Ideas For A Good Time Wanted
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If you have to ask this question she is too young for you. There is nothing that looks more foolish than an old man trying to impress a young girl. Be sure to comb your hair foward before across your forehead. Maybe she won't notice your receding hairline. Then again there has to be a reason sayings like "there's no fool like an old fool" are so trans-generational. Life's a bitch ... then you marry one!!!!!!!
BitchyHacker wrote: Be sure to comb your hair foward before across your forehead. Maybe she won't notice your receiding hairline. If he needs any I am up to three hand-lengths of ponytail, next time I get a hair cut he can have the excess. :rolleyes: Ironically, there seems to be as many women who like balding men as like long-haired men. It can be very embarassing to have a woman walk up and ask to run her fingers through your hair.... Both seem to attrack equally well, so even if he has a receding hairline (which is not guarenteed at any age, my great-grandfather passed at 98, his hair had barely started receeding at 92), he can find someone who likes that. _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
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Maybe in Cornstalk, Iowa the idea of a 3 or 4 hour 'train ride to nowhere dinner excersion' is so exciting that you would take a 'twenty-something' there on a date. I realize your wife loves the idea but I would venture a guess that she is not 'twenty-something' and it must be considered that she lives in Iowa and probably has tipped a few in her time. If the 'twenty-something' comes from a the place where people outnumber the cows she may have more descriminating taste (pun intended). Life's a bitch ... then you marry one!!!!!!!
BitchyHacker wrote: If the 'twenty-something' comes from a the place where people outnumber the cows she may have more descriminating taste (pun intended). There is an exception to every rule. I have one friend, who will probably never be more than a friend. Still I don't know why she would ever even have lunch and be seen in public with me on the rare year we get to see each other. I'm right up there with quasimodo in choice of dinner companions. But no matter the age, no matter the example, there is someone who will like that. _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
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So let me ask this? Is this the first time you did *NOT* offer to buy a woman a drink? ;P
I know you can't become if you only say what you would have done and you'll miss a million miles of fun." - Len Work hard, play hard. Don't forget who you are and don't forget where you're from. Do all these things well and you won't have to wonder where you are going.
code-frog wrote: Is this the first time you did *NOT* offer to buy a woman a drink? No.;P That experiment ended about 1990. I'm much more selective now...:-D "...putting all your eggs in one basket along with your bowling ball and gym clothes only gets you scrambled eggs and an extra laundry day... " - Jeffry J. Brickley
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If you have to ask this question she is too young for you. There is nothing that looks more foolish than an old man trying to impress a young girl. Be sure to comb your hair foward before across your forehead. Maybe she won't notice your receding hairline. Then again there has to be a reason sayings like "there's no fool like an old fool" are so trans-generational. Life's a bitch ... then you marry one!!!!!!!
BitchyHacker wrote: Maybe she won't notice your receiding hairline. I don't have one, and you can't spell "receding." BitchyHacker wrote: Life's a bitch ... then you marry one!!!!!!! Nice attitude, and I guarantee that it will be self-fulfilling if you choose to keep it. I think life is an opportunity to excel, and marriage is one of the forums in which one has the chance to prove excellence. I made a mistake the first time around, thinking that I could help someone overcome emotional challenges that I can't even imagine. I won't be making the same mistake twice.:) "...putting all your eggs in one basket along with your bowling ball and gym clothes only gets you scrambled eggs and an extra laundry day... " - Jeffry J. Brickley
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She's actually 29, a former olympic level gymnast in better shape than most tri-athletes and pretty with it. How she got stuck with me is a real debatable question but who really cares (except all those other guys still wondering). She's pretty amazing. She'll kick just about anyone's ass on a mountain bike and laugh as she drops you as she grinds away on her middle chain-ring and the only thing you can do is pray that God kill you because you don't have enough O2 to breathe. It's Idaho not Iowa. Why don't you google-image for the Sawtooth's and then tell me a little more about Idaho and how interesting it isn't? Considering that it's one of the hottest places in the nation and growing at enormous rates you might reconsider some of your comments. If that doesn't get you then google for Tamarack Resort in Idaho another kick-ass place. My wife has never tipped a thing and she's got a whole lot more class then you just "ventured" to guess. :cool: If I seem a bit short:rose:, you don't even have a clue what my wife and I have been through and she's anything but a bitch:(. I wince even reading that quote...{SIGH} I realize you are making light but ... it's my wife:->. If you knew what potential each day held for us you would understand.:omg: You don't so I cannot pile-drive you into oblivion for it but at first I was ready to. ;P It's not a train ride to nowhere either. It starts on a river known world around for it's class 3-5 rapids (Payette River) and it follows that river up some of the most beautiful mountains you'll see. It's relaxing as all hell and while some might consider it a snooze the majority thinks it's a great time. Trust me when I say that you just have to do it to even begin to understand. It very much depends on the temperment of the people involved. The food and scenery leave very little to be desired but it could be 4 uncomfortable hours if you are not good at conversation. But in my post I said, "something like" not actually intending he drive her here... not yet anyway. ;P
I know you can't become if you only say what you would have done and you'll miss a million miles of fun." - Len Work hard, play hard. Don't forget who you are and don't forget where you're from. Do all these things well and you won't have to wonder where you are going.
:-D My 5, Frogger... Great response, and I'd be proud one day to meet your lady. She sounds awesome, and I have to assume that you are of similar character, else she wouldn't bother with you. I'm looking forward to meeting you both one day...:-D "...putting all your eggs in one basket along with your bowling ball and gym clothes only gets you scrambled eggs and an extra laundry day... " - Jeffry J. Brickley
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BitchyHacker wrote: If the 'twenty-something' comes from a the place where people outnumber the cows she may have more descriminating taste (pun intended). There is an exception to every rule. I have one friend, who will probably never be more than a friend. Still I don't know why she would ever even have lunch and be seen in public with me on the rare year we get to see each other. I'm right up there with quasimodo in choice of dinner companions. But no matter the age, no matter the example, there is someone who will like that. _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
You might want to consider the remote (to you) possibility that you may be selling yourself short. Perhaps you may be more attractive than you think. We do tend to be our own worst critics in these matters, you know... I'm a homely muthuh, as anyone who has seen my picture knows, but I'm a gentleman, and a genuinely good person, and often that is far more important to a lady. Any man who claims to know what a woman will find attractive is a fool. They make their own choices based on standards that they persist in not sharing with us, and there is absolutely nothing we can do about it. When questioned, they have no idea how to explain their selections, although I have a private theory that the uglier you are, and the lower the standards you maintain, the better your chances are. I've never seen an exception to that rule around here, but the world is large. I think we're all clueless when it comes to relationships, especially relationships of the best kind. Best bet, to my thinking, is to roll with the punches and be happy with whatever comes your way, so long as the match is close enough to make tomorrow an event to look forward to.:-D I have no idea whether this young lady will become a wife, a lover, a friend, or a stranger I once knew. I don't care all that much what form the relationship takes; I care much more that she and I come to know each other well enough to make an informed choice. I'm having fun on this adventure, and if it ends tomorrow, that's okay - I still had fun. Not to mention a magnificent dinner...:-D "...putting all your eggs in one basket along with your bowling ball and gym clothes only gets you scrambled eggs and an extra laundry day... " - Jeffry J. Brickley
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What would be the fun in that? They're all alike in bed. The difference arises when you try to build a life together. When you're young, getting laid is really important; when you reach middle age, having someone special to share your life with becomes far more important. That's what lasts, and the sooner you learn that lesson, the better your life will become. It doesn't matter how young or old she is. All that matters is that ability to share experiences, and enjoy them together. Learn from me, youngster, and live a long, happy life. Or ignore me and live a miserable, lonely life. I really don't give a hoot - I cast pearls before swine regularly, but I never look back. "...putting all your eggs in one basket along with your bowling ball and gym clothes only gets you scrambled eggs and an extra laundry day... " - Jeffry J. Brickley
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Roger Wright wrote: Suggestions, anyone... the zoo or a state/national park? yes, there is another reason why I don't date. ;) _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
That's a great idea - a national park. We have several within a few hours' drive. The Grand Canyon is the obvious choice, but Bryce Canyon and Zion National Park are not that far away. First, though, we have to progress to the point where spending a night together in a hotel is not threatening to her, and we're not yet there. I just met her Saturday, and we had a dinner together, after which she went out to see a friend who runs a tattoo parlor. This is far from being a "relationship" yet; it's just a matter of two people of vastly differing ages getting together to share some fun. I have no idea whether it will ever go beyond that, but I appreciate your thoughts - great ideas, and they're worth pursuing no matter where they lead. Thank you....:-D "...putting all your eggs in one basket along with your bowling ball and gym clothes only gets you scrambled eggs and an extra laundry day... " - Jeffry J. Brickley
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Dinner last night went rather well, but it's followup time. I have no idea what modern twenty-something year old ladies enjoy for entertainment. When I was that age they were into clubbing, surfing, smoking dope and strumming guitars; times have changed. I'm planning an escape from the heat for a barbeque in the mountains on Sunday, but I'm stumped for any other creative ideas beyond that. Suggestions, anyone...;) "...putting all your eggs in one basket along with your bowling ball and gym clothes only gets you scrambled eggs and an extra laundry day... " - Jeffry J. Brickley
an off the wall suggestion this, but it might be worth a try :) how about a long phone call / talk in person, just friendly conversation, getting to know each other, and then ask her what sort of things she would like to do? it is just possible she will give you some helpful advice :) of course if she says "surprise me" then go with the best of what we think up here in the lounge ;) zen is the art of being at one with the two'ness
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What would be the fun in that? They're all alike in bed. The difference arises when you try to build a life together. When you're young, getting laid is really important; when you reach middle age, having someone special to share your life with becomes far more important. That's what lasts, and the sooner you learn that lesson, the better your life will become. It doesn't matter how young or old she is. All that matters is that ability to share experiences, and enjoy them together. Learn from me, youngster, and live a long, happy life. Or ignore me and live a miserable, lonely life. I really don't give a hoot - I cast pearls before swine regularly, but I never look back. "...putting all your eggs in one basket along with your bowling ball and gym clothes only gets you scrambled eggs and an extra laundry day... " - Jeffry J. Brickley
based on the wisdom and intelligence of this reply how about simply being yourself, and going for a quiet walk somewhere scenic? any nice nature reserves / quiet beaches / lightly wooded areas in your area? fresh air, gentle exercise, non threatening environment, plenty of time and space for conversation... if nothing else a nice change from spending all day in front of a computer :) then again i am not a great fan of crowds, so i am prone to advising more quiet and contemplative ideas :) zen is the art of being at one with the two'ness
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Maybe in Cornstalk, Iowa the idea of a 3 or 4 hour 'train ride to nowhere dinner excersion' is so exciting that you would take a 'twenty-something' there on a date. I realize your wife loves the idea but I would venture a guess that she is not 'twenty-something' and it must be considered that she lives in Iowa and probably has tipped a few in her time. If the 'twenty-something' comes from a the place where people outnumber the cows she may have more descriminating taste (pun intended). Life's a bitch ... then you marry one!!!!!!!
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BitchyHacker wrote: Maybe she won't notice your receiding hairline. I don't have one, and you can't spell "receding." BitchyHacker wrote: Life's a bitch ... then you marry one!!!!!!! Nice attitude, and I guarantee that it will be self-fulfilling if you choose to keep it. I think life is an opportunity to excel, and marriage is one of the forums in which one has the chance to prove excellence. I made a mistake the first time around, thinking that I could help someone overcome emotional challenges that I can't even imagine. I won't be making the same mistake twice.:) "...putting all your eggs in one basket along with your bowling ball and gym clothes only gets you scrambled eggs and an extra laundry day... " - Jeffry J. Brickley
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That's a great idea - a national park. We have several within a few hours' drive. The Grand Canyon is the obvious choice, but Bryce Canyon and Zion National Park are not that far away. First, though, we have to progress to the point where spending a night together in a hotel is not threatening to her, and we're not yet there. I just met her Saturday, and we had a dinner together, after which she went out to see a friend who runs a tattoo parlor. This is far from being a "relationship" yet; it's just a matter of two people of vastly differing ages getting together to share some fun. I have no idea whether it will ever go beyond that, but I appreciate your thoughts - great ideas, and they're worth pursuing no matter where they lead. Thank you....:-D "...putting all your eggs in one basket along with your bowling ball and gym clothes only gets you scrambled eggs and an extra laundry day... " - Jeffry J. Brickley
Roger Wright wrote: I just met her Saturday, and we had a dinner together, after which she went out to see a friend who runs a tattoo parlor. Ask to see her tattoos (I think that is the plural of tats?). You might be surprised at what you see! Life's a bitch ... then you marry one!!!!!!!
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Try the sport gaining in popularity across America that both males and females alike can enjoy... Naked Tennis!
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If you have to ask this question she is too young for you. There is nothing that looks more foolish than an old man trying to impress a young girl. Be sure to comb your hair foward before across your forehead. Maybe she won't notice your receding hairline. Then again there has to be a reason sayings like "there's no fool like an old fool" are so trans-generational. Life's a bitch ... then you marry one!!!!!!!
BitchyHacker wrote: If you have to ask this question she is too young for you. Either that or he respects all of us and really respects her. He might have some great ideas of his own but in querying the rest of us he gleans some more ideas and also confirmation that he's on the right path. I think Roger shows a lot of wisdom in this. Wise men are slow to speak, quick to listen and slow to become angry. The only part of it I understand is that listening can be useful... still working on the whole approach in practice...:^) I'm hopeful though that I'll get better. But I'm a cancer and the only horoscope for cancer I've found useful is, "Don't worry they will find a cure someday." and that tends to generally describe my character flaws but hey, I'm still a kid so it's all good. {I'll just keep telling myself that and pretty soon denial will be a river in Egypt.}:doh:
I know you can't become if you only say what you would have done and you'll miss a million miles of fun." - Len Work hard, play hard. Don't forget who you are and don't forget where you're from. Do all these things well and you won't have to wonder where you are going.
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Dinner last night went rather well, but it's followup time. I have no idea what modern twenty-something year old ladies enjoy for entertainment. When I was that age they were into clubbing, surfing, smoking dope and strumming guitars; times have changed. I'm planning an escape from the heat for a barbeque in the mountains on Sunday, but I'm stumped for any other creative ideas beyond that. Suggestions, anyone...;) "...putting all your eggs in one basket along with your bowling ball and gym clothes only gets you scrambled eggs and an extra laundry day... " - Jeffry J. Brickley
My wife and I had a great time yesterday afternoon drinking beverages sitting outside catching some rays (never seems to go above 80 here so that's nice to do) and listening to tunes. When you're with the right person it almost doesn't matter at all what you do. Honestly do you really want to try to impress a 20 something? How far are you willing to take that - Base Jumping? ;P My dad is a little older than you and he dated a woman that was a little younger than I am for a while. It didn't last, I think he wanted someone he could relate to more in the end, but they had fun while it did and they usually did things outside like making up a nice batch of picnic food, good wine and going to a nice spot to laze around and munch out. And what's wrong with clubbing surfing or strumming guitars? (I know plenty of people do do all that and more at every age imaginable around here. Possibly some of the exact same people you might have done it with back in the day.) Sounds like you might be trying too hard Roger, that's a turn off for a woman of any age, just ask her what she would like to do and limit your contribution to the stuff *you* want to do (and don't forget to keep sex on the table as an ongoing option). Just keep your ears peeled for anything she might mention and take it as it comes.
"A preoccupation with the next world pretty clearly signals an inability to cope credibly with this one."
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You might want to consider the remote (to you) possibility that you may be selling yourself short. Perhaps you may be more attractive than you think. We do tend to be our own worst critics in these matters, you know... I'm a homely muthuh, as anyone who has seen my picture knows, but I'm a gentleman, and a genuinely good person, and often that is far more important to a lady. Any man who claims to know what a woman will find attractive is a fool. They make their own choices based on standards that they persist in not sharing with us, and there is absolutely nothing we can do about it. When questioned, they have no idea how to explain their selections, although I have a private theory that the uglier you are, and the lower the standards you maintain, the better your chances are. I've never seen an exception to that rule around here, but the world is large. I think we're all clueless when it comes to relationships, especially relationships of the best kind. Best bet, to my thinking, is to roll with the punches and be happy with whatever comes your way, so long as the match is close enough to make tomorrow an event to look forward to.:-D I have no idea whether this young lady will become a wife, a lover, a friend, or a stranger I once knew. I don't care all that much what form the relationship takes; I care much more that she and I come to know each other well enough to make an informed choice. I'm having fun on this adventure, and if it ends tomorrow, that's okay - I still had fun. Not to mention a magnificent dinner...:-D "...putting all your eggs in one basket along with your bowling ball and gym clothes only gets you scrambled eggs and an extra laundry day... " - Jeffry J. Brickley
Roger Wright wrote: You might want to consider the remote (to you) possibility that you may be selling yourself short... Any man who claims to know what a woman will find attractive is a fool... I have no idea whether this young lady will become a wife, a lover, a friend, or a stranger I once knew... This gets a 5 right back because it's true. The magical thing is she can be a wife, lover, friend and stranger all at the same time. That's an incredible experience.
I know you can't become if you only say what you would have done and you'll miss a million miles of fun." - Len Work hard, play hard. Don't forget who you are and don't forget where you're from. Do all these things well and you won't have to wonder where you are going.
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What would be the fun in that? They're all alike in bed. The difference arises when you try to build a life together. When you're young, getting laid is really important; when you reach middle age, having someone special to share your life with becomes far more important. That's what lasts, and the sooner you learn that lesson, the better your life will become. It doesn't matter how young or old she is. All that matters is that ability to share experiences, and enjoy them together. Learn from me, youngster, and live a long, happy life. Or ignore me and live a miserable, lonely life. I really don't give a hoot - I cast pearls before swine regularly, but I never look back. "...putting all your eggs in one basket along with your bowling ball and gym clothes only gets you scrambled eggs and an extra laundry day... " - Jeffry J. Brickley
Roger Wright wrote: when you reach middle age, having someone special to share your life with becomes far more important Just as long as the sex is good! :laugh:
"A preoccupation with the next world pretty clearly signals an inability to cope credibly with this one."
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That's a great idea - a national park. We have several within a few hours' drive. The Grand Canyon is the obvious choice, but Bryce Canyon and Zion National Park are not that far away. First, though, we have to progress to the point where spending a night together in a hotel is not threatening to her, and we're not yet there. I just met her Saturday, and we had a dinner together, after which she went out to see a friend who runs a tattoo parlor. This is far from being a "relationship" yet; it's just a matter of two people of vastly differing ages getting together to share some fun. I have no idea whether it will ever go beyond that, but I appreciate your thoughts - great ideas, and they're worth pursuing no matter where they lead. Thank you....:-D "...putting all your eggs in one basket along with your bowling ball and gym clothes only gets you scrambled eggs and an extra laundry day... " - Jeffry J. Brickley
Roger Wright wrote: The Grand Canyon is the obvious choice, but Bryce Canyon and Zion National Park are not that far away. Just remember, Grand Canyon is best on the North side with a fraction of the visiters and IMHO much better views. :) Just came through Bryce & Zion and north end of grand canyon last oct. When you are up to staying the night, you can even book the lodge on the north rim and wake up to the view of sunrise on the canyon walls. I have done that once, though I camped, no one with me so camping was easier. _________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
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BitchyHacker wrote: If you have to ask this question she is too young for you. Either that or he respects all of us and really respects her. He might have some great ideas of his own but in querying the rest of us he gleans some more ideas and also confirmation that he's on the right path. I think Roger shows a lot of wisdom in this. Wise men are slow to speak, quick to listen and slow to become angry. The only part of it I understand is that listening can be useful... still working on the whole approach in practice...:^) I'm hopeful though that I'll get better. But I'm a cancer and the only horoscope for cancer I've found useful is, "Don't worry they will find a cure someday." and that tends to generally describe my character flaws but hey, I'm still a kid so it's all good. {I'll just keep telling myself that and pretty soon denial will be a river in Egypt.}:doh:
I know you can't become if you only say what you would have done and you'll miss a million miles of fun." - Len Work hard, play hard. Don't forget who you are and don't forget where you're from. Do all these things well and you won't have to wonder where you are going.