence happen!? :laugh:

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                                  • C charlieg

                                    and you sir are why CP exists. I have one friend in my life physically. The rest are here. That's sad, but I'm working on it.

                                    Charlie Gilley “Microsoft is the virus..." "the problem with socialism is that eventually you run out of other people's money"

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                                    Mycroft Holmes
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                                    Retired from Singapore and moved to Cairns, we knew no one except our son (who we do NOT socialise with). We got a couple of dogs and made a few friends with people walking the beach, joined a bridge club and picked up a few more friends. We have a thing called "Men's Sheds" here but I have not been involved in them as I have more people I call friends (4-5) than I can deal with. I had my wife as my only friend for the previous 20 years.

                                    Never underestimate the power of human stupidity - RAH I'm old. I know stuff - JSOP

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