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The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"
Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart
Sounds like she wants to keep it a friendship with benefits.
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I think that would always be doomed, but the only girl I ever broke up with was my first wife, who was banging my best friend, so I don't have a depth of experience to draw on.
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He's your best friend now, because he took her off your hands!! rofl...
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The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"
Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart
You're toast. Dry toast. Toast[^].
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The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"
Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart
Brian C Hart wrote:
what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"
Usually, yes. It means she's done but not angry at you. Just done. It also usually means she's got the next person lined up. Proper reply:"do you think it's worrisome when urination is painful?"
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Brian C Hart wrote:
what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"
Usually, yes. It means she's done but not angry at you. Just done. It also usually means she's got the next person lined up. Proper reply:"do you think it's worrisome when urination is painful?"
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yep you're on the money. Bryce
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The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"
Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart
dude shes already moved on - hate to say you need to as well (asap) sorry man Bryce
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dude shes already moved on - hate to say you need to as well (asap) sorry man Bryce
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Oh that relationship ended a long time ago..just checking to see if I got her point correctly She actually said it twice 2 or 3 months apart lol and kept changing her mind until the last time Usually I start by assuming whatever comes out out of women's mouths is total BS half the time
Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart
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Oh that relationship ended a long time ago..just checking to see if I got her point correctly She actually said it twice 2 or 3 months apart lol and kept changing her mind until the last time Usually I start by assuming whatever comes out out of women's mouths is total BS half the time
Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart
Brian C Hart wrote:
Usually I start by assuming whatever comes out out of women's mouths is total BS half the time
That is sadly an instance where being right does not end up helping your cause.
Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.
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Ah, so women do eventually give up and settle.
Help a brotha out and vote Managing Your JavaScript Library in ASP.NET as the best ASP.NET article of May 2011.
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The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"
Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart
A while ago I was on the highway and passed the exit named 'Neandertal'. I am very sure that some 200000 or 30000 years ago some guys sat there in a cave around a fire and discussed similar questions. And like them, we can just sit here and guess. Of course you could simply ask her what it is supposed to mean. But do that only if you are the adventurous type and are prepared for the possible consequences. Pick the wrong time/word/gesture/smell/color of your shirt and she will discover some nonexisting hidden meaning in even the most straightforward question and start to make your life interesting.
"I just exchanged opinions with my boss. I went in with mine and came out with his." - me, 2011 ---
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Ah, so women do eventually give up and settle.
Help a brotha out and vote Managing Your JavaScript Library in ASP.NET as the best ASP.NET article of May 2011.
Hahahahaha
Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart
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Brian C Hart wrote:
Usually I start by assuming whatever comes out out of women's mouths is total BS half the time
That is sadly an instance where being right does not end up helping your cause.
Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.
Hahahahaha Sad but true, bro, sad but true Oh well there are approx 3.25 billion (plus or minus a billion) others on the planet
Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart
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He's your best friend now, because he took her off your hands!! rofl...
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Totally. Were talking total Mary Jane Rottencrotch here
Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart
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The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"
Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart
I agree with Christian... asking this type of question in a development forum is like asking Stephen Hawking for a good jogging route... you may get an answer, but its just not a reliable source... ;P
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Christian Graus wrote:
but to stay on friendly terms
That's what they (we...) say... but in actual fact, staying friends with an ex is a man's thing. Someone said to me: Men chooses the "Save as..." option whereas women just hit the "Save" button and click "yes" to "Do you want to overwrite this data?" ;P Likelihood is, she'll do her best, but you'll be completely erased from her life in a few weeks.:~
Almost, but not quite, entirely unlike... me...
Yeah, we actually both just hit "Save" and "Overwrite this data" the next day... Wait a minute if that's true then why am I posting this? Oh, wait, I forgot to empty my memory's "Recycle Bin"...dang you, Microsoft Windows Cerebellum 7! Hahahahahaha
Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart
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A while ago I was on the highway and passed the exit named 'Neandertal'. I am very sure that some 200000 or 30000 years ago some guys sat there in a cave around a fire and discussed similar questions. And like them, we can just sit here and guess. Of course you could simply ask her what it is supposed to mean. But do that only if you are the adventurous type and are prepared for the possible consequences. Pick the wrong time/word/gesture/smell/color of your shirt and she will discover some nonexisting hidden meaning in even the most straightforward question and start to make your life interesting.
"I just exchanged opinions with my boss. I went in with mine and came out with his." - me, 2011 ---
I am endeavoring, Madam, to construct a mnemonic memory circuit using stone knives and bearskins - Mr. Spock 1935 and me 2011Hahahaha
Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart
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Ah, so women do eventually give up and settle.
Help a brotha out and vote Managing Your JavaScript Library in ASP.NET as the best ASP.NET article of May 2011.
On occasion. She was a lone stranger in a strange (to her, normal to everyone else) city and I must have (somehow) appeared as a brilliant ray of light (or something). She was working on her Master's in psychology and I figured she just needed a subject. ::shrug::
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I agree with Christian... asking this type of question in a development forum is like asking Stephen Hawking for a good jogging route... you may get an answer, but its just not a reliable source... ;P
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Hahahaha
Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart
Yes, it's funny if you put it that way, but it's the actual problem. Some women can't say a single sentence without some hidden meaning or implication. And we just hear either just 'bla bla bla' or take it far too literally. And, the other way around, they try to get your hidden meanings without ever realizing that you simply meant it just the way you said it. If it was god who played that prank on us, I sure hope he really enjoys seeing us stumble around in confusion :)
"I just exchanged opinions with my boss. I went in with mine and came out with his." - me, 2011 ---
I am endeavoring, Madam, to construct a mnemonic memory circuit using stone knives and bearskins - Mr. Spock 1935 and me 2011 -
I agree with Christian... asking this type of question in a development forum is like asking Stephen Hawking for a good jogging route... you may get an answer, but its just not a reliable source... ;P
I am sure that Stephen Hawking would include some factors into his analysis of the optimum jogging route which many of us never heard of or could even spell :)
"I just exchanged opinions with my boss. I went in with mine and came out with his." - me, 2011 ---
I am endeavoring, Madam, to construct a mnemonic memory circuit using stone knives and bearskins - Mr. Spock 1935 and me 2011