Non judgemental Question: Am I guilty?
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Ben Ashley wrote: So I ask the community... am I being too harsh at hating these people? Is my ego too big... Yes. Not everyone is blessed with the same abilities, in more ways than intelligence. It's far better to be kind to those who can't cope as well as you can. I'm not saying it's not irritating - it can be! Here's a typical example from my life which I'm always tempted to get impatient about: I go to the supermarket. In the UK the idea of packing customers bags for them is a new one which supermarkets are advertising in an attempt to draw more of us in. Tesco's have a policy where the person at the till will ask if you need help packing your bags. Now as the items run down a conveyor belt at a constant speed the answer "if I can't cope" seems reasonable to me. In other words, don't bother unless you see I'm in trouble. However, I've yet to meet someone at the tills who can cope with this answer. They only understand "yes" or "no". If I say "yes" they waste loads of time packing for me. If I say "no" and don't pack fast enough they will not stop the belt to help. The point is, if they were intelligent enough to deal with these things possibly they wouldn't be working at a till in Tesco's. Of course, there are perfectly intelligent people doing those jobs as well, for a multitude of reasons. But if you run across someone who can't cope with intelligence and they are in a simple job, rather smile, be kind, and feel grateful that you are able to appreciate the intricacies of life better than they are. :)
Look at the world about you and trust to your own convictions. - Ansel Adams
Meg's World - Blog Photography - The product of my passionYou're quite right. If somebody was efficient and intelligent they wouldn't have to resort to such mind-numbing jobs as packing bags in a supermarket, or passing produce over the machine that (hopefully) goes "ping". On the flipside, intelligent people who have to find any work they can due to necessity, should seek work in Bars... When it comes to maths and me, the wheel's going but the hamster's dead.
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Ben Ashley wrote: I feel surrounded by stupidity. If everyone else is an idiot, that would infer that you're smarter. However, if you allowed yourself to be surrounded in the first place (and by idiots, no less!), how smart could you really be? :-D Chistopher Duncan The Career Programmer: Guerilla Tactics for an Imperfect World Unite the Tribes: Ending Turf Wars for Career and Business Success (November, 2003)
How true! :-) However, sometimes our situation does not always allow for us to pick and choose our cohorts. Friends, yes. Enemies, even. Co-workers, not always. When it comes to maths and me, the wheel's going but the hamster's dead.
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I've been thinking about this over the past few days... It seems that, both in and out of my work enviroment, I have become increasingly judgemental about stupidity. I have an annoying habit of comparing the work of others (inside the office), and the actions of others (outside the office) to what I would have thought was an intelligent approach. I will be the first to admit that I am not perfect, and a varying number of people will tell you that one should not judge least one get judged themselves. I disagree. I feel surrounded by stupidity. The driver that parks their car in a retarded place causing a huge traffic jam and sits there, blissfully unaware... The policies I set in place at work to ensure that Source code is checked-in, checked out.... "so you edited it without checking it out and lost a days work?". Idiot. You should be fired. Or, how about running a data-import script that doesn't work against a customer database rather than a development one? "you're lucky I made a backup, fool". Idiot: "What would you like to drink?" Me: "Pint of Stella please" And the resultant drink is.... Half a diet coke with ice, no lemon. "What?" I read on news.bbc.co.uk that someone at the new directory enquires number didn't know where Scotland was.... and they have a job? My girlfriend calls me clever. no... I just use my head. So I ask the community... am I being too harsh at hating these people? Is my ego too big... should I get a job of significant power and end their bloodline... Perhaps I should post my article on making an ISAPI.DLL talk to an ATL COM Server that hosts the CLR and passes all info to managed classes. ho hum. When it comes to maths and me, the wheel's going but the hamster's dead. [Edit to change some spelling errors. Maybe I should blame myself?!]
I'd be cautious with the criticism, as even stupid people find plenty to criticize in others. I assume that God loves stupid people, else He wouldn't have made so many of them, and it just isn't smart to tempt fate by attacking them. Feel free to assault the intelligent but ignorant ones, though. Nobody likes them, and it's their own fault. "Some people are like Slinkies... not really good for anything,
but you still can't help but smile when you see one
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Ben Ashley wrote: So I ask the community... am I being too harsh at hating these people? Is my ego too big... Yes. Not everyone is blessed with the same abilities, in more ways than intelligence. It's far better to be kind to those who can't cope as well as you can. I'm not saying it's not irritating - it can be! Here's a typical example from my life which I'm always tempted to get impatient about: I go to the supermarket. In the UK the idea of packing customers bags for them is a new one which supermarkets are advertising in an attempt to draw more of us in. Tesco's have a policy where the person at the till will ask if you need help packing your bags. Now as the items run down a conveyor belt at a constant speed the answer "if I can't cope" seems reasonable to me. In other words, don't bother unless you see I'm in trouble. However, I've yet to meet someone at the tills who can cope with this answer. They only understand "yes" or "no". If I say "yes" they waste loads of time packing for me. If I say "no" and don't pack fast enough they will not stop the belt to help. The point is, if they were intelligent enough to deal with these things possibly they wouldn't be working at a till in Tesco's. Of course, there are perfectly intelligent people doing those jobs as well, for a multitude of reasons. But if you run across someone who can't cope with intelligence and they are in a simple job, rather smile, be kind, and feel grateful that you are able to appreciate the intricacies of life better than they are. :)
Look at the world about you and trust to your own convictions. - Ansel Adams
Meg's World - Blog Photography - The product of my passionMegan Forbes wrote: if they were intelligent enough to deal with these things possibly they wouldn't be working at a till in Tesco's I think that's the core of the answer :-) Well said :-D Paul ;)
That demands capital punishment!! Death by a herd of marauding Bobs! - Ryan Binns
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I've been thinking about this over the past few days... It seems that, both in and out of my work enviroment, I have become increasingly judgemental about stupidity. I have an annoying habit of comparing the work of others (inside the office), and the actions of others (outside the office) to what I would have thought was an intelligent approach. I will be the first to admit that I am not perfect, and a varying number of people will tell you that one should not judge least one get judged themselves. I disagree. I feel surrounded by stupidity. The driver that parks their car in a retarded place causing a huge traffic jam and sits there, blissfully unaware... The policies I set in place at work to ensure that Source code is checked-in, checked out.... "so you edited it without checking it out and lost a days work?". Idiot. You should be fired. Or, how about running a data-import script that doesn't work against a customer database rather than a development one? "you're lucky I made a backup, fool". Idiot: "What would you like to drink?" Me: "Pint of Stella please" And the resultant drink is.... Half a diet coke with ice, no lemon. "What?" I read on news.bbc.co.uk that someone at the new directory enquires number didn't know where Scotland was.... and they have a job? My girlfriend calls me clever. no... I just use my head. So I ask the community... am I being too harsh at hating these people? Is my ego too big... should I get a job of significant power and end their bloodline... Perhaps I should post my article on making an ISAPI.DLL talk to an ATL COM Server that hosts the CLR and passes all info to managed classes. ho hum. When it comes to maths and me, the wheel's going but the hamster's dead. [Edit to change some spelling errors. Maybe I should blame myself?!]
Well, let's score you: Male: +10 White: +25 Non-American: -15 Your score: 20. Yes, you're guilty of being an oppresive white-male, but fortunatly for you, you don't have the American tag attached, which earns you points. However, we're going to find you guilty of unspecified crimes aganst all non-whites and all women, weither or not you personally have done anything, because you have indirectly benifited from being a white male. Note: this is only SLIGHTLY tounge in cheek. As for the rest of your problems, have some Earl Grey, read Calvin and Hobbs, and watch the sunset. Park your car on the roadway, too, so that the honking of horns adds to the effect.
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Now as much as it pains me to admit it, being a believer in the common man and all, there are some dim bulbs on this Earth of ours. However it seems a lot of people are not stupid, they just don't use their heads. They are lazy. Instead of applying themselves, they would rather make the mistake then raise their hand and get the local office wunder kind to come over and do it for them. The only reason I am the lead developer here is because I don't bloody well give up. I am no genius but I can put two and two together and as you so well put it; I just use my kop. If XYZ does not work then I will try ABC or DGH. Most people though seem to hit a problem, quail in fear and have a smoke break hoping the problem will have gone away when they get back to their desks. I will try anything and everything, something will work. Naturally you want to try and do it in a smart way and not just a shotgun way, but that is not always possible. So in my round about way what I am trying to say is; A lot of those people we think are stupid, aren't. They are either lazy, won't apply themselves or lack the basic problem solving thinking which is so critical to development. It is hard to learn the later though. What bugs me are people who have potential and talent, and waste it, who don't apply themselves. That drives me up the wall. regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass South Africa Miszou wrote: I have read the entire internet. on how boring his day was. Crikey! ain't life grand?
Like yourself, I am a lead developer and can sympathise with you when you say that others just give up and it's up to you bust the roadblock and make something happen. My situation at the moment might be considered a nightmare by some and run-of-the-mill by others. We have an extraordinary amount of workload on at the moment. More than can be done in a day, even with overtime (you don't always want to do overtime). Some developers have said "I should quit" or "why do I have to put up with this crap?". My answer? A quote from a football coach, surprisingly... (paraphrased slightly)... "It's difficult enough rowing a sinking boat to shore without some guy getting up and putting his life jacket on". Some of those developers, are those stupid people I have been ranting about. If they applied their brain, perhaps there wouldn't be so much work to do. Conversely, should they be employed at all? I once did an analysis of workload, which worked out that, given a developer producing crap code, if you got rid of him, would more work be created for the rest of the dev team? my findings were interesting... On the surface, it seems like there is more work to do, but the team would spend less time fixing bad code, that the end situation was less work... When it comes to maths and me, the wheel's going but the hamster's dead.
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I'd be cautious with the criticism, as even stupid people find plenty to criticize in others. I assume that God loves stupid people, else He wouldn't have made so many of them, and it just isn't smart to tempt fate by attacking them. Feel free to assault the intelligent but ignorant ones, though. Nobody likes them, and it's their own fault. "Some people are like Slinkies... not really good for anything,
but you still can't help but smile when you see one
tumble down the stairs."Roger Wright wrote: I assume that God loves stupid people, else He wouldn't have made so many of them, and it just isn't smart to tempt fate by attacking them. :)
Look at the world about you and trust to your own convictions. - Ansel Adams
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Tap tap tap... Open Query Analyzer, connect to customer server...
USE _database_SELECT * FROM _table_F5 highlight SELECT *DELETEF5 :doh: forgot theWHEREclause... :omg::omg::omg: Copy data back from saved copy of database... Not me, but he knows who he is.Ha! :-) Know that one. I think that Query Analyzer needs to have a spong test of some kind so that when you install it, each unauthenticated user accessing it has to undergo some kind of test that defines which options are available... 100% pass-rate - All options available, including "Nuke Server" 75% pass-rate - Pro options available, but not anything that involves databse links or DTI packages. 50% pass-rate - Pro options unavailable. Each SQL statement halted by "Are you really sure?" annoying alert box. 25% pass-rate - Meagre pleb access to databases. Can write SELECT statements, but only under the strict supervision of a Microsoft Clippit-esque assistant called DataShag. > 25% pass-rate - Redirects to oracle website. :-) When it comes to maths and me, the wheel's going but the hamster's dead.
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I'd be cautious with the criticism, as even stupid people find plenty to criticize in others. I assume that God loves stupid people, else He wouldn't have made so many of them, and it just isn't smart to tempt fate by attacking them. Feel free to assault the intelligent but ignorant ones, though. Nobody likes them, and it's their own fault. "Some people are like Slinkies... not really good for anything,
but you still can't help but smile when you see one
tumble down the stairs."Stupid peoples' critisms are worth nothing unless backed up by evidence :-) But seriously, you can spot a genius and an idiot in the same room as easy as a Gonkdar(that's idiot radar to the non-initiated). The idiot will be the one spouting off how easy it is to do *this*... the genius will be the quiet one... When it comes to maths and me, the wheel's going but the hamster's dead.
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I've been thinking about this over the past few days... It seems that, both in and out of my work enviroment, I have become increasingly judgemental about stupidity. I have an annoying habit of comparing the work of others (inside the office), and the actions of others (outside the office) to what I would have thought was an intelligent approach. I will be the first to admit that I am not perfect, and a varying number of people will tell you that one should not judge least one get judged themselves. I disagree. I feel surrounded by stupidity. The driver that parks their car in a retarded place causing a huge traffic jam and sits there, blissfully unaware... The policies I set in place at work to ensure that Source code is checked-in, checked out.... "so you edited it without checking it out and lost a days work?". Idiot. You should be fired. Or, how about running a data-import script that doesn't work against a customer database rather than a development one? "you're lucky I made a backup, fool". Idiot: "What would you like to drink?" Me: "Pint of Stella please" And the resultant drink is.... Half a diet coke with ice, no lemon. "What?" I read on news.bbc.co.uk that someone at the new directory enquires number didn't know where Scotland was.... and they have a job? My girlfriend calls me clever. no... I just use my head. So I ask the community... am I being too harsh at hating these people? Is my ego too big... should I get a job of significant power and end their bloodline... Perhaps I should post my article on making an ISAPI.DLL talk to an ATL COM Server that hosts the CLR and passes all info to managed classes. ho hum. When it comes to maths and me, the wheel's going but the hamster's dead. [Edit to change some spelling errors. Maybe I should blame myself?!]
I've found that a lot of people just don't know *how* to use their minds. Given the right encouragement, most people can actually think straight. OTOH it's also fun to wind up the really dim bulbs using my superior intellect :-) -- Ian Darling "The moral of the story is that with a contrived example, you can prove anything." - Joel Spolsky
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I've been thinking about this over the past few days... It seems that, both in and out of my work enviroment, I have become increasingly judgemental about stupidity. I have an annoying habit of comparing the work of others (inside the office), and the actions of others (outside the office) to what I would have thought was an intelligent approach. I will be the first to admit that I am not perfect, and a varying number of people will tell you that one should not judge least one get judged themselves. I disagree. I feel surrounded by stupidity. The driver that parks their car in a retarded place causing a huge traffic jam and sits there, blissfully unaware... The policies I set in place at work to ensure that Source code is checked-in, checked out.... "so you edited it without checking it out and lost a days work?". Idiot. You should be fired. Or, how about running a data-import script that doesn't work against a customer database rather than a development one? "you're lucky I made a backup, fool". Idiot: "What would you like to drink?" Me: "Pint of Stella please" And the resultant drink is.... Half a diet coke with ice, no lemon. "What?" I read on news.bbc.co.uk that someone at the new directory enquires number didn't know where Scotland was.... and they have a job? My girlfriend calls me clever. no... I just use my head. So I ask the community... am I being too harsh at hating these people? Is my ego too big... should I get a job of significant power and end their bloodline... Perhaps I should post my article on making an ISAPI.DLL talk to an ATL COM Server that hosts the CLR and passes all info to managed classes. ho hum. When it comes to maths and me, the wheel's going but the hamster's dead. [Edit to change some spelling errors. Maybe I should blame myself?!]
Ben Ashley wrote: Idiot: "What would you like to drink?" Me: "Pint of Stella please" And the resultant drink is.... Half a diet coke with ice, no lemon. Would that be Stella as in Stella Artois ? In that case the "idiot" was only trying to protect your tastebuds ;P
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Ben Ashley wrote: Idiot: "What would you like to drink?" Me: "Pint of Stella please" And the resultant drink is.... Half a diet coke with ice, no lemon. Would that be Stella as in Stella Artois ? In that case the "idiot" was only trying to protect your tastebuds ;P
... and THAT's the funniest thing I read this week!:laugh: (only Tuesday though ;)) When it comes to maths and me, the wheel's going but the hamster's dead.
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I've been thinking about this over the past few days... It seems that, both in and out of my work enviroment, I have become increasingly judgemental about stupidity. I have an annoying habit of comparing the work of others (inside the office), and the actions of others (outside the office) to what I would have thought was an intelligent approach. I will be the first to admit that I am not perfect, and a varying number of people will tell you that one should not judge least one get judged themselves. I disagree. I feel surrounded by stupidity. The driver that parks their car in a retarded place causing a huge traffic jam and sits there, blissfully unaware... The policies I set in place at work to ensure that Source code is checked-in, checked out.... "so you edited it without checking it out and lost a days work?". Idiot. You should be fired. Or, how about running a data-import script that doesn't work against a customer database rather than a development one? "you're lucky I made a backup, fool". Idiot: "What would you like to drink?" Me: "Pint of Stella please" And the resultant drink is.... Half a diet coke with ice, no lemon. "What?" I read on news.bbc.co.uk that someone at the new directory enquires number didn't know where Scotland was.... and they have a job? My girlfriend calls me clever. no... I just use my head. So I ask the community... am I being too harsh at hating these people? Is my ego too big... should I get a job of significant power and end their bloodline... Perhaps I should post my article on making an ISAPI.DLL talk to an ATL COM Server that hosts the CLR and passes all info to managed classes. ho hum. When it comes to maths and me, the wheel's going but the hamster's dead. [Edit to change some spelling errors. Maybe I should blame myself?!]
Thinking you're better or smarter than people will only stop you from being any better or smarter. Personally, I know I'm smart, but I also know there are plenty of people out there smarter than I am (whether I meet them or not is irrelevant). This helps keep me in check and make sure I continue learning and thinking. It's the king of the mountain concept (e.g.; the king may not stay king for too long if he gets complacent). Intelligence comes in many forms. If you don't see someone's intelligence at first glance then it may be because you're not looking hard enough instead of them being stupid. For instance, maybe you can code, but try and write (decent) lyrics to a song. It's not as easy as you'd think. Also, I know smart people who lock up in a situation they are not comfortable in. But, get them in a situation they know well or feel better about and watch their brain cells fly. And remember, we all have our dumb moments no matter how smart we are. [edit] And, just to note, I know that realistically we all have our moments of calling someone stupid, but as for me I just try to keep what I mentioned in mind when the end of the day comes around. [/edit] Jeremy Falcon
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Now as much as it pains me to admit it, being a believer in the common man and all, there are some dim bulbs on this Earth of ours. However it seems a lot of people are not stupid, they just don't use their heads. They are lazy. Instead of applying themselves, they would rather make the mistake then raise their hand and get the local office wunder kind to come over and do it for them. The only reason I am the lead developer here is because I don't bloody well give up. I am no genius but I can put two and two together and as you so well put it; I just use my kop. If XYZ does not work then I will try ABC or DGH. Most people though seem to hit a problem, quail in fear and have a smoke break hoping the problem will have gone away when they get back to their desks. I will try anything and everything, something will work. Naturally you want to try and do it in a smart way and not just a shotgun way, but that is not always possible. So in my round about way what I am trying to say is; A lot of those people we think are stupid, aren't. They are either lazy, won't apply themselves or lack the basic problem solving thinking which is so critical to development. It is hard to learn the later though. What bugs me are people who have potential and talent, and waste it, who don't apply themselves. That drives me up the wall. regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass South Africa Miszou wrote: I have read the entire internet. on how boring his day was. Crikey! ain't life grand?
*Elaine nods in agreement* The tigress is here :-D
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Now as much as it pains me to admit it, being a believer in the common man and all, there are some dim bulbs on this Earth of ours. However it seems a lot of people are not stupid, they just don't use their heads. They are lazy. Instead of applying themselves, they would rather make the mistake then raise their hand and get the local office wunder kind to come over and do it for them. The only reason I am the lead developer here is because I don't bloody well give up. I am no genius but I can put two and two together and as you so well put it; I just use my kop. If XYZ does not work then I will try ABC or DGH. Most people though seem to hit a problem, quail in fear and have a smoke break hoping the problem will have gone away when they get back to their desks. I will try anything and everything, something will work. Naturally you want to try and do it in a smart way and not just a shotgun way, but that is not always possible. So in my round about way what I am trying to say is; A lot of those people we think are stupid, aren't. They are either lazy, won't apply themselves or lack the basic problem solving thinking which is so critical to development. It is hard to learn the later though. What bugs me are people who have potential and talent, and waste it, who don't apply themselves. That drives me up the wall. regards, Paul Watson Bluegrass South Africa Miszou wrote: I have read the entire internet. on how boring his day was. Crikey! ain't life grand?
*Elaine then considers how Drawinism can be applied to these people* The tigress is here :-D
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I've been thinking about this over the past few days... It seems that, both in and out of my work enviroment, I have become increasingly judgemental about stupidity. I have an annoying habit of comparing the work of others (inside the office), and the actions of others (outside the office) to what I would have thought was an intelligent approach. I will be the first to admit that I am not perfect, and a varying number of people will tell you that one should not judge least one get judged themselves. I disagree. I feel surrounded by stupidity. The driver that parks their car in a retarded place causing a huge traffic jam and sits there, blissfully unaware... The policies I set in place at work to ensure that Source code is checked-in, checked out.... "so you edited it without checking it out and lost a days work?". Idiot. You should be fired. Or, how about running a data-import script that doesn't work against a customer database rather than a development one? "you're lucky I made a backup, fool". Idiot: "What would you like to drink?" Me: "Pint of Stella please" And the resultant drink is.... Half a diet coke with ice, no lemon. "What?" I read on news.bbc.co.uk that someone at the new directory enquires number didn't know where Scotland was.... and they have a job? My girlfriend calls me clever. no... I just use my head. So I ask the community... am I being too harsh at hating these people? Is my ego too big... should I get a job of significant power and end their bloodline... Perhaps I should post my article on making an ISAPI.DLL talk to an ATL COM Server that hosts the CLR and passes all info to managed classes. ho hum. When it comes to maths and me, the wheel's going but the hamster's dead. [Edit to change some spelling errors. Maybe I should blame myself?!]
IMHO, it's a little presumptuous. I can say it, I make the same mistake :-D Basically, there's nothing absolute, and the criterias you use to judge may be valid or not from one to another. For example, "the driver that parks their car in a retarded place causing a huge traffic jam" may not care about creating a traffic jam, and would consider as stupid to park 2 km further. "Vanity, vanity, all is vanity" :)
In every work of genius we see our own rejected thought. - François Rabelais
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I've been thinking about this over the past few days... It seems that, both in and out of my work enviroment, I have become increasingly judgemental about stupidity. I have an annoying habit of comparing the work of others (inside the office), and the actions of others (outside the office) to what I would have thought was an intelligent approach. I will be the first to admit that I am not perfect, and a varying number of people will tell you that one should not judge least one get judged themselves. I disagree. I feel surrounded by stupidity. The driver that parks their car in a retarded place causing a huge traffic jam and sits there, blissfully unaware... The policies I set in place at work to ensure that Source code is checked-in, checked out.... "so you edited it without checking it out and lost a days work?". Idiot. You should be fired. Or, how about running a data-import script that doesn't work against a customer database rather than a development one? "you're lucky I made a backup, fool". Idiot: "What would you like to drink?" Me: "Pint of Stella please" And the resultant drink is.... Half a diet coke with ice, no lemon. "What?" I read on news.bbc.co.uk that someone at the new directory enquires number didn't know where Scotland was.... and they have a job? My girlfriend calls me clever. no... I just use my head. So I ask the community... am I being too harsh at hating these people? Is my ego too big... should I get a job of significant power and end their bloodline... Perhaps I should post my article on making an ISAPI.DLL talk to an ATL COM Server that hosts the CLR and passes all info to managed classes. ho hum. When it comes to maths and me, the wheel's going but the hamster's dead. [Edit to change some spelling errors. Maybe I should blame myself?!]
I recognise the sentiments - I'm afraid you'll just have to get used to stupidity. You're surrounded by it and it ain't going away... Ben Ashley wrote: am I being too harsh at hating these people? Don't waste your hatred on morons - save it for something worth hating...You'll also find, if you consciously think "Don't hate them just because they're stupid" that you can deal with stupidity easier. Stuart Dootson 'Java, Basic, who cares - it's all a bunch of tree-hugging hippy cr*p'
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I've been thinking about this over the past few days... It seems that, both in and out of my work enviroment, I have become increasingly judgemental about stupidity. I have an annoying habit of comparing the work of others (inside the office), and the actions of others (outside the office) to what I would have thought was an intelligent approach. I will be the first to admit that I am not perfect, and a varying number of people will tell you that one should not judge least one get judged themselves. I disagree. I feel surrounded by stupidity. The driver that parks their car in a retarded place causing a huge traffic jam and sits there, blissfully unaware... The policies I set in place at work to ensure that Source code is checked-in, checked out.... "so you edited it without checking it out and lost a days work?". Idiot. You should be fired. Or, how about running a data-import script that doesn't work against a customer database rather than a development one? "you're lucky I made a backup, fool". Idiot: "What would you like to drink?" Me: "Pint of Stella please" And the resultant drink is.... Half a diet coke with ice, no lemon. "What?" I read on news.bbc.co.uk that someone at the new directory enquires number didn't know where Scotland was.... and they have a job? My girlfriend calls me clever. no... I just use my head. So I ask the community... am I being too harsh at hating these people? Is my ego too big... should I get a job of significant power and end their bloodline... Perhaps I should post my article on making an ISAPI.DLL talk to an ATL COM Server that hosts the CLR and passes all info to managed classes. ho hum. When it comes to maths and me, the wheel's going but the hamster's dead. [Edit to change some spelling errors. Maybe I should blame myself?!]
Think for a second about what you are saying (paraphrase) - "Everyone around me is dumb except me". What's wrong with this picture? In my life I have known a few people who have said almost the same thing you are saying now. If you are like them then the following applies to you. At the risk of sounding mean, I will say this - most likely you are a very self-centered person. Negative connotation aside, you are evaluating other people's behavior in relation to what YOU would do, and how other people's actions affect YOU. Everyone thinks their way of doing things is right even if it is not. Your degree of ability to see outside of your perspective may be your problem. Undoubtedly in some cases you are dealing with stupid people, and in other cases you simply deem people stupid because of your limited perspective of what is really happening. Sure, people screw up, like ignoring source-code procedures etc... but calling the cab driver stupid is going a little far and showing the self-centeredness of your thinking. Do you really know why he parked there? If not, how can you pass judgment and assume it is because he is stupid. If he had the opportunity to tell you why, you may change your mind. If he has a valid reason, who is the foolish one now? I can think of countless times in my life where I was doing something and someone assumed I was doing it wrong until I explained why I was doing it that way. Has this ever happened to you? I bet it has. You are spending much time on the other end of this equation however. Furthermore, since things only tend to affect us or cause notice when they are wrong, stupid, foolish etc... it gives you a skewed view of the overall picture. You need to step outside of your head and realize other people think you are dumb too. In fact, many people probably think you are clueless because you complain about other people. You need to step outside of your head and realize other people think you are dumb too. I am dumb too :) Everyone repeat after me ...
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Think for a second about what you are saying (paraphrase) - "Everyone around me is dumb except me". What's wrong with this picture? In my life I have known a few people who have said almost the same thing you are saying now. If you are like them then the following applies to you. At the risk of sounding mean, I will say this - most likely you are a very self-centered person. Negative connotation aside, you are evaluating other people's behavior in relation to what YOU would do, and how other people's actions affect YOU. Everyone thinks their way of doing things is right even if it is not. Your degree of ability to see outside of your perspective may be your problem. Undoubtedly in some cases you are dealing with stupid people, and in other cases you simply deem people stupid because of your limited perspective of what is really happening. Sure, people screw up, like ignoring source-code procedures etc... but calling the cab driver stupid is going a little far and showing the self-centeredness of your thinking. Do you really know why he parked there? If not, how can you pass judgment and assume it is because he is stupid. If he had the opportunity to tell you why, you may change your mind. If he has a valid reason, who is the foolish one now? I can think of countless times in my life where I was doing something and someone assumed I was doing it wrong until I explained why I was doing it that way. Has this ever happened to you? I bet it has. You are spending much time on the other end of this equation however. Furthermore, since things only tend to affect us or cause notice when they are wrong, stupid, foolish etc... it gives you a skewed view of the overall picture. You need to step outside of your head and realize other people think you are dumb too. In fact, many people probably think you are clueless because you complain about other people. You need to step outside of your head and realize other people think you are dumb too. I am dumb too :) Everyone repeat after me ...
A very good reply. Whether it matters or not (I suspect not), the car that was parked in the retarded place was just a woman waiting. Right in the middle of a main thoroughfare, sitting there, engine off, waiting... She might have parked slightly further up the road, or better still, in the carpark 50m from where she was. I also agree that perspective plays an important factor. But you'd be foolish to call yourself dumb. The safeplay thought that "we're all dumb" is nothing more than a way to make the dumb people feel better about themselves. I've covered the fact that we make mistakes in a previous post... it's all to do with learning. My observations on stupid people to not derive from them making mistakes. It derives from their inability to think intelligently. Sure, people screw up. I can live with that, and I don't have to moan one bit about it. Consistent screwing up should be held in the same realms as consistent genius... e.g. "you got it, or you haven't got it get the hell out of the auditorium you limp excuse for a human". There are several factors that you can always apply to a smart guy: 1) Observation - smart people notice things 2) Experience - On making observations, smart people know what to expect 3) Result - Combining 1 and 2, an informed approach is easy. 4) Intelligence - Smart people can take 1,2,3 and make something happen. There are many common myths in our society, including Survival and Security... neither exist yet we all live religiously by them... When it comes to maths and me, the wheel's going but the hamster's dead.