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Are distance relationship Successful ???

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    Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...

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      Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...

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      Marc Clifton
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      My relationship with you can only improve with distance. Marc

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        Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...

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        Depends how long either can keep their urges in place :p Today with the internet being alot more common, you can 'be' with the person always.

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          My relationship with you can only improve with distance. Marc

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          lol...its about your luv dude...hehe

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            Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...

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            They may. It is mostly a matter of trust, I think. If you trust your partner, and he/she trusts you, this might work out. If one partner starts to get jealous, the relationship will probably fail. I know some people who had very successful distance relationships. I would think that most LONG distance relationships (as in long time, not long distance) will fail.

            Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton

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              My relationship with you can only improve with distance. Marc

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              Dario Solera
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              Is this the day of love declarations? A while ago John, now you... who's next? :-D

              If you truly believe you need to pick a mobile phone that "says something" about your personality, don't bother. You don't have a personality. A mental illness, maybe - but not a personality. - Charlie Brooker My Blog - My Photos - ScrewTurn Wiki

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                Depends how long either can keep their urges in place :p Today with the internet being alot more common, you can 'be' with the person always.

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                yeh true..but there are more things which cant be done on internet..or can it be done n m not aware...??? Anything can happen in this world ;-)

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                  yeh true..but there are more things which cant be done on internet..or can it be done n m not aware...??? Anything can happen in this world ;-)

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                  Software_Specialist wrote:

                  there are more things which cant be done on internet

                  For example? :-D

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                    Is this the day of love declarations? A while ago John, now you... who's next? :-D

                    If you truly believe you need to pick a mobile phone that "says something" about your personality, don't bother. You don't have a personality. A mental illness, maybe - but not a personality. - Charlie Brooker My Blog - My Photos - ScrewTurn Wiki

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                    Jorgen Sigvardsson
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                    He never specified love per se. :)

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                      Software_Specialist wrote:

                      there are more things which cant be done on internet

                      For example? :-D

                      If you truly believe you need to pick a mobile phone that "says something" about your personality, don't bother. You don't have a personality. A mental illness, maybe - but not a personality. - Charlie Brooker My Blog - My Photos - ScrewTurn Wiki

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                      you really want me to elaborate that...:-D i knw you are quite smart to understand that..so ill leave it..:)

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                        They may. It is mostly a matter of trust, I think. If you trust your partner, and he/she trusts you, this might work out. If one partner starts to get jealous, the relationship will probably fail. I know some people who had very successful distance relationships. I would think that most LONG distance relationships (as in long time, not long distance) will fail.

                        Cheers, Sebastian -- "If it was two men, the non-driver would have challenged the driver to simply crash through the gates. The macho image thing, you know." - Marc Clifton

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                        If one partner starts to get jealous

                        Jealous in what sence...?

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                          Software_Specialist wrote:

                          there are more things which cant be done on internet

                          For example? :-D

                          If you truly believe you need to pick a mobile phone that "says something" about your personality, don't bother. You don't have a personality. A mental illness, maybe - but not a personality. - Charlie Brooker My Blog - My Photos - ScrewTurn Wiki

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                          Baking cookies! :)

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                            Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...

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                            They realy suck in my experience, but they can be good for people who like their space but don't actualy want to be alone. They also cot a fortune with all the travelling expenses and travel has its own cost too. A freind of mine who's girlfreind lives in Berlin is starting to get all sorts of strange stomach symptoms he beleives are from flying so regularly. Now that's not conclusive and I don't have an article to point you to but it also happend to another freind who flew alot for work. Huge phone bills too are a pain in the arse but properly done phone sex with someone you love is a real buzz. The main problem though is that when people get lonely they seek apropriate company and when the inevitable occasional down moments strike it's easy to feel the relationship has no future. If the wrong person is around at the time... well you get the idea. I don't want to bring just ideas of doom and gloom here. If they are massively in love then they'd be fools to let that go no matter what. It will be tricky though and requires real commitment but then again it always does anyway. Best of luck to em'

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                              Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...

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                              Okay, so they LOVE each other and you think he should dump her because of the distance? Do you know how many people spend years upon years trying to find love? My husband and I lived apart for about 2 years because of his job. He was 75 miles away, so still close enough he could drive home on a weeknight if he wanted to. I remember September 11th happened when we were apart and we spent the morning on the phone watching tv and not saying much, just wanting to be with each other. If you really have found love, you don't care about other girls/guys around. You don't want a different flavor. You just want what feels right.

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                                Well one of ma friend was going around with this gal for 3-4yrs and due to some reasons he had to move to another country for few yrs..They were in madly deeply love with each other..And the strange thing is that they still luv the same inspite of being seperated for 2 yrs. I think its not right way to do things. Well as the guy is still not sure when he gonna return bak to that country or even gal is not sure if she could come to his country any sooner then 3-4 yrs. Its bit stupid i believe..There are many nice chicks around. Its a time for him to have some different flavour...lol Well anybody got a same situation like this and still love the same way....???? Just curious to know if distance relationship really work...

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                                Yes, they are, I am a living proof.

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                                  Okay, so they LOVE each other and you think he should dump her because of the distance? Do you know how many people spend years upon years trying to find love? My husband and I lived apart for about 2 years because of his job. He was 75 miles away, so still close enough he could drive home on a weeknight if he wanted to. I remember September 11th happened when we were apart and we spent the morning on the phone watching tv and not saying much, just wanting to be with each other. If you really have found love, you don't care about other girls/guys around. You don't want a different flavor. You just want what feels right.

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                                  yeh i agree with you..But if you take it from a girls point of view. She is quite beautiful as he showed me her pic and at the same time she gets many praposals from guys around her. Well how long she would wait for the guy so far. According to me long distance works upto certain limit. Well i dont have much idea so i cant tell really. Just an assumption. And then rest depends how long can you live without necessory stuff..Or it would be fine if both are cheating each other behind each others back n havin fun wid gal or guy nearby.

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                                    Yes, they are, I am a living proof.

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                                    So you mean you have a successful distance relationship..So how long have u been seperated or how often do u guys meet...

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                                      So you mean you have a successful distance relationship..So how long have u been seperated or how often do u guys meet...

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                                      Well, first three years were sort of an every other week-end relationship, four following were an every week-end one, and for a year now, it is everyday :) and still runs fine (married, baby coming soon).

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                                        yeh i agree with you..But if you take it from a girls point of view. She is quite beautiful as he showed me her pic and at the same time she gets many praposals from guys around her. Well how long she would wait for the guy so far. According to me long distance works upto certain limit. Well i dont have much idea so i cant tell really. Just an assumption. And then rest depends how long can you live without necessory stuff..Or it would be fine if both are cheating each other behind each others back n havin fun wid gal or guy nearby.

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                                        Software_Specialist wrote:

                                        she gets many praposals from guys around her

                                        You obviously have problems to trust her. That is no good.

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                                        it would be fine if both are cheating each other behind each others back n havin fun wid gal or guy nearby

                                        This is not my opinion of a relationship.

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                                          Well, first three years were sort of an every other week-end relationship, four following were an every week-end one, and for a year now, it is everyday :) and still runs fine (married, baby coming soon).

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                                          ok congrats... Well its not that bad. Every weekend relationship is still fine but what do you think about every year relationship..?

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