Putting it on the line...
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I feel so very sorry for you, I can imagine how bad this must be as a father myself, it must be truly dreadfull, so please understand what I am going to say comes form this point of view. Do you think perhaps that life might not be feasible in the long term for your daughter? In other respects I hope the fund raising goes well. If not, another solution is for you to get a position in Europe which as a tax payer will give you free medical care. It could be worth it for a year or two.
Truth is the subjection of reality to an individuals perception
Not really feasible with regulations due to lots of 'medical tourists' even though in this case I would support it.
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It's 2:00AM my time and while I should be sleeping I cannot. I just came home from the hospital a few days ago and have all sorts of nifty medicines to help me sleep and none of them are working. My wife is resting as well as I am and frankly we are losing. We care deeply about one another, we care deeply about our kids. We have more love than we have ever had but the life in both of us is starting to fade. I've been active on this community for a bit and I've tried very hard to add value where I could and to help others when I could. Now I'm going to put it all on the line and ask for help. A mother and a father have reached their limit. There is this site Ready To Give Up[^] that I have quickly thrown together. It's a wordpress blog but it does the trick. I'm afraid I won't be blogging much except to say thank you when I can. I have a simple request. Go visit the site. If you can help then I am in your debt if you cannot but you can help by sharing the link and the story then I am also in your debt. If you can do both even better. I have no idea what this post will do to my credibility here as a person and a friend. I guess at this point it doesn't matter. I trust you guys a lot and now more than ever I need some help. I'm really worried about my wife and I and from a health standpoint I don't think we're holding up too well. I was released from the hospital and told to rest and that just isn't happening. So any support I can get would be greatly appreciated. My inspiration in all of this is that "million dollar home page" that's out there. If a kid can do it to avoid college debt shouldn't a father be able to do it to save his family? I'm very sorry if I've abused the lounge and I'm quite certain that this post may very well get me run out of here for good and I'm sorry for that. Best Regards and say a prayer for us! Rex Winn
For once in my life, you have given me a real link I can forward to my friends and ask them to participate in what ever manner possible. I shall donate as much as I can. I can imagine how much you must have gone through and I would say your one courageous never give up attitude guy. Seeing the response to your message and the votes you have got, just goes to show your credibility here as a friend, we are with you and come talk to us when you need someone.
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It's 2:00AM my time and while I should be sleeping I cannot. I just came home from the hospital a few days ago and have all sorts of nifty medicines to help me sleep and none of them are working. My wife is resting as well as I am and frankly we are losing. We care deeply about one another, we care deeply about our kids. We have more love than we have ever had but the life in both of us is starting to fade. I've been active on this community for a bit and I've tried very hard to add value where I could and to help others when I could. Now I'm going to put it all on the line and ask for help. A mother and a father have reached their limit. There is this site Ready To Give Up[^] that I have quickly thrown together. It's a wordpress blog but it does the trick. I'm afraid I won't be blogging much except to say thank you when I can. I have a simple request. Go visit the site. If you can help then I am in your debt if you cannot but you can help by sharing the link and the story then I am also in your debt. If you can do both even better. I have no idea what this post will do to my credibility here as a person and a friend. I guess at this point it doesn't matter. I trust you guys a lot and now more than ever I need some help. I'm really worried about my wife and I and from a health standpoint I don't think we're holding up too well. I was released from the hospital and told to rest and that just isn't happening. So any support I can get would be greatly appreciated. My inspiration in all of this is that "million dollar home page" that's out there. If a kid can do it to avoid college debt shouldn't a father be able to do it to save his family? I'm very sorry if I've abused the lounge and I'm quite certain that this post may very well get me run out of here for good and I'm sorry for that. Best Regards and say a prayer for us! Rex Winn
I wish I could help you, I'm living from paycheck to paycheck right now (if I had a balance on my checking account i would give you something right now). If I can fit it in with my next paycheck I will. Hang in there, I'll be praying for you!
Matt Newman
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There's so much one can learn from you. Your courage is nothing short of extraordinary. I'm not kidding nor making fun here, but this deserves Oprah. I've never made a paypal donation in my life so far, but I've decided that this is the cause to start for. Cheer up. Every sundown brings forth a new dawn.
SG
SimulationofSai wrote:
this deserves Oprah
You know, you're right. Rex and family have shown amazing courage and strength plus being part of an online community. People have discussed all kinds of things here knowing there are others to turn to. If Rex and family are willing I can find a contact address. Elaine :rose:
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It's 2:00AM my time and while I should be sleeping I cannot. I just came home from the hospital a few days ago and have all sorts of nifty medicines to help me sleep and none of them are working. My wife is resting as well as I am and frankly we are losing. We care deeply about one another, we care deeply about our kids. We have more love than we have ever had but the life in both of us is starting to fade. I've been active on this community for a bit and I've tried very hard to add value where I could and to help others when I could. Now I'm going to put it all on the line and ask for help. A mother and a father have reached their limit. There is this site Ready To Give Up[^] that I have quickly thrown together. It's a wordpress blog but it does the trick. I'm afraid I won't be blogging much except to say thank you when I can. I have a simple request. Go visit the site. If you can help then I am in your debt if you cannot but you can help by sharing the link and the story then I am also in your debt. If you can do both even better. I have no idea what this post will do to my credibility here as a person and a friend. I guess at this point it doesn't matter. I trust you guys a lot and now more than ever I need some help. I'm really worried about my wife and I and from a health standpoint I don't think we're holding up too well. I was released from the hospital and told to rest and that just isn't happening. So any support I can get would be greatly appreciated. My inspiration in all of this is that "million dollar home page" that's out there. If a kid can do it to avoid college debt shouldn't a father be able to do it to save his family? I'm very sorry if I've abused the lounge and I'm quite certain that this post may very well get me run out of here for good and I'm sorry for that. Best Regards and say a prayer for us! Rex Winn
Rex, I've been watching all the great replies you've been getting here. Last time I looked you had 21 votes, all fives! You have a lot of fantastic friends here and I am proud to count you as one of mine. But... I've also noticed that some unkind person (or people) have started to vote down your initial post. Quite frankly, I think that is dispicable. Anyone doing that should be thoroughly ashamed of themselves. Now, that I've posted this, I'm going to put your link in my signature to keep you in our thoughts.
Upcoming events: * Glasgow: Mock Objects, SQL Server CLR Integration, Reporting Services, db4o, Dependency Injection with Spring ... * Reading: Developer Day 5 Never write for other people. Write for yourself, because you have a passion for it. -- Marc Clifton My website
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Rex, I've been watching all the great replies you've been getting here. Last time I looked you had 21 votes, all fives! You have a lot of fantastic friends here and I am proud to count you as one of mine. But... I've also noticed that some unkind person (or people) have started to vote down your initial post. Quite frankly, I think that is dispicable. Anyone doing that should be thoroughly ashamed of themselves. Now, that I've posted this, I'm going to put your link in my signature to keep you in our thoughts.
Upcoming events: * Glasgow: Mock Objects, SQL Server CLR Integration, Reporting Services, db4o, Dependency Injection with Spring ... * Reading: Developer Day 5 Never write for other people. Write for yourself, because you have a passion for it. -- Marc Clifton My website
Colin Angus Mackay wrote:
I've also noticed that some unkind person (or people) have started to vote down your initial post.
I can hope that it was a mistake, pressing the wrong button. But maybe I am not as much of a pessimist I claim to be. :) If this is not the case, I agree whole-heartedly.
_________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
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I do not think this is abuse of the lounge. I am just starting a new family myself with health problems for her and I, not her son. So I do understand. You did not come presenting this at the first sign, giving up. You tried to stand on your own, you did everything you could. I can hope that I will do as well, you are an inspiration to all, your courage is great in the face of such odds. It is hard to ask for help for many of us. My grandfather, who was the only father I ever knew, was much the same way. He helped raise three grandkids while putting one daughter back into college so she could stand on her feet, and the other daughter with medical issues at the time. I wish he were still around to ask for advice, for both of us. I will talk to my fiancee and see if we can spare a small amount. It cannot be much as we too have medical bills now, I just took her to the ER briefly last weekend. Still, so far, I am keeping my head above water. Though my fiancee often asks if I am sure I want to marry her because of the expense. Love is worth the effort. Take care, and be well, Rex. I hope that word can get out enough to save your family. Your courage is an inspiration to all of us. Just me, Jeff
_________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
El Corazon wrote:
Love is worth the effort.
I think that's worthy of a sig.
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El Corazon wrote:
Love is worth the effort.
I think that's worthy of a sig.
Steve_Harris wrote:
I think that's worthy of a sig.
Just link it to Rex's page. I would never steal the show from Rex.
_________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
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It's 2:00AM my time and while I should be sleeping I cannot. I just came home from the hospital a few days ago and have all sorts of nifty medicines to help me sleep and none of them are working. My wife is resting as well as I am and frankly we are losing. We care deeply about one another, we care deeply about our kids. We have more love than we have ever had but the life in both of us is starting to fade. I've been active on this community for a bit and I've tried very hard to add value where I could and to help others when I could. Now I'm going to put it all on the line and ask for help. A mother and a father have reached their limit. There is this site Ready To Give Up[^] that I have quickly thrown together. It's a wordpress blog but it does the trick. I'm afraid I won't be blogging much except to say thank you when I can. I have a simple request. Go visit the site. If you can help then I am in your debt if you cannot but you can help by sharing the link and the story then I am also in your debt. If you can do both even better. I have no idea what this post will do to my credibility here as a person and a friend. I guess at this point it doesn't matter. I trust you guys a lot and now more than ever I need some help. I'm really worried about my wife and I and from a health standpoint I don't think we're holding up too well. I was released from the hospital and told to rest and that just isn't happening. So any support I can get would be greatly appreciated. My inspiration in all of this is that "million dollar home page" that's out there. If a kid can do it to avoid college debt shouldn't a father be able to do it to save his family? I'm very sorry if I've abused the lounge and I'm quite certain that this post may very well get me run out of here for good and I'm sorry for that. Best Regards and say a prayer for us! Rex Winn
Rex, I am very sorry to hear of this huge burden that you and your wife have had to endure; both personal and financial. Yet despite all that, you have been more vocal and given more back to this community than most of the people here that have three times the amount of 'free time' as you, and nowhere near the level of stress and responsibility. In that respect, you are certainly someone to admire. As a Father, I can only imagine what you and your wife must be going through. My 3rd, and last, child will be here within a month or so, and I am always fearful of the unknowns. {removed my political ramblings - something ya don't need to hear at a time like this} God's Speed my friend, I am sharing your story.
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Rex, I've been watching all the great replies you've been getting here. Last time I looked you had 21 votes, all fives! You have a lot of fantastic friends here and I am proud to count you as one of mine. But... I've also noticed that some unkind person (or people) have started to vote down your initial post. Quite frankly, I think that is dispicable. Anyone doing that should be thoroughly ashamed of themselves. Now, that I've posted this, I'm going to put your link in my signature to keep you in our thoughts.
Upcoming events: * Glasgow: Mock Objects, SQL Server CLR Integration, Reporting Services, db4o, Dependency Injection with Spring ... * Reading: Developer Day 5 Never write for other people. Write for yourself, because you have a passion for it. -- Marc Clifton My website
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It's 2:00AM my time and while I should be sleeping I cannot. I just came home from the hospital a few days ago and have all sorts of nifty medicines to help me sleep and none of them are working. My wife is resting as well as I am and frankly we are losing. We care deeply about one another, we care deeply about our kids. We have more love than we have ever had but the life in both of us is starting to fade. I've been active on this community for a bit and I've tried very hard to add value where I could and to help others when I could. Now I'm going to put it all on the line and ask for help. A mother and a father have reached their limit. There is this site Ready To Give Up[^] that I have quickly thrown together. It's a wordpress blog but it does the trick. I'm afraid I won't be blogging much except to say thank you when I can. I have a simple request. Go visit the site. If you can help then I am in your debt if you cannot but you can help by sharing the link and the story then I am also in your debt. If you can do both even better. I have no idea what this post will do to my credibility here as a person and a friend. I guess at this point it doesn't matter. I trust you guys a lot and now more than ever I need some help. I'm really worried about my wife and I and from a health standpoint I don't think we're holding up too well. I was released from the hospital and told to rest and that just isn't happening. So any support I can get would be greatly appreciated. My inspiration in all of this is that "million dollar home page" that's out there. If a kid can do it to avoid college debt shouldn't a father be able to do it to save his family? I'm very sorry if I've abused the lounge and I'm quite certain that this post may very well get me run out of here for good and I'm sorry for that. Best Regards and say a prayer for us! Rex Winn
Stay strong Rex you are an inspiration for all of us. A donation is on it's way from me.
Using the GridView is like trying to explain to someone else how to move a third person's hands in order to tie your shoelaces for you. -Chris Maunder
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It's 2:00AM my time and while I should be sleeping I cannot. I just came home from the hospital a few days ago and have all sorts of nifty medicines to help me sleep and none of them are working. My wife is resting as well as I am and frankly we are losing. We care deeply about one another, we care deeply about our kids. We have more love than we have ever had but the life in both of us is starting to fade. I've been active on this community for a bit and I've tried very hard to add value where I could and to help others when I could. Now I'm going to put it all on the line and ask for help. A mother and a father have reached their limit. There is this site Ready To Give Up[^] that I have quickly thrown together. It's a wordpress blog but it does the trick. I'm afraid I won't be blogging much except to say thank you when I can. I have a simple request. Go visit the site. If you can help then I am in your debt if you cannot but you can help by sharing the link and the story then I am also in your debt. If you can do both even better. I have no idea what this post will do to my credibility here as a person and a friend. I guess at this point it doesn't matter. I trust you guys a lot and now more than ever I need some help. I'm really worried about my wife and I and from a health standpoint I don't think we're holding up too well. I was released from the hospital and told to rest and that just isn't happening. So any support I can get would be greatly appreciated. My inspiration in all of this is that "million dollar home page" that's out there. If a kid can do it to avoid college debt shouldn't a father be able to do it to save his family? I'm very sorry if I've abused the lounge and I'm quite certain that this post may very well get me run out of here for good and I'm sorry for that. Best Regards and say a prayer for us! Rex Winn
Rex, This agnostic will pray tonight, for the first time in years. For you. I don't know how else I can help, apart from sharing the link with people I know. My thoughts are with you. :rose:
Cheers, Vıkram.
After all is said and done, much is said and little is done.
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Not really feasible with regulations due to lots of 'medical tourists' even though in this case I would support it.
If he worked in Europe he wouldnt be a tourist, he would be entitled to full medical tratment, and as a programmer, I would expect he could very easially get work here. Heck, if he can write drivers I will give him a job!
Truth is the subjection of reality to an individuals perception
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It's 2:00AM my time and while I should be sleeping I cannot. I just came home from the hospital a few days ago and have all sorts of nifty medicines to help me sleep and none of them are working. My wife is resting as well as I am and frankly we are losing. We care deeply about one another, we care deeply about our kids. We have more love than we have ever had but the life in both of us is starting to fade. I've been active on this community for a bit and I've tried very hard to add value where I could and to help others when I could. Now I'm going to put it all on the line and ask for help. A mother and a father have reached their limit. There is this site Ready To Give Up[^] that I have quickly thrown together. It's a wordpress blog but it does the trick. I'm afraid I won't be blogging much except to say thank you when I can. I have a simple request. Go visit the site. If you can help then I am in your debt if you cannot but you can help by sharing the link and the story then I am also in your debt. If you can do both even better. I have no idea what this post will do to my credibility here as a person and a friend. I guess at this point it doesn't matter. I trust you guys a lot and now more than ever I need some help. I'm really worried about my wife and I and from a health standpoint I don't think we're holding up too well. I was released from the hospital and told to rest and that just isn't happening. So any support I can get would be greatly appreciated. My inspiration in all of this is that "million dollar home page" that's out there. If a kid can do it to avoid college debt shouldn't a father be able to do it to save his family? I'm very sorry if I've abused the lounge and I'm quite certain that this post may very well get me run out of here for good and I'm sorry for that. Best Regards and say a prayer for us! Rex Winn
Rex You are a formidable man. I remember of our talk about homeschooling where I see how much you love your family and your children. Me, my wife and my son will pray for you, and help you in anything that you needs. God bless you! :rose:
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.(John 3:16) :badger:
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Just think if it had been someone with a lower post count who posted that. You would have probably hit "spam" with glee.
The divinity of Jesus is made a convenient cover for absurdity. - John Adams
If it had been someone that none of us knew then maybe. But Rex has been a long time member of Code Project and we all know the trouble and hardships he has had to suffer in order to keep his daughter alive. With a lower posting there would be less chance that we would have got to know him, and a higher chance that we might think it was a scam. But that is the benefit of being a valuable member of a community. When you need help the community is there to help you.
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Rex, your courage is awesome. I will give 10 hours of my programming time to any one or any company that is willing to send you $100 US. Anyone interested, please send me email.
Best wishes, Hans
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Hans Dietrich wrote:
I will give 10 hours of my programming time to any one or any company that is willing to send you $100 US. Anyone interested, please send me email.
Though I am making a cash donation I will offer the same
"Let's face it, the average computer user has the brain of a Spider Monkey." Bill Gates
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I do not think this is abuse of the lounge. I am just starting a new family myself with health problems for her and I, not her son. So I do understand. You did not come presenting this at the first sign, giving up. You tried to stand on your own, you did everything you could. I can hope that I will do as well, you are an inspiration to all, your courage is great in the face of such odds. It is hard to ask for help for many of us. My grandfather, who was the only father I ever knew, was much the same way. He helped raise three grandkids while putting one daughter back into college so she could stand on her feet, and the other daughter with medical issues at the time. I wish he were still around to ask for advice, for both of us. I will talk to my fiancee and see if we can spare a small amount. It cannot be much as we too have medical bills now, I just took her to the ER briefly last weekend. Still, so far, I am keeping my head above water. Though my fiancee often asks if I am sure I want to marry her because of the expense. Love is worth the effort. Take care, and be well, Rex. I hope that word can get out enough to save your family. Your courage is an inspiration to all of us. Just me, Jeff
_________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
If anyone thinks Rex's request is an abuse of the lounge, I'm going to start posting VB questions! :laugh: How can we not be moved? This is what makes CP so incredibly different and wonderful. All of us now have an opportunity to put our kindness where our mouth is.
Charlie Gilley Will program for food... Whoever said children were cheaper by the dozen... lied. Overheard in a cubicle: "A project is just a bug under development." Seeking to rise above the intelligence of a one eared rabbit... Caught in a vortex of weirdness...
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It's 2:00AM my time and while I should be sleeping I cannot. I just came home from the hospital a few days ago and have all sorts of nifty medicines to help me sleep and none of them are working. My wife is resting as well as I am and frankly we are losing. We care deeply about one another, we care deeply about our kids. We have more love than we have ever had but the life in both of us is starting to fade. I've been active on this community for a bit and I've tried very hard to add value where I could and to help others when I could. Now I'm going to put it all on the line and ask for help. A mother and a father have reached their limit. There is this site Ready To Give Up[^] that I have quickly thrown together. It's a wordpress blog but it does the trick. I'm afraid I won't be blogging much except to say thank you when I can. I have a simple request. Go visit the site. If you can help then I am in your debt if you cannot but you can help by sharing the link and the story then I am also in your debt. If you can do both even better. I have no idea what this post will do to my credibility here as a person and a friend. I guess at this point it doesn't matter. I trust you guys a lot and now more than ever I need some help. I'm really worried about my wife and I and from a health standpoint I don't think we're holding up too well. I was released from the hospital and told to rest and that just isn't happening. So any support I can get would be greatly appreciated. My inspiration in all of this is that "million dollar home page" that's out there. If a kid can do it to avoid college debt shouldn't a father be able to do it to save his family? I'm very sorry if I've abused the lounge and I'm quite certain that this post may very well get me run out of here for good and I'm sorry for that. Best Regards and say a prayer for us! Rex Winn
Rex, don't give up!! Katie needs you to be strong! You and your family are in my prayers. :rose: I tried to visit the site, but it's been down the last hour or so (the Digg effect). If it is not today, I'll try to visit tomorrow and donate a few bucks. As always, anything I can do to help, you just have to ask.
Luis Alonso Ramos Intelectix Chihuahua, Mexico
Not much here: My CP Blog!
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SimulationofSai wrote:
this deserves Oprah
You know, you're right. Rex and family have shown amazing courage and strength plus being part of an online community. People have discussed all kinds of things here knowing there are others to turn to. If Rex and family are willing I can find a contact address. Elaine :rose:
I submitted the story to Oprah about 3 weeks ago. I have never heard back. Now I totally regret that I ever asked for help. People have posted pictures of my house (that we cannot afford) they've pulled up my articles of incorporation. I never should have done this.
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I do not think this is abuse of the lounge. I am just starting a new family myself with health problems for her and I, not her son. So I do understand. You did not come presenting this at the first sign, giving up. You tried to stand on your own, you did everything you could. I can hope that I will do as well, you are an inspiration to all, your courage is great in the face of such odds. It is hard to ask for help for many of us. My grandfather, who was the only father I ever knew, was much the same way. He helped raise three grandkids while putting one daughter back into college so she could stand on her feet, and the other daughter with medical issues at the time. I wish he were still around to ask for advice, for both of us. I will talk to my fiancee and see if we can spare a small amount. It cannot be much as we too have medical bills now, I just took her to the ER briefly last weekend. Still, so far, I am keeping my head above water. Though my fiancee often asks if I am sure I want to marry her because of the expense. Love is worth the effort. Take care, and be well, Rex. I hope that word can get out enough to save your family. Your courage is an inspiration to all of us. Just me, Jeff
_________________________ Asu no koto o ieba, tenjo de nezumi ga warau. Talk about things of tomorrow and the mice in the ceiling laugh. (Japanese Proverb)
El Corazon wrote:
Take care, and be well, Rex. I hope that word can get out enough to save your family. Your courage is an inspiration to all of us.
Thanks Jeff, you put into words what I couldn't.
With respect, I must disagree. A quick look at middle management in just about any corporation shows that the dodo not only survived, it's reproducing in record numbers. Christopher Duncan