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  • U Uggy

    I'm always rather disturbed at men getting involved in this argument. What do men know about carrying a child or giving birth? I am a man and I'm really VERY glad that I don't have to endure a pregnancy, either planned or otherwise. Personally I don't much like the idea of abortion but I don't have the right to tell someone else that they must carry an unwanted pregnancy to term. It may well be repugnant to abort a foetus at 24 weeks or later but if you're 16 and facing a life of penury trying to bring up an unwanted child in a hostile world what else can you do? (answers, please, on a postcard...) Mark, London.

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    brianwelsch
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    Uggy wrote: I'm always rather disturbed at men getting involved in this argument. So it's its disturbing that a man wants to have a say regarding whether or not his child will be born?? :wtf: I'm more disturbed by those who don't give a shit. BW The Biggest Loser


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      Uggy wrote: I'm always rather disturbed at men getting involved in this argument. So it's its disturbing that a man wants to have a say regarding whether or not his child will be born?? :wtf: I'm more disturbed by those who don't give a shit. BW The Biggest Loser


      "And then one day you find ten years have got behind you
      No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun"

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      We've been here before, too many times to mention!


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        We've been here before, too many times to mention!


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        brianwelsch
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        :-D It is a recurring theme isn't it? BW The Biggest Loser


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          :-D It is a recurring theme isn't it? BW The Biggest Loser


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          Indeed! Abortion, homosexuality, Iraq, Bush, religion ... surely there must be other contentious issues we can all argue about! ;)


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            Indeed! Abortion, homosexuality, Iraq, Bush, religion ... surely there must be other contentious issues we can all argue about! ;)


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            Ian Darling
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            Robert Edward Caldecott wrote: Indeed! Abortion, homosexuality, Iraq, Bush, religion ... surely there must be other contentious issues we can all argue about! There hasn't been a good tech argument as of late. I'll start: Java sucks! Linux blows! VB for ever! Was that suitably argument and content free? :-)


            Ian Darling "If we've learned anything from history, it's that those who feed trolls are condemned to repetitive conversations. Or something like that." - Eric Lippert

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              Indeed! Abortion, homosexuality, Iraq, Bush, religion ... surely there must be other contentious issues we can all argue about! ;)


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              Uggy
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              Why when this is so much fun?

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                Uggy wrote: I'm always rather disturbed at men getting involved in this argument. So it's its disturbing that a man wants to have a say regarding whether or not his child will be born?? :wtf: I'm more disturbed by those who don't give a shit. BW The Biggest Loser


                "And then one day you find ten years have got behind you
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                Uggy
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                Yeah, right. So you've had your 30 seconds of pushing and shoving and you want a say??? C'mon, most of the guys that 'cause' unwanted pregnancy couldn't give a flying doodah, much less care if the woman goes through the 9 months and has the child. Instead of trying to outlaw abortion why not spend that time and energy to persaude, cajole or plain old teach these kids not to have unprotected sex.

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                • B brianwelsch

                  Uggy wrote: I'm always rather disturbed at men getting involved in this argument. So it's its disturbing that a man wants to have a say regarding whether or not his child will be born?? :wtf: I'm more disturbed by those who don't give a shit. BW The Biggest Loser


                  "And then one day you find ten years have got behind you
                  No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun"

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                  Wjousts
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                  brianwelsch wrote: So it's its disturbing that a man wants to have a say regarding whether or not his child will be born?? Yeah, why shouldn't a guy be able to force a woman to bare his child when a woman can't force a man to not completely disappear and leave her holding the baby, literally!

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                    Yeah, right. So you've had your 30 seconds of pushing and shoving and you want a say??? C'mon, most of the guys that 'cause' unwanted pregnancy couldn't give a flying doodah, much less care if the woman goes through the 9 months and has the child. Instead of trying to outlaw abortion why not spend that time and energy to persaude, cajole or plain old teach these kids not to have unprotected sex.

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                    Wjousts
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                    Well that's what Bush's completely ineffective and unrealistic abstinence programs are for. You'd think he'd would have learnt when he found that Texas oil refineries could not be trusted to voluntarily reduce emission that it would be unrealistic to expect teenage boys to do reduce their "emissions".

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                    • M Maximilien

                      Didn't "Roe" turned into a very millitant pro-life advocate recently ( and vivid born again christian ) ?


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                      Militant?

                      "We have done so much in the last 2 years, and it doesn't happen by standing around with your finger in your ear, hoping everyone thinks that that's nice." - Donald Rumsfeld

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                      • M Mike Gaskey

                        That 500,000 to 800,00 women march[^] to protect their right to kill? Of course they currently have that right but what concerns them is the recent change that eliminates (AKA partial birth abortion) the right to suck the brains out of an unborn child to effect an abortion. Mike "liberals are being driven crazy by the fact that Bush is so popular with Americans, and thus by the realization that anyone to the left of center is utterly marginal." JAMES TRAUB NY Times Loyal member of the vast right wing conspiracy Me "Kerry is a girl's name." Conan O'Brian "I've spoken to many world leaders - they all look at me and say, you've got to win. I just can't tell you who they are." J.F.Kerry

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                        Alvaro Mendez
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                        I've said this before: it's not the right to "kill poor little innocent babies". It's the right to have something removed from your body that you don't want there. Let's say you have a house with a yard and you take a walk outside. All of the sudden you find dog poop on the ground. You can either leave it there until it decomposes in a few days or weeks, or you can remove it immediately. You have the legal right to have it removed because the poop is in your house. Say your yard is not fenced in. This means that any animal could walk in and poop in it at any time. Should you now be forced to live with whatever poop is dropped in your yard? Let's say you put a fence in your yard and a dog still manages to break in, or perhaps your friend brings his dog for a visit and leaves you a nasty surprise. Guess what, you still have the right to remove the poop because it's inside your yard. Now you may say that a fetus is not the same as dog poop and you're right. But it doesn't change anything. If something goes into your yard (or your body) without your consent, you should have the legal right to remove it, EVEN IF DOING SO ENDS ITS LIFE. If you don't agree, what would you do if I break into your house in the middle of the night, connect myself to your liver, and tell you I have to stay connected to you for nine months or else I'll die? Oh, and you have to be gentle with me: no smoking, no drinking, no medicines, no streneous exercise, no falling, and of course, no dieting -- I'm always hungry! :-) Regards, Alvaro


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                        • M Maximilien

                          Didn't "Roe" turned into a very millitant pro-life advocate recently ( and vivid born again christian ) ?


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                          and she also admitted to having lied in front of the Supreme Court. Cleek | Losinger Designs | ClickPic | ThumbNailer

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                          • M Mike Gaskey

                            That 500,000 to 800,00 women march[^] to protect their right to kill? Of course they currently have that right but what concerns them is the recent change that eliminates (AKA partial birth abortion) the right to suck the brains out of an unborn child to effect an abortion. Mike "liberals are being driven crazy by the fact that Bush is so popular with Americans, and thus by the realization that anyone to the left of center is utterly marginal." JAMES TRAUB NY Times Loyal member of the vast right wing conspiracy Me "Kerry is a girl's name." Conan O'Brian "I've spoken to many world leaders - they all look at me and say, you've got to win. I just can't tell you who they are." J.F.Kerry

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                            No


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                              No


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                              Mike Gaskey
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                              peterchen wrote: No Thanks. One of the more intelligent answers thus far. Mike "liberals are being driven crazy by the fact that Bush is so popular with Americans, and thus by the realization that anyone to the left of center is utterly marginal." JAMES TRAUB NY Times Loyal member of the vast right wing conspiracy Me "Kerry is a girl's name." Conan O'Brian "I've spoken to many world leaders - they all look at me and say, you've got to win. I just can't tell you who they are." J.F.Kerry

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                              • M Mike Gaskey

                                That 500,000 to 800,00 women march[^] to protect their right to kill? Of course they currently have that right but what concerns them is the recent change that eliminates (AKA partial birth abortion) the right to suck the brains out of an unborn child to effect an abortion. Mike "liberals are being driven crazy by the fact that Bush is so popular with Americans, and thus by the realization that anyone to the left of center is utterly marginal." JAMES TRAUB NY Times Loyal member of the vast right wing conspiracy Me "Kerry is a girl's name." Conan O'Brian "I've spoken to many world leaders - they all look at me and say, you've got to win. I just can't tell you who they are." J.F.Kerry

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                                Christian Graus
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                                What I find odd is when rednecks bomb abortion clinics, apparently willing to kill people who are husbands or wives, fathers or mothers, and claim to value life. I presume the same people cry for the rights of the maladjusted child that was not wanted and who is raised to know it after they have broken into their home and run off with their stuff, possibly stabbing their spouse on the way. Christian I have drunk the cool-aid and found it wan and bitter. - Chris Maunder

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                                  Mike Gaskey wrote: That 500,000 to 800,00 women march[^] to protect their right to kill? I think you have a small typo there. It should read protect their right to choose. Protect their right to determind their own fate. Protect their right to be full and equal members in society. Maybe Bush and co. would like to see women bare foot and pregnant and weighed down with a cluster of children because then they won't be able to make it to the polls to vote democrat. If Bush cared about children he'd fund education properly, if he cared about children he'd make sure that poor single mothers didn't have to work 3 minimum wage jobs leaving their children home alone just to put food on the table and then blame them for how their kids turn out. If he cared about reducing abortion he'd insist on more sex education in schools and would be handing out condoms himself. But Bush doesn't care about women, children or abortion.

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                                  You've hit the nail on the head - abortion is only necessarly because women are, apparently, too stupid to figure out how birth control works. Christian I have drunk the cool-aid and found it wan and bitter. - Chris Maunder

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                                    You've hit the nail on the head - abortion is only necessarly because women are, apparently, too stupid to figure out how birth control works. Christian I have drunk the cool-aid and found it wan and bitter. - Chris Maunder

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                                    Anna Jayne Metcalfe
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                                    You've obviously never experienced birth control devices failing on you and your partner Christian. If a condom splits it's pretty obvious that it's failed and you need to do something immediately...the same isn't true for other contraceptives. Anna :rose: Homepage | Tears and Laughter "Be yourself - not what others think you should be" - Marcia Graesch "Anna's just a sexy-looking lesbian tart" - A friend, trying to wind me up. It didn't work. Trouble with resource IDs? Try the Resource ID Organiser Visual C++ Add-In

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                                      You've obviously never experienced birth control devices failing on you and your partner Christian. If a condom splits it's pretty obvious that it's failed and you need to do something immediately...the same isn't true for other contraceptives. Anna :rose: Homepage | Tears and Laughter "Be yourself - not what others think you should be" - Marcia Graesch "Anna's just a sexy-looking lesbian tart" - A friend, trying to wind me up. It didn't work. Trouble with resource IDs? Try the Resource ID Organiser Visual C++ Add-In

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                                      Christian Graus
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                                      On the contrary, I've ripped plenty of condoms off and thrown them across the room. I know the pill will fail if you're taking some medications, but I don't believe it fails intermittently, or unpredictably. Christian I have drunk the cool-aid and found it wan and bitter. - Chris Maunder

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                                      • W Wjousts

                                        brianwelsch wrote: So it's its disturbing that a man wants to have a say regarding whether or not his child will be born?? Yeah, why shouldn't a guy be able to force a woman to bare his child when a woman can't force a man to not completely disappear and leave her holding the baby, literally!

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                                        Don't get so dramatic. :rolleyes: The original comment was about it being disturbing that men would even be interested in having a say regarding abortion. I think that's a sad point of view. we can go in circles all day about certain situations and when it's OK or not to have an abortion, but I wasn't commenting on that, only that it's good for men to be interested enough to want a say, and voice an opinion on this. BW The Biggest Loser


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                                          Don't get so dramatic. :rolleyes: The original comment was about it being disturbing that men would even be interested in having a say regarding abortion. I think that's a sad point of view. we can go in circles all day about certain situations and when it's OK or not to have an abortion, but I wasn't commenting on that, only that it's good for men to be interested enough to want a say, and voice an opinion on this. BW The Biggest Loser


                                          "And then one day you find ten years have got behind you
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                                          Wjousts
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                                          brianwelsch wrote: only that it's good for men to be interested enough to want a say, and voice an opinion on this. But a man has no right to force a woman to bare his child.

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