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  • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

    The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

    Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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    Brian C Hart wrote:

    what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

    Usually, yes. It means she's done but not angry at you. Just done. It also usually means she's got the next person lined up. Proper reply:"do you think it's worrisome when urination is painful?"

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      Brian C Hart wrote:

      what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

      Usually, yes. It means she's done but not angry at you. Just done. It also usually means she's got the next person lined up. Proper reply:"do you think it's worrisome when urination is painful?"

      _____________________________ Give a man a mug, he drinks for a day. Teach a man to mug...

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      yep you're on the money. Bryce

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      • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

        The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

        Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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        dude shes already moved on - hate to say you need to as well (asap) sorry man Bryce

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        • B bryce

          dude shes already moved on - hate to say you need to as well (asap) sorry man Bryce

          MCAD --- To paraphrase Fred Dagg - the views expressed in this post are bloody good ones. --
          Publitor, making Pubmed easy. http://www.sohocode.com/publitor

          Our kids books :The Snot Goblin, and Book 2 - the Snotgoblin and Fluff The Snotgoblin for the Ipad

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          Brian C Hart
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          Oh that relationship ended a long time ago..just checking to see if I got her point correctly She actually said it twice 2 or 3 months apart lol and kept changing her mind until the last time Usually I start by assuming whatever comes out out of women's mouths is total BS half the time

          Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

          Regards,

          Dr. Brian Hart
          drbrianhart343@gmail.com email
          LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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          • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

            Oh that relationship ended a long time ago..just checking to see if I got her point correctly She actually said it twice 2 or 3 months apart lol and kept changing her mind until the last time Usually I start by assuming whatever comes out out of women's mouths is total BS half the time

            Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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            Brian C Hart wrote:

            Usually I start by assuming whatever comes out out of women's mouths is total BS half the time

            That is sadly an instance where being right does not end up helping your cause.

            Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.

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            • A AspDotNetDev

              Ah, so women do eventually give up and settle.

              Help a brotha out and vote Managing Your JavaScript Library in ASP.NET as the best ASP.NET article of May 2011.

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              Albert Holguin
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              :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

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              • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

                Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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                A while ago I was on the highway and passed the exit named 'Neandertal'. I am very sure that some 200000 or 30000 years ago some guys sat there in a cave around a fire and discussed similar questions. And like them, we can just sit here and guess. Of course you could simply ask her what it is supposed to mean. But do that only if you are the adventurous type and are prepared for the possible consequences. Pick the wrong time/word/gesture/smell/color of your shirt and she will discover some nonexisting hidden meaning in even the most straightforward question and start to make your life interesting.

                "I just exchanged opinions with my boss. I went in with mine and came out with his." - me, 2011 ---
                I am endeavoring, Madam, to construct a mnemonic memory circuit using stone knives and bearskins - Mr. Spock 1935 and me 2011

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                  Brian C Hart wrote:

                  Usually I start by assuming whatever comes out out of women's mouths is total BS half the time

                  That is sadly an instance where being right does not end up helping your cause.

                  Christian Graus Driven to the arms of OSX by Vista. Read my blog to find out how I've worked around bugs in Microsoft tools and frameworks.

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                  Brian C Hart
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                  Hahahahaha Sad but true, bro, sad but true Oh well there are approx 3.25 billion (plus or minus a billion) others on the planet

                  Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

                  Regards,

                  Dr. Brian Hart
                  drbrianhart343@gmail.com email
                  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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                  • A AspDotNetDev

                    Ah, so women do eventually give up and settle.

                    Help a brotha out and vote Managing Your JavaScript Library in ASP.NET as the best ASP.NET article of May 2011.

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                    Brian C Hart
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                    Hahahahaha

                    Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

                    Regards,

                    Dr. Brian Hart
                    drbrianhart343@gmail.com email
                    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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                    • _ _Damian S_

                      He's your best friend now, because he took her off your hands!! rofl...

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                      Brian C Hart
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                      Totally. Were talking total Mary Jane Rottencrotch here

                      Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

                      Regards,

                      Dr. Brian Hart
                      drbrianhart343@gmail.com email
                      LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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                        Christian Graus wrote:

                        but to stay on friendly terms

                        That's what they (we...) say... but in actual fact, staying friends with an ex is a man's thing. Someone said to me: Men chooses the "Save as..." option whereas women just hit the "Save" button and click "yes" to "Do you want to overwrite this data?" ;P Likelihood is, she'll do her best, but you'll be completely erased from her life in a few weeks.:~

                        Almost, but not quite, entirely unlike... me...

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                        Brian C Hart
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                        Yeah, we actually both just hit "Save" and "Overwrite this data" the next day... Wait a minute if that's true then why am I posting this? Oh, wait, I forgot to empty my memory's "Recycle Bin"...dang you, Microsoft Windows Cerebellum 7! Hahahahahaha

                        Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

                        Regards,

                        Dr. Brian Hart
                        drbrianhart343@gmail.com email
                        LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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                        • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                          The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

                          Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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                          I agree with Christian... asking this type of question in a development forum is like asking Stephen Hawking for a good jogging route... you may get an answer, but its just not a reliable source... ;P

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                            A while ago I was on the highway and passed the exit named 'Neandertal'. I am very sure that some 200000 or 30000 years ago some guys sat there in a cave around a fire and discussed similar questions. And like them, we can just sit here and guess. Of course you could simply ask her what it is supposed to mean. But do that only if you are the adventurous type and are prepared for the possible consequences. Pick the wrong time/word/gesture/smell/color of your shirt and she will discover some nonexisting hidden meaning in even the most straightforward question and start to make your life interesting.

                            "I just exchanged opinions with my boss. I went in with mine and came out with his." - me, 2011 ---
                            I am endeavoring, Madam, to construct a mnemonic memory circuit using stone knives and bearskins - Mr. Spock 1935 and me 2011

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                            Brian C Hart
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                            Hahahaha

                            Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

                            Regards,

                            Dr. Brian Hart
                            drbrianhart343@gmail.com email
                            LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-brian-hart-astrophysicist-veteran/

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                            • A AspDotNetDev

                              Ah, so women do eventually give up and settle.

                              Help a brotha out and vote Managing Your JavaScript Library in ASP.NET as the best ASP.NET article of May 2011.

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                              On occasion. She was a lone stranger in a strange (to her, normal to everyone else) city and I must have (somehow) appeared as a brilliant ray of light (or something). She was working on her Master's in psychology and I figured she just needed a subject. ::shrug::

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                              • A Albert Holguin

                                I agree with Christian... asking this type of question in a development forum is like asking Stephen Hawking for a good jogging route... you may get an answer, but its just not a reliable source... ;P

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                                Sexists.

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                                • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                                  Hahahaha

                                  Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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                                  Yes, it's funny if you put it that way, but it's the actual problem. Some women can't say a single sentence without some hidden meaning or implication. And we just hear either just 'bla bla bla' or take it far too literally. And, the other way around, they try to get your hidden meanings without ever realizing that you simply meant it just the way you said it. If it was god who played that prank on us, I sure hope he really enjoys seeing us stumble around in confusion :)

                                  "I just exchanged opinions with my boss. I went in with mine and came out with his." - me, 2011 ---
                                  I am endeavoring, Madam, to construct a mnemonic memory circuit using stone knives and bearskins - Mr. Spock 1935 and me 2011

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                                  • A Albert Holguin

                                    I agree with Christian... asking this type of question in a development forum is like asking Stephen Hawking for a good jogging route... you may get an answer, but its just not a reliable source... ;P

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                                    I am sure that Stephen Hawking would include some factors into his analysis of the optimum jogging route which many of us never heard of or could even spell :)

                                    "I just exchanged opinions with my boss. I went in with mine and came out with his." - me, 2011 ---
                                    I am endeavoring, Madam, to construct a mnemonic memory circuit using stone knives and bearskins - Mr. Spock 1935 and me 2011

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                                    • Brian C HartB Brian C Hart

                                      The female gender (no offense) is very confusing sometimes. I'm sure women feel the same way. Anyhoo.... Relationship question -- when my girlfriend of 1.5 months tells me, what's she really saying? "Go away, dude, you bother me?"

                                      Sincerely Yours, Brian Hart

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                                      It means she herself doesn't know what she means. All she knows is she feels compelled to move on, but she still has feelings. Pretty stupid if you ask me.

                                      The difficult we do right away... ...the impossible takes slightly longer.

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                                      • L Lost User

                                        I am sure that Stephen Hawking would include some factors into his analysis of the optimum jogging route which many of us never heard of or could even spell :)

                                        "I just exchanged opinions with my boss. I went in with mine and came out with his." - me, 2011 ---
                                        I am endeavoring, Madam, to construct a mnemonic memory circuit using stone knives and bearskins - Mr. Spock 1935 and me 2011

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                                        Good thing for spell-check... :)

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                                        • Richard Andrew x64R Richard Andrew x64

                                          It means she herself doesn't know what she means. All she knows is she feels compelled to move on, but she still has feelings. Pretty stupid if you ask me.

                                          The difficult we do right away... ...the impossible takes slightly longer.

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                                          andyharglesis
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                                          Still sexists.

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